[QUOTE=Denmen707;32523311]I need some advice, maybe this isn't the right spot, but you can't blame me for trying.
So I was with this girl for 2 months, she broke up with me because she had found another guy. Now I got really close with my best friend (girl) who had/has a huge obsession with me, I can't help but to have physical contact and even kissing her. But I can't get together with her for various reasons. Any help on getting a grip?
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If you don't want to go out with her, ask her to stop being so touchy feely.
But I would too like to know these various reasons.
Well she has liked me for over a year, she has a lot of trust issues and she kinda idolizes me.
[QUOTE=Denmen707;32525057]Well she has liked me for over a year, she has a lot of trust issues and she kinda idolizes me.[/QUOTE]Only go for her if you love her as much as she loves you. You will not regret it.
I know, people say "Don't go out with your best friend, everything turns out awful!", but I've been with my girlfriend (Who was originally one of my best friends for the past three years, and she had a crush on me for even longer than that) for almost seven months now, and while school has made things rather stressful, neither of us have regretted falling in love with each other. Sure, love turns out differently for everyone, but you don't know what could happen until you try.
I don't see what you have to lose. If it doesn't work out, break up with her. If it does, you would have lost out by not doing anything.
[editline]28th September 2011[/editline]
Unless she's a minger of course. But I doubt that from the fact you're considering her.
thanks
No, you all are retarded. If she is obsessed with you, life is going to shit on you when you realize you do not want an obsessive chick calling herself your girlfriend.
She is going to be second-guessing you with every chick you hang with, guarantee it; no trust, no good.
Don't do it, man. Plus if you upset her, from what I read, she seems like she would threaten suicide to get you back.
If she gets too bad, just break up with her. You've lost nothing by giving her a chance.
Hah, a girl in my class has been hitting on me all day.
This feels weird, I'm not used to people hitting on me :v:
[QUOTE=KillerTele;32554029]Hah, a girl in my class has been hitting on me all day.
This feels weird, I'm not used to people hitting on me :v:[/QUOTE]
How did she hit on you?
kept hitting him on the shoulder perhaps
[QUOTE=KillerTele;32554029]Hah, a girl in my class has been hitting on me all day.
This feels weird, I'm not used to people hitting on me :v:[/QUOTE]
You shouldn't ever get used to it. It's called assault. I believe Sawah is on the right track.
Haha, yeah I'm all bloody and shit right now, she broke my legs as well!
My previous girlfriend used to faceslap me all the time if I did something she disliked. Seemed obviously normal enough at the time
[QUOTE=GreenDolphin;32560657]My previous girlfriend used to faceslap me all the time if I did something she disliked. Seemed obviously normal enough at the time[/QUOTE]
yeah I used to slap my ex all the time
kept her in line
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;32561054]yeah I used to slap my ex all the time
kept her in line[/QUOTE]
Actually in honesty I was being serious with that remark. I was too much of a pussy to do anything about it at the time considering I was still new to relationships.
[QUOTE=GreenDolphin;32561220]Actually in honesty I was being serious with that remark. I was too much of a pussy to do anything about it at the time considering I was still new to relationships.[/QUOTE]
Everyone is the first time. I took a lot of utter shit in my first relationship that I've never and will never put up with since.
When my bitch ever considered slapping me, I would fuck her in the arse, shows her who's dominant.
just make sure you never slap back. no matter how in the wrong they are about slapping you, it's never okay to hit back unless they're coming at you with a knife or some shit.
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;32563347]just make sure you never slap back. no matter how in the wrong they are about slapping you, it's never okay to hit back unless they're coming at you with a knife or some shit.[/QUOTE]
And why exactly is it never okay to hit back? Not that I would, I'm pretty non-confrontational, but what is your reasoning?
i think you should never hit anyone unless it's in self-defense to protect yourself from getting killed regardless of gender but maybe that's because i'm ~beta~
[QUOTE=Megafanx13;32566058]And why exactly is it never okay to hit back? Not that I would, I'm pretty non-confrontational, but what is your reasoning?[/QUOTE]
because you just don't hit a girl unless you're a redneck
were you honestly never taught this
[editline]1st October 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=thisispain;32566220]i think you should never hit anyone unless it's in self-defense to protect yourself from getting killed regardless of gender but maybe that's because i'm ~beta~[/QUOTE]
sometimes the only thing a guy will respond to is a nice fist to the jaw though.
[editline]1st October 2011[/editline]
i mean i know it kind of goes back to archaic gender roles but i still think that there is never any circumstance when a man should be striking a woman unless she is actively trying to bring harm to him or loved ones
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;32566224]because you just don't hit a girl unless you're a redneck
were you honestly never taught this
[editline]1st October 2011[/editline]
sometimes the only thing a guy will respond to is a nice fist to the jaw though.
[editline]1st October 2011[/editline]
i mean i know it kind of goes back to archaic gender roles but i still think that there is never any circumstance when a man should be striking a woman unless she is actively trying to bring harm to him or loved ones[/QUOTE]
basically, all of this
speaking objectively, men are usually a lot stronger than women. they're less affected physically and emotionally than women, and unless she's out to kill, you don't hit her. just deflect her attacks and gtfo
sounds like you're just putting girls on a pedestal
shouldn't hit anyone, man or woman, because that's something assholes do.
no, it's just not socially acceptable, and women are definitely more fragile than men in general
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;32567154]no, it's just not socially acceptable, and women are definitely more fragile than men in general[/QUOTE]
i wouldn't really say fragile considering they have exactly the same bones and body structure considering they're like the same species or something.
less aggressive would be the proper term.
regardless, its not like im an advocate of traditional gender roles or something. it's really just that you shouldn't hit anyone back unless you actually feel like your well-being is threatened, and a guy is going to threaten you a lot more than most girls are going to, ergo there's rarely a justified hit against one
no i just think it's a bit silly to say you're not gonna hit women simply because they are brittle and not because hitting people without provocation or just reason is wrong.
unrelated to hitting girls, i cant decide whether to make a long-winded post about yesterday's/today's events that took place with my girlfriend having to do with (her) exes. i feel like the only way to get it across accurately will be to make it like darklight-long and include everything, or else it won't sound right.
do it i like reading things about people's day
dw babez I'll read it
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