I was diagnosed to!!!
when I was 10 i was awkward as shit and everything fit in to, and the next two years of my life everyone in school pampered to my every social need because i was a diseased child and i was special ed because i had aspergers and everyone helped me talk to teachers and people and turn in papers because i needed the help!! after that they let off of me but i realized at the end of middle school that the entire thing was dumb and i wasn't some crippled idiot and that if i would stop trying to turn everything into a pitty party where i tried to fake real interaction because i was too blind to realize that i could simply interact normaly
and in high school everything is fine. i'm a normal 18 year old guy (who is actually a functional member of society!!!) and the bitches want my dick, so i hear your complaining and it's stupid, honestly
[QUOTE=Cheesemonkey;32284771]I was diagnosed to!!!
when I was 10 i was awkward as shit and everything fit in to, and the next two years of my life everyone in school pampered to my every social need because i was a diseased child and i was special ed because i had aspergers and everyone helped me talk to teachers and people and turn in papers because i needed the help!! after that they let off of me but i realized at the end of middle school that the entire thing was dumb and i wasn't some crippled idiot and that if i would stop trying to turn everything into a pitty party where i tried to fake real interaction because i was too blind to realize that i could simply interact normaly
and in high school everything is fine. i'm a normal 18 year old guy (who is actually a functional member of society!!!) and the bitches want my dick, so i hear your complaining and it's stupid, honestly[/QUOTE]
yeah i have gotten alot of support, true. but because of that, most of the new stuff (like now) i really have no idea on how to handle.
For example, there was this moment where the kiss would be the next step, but my brain tells me it's like NO NO NO you need to wait a couple of months first!!
So it messes everything up, all the time, and i'm trying to fight it.
Meeting her in a couple of hours, and i hope i have the courage/will to do it :v:
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;32284648]It's not self-diagnosed, they got me tested. I just recently read more about it and everything about this fits in. Yeah sure i can bypass it but i've never done stuff like this before so it's kinda hard to know what to do.[/QUOTE]
and you want to improve your life by complaining about it?
I've got this disease called Raynaud's Disease (or Primary Raynaud's Phenomenon). It causes my extremities (particularly fingers) to lose blood when it gets around 16 degrees celsius (61F). Naturally, this can get to be a bit of an issue in winter or if I'm holding a cold drink or something. But do you see me sitting around complaining that I have to deal with some inconvenience in my life? No. I put on some motherfucking gloves and/or breathe on my hands to warm them up.
Reminding yourself of how debilitating your "problems" are only makes it harder to deal with them.
[QUOTE=Faren;32284834]and you want to improve your life by complaining about it?
I've got this disease called Raynaud's Disease (or Primary Raynaud's Phenomenon). It causes my extremities (particularly fingers) to lose blood when it gets around 16 degrees celsius (61F). Naturally, this can get to be a bit of an issue in winter or if I'm holding a cold drink or something. But do you see me sitting around complaining that I have to deal with some inconvenience in my life? No. I put on some motherfucking gloves and/or breathe on my hands to warm them up.
Reminding yourself of how debilitating your "problems" are only makes it harder to deal with them.[/QUOTE]
I usually never complain about it but now is a really fucking bad time for my social skills to fail completely.
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;32284821]yeah i have gotten alot of support, true. but because of that, most of the new stuff (like now) i really have no idea on how to handle.
For example, there was this moment where the kiss would be the next step, but my brain tells me it's like NO NO NO you need to wait a couple of months first!!
So it messes everything up, all the time, and i'm trying to fight it.
Meeting her in a couple of hours, and i hope i have the courage/will to do it :v:[/QUOTE]
how awkward is this girl because jesus christ
[editline]14th September 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;32284872]I usually never complain about it but now is a really fucking bad time for my social skills to fail completely.[/QUOTE]
holy shit your social skills aren't failing just think about it, stop crying about them failing or not working because if you stop complaining about it or trying to get sympathy from the internet they you won't have a problem anymore
[QUOTE=Cheesemonkey;32284880]how awkward is this girl because jesus christ
[editline]14th September 2011[/editline]
holy shit your social skills aren't failing just think about it, stop crying about them failing or not working because if you stop complaining about it or trying to get sympathy from the internet they you won't have a problem anymore[/QUOTE]
The girl is not awkward at all, i'm the one who is.
Yes, i'm trying to not fail, even more this time.
well this guy's a lost cause who has some problems that we can solve
eh you don't have to, ignore my posts if you think i'm annoying but i like to talk about what's happening.
We wouldn't have a problem with 'talking about what is happening' if something actually came out of it i.e. you were actually willing to take action and get your shit together. Oh hey look this sounds familiar, oh yeah it's exactly what was said to you on the previous page.
Anyway I'll stop adding to the problem now.
It's true that girls like rejection? I mean... is that good?
What? Being rejected? If they wanted to go out with you of course they wouldn't like being rejected.
[QUOTE=Wux;32286459]It's true that girls like rejection? I mean... is that good?[/QUOTE]
That doesn't even make sense. Why would they like rejection? They don't like being rejected and only the sadistic ones enjoy rejecting other people.
Eh fuck it, i give up. I can't talk to people unless they can talk. I have been alone my whole life, it can gladly continue like this. Rate me dumb, whatever.
Thanks for your help.
Yeah i'm miserable, i can't give any more shits.
Peace, i'm out.
hell hast no fury like a woman scorned
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;32282329]Yup, i know. It's called aspergers.[/QUOTE]
no it's not
[QUOTE=Cheesemonkey;32284911]well this guy's a lost cause who has some problems that we can solve[/QUOTE]
How long might I wait to ask a girl out a second time, just generally speaking. I was thinking of next weekend, but a general idea would be nice.
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;32287932]Eh fuck it, i give up. I can't talk to people unless they can talk. I have been alone my whole life, it can gladly continue like this. Rate me dumb, whatever.
Thanks for your help.
Yeah i'm miserable, i can't give any more shits.
Peace, i'm out.[/QUOTE]
Why are you such a dofus? Your not even a bad looking guy? There is no point in giving you advice as you don't listen to it, you just need to stop being afraid to grow up, mature and get on with it.
[QUOTE=ZeroMinus;32293106]Why are you such a dofus? Your not even a bad looking guy? There is no point in giving you advice as you don't listen to it, you just need to stop being afraid to grow up, mature and get on with it.[/QUOTE]
I don't like changes. And i can't be bothered to search so nah.
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;32295476]I don't like changes. And i can't be bothered to search so nah.[/QUOTE]
I thought you were out.
did you [sup]change[/sup] your mind
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;32295476]I don't like changes. And i can't be bothered to search so nah.[/QUOTE]
I don't like change and "I can't be bothered to do shit" are the dumbest excuses I have ever heard for not wanting to do something.
no seriously i hate when stuff change. anyway i'm done with girls.
ok amazing, we really needed to hear it 6 times!
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;32295920]anyway i'm done with girls.[/QUOTE]
I highly doubt that, you just won't be going out with any.
[QUOTE=Megafanx13;32295971]I highly doubt that, you just won't be going out with any.[/QUOTE]
eh that's what i meant. friends are alright.
i'm taking antidepressants right now, gotta see if it gives me back any motivation or something..
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;32296029]eh that's what i meant. friends are alright.
i'm taking antidepressants right now, gotta see if it gives me back any motivation or something..[/QUOTE]
for lack of a better way of saying this, if say you are out than get the fuck out and stop posting the same attention seeking shite over and over again to anyone that graces this self-indulgent cry for help with a reply
[QUOTE=Giraffen93;32295920] i'm done with girls.[/QUOTE]
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jtpWbMWQTwI[/media]
I use WD40 as lube for sex cause I'm a fukken machine.
Giraffen, I think you should find a few local pot smokers and smoke up with them, if that's something you haven't done. Talk to darklight and myself about how much of a positive change that can bring.
I had good-bye sex yesterday and it felt so great :v:
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;32297802]I use WD40 as lube for sex cause I'm a fukken machine.[/QUOTE]
Shepard or Adam Jensen level?
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