I hate it when I'm listening to a song on youtube and when I scroll down I see one of those comments saying how this dudes girlfriend died and this used to be their song.
Makes me sad.
I hate it when I'm on Youtube and I scroll down and see the comments.
Makes me sad.
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=19VXOTxN7o8[/media]
Watch the first 33 seconds.
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;32822619]I know you're trying to help Behemoth and it's good to see more people giving advice, but if you do try not to be so presumptuous about it. Calling her a "self-centered control freak bitch" is way excessive when she could have been quite innocently describing her perfect date or whatever. Sure if it was, "I wouldn't give attention to a guy unless he did x y and z in that order," but I doubt it was like that at all.[/QUOTE]
I am sorry for not being clear but I was just leaving when I wrote that. Judging was definitely not my intention and I apologize.
I had my doubts about it too. That guys description was very vague and my presumptuous argument was based on how I interpreted it. And I presented a solution for both "egocentric way to force a guy to date her" and "innocently describing her perfect date".
I'm not trying to judge her because I don't know the girl. And of course, as I said, if she was innocently describing her perfect date, she's not a "bitch".
If that's the case, as I think and hope it is, then don't waste time and go for it, ask her on a date. Girls only share these types of things with guys who are special to them. So she will be very happy to be asked on a date.
So, just ignore my last post and go for it. Good luck!
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;32833719]So, just ignore my last post and go for it. Good luck![/QUOTE]
You worded it antisocially, but I still wouldn't go for it. At least not until the dude says what the context of the question is. I assume that it's the girl telling the guy how to ask her out.
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;32833719]Girls only share these types of things with guys who are special to them. So she will be very happy to be asked on a date.[/QUOTE]
not exactly, girls just like to talk about relationships and such, and that seems like just a random piece of information she decided to share with a friend she was talking to like "if there was a perfect way to ask me out, it'd be like this," not telling him to ask her out, nor saying that was the only acceptable way to ask her out.
[QUOTE=Evilan;32833782]You worded it antisocially, but I still wouldn't go for it. At least not until the dude says what the context of the question is. I assume that it's the girl telling the guy how to ask her out.[/QUOTE]
it could be, but that's not how it came off to me, and to assume it like that when the guy didnt say anything like "she was being bitchy about it" seems overboard
Anyone have Mav's SF name?
need to ask him a question
You can get it from his Facepunch profile:
[url]http://steamcommunity.com/id/maverickib[/url]
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;32777474]I don't know why everyone jumped on his back over this, from the start he sounded pretty chill about it and I only ever got the impression that the girl was more interested in him and he was just being polite about the breakup. He's happy with himself, as he would and should be, there's no need to detract from that besides saying, "don't get ahead of yourself, keep it cool, play this right and you'll get it."[/QUOTE]
update : success
categorizing this under "Shit," I make some fucking bomb mac and cheese
I....I think I just got myself a date...
[QUOTE=Glowwerm;32867112]I....I think I just got myself a date...[/QUOTE]
Why the shock lol?
I... I think I just breathed a little...
My lady is coming down to see me tomorrow. Can't wait
My girlfriend has an implant, she doesn't have regular periods (due to implant)(one every 3 month or something) we had unprotected sex and pulled out, she has been feeling sick/ill (we had sex a couple weeks back maybe more) and she blacked out in the shower.
So she went to the doctors who did a check up and a urine test and she has a bug and a urine infection and the pregnancy test came back negative, we had a scare last time and she had a test and the doctor was amendment that she couldn't get pregnant (she even had a morning after pill few months ago)
Shes had the implant for a year now. Sorry for the random post, but just a bit worried when its probs nothing.
Could she still be pregnant?
doctor said she can't get pregnant
like, an actual doctor, and you're asking us
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;32876480]doctor said she can't get pregnant
like, an actual doctor, and you're asking us[/QUOTE]
Meh, just stuck on the back of my mind, when we first had sex and there was a risk even with implant it was 3/4 weeks ago and she had a morning after pill, symptoms dont show up until then anyway and two weeks ago or one yet again and shes been checked twice, both negative.
get yourself checked you could have the aids
[QUOTE=Godline;32876725]get yourself checked you could have the aids[/QUOTE]
Hardly even worth a post.
That's what is generally regarded as "shitposting."
There's a girl I know that acts so strange towards me. She always has a last minute excuse when we're going to see eachother, so I figured that she didn't care for me.
Then there's a party at my place and she's there, not being especially social at all. Then she goes to sleep in my bed, and when I tell her that she either had to move or deal with me laying next to her, she just started to undress herself.
And we fucked the next morning. And she's still acting all weird towards me.
So my conclusion is that she wants to fuck me, but nothing more, which I have nothing against.
But then I start to think about why, because I want to know what I'm doing wrong.
It's a strange world, and my head just feels stranger and stranger each day.
[QUOTE=Gurant;32876928]There's a girl I know that acts so strange towards me. She always has a last minute excuse when we're going to see eachother, so I figured that she didn't care for me.
Then there's a party at my place and she's there, not being especially social at all. Then she goes to sleep in my bed, and when I tell her that she either had to move or deal with me laying next to her, she just started to undress herself.
And we fucked the next morning. And she's still acting all weird towards me.
So my conclusion is that she wants to fuck me, but nothing more, which I have nothing against.
But then I start to think about why, because I want to know what I'm doing wrong.
It's a strange world, and my head just feels stranger and stranger each day.[/QUOTE]
Yeah, that would confuse the fuck outta me. Well played, sir. Well played.
[QUOTE=Gurant;32876928]There's a girl I know that acts so strange towards me. She always has a last minute excuse when we're going to see eachother, so I figured that she didn't care for me.
Then there's a party at my place and she's there, not being especially social at all. Then she goes to sleep in my bed, and when I tell her that she either had to move or deal with me laying next to her, she just started to undress herself.
And we fucked the next morning. And she's still acting all weird towards me.
So my conclusion is that she wants to fuck me, but nothing more, which I have nothing against.
But then I start to think about why, because I want to know what I'm doing wrong.
It's a strange world, and my head just feels stranger and stranger each day.[/QUOTE]
Or she is just a quiet/social anxiety filled individual? But, I do prefer your idea of a fuck buddy.
[QUOTE=Gurant;32876928]There's a girl I know that acts so strange towards me. She always has a last minute excuse when we're going to see eachother, so I figured that she didn't care for me.
Then there's a party at my place and she's there, not being especially social at all. Then she goes to sleep in my bed, and when I tell her that she either had to move or deal with me laying next to her, she just started to undress herself.
And we fucked the next morning. And she's still acting all weird towards me.
So my conclusion is that she wants to fuck me, but nothing more, which I have nothing against.
But then I start to think about why, because I want to know what I'm doing wrong.
It's a strange world, and my head just feels stranger and stranger each day.[/QUOTE]
That's like an open-non-relationship man.
Why don't you ask her what's going on?
Do you want more than sex?
-snip-
Well, my girl friend of 3 years has been dead for a year. I love her still, and I know this girl likes me we've been talking more. I told her today that I can't date her because it wouldn't be right, because I was with you because she was gone. I mean, I like her and all, but I still miss Clara more then anything. I need help.
[QUOTE=Lertez;32884813]Well, my girl friend of 3 years has been dead for a year. I love her still, and I know this girl likes me we've been talking more. I told her today that I can't date her because it wouldn't be right, because I was with you because she was gone. I mean, I like her and all, but I still miss Clara more then anything. I need help.[/QUOTE]
You need to find a therapist man. A year is way too long to be grieving for a loved one.
[QUOTE=Evilan;32885618]You need to find a therapist man. A year is way too long to be grieving for a loved one.[/QUOTE]
Grieving is a personal thing, there's no amount of time that is right or wrong. Lertez if the girl makes a move on you, explain that you want to take it slow, test the waters etc. It's probably healthy to make an attempt at moving on and casual dating is a good way to do it.
[QUOTE=Mlisen14;32886086]Grieving is a personal thing, there's no amount of time that is right or wrong. [/QUOTE]
1+ years = too long, 6-12 months = understandable, 1-6 months = healthy. Everyone has their own timetable, but once you start counting the time in years, you need to find help.
[QUOTE=Lertez;32884813]Well, my girl friend of 3 years has been dead for a year. I love her still, and I know this girl likes me we've been talking more. I told her today that I can't date her because it wouldn't be right, because I was with you because she was gone. I mean, I like her and all, but I still miss Clara more then anything. I need help.[/QUOTE]
See a therapist, and you know you're girlfriend would be shitting herself to see you like this, as if she wouldn't want you to move on if she was going to die
but I am really sorry to hear that dude, thats fucking shit as
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