• Sex, Girlfriends and Shit II
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[QUOTE=Mr.Dounut;32651387]you're mentally deficient[/QUOTE] How about you give a solution then ? I dunno, at least I am trying.
[QUOTE=Ganerumo;32651443]How about you give a solution then ? I dunno, at least I am trying.[/QUOTE] He's still in high school. And a solution has already been offered. One that he's possibly taken.
[QUOTE=Hana-San;32651701]He's still in high school. And a solution has already been offered. One that he's possibly taken.[/QUOTE] Yeah, we've taken a break for now until we can figure shit out. Things should look up after the final semester.
[QUOTE=Duckie;32651950]Yeah, we've taken a break for now until we can figure shit out. Things should look up after the final semester.[/QUOTE] That's pretty mature dude. I know if I was in that situation I'd probably spend weeks whining and complaining about how her parents are horrible repressive fucks which would end up with her resenting me anyway. What you're doing is a really rational step.
[QUOTE=Duckie;32637489]Hey guys, I have a white girlfriend, I'm indian and her parents are racist parents, her bitchass brother told her parents about us and now she's been pretty much told that she must not be with me anymore, and what makes matters worse is that her brother is in the same school as us and he's all over the place, and she's already told her parents off but they refuse to listen to her side of the story, and I've tried a lot of things to help remedy the situation, but now I'm at a standstill and I honestly don't know what to do anymore. TL;DR: Girlfriend's parents found out about me, now she's forced to break up with me. What do[/QUOTE]When I was 18, a Lebanese girl and I toyed around with dating, and we were going to do it. She told her parents she wanted to date a guy and according to her, the first words out of her dad's mouth were "Is he Lebanese?". I'm a white Canadian so, no... not Lebanese. Anyway, she kept telling me it would be ok but I could see the stress of having to hide her dates and feelings from her parents all over her. After a few weeks I asked her if she wanted to end it because I was really worried about her, and she reluctantly agreed. We stayed great friends for 2 years, until she started really dating again. She got heavily involved in the arabic community in our college and they hate the shit out of everyone, so eventually I just stopped seeing her. Most people give in to the racial pressure around them. Few of them have the strength to defy the rules. Whereas I ended up not getting the girl, one of my friends, a Swedish metalhead, started dating one of the Egyptian girls. Right from the very start there was problems with the arabic guys (including a wicked fight), but the girl was very clear about her intentions from the start: she didn't give a fuck. For your relationship to work through racial/social class barriers, you have to have the right attitude towards the opposition from the very beginning. Your relationship does not have this. Maybe it will later, but there's no point continuing right now.
as long as she is living with her parents she must abide by their rules.
i like how you guys keep giving advice even though the situation has been dealt with
[QUOTE=Mlisen14;32652074]That's pretty mature dude. I know if I was in that situation I'd probably spend weeks whining and complaining about how her parents are horrible repressive fucks which would end up with her resenting me anyway. What you're doing is a really rational step.[/QUOTE] Thanks man. :) @FlakAttack: You are a strong man. :) Thanks for the advice! I think I prefer staying and reading about people's triumphs in relationships in this thread than going outside. Does this make me a bad person? Enough of my ramblings. :D You guys still rock! :D
[QUOTE=Duckie;32668180]Thanks man. :) @FlakAttack: You are a strong man. :) Thanks for the advice! I think I prefer staying and reading about people's triumphs in relationships in this thread than going outside. Does this make me a bad person? Enough of my ramblings. :D You guys still rock! :D[/QUOTE] Yes, it makes you a bad person. You should feel ashamed. Now go find a party and have some fun. Shameless thread revival bump.
This thread doesn't need a bump. Don't worry about that.
[QUOTE=Evilan;32676206]Yes, it makes you a bad person. You should feel ashamed. Now go find a party and have some fun. Shameless thread revival bump.[/QUOTE] No time for partying, finals are soon! ;A; I really do not want to study. :/
Just got back from seeing my girl. The past four days despite not really doing anything (we spent most of the daytime and evenings watching TV and smoking reefers) have been so good, purely because I've been with her. I really am considering packing my job in (it's only 15 hours a week) and moving up there to be with her. Apparently she has actually already asked her housemates if they'd have a problem with me moving in and they wouldn't.
Had a great evening with my girlfriend too, we just had a bit of dinner together while watching moulin rouge, don't have a fucking clue what happened in it though lol :v: It sucks having to wait a week and a half to see her again though..
[QUOTE=Mort and Charon;32687078]Had a great evening with my girlfriend too, we just had a bit of dinner together while watching [b]moulin rouge[/b], don't have a fucking clue what happened in it though lol :v: It sucks having to wait a week and a half to see her again though..[/QUOTE] Best. Movie. Ever.
[QUOTE=Mort and Charon;32687078]Had a great evening with my girlfriend too, we just had a bit of dinner together while watching moulin rouge, don't have a fucking clue what happened in it though lol :v: It sucks having to wait a week and a half to see her again though..[/QUOTE] I'm not sure when I'll next see her, I know I'll definitely see her in three weeks as she's coming home for her birthday. But she says she might come down for a weekend before then.
[QUOTE=Evilan;32687315]Best. Movie. Ever.[/QUOTE] I think I'll borrow it off her and re watch it. We really weren't paying attention lol. Films just seem to set a good atmosphere. [editline]8th October 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=Doozle;32687390]I'm not sure when I'll next see her, I know I'll definitely see her in three weeks as she's coming home for her birthday. But she says she might come down for a weekend before then.[/QUOTE] 3 weeks would be a while to wait. And I got my birthday it two weeks, then a week off college, so we're definitely going to get together a lot, might even go down to London for a day.
[QUOTE=Mort and Charon;32687078]It sucks having to wait a week and a half to see her again though..[/QUOTE] haven't seen my girlfriend in 3 months
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;32687971]haven't seen my girlfriend in 3 months[/QUOTE] That must suck. How long have you been with her? I've only been with her for about a month, we seem to be getting closer all the time, so we're not quite at a "comfortable" stage yet if you get what I mean...
i've been with her not much longer than i've been away from her. i'm on the delayed entry program to enter the air force right now, and i'm waiting month to month to get the call that i have my job and i can go home for a few months and hang out with her before i ship to basic training
Then that must doubly suck. Must be difficult to start a relationship in that situation.... Good luck in the forces too mate, looking to go into the Army someday myself.
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;32687971]haven't seen my girlfriend in 3 months[/QUOTE] I haven't seen my girlfriend in seventeen years. [sp]The joke is that I haven't had one. I am not complaining, I promise.[/sp]
I prefer this thread when people have problems with their girlfriends. It's more dramatic than interesting to read than how comfortable you all feel.
the past few days have been a fucking rollercoaster. worst period she's ever had, goddamn. [editline]8th October 2011[/editline] and it gets worseee booyah
the girl of my dreams wanted to kiss me yesterday feels fucking great man
[QUOTE=Nelth;32694623]the girl of my dreams wanted to kiss me yesterday feels fucking great man[/QUOTE] Then why didn't you kiss her? (inb4 internet crush or girl you've never met)
It was the girl, [B]of his dreams[/B].
she just got out of a relationship and I don't want to pressure her, on thursday we will go to the cinema with a bunch of friends, after the movie I will take her for a walk and tell her what I feel ohh boy I am so excited I cannot even sleep normally
Dude no, don't tell her how you feel. [editline]9th October 2011[/editline] Give the other Love Advice thread a read and come back here with questions. You have much to learn.
I'm not gonna wait until some random asshole will take her from me, I will give her signals in school that I am interested, then after cinema (thursday) I will walk her home, of course I will take her for a romantic walk by the river. Trust me on this one I know what she wants and how she thinks, and lucky for me I have spies that tell me how she feels about me. :)
"Girl of my dreams wants to kiss me. I better not pressure her into anything." She WANTS to kiss you. [editline]9th October 2011[/editline] Spies wat
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