• Sex, Girlfriends and Shit II
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[QUOTE=Dark_Light;32777474]I don't know why everyone jumped on his back over this, from the start he sounded pretty chill about it and I only ever got the impression that the girl was more interested in him and he was just being polite about the breakup. He's happy with himself, as he would and should be, there's no need to detract from that besides saying, "don't get ahead of yourself, keep it cool, play this right and you'll get it."[/QUOTE] Thanks, Dark_Light, that sums it up pretty nicely. I don't think people really jumped on my back though, everyone here was/is pretty civil
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;32744817]Yeah that makes sense, and I did consider that seeing as Evilan is over 20 and I'm still only 17. I generally target my advice to those around my age and below, as I imagine that would be the majority of the audience of this thread/Facepunch as a whole, and also because obviously that is the only area I have experience in. I expect to mature a lot over the coming years and I am sure the dynamics of a relationship and male-female interactions will change a lot as well, so I accept that some of my opinions may be considered 'immature' by certain standards but I am open to having these opinions questioned.[/QUOTE] I'm 20; this might have something to do with our different mindsets.
I like to have sex with a doorknob.
[QUOTE=Turnips5;32777537]Thanks, Dark_Light, that sums it up pretty nicely. I don't think people really jumped on my back though, everyone here was/is pretty civil[/QUOTE] I got your back bro. You aren't doing anything wrong, especially if you're not allowing the girl to cheat on her current BF. [editline]14th October 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=Rama214;32778372]I like to have sex with a doorknob.[/QUOTE] :fistbump:
My girlfriend is coming down next weekend to visit me :3
so jelly
and I've got a free yard so we can do what we like (within reason, my brother and sister will be about)
[QUOTE=Doozle;32782017]and I've got a free yard so we can do what we like (within reason, my brother and sister will be about)[/QUOTE] Put on an erotic show for your siblings. Your brother will like it at least.
[QUOTE=Phsykotik;32785480]Put on an erotic show for your siblings. Your brother will like it at least.[/QUOTE] I think it'd weird him out to be honest
What does a free yard mean? Kissing in the grass? I'm just wondering why it's special to have a yard that's free...
Just sounds like the house will be empty/no parents around or something.
[QUOTE=MindMuncher;32790949]What does a free yard mean? Kissing in the grass? I'm just wondering why it's special to have a yard that's free...[/QUOTE] Yeah, yard is house. I have a free house. edit- turns out she has a free house as well, her house has a huge bath :3
I don't have a girlfriend :(
same here bro and its fucking [B]FANTASTIC[/B]
I don't have a girlfriend but I have a girl 8)
Same here
the girl i have been talking to told me how she would prefer to be asked out. Does this mean she wants me to ask her out? Sorry, i am really bad with the womenz
[QUOTE=sputnick;32808131]the girl i have been talking to told me how she would prefer to be asked out. Does this mean she wants me to ask her out? Sorry, i am really bad with the womenz[/QUOTE] Not specifically. There's only one way to really find out though...
[QUOTE=sputnick;32808131]the girl i have been talking to told me how she would prefer to be asked out. Does this mean she wants me to ask her out? Sorry, i am really bad with the womenz[/QUOTE] I hope you're not really considering asking her out that way? I would avoid someone who tells me how she wants to be asked out because you can tell she is very self-centered from the get go.
For those of you who ache to have a girlfriend, just wait until it's no longer fun and merely one more responsibility that you have. If I had a chance to go back and date more girls than I did I would, getting locked into a long term relationship can be amazing but it has many a downside as well.
[QUOTE=Aetna;32817515]For those of you who ache to have a girlfriend, just wait until it's no longer fun and merely one more responsibility that you have... getting locked into a long term relationship can be amazing but it has many a downside as well.[/QUOTE] doing it wrong
Wow if you view your girlfriend as merely a 'responsibility' you need to dump her now because you're fucking with her feelings; how would you feel if your partner had no emotional attachment to you.
[QUOTE=Aetna;32817515]For those of you who ache to have a girlfriend, just wait until it's no longer fun and merely one more responsibility that you have. If I had a chance to go back and date more girls than I did I would, getting locked into a long term relationship can be amazing but it has many a downside as well.[/QUOTE] If you're with someone, it should be because you both enjoy being together, if it gets to the point you find it a chore, you should have ended it.
[QUOTE=Aetna;32817515]For those of you who ache to have a girlfriend, just wait until it's no longer fun and merely one more responsibility that you have. If I had a chance to go back and date more girls than I did I would, getting locked into a long term relationship can be amazing but it has many a downside as well.[/QUOTE] how can you "wait until it's no longer fun" if you don't have a girlfriend in the first place lol
[QUOTE=sputnick;32808131]the girl i have been talking to told me how she would prefer to be asked out. Does this mean she wants me to ask her out? Sorry, i am really bad with the womenz[/QUOTE] I'm not seeing the context here but here goes: If she says she rather be asked out on a date. Do it. Think of a nice place and ask her out for coffee. Otherwise, if she's saying that in that exact linear way, like she makes you feel she wants you to be after her, than she's a self centered bitch who wants you to act the way she wants. Now the question is. Do you want a decent girl and keep your dignity and self respect, or do you want to be a puppet of some control freak bitch that takes advantage of your lack of skills with women? The choice is yours, but I'd like to hear the whole story to see if I'm being helpful.
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;32818926]I'm not seeing the context here but here goes: If she says she rather be asked out on a date. Do it. Think of a nice place and ask her out for coffee. Otherwise, if she's saying that in that exact linear way, like she makes you feel she wants you to be after her, than she's a self centered bitch who wants you to act the way she wants. Now the question is. Do you want a decent girl and keep your dignity and self respect, or do you want to be a puppet of some control freak bitch that takes advantage of your lack of skills with women? The choice is yours, but I'd like to hear the whole story to see if I'm being helpful.[/QUOTE] holy shit that's judgmental as hell, where are you getting this?
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;32818926]I'm not seeing the context here but here goes: If she says she rather be asked out on a date. Do it. Think of a nice place and ask her out for coffee. Otherwise, if she's saying that in that exact linear way, like she makes you feel she wants you to be after her, than she's a self centered bitch who wants you to act the way she wants. Now the question is. Do you want a decent girl and keep your dignity and self respect, or do you want to be a puppet of some control freak bitch that takes advantage of your lack of skills with women? The choice is yours, but I'd like to hear the whole story to see if I'm being helpful.[/QUOTE] Wow, do NOT listen to this
I know you're trying to help Behemoth and it's good to see more people giving advice, but if you do try not to be so presumptuous about it. Calling her a "self-centered control freak bitch" is way excessive when she could have been quite innocently describing her perfect date or whatever. Sure if it was, "I wouldn't give attention to a guy unless he did x y and z in that order," but I doubt it was like that at all.
self centered control freak bitch hahahaha
[QUOTE=Aetna;32817515]For those of you who ache to have a girlfriend, just wait until it's no longer fun and merely one more responsibility that you have. If I had a chance to go back and date more girls than I did I would, getting locked into a long term relationship can be amazing but it has many a downside as well.[/QUOTE] You need to examine your relationship buddy, this doesn't sound healthy at all. Speaking from experience here...
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