• Sex, Girlfriends and Shit II
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[QUOTE=DangerStranger;32630478]So, me and my significant other have tried to go at it a number of times, but whatever we try its awkward for both of us, position wise. Whats a good position?[/QUOTE] DOG-GY
[QUOTE=DangerStranger;32630478]So, me and my significant other have tried to go at it a number of times, but whatever we try its awkward for both of us, position wise. Whats a good position?[/QUOTE]Lie her on her stomach and stick it in her pooper.
Hey guys, I have a white girlfriend, I'm indian and her parents are racist parents, her bitchass brother told her parents about us and now she's been pretty much told that she must not be with me anymore, and what makes matters worse is that her brother is in the same school as us and he's all over the place, and she's already told her parents off but they refuse to listen to her side of the story, and I've tried a lot of things to help remedy the situation, but now I'm at a standstill and I honestly don't know what to do anymore. TL;DR: Girlfriend's parents found out about me, now she's forced to break up with me. What do
Hate to break it to you dude but really your best option is to end it. It's a fucking unfortunate situation and I feel for you, but shit like that never ends the way it does in the movies. She's going to be constantly under the pressure of her parents and you're going to be left feeling insecure and ultimately powerless. The fact that they're not even willing to listen to her side of the story makes it quite clear that it's out of your hands entirely. It's worth exhausting all of your other options, you could write her parents a letter (or speak to them personally) voicing your thoughts on the matter and how you only care for their daughter etc etc, but really you'd be pissing in the wind. Their issue with you is not a personal one, it's something that is deeply ingrained in their culture and to convince them to think otherwise is really going to be more trouble than it's worth. How long have you been with her? And how old are you two? All the best dude, tough situation but it is what it is.
[QUOTE=Duckie;32637489]Hey guys, I have a white girlfriend, I'm indian and her parents are racist parents, her bitchass brother told her parents about us and now she's been pretty much told that she must not be with me anymore, and what makes matters worse is that her brother is in the same school as us and he's all over the place, and she's already told her parents off but they refuse to listen to her side of the story, and I've tried a lot of things to help remedy the situation, but now I'm at a standstill and I honestly don't know what to do anymore. TL;DR: Girlfriend's parents found out about me, now she's forced to break up with me. What do[/QUOTE] How old are you and her?
[QUOTE=Duckie;32637489]Hey guys, I have a white girlfriend, I'm indian and her parents are racist parents, her bitchass brother told her parents about us and now she's been pretty much told that she must not be with me anymore, and what makes matters worse is that her brother is in the same school as us and he's all over the place, and she's already told her parents off but they refuse to listen to her side of the story, and I've tried a lot of things to help remedy the situation, but now I'm at a standstill and I honestly don't know what to do anymore. TL;DR: Girlfriend's parents found out about me, now she's forced to break up with me. What do[/QUOTE] Sorry mate. If you're still old enough for her parents to be calling the shots, you don't have much hope. I mean you can still go out with her. But she may just end up in trouble with her parents and not be allowed out. No one should be racist to that degree though. Sure it's kind of imprinted into our genetics, but variation is good. Some people need to bring themselves into the 21ts century.
[QUOTE=GreenDolphin;32638962]How old are you and her?[/QUOTE] We're both 18. I just ended it. Although it's over, we're still friends but yeah, time for me to regain the time I pretty much wasted. You guys are all awesome. @Dark-Light: Thanks so much for the valuable advice man. @Hana-San: People are just narrow-minded at times, but thanks a lot :) I'm loving this section. You guys rock!
[QUOTE=Duckie;32639562]We're both 18. I just ended it. Although it's over, we're still friends but yeah, time for me to regain the time I pretty much wasted. You guys are all awesome. @Dark-Light: Thanks so much for the valuable advice man. @Hana-San: People are just narrow-minded at times, but thanks a lot :) I'm loving this section. You guys rock![/QUOTE] Maybe when your both older. And she's not living at home still. Maybe then try it again.
Thanks Hana-San. :)
fuck waiting go round with a gun. Massacre family she will have no one to turn to but you.
Ok since the other thread is in the middle of an argument I'll ask this here. Might be a bit of a stupid question, but girlfriend is coming off the pill now, she's been on it for about a year I think, for something to do with her period. I heard that coming off/on it can mess up moods and feelings, should I be worried about this?
How long have you been dating? The pill tricks your body into thinking you're pregnant, which makes you attracted to people with similar enzymes to yours. When you AREN'T pregnant, you are attracted to people with as different as possible enzymes. That could potentially be really bad.
[QUOTE=Octyl;32644453]How long have you been dating? The pill tricks your body into thinking you're pregnant, which makes you attracted to people with similar enzymes to yours. When you AREN'T pregnant, you are attracted to people with as different as possible enzymes. That could potentially be really bad.[/QUOTE] uhm what the fuck are you talking about?
Science. :v: [QUOTE]Sounds odd, but it seems to be true. Researchers studying the immune systems of mice found that female mice would choose a mate whose MHC genes were the least similar to her own. MHC stands for major histocompatibility complex. These genes code for special protein markers that are attached to the surface of cells and help the body recognize whether a cell belongs to an organism or if it is an invader such as a bacteria or virus. If a cell or bacteria is identified as an invader, the body’s immune system mounts a defense to kill the intruder. Different MHC molecules are good at recognizing different invaders. By a choosing a mate whose MHC molecules are different, the female mouse is ensuring that her offspring will have a wide variety of MHC molecules that which can identify a large array of invaders and thus promote survival (Furlow 1996). Research done on human females shows that they too prefer men whose MHC genes are the least similar to their own (Richardson 1996). In an experiment, men were given an unscented T-shirt and were asked to wear it for two nights in a row. During this time they were not to use deodorants or scented soaps. Women were then presented with six shirts - three from men with similar MHC genes, and three from men with different MHC genes from their own. The results showed that the women preferred the scents of men whose MHC genes were different from their own. The scent of men with similar MHC genes often remind the women of a relative’s odor, such as a brother or father while the smells of MHC dissimilar men would often remind them of a past or current boyfriend. This suggests that body odor might have influenced past and current decisions on who to date. It was also found that women who were taking birth control pills would often choose the T-shirts of men with similar MHC genes as smelling better. A possible explanation for this is that birth control pills trick the body into thinking its pregnant, and women on the pill often report that they prefer smells that remind them of home and relatives. Since natural preferences are reversed a woman might then be attracted to men she normally wouldn’t be - namely men with similar MHC genes (Furlow 1996).[/QUOTE] [url]http://www.macalester.edu/psychology/whathap/ubnrp/smell/attraction.html[/url]
sounds like something bjork would say lol.
I started dating my boyfriend three years ago, when I wasn't on the pill. Now, I've been on it for nearly a year and I'm still attracted to him.
[QUOTE=TheDestroyerOfall;32601157] I bet you guys still wonder if it would have worked with your first girls too. .[/QUOTE] Hell no, theres normally a reason why you aren't dating anymore.
basing relationship advice on science lol
But love doesn't exist it's all just a chemical reaction in your brain!!!1
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;32647367]But love doesn't exist it's all just a chemical reaction in your brain!!!1[/QUOTE] "That's deep dawg. Pure deepness. Like, deeper than the Marianas Trench which is the deepest place on the crust. You keep saying that man." Anyways, I got invited to a Freshman party today by a couple girls who stopped to talk to me and it made me laugh since they thought I was younger than 21.
Haha, I was just saying that it has affected people before. Also, this was posted to a party-organizing group we have on facebook: "party at travs house on Friday byob there will be a fire music and strippers (or at least sluty half naked girls) show up to his back gate at 9:30" To go, or not to go...
Do you even have to ask? [editline]6th October 2011[/editline] Obviously sit at home by yourself masturbating.
Yeah... I'm going. Hopefully this isn't another one of those bullshit "hey so many girls" show up and there are like.. two. Anyone have advice for going to parties possibly alone besides "Talk to random people"?
Have fun. Read this 100 times and understand what it actually means. Too many times I go to parties with dudes and all they're concerned about is how many girls are going to be there or if they're going to get any. And you know what? Not once have any of them gotten anything, and by the end of the night they're bound to feel disappointed and that the night was a failure (and I can admit to setting myself up for this same disappointment in the past). Fuck that bullshit, you go to parties to have fun for yourself. You go to make the night memorable for yourself, not to score with this or that girl. Consider it, who is a girl more likely to be interested in: the guys standing in a pack all scoping out the party looking for prey, or the guy walking around with a huge smile on his face, the guy ripping up the dancefloor, the guy talking to and touching everyone; the guy having the most fun. And look, if you don't get any, you're not going to go home disappointed if your only goal was to have a fun night. Practically, just be confident, drink/smoke if you want to but don't get wasted, be funny, be interesting, command the attention of the people around you, but don't be the clown. You're the most awesome person at that party and anything you choose to say is worth hearing.
[QUOTE=Octyl;32644453]How long have you been dating? The pill tricks your body into thinking you're pregnant, which makes you attracted to people with similar enzymes to yours. When you AREN'T pregnant, you are attracted to people with as different as possible enzymes. That could potentially be really bad.[/QUOTE] Been dating for about a month and a half, officially together for just over a week, so yeah..... I can deal with her getting a bit pissy, and she said she might be a bit teary and cry when it gets round to it. Looking at that article it just seems to be a bit of a preference, and surely the body wouldn't want to try and make you sexually attracted to someone with similar genetics, even if you're already pregnant. And where the fuck did you get enzymes from?
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;32649162]Have fun. Read this 100 times and understand what it actually means. Too many times I go to parties with dudes and all they're concerned about is how many girls are going to be there or if they're going to get any. And you know what? Not once have any of them gotten anything, and by the end of the night they're bound to feel disappointed and that the night was a failure (and I can admit to setting myself up for this same disappointment in the past). Fuck that bullshit, you go to parties to have fun for yourself. You go to make the night memorable for yourself, not to score with this or that girl. Consider it, who is a girl more likely to be interested in: the guys standing in a pack all scoping out the party looking for prey, or the guy walking around with a huge smile on his face, the guy ripping up the dancefloor, the guy talking to and touching everyone; the guy having the most fun. And look, if you don't get any, you're not going to go home disappointed if your only goal was to have a fun night. Practically, just be confident, drink/smoke if you want to but don't get wasted, be funny, be interesting, command the attention of the people around you, but don't be the clown. You're the most awesome person at that party and anything you choose to say is worth hearing.[/QUOTE] Wish this could be added to the OP because he's damn right. Parties aren't about getting laid, that's just a perk. They are about having fun with people you know or having fun meeting new people. Do what you want within the bounds of the setting and do shit you normally wouldn't do. Or prey on the drunk fat girl who'll give it up to anyone who is within boning distance of her.
The pill has some effects on tastes and personality but as long as you get to know the girl you're dating it will be very likely nothing of extreme proportions will happen. [editline]6th October 2011[/editline] Also I never went to a party before because I have yet to meet someone who actually likes to party without being exclusively piss-drunk. I'm not against drinking (even if I'm not really into alcohol myself) but there's a difference between having fun in a party while drinking, and emptying two six-packs of beers in the first hour and stay wasted on the couch saying nothing and watching the table while time goes on.
[QUOTE=Duckie;32637489]Hey guys, I have a white girlfriend, I'm indian and her parents are racist parents, her bitchass brother told her parents about us and now she's been pretty much told that she must not be with me anymore, and what makes matters worse is that her brother is in the same school as us and he's all over the place, and she's already told her parents off but they refuse to listen to her side of the story, and I've tried a lot of things to help remedy the situation, but now I'm at a standstill and I honestly don't know what to do anymore. TL;DR: Girlfriend's parents found out about me, now she's forced to break up with me. What do[/QUOTE]If she really, really loves you, then she'll find a way to defy her parents to be with you. If not, well, sorry.
[QUOTE=Duckie;32637489]Hey guys, I have a white girlfriend, I'm indian and her parents are racist parents, her bitchass brother told her parents about us and now she's been pretty much told that she must not be with me anymore, and what makes matters worse is that her brother is in the same school as us and he's all over the place, and she's already told her parents off but they refuse to listen to her side of the story, and I've tried a lot of things to help remedy the situation, but now I'm at a standstill and I honestly don't know what to do anymore. TL;DR: Girlfriend's parents found out about me, now she's forced to break up with me. What do[/QUOTE] Do you have a house ? How about she runs away and comes living with you for the time being ?
[QUOTE=Ganerumo;32650934]Do you have a house ? How about she runs away and comes living with you for the time being ?[/QUOTE] you're mentally deficient
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