• Sex, Girlfriends and Shit II
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You shouldn't be worrying dude, she's with you right now. Worrying doesn't have any benefits and if anything it's just making the situation worse. Relax and accept that she may have had feelings for him in the past, but they're irrelevant now. You'll be fine.
[QUOTE=Mort and Charon;32945827]On a related note, do you think you should wait for the girl to make the suggestion to have sex? Me and my girlfriend are always joking about it, but we haven't discussed it seriously. Although it is pretty early days, been together about a month so I don't want to push it. Might want to note that I'm a virgin and she isn't, and she often encourages me to get more physical on the (rare) moments we get alone together.[/QUOTE] have you tried the simplest line in the book "wanna have sex?" works for me
[QUOTE=Mort and Charon;32954094]stuff about a guy telling your girlfriend that he loves her[/QUOTE] I've been in that situation before. All I can advise you to do is to ignore it. She actively chose you over him; that's all you need to know. [editline]25th October 2011[/editline] In terms of having sex with her, there's a few ways you could do it. One is just to get closer to having sex, and then give her "that look". You could do it another method, or go through your discussion. The first doesn't have any possibility of awkwardness, seen as if she doesn't want to you can just do something else.
who talks about having sex anyway - it's just something you do
[QUOTE=SaWAH;32971315]who talks about having sex anyway - it's just something you do[/QUOTE] Virgins do. It seems like a million times more important before you do it. Now it's just a fun activity that isn't work. [editline]26th October 2011[/editline] That sounds sad. I don't mean that as if it's boring, it's just not the most amazing thing in the entire world ever.
We only talk about it so I learn what pleases her best.
Sex is sex, you slap your meatstick into her hoo hoo for 5-15 minutes and it's over. The sex somehow isn't as important to me as the relaxing with my girlfriend afterwards.
[QUOTE=Evilan;32985872]Sex is sex, you slap your meatstick into her hoo hoo for 5-15 minutes and it's over. The sex somehow isn't as important to me as the relaxing with my girlfriend afterwards.[/QUOTE] I kind of anticipate that this is how I will feel, though I say this as a virgin. I tend to enjoy spending time with my particular lady friend just cuddling. I really don't get too much more of a kick out of being too physical- not to say I get none, or that I am not attracted to her. It's just an "I'm perfectly okay with just laying around with each other" kind of thing.
I'm properly missing my girl, even though it's only been a few days since I last saw her. I got so angry at work yesterday I was proper screwing, fucking managers with their shitty comments; I ended up losing my rag and throwing a shelf down an aisle then walked out. I get so angry at times when I'm away from her and hate that I do, I feel bad for it and always end up having to apologise for the way I sometimes will talk to people because I know I shouldn't do it and feel ashamed with my behaviour. The thing is I've never really been a person to get angry often and when I'm with her I feel like nothing can keep me down, nothing can piss me off when she's about. any advice guys? I've got work in 40 minutes and I'm dreading it because it puts me in such a bad mood, I worry I'm going to do something really stupid
Why do you get angry when you are away from her? Is it a possesive thing or just becuase she can calm you down?
My boyfriend's snoring right next to me. How am I to sleep?! But I've been with him for a year today. And it feels weird.
My boyfriend and I have been together for two years in a month and a couple of days - sort of odd to think I was 19 when we met. [editline]27th October 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=Doozle;32989057]I'm properly missing my girl, even though it's only been a few days since I last saw her. I got so angry at work yesterday I was proper screwing, fucking managers with their shitty comments; I ended up losing my rag and throwing a shelf down an aisle then walked out. I get so angry at times when I'm away from her and hate that I do, I feel bad for it and always end up having to apologise for the way I sometimes will talk to people because I know I shouldn't do it and feel ashamed with my behaviour. The thing is I've never really been a person to get angry often and when I'm with her I feel like nothing can keep me down, nothing can piss me off when she's about. any advice guys? I've got work in 40 minutes and I'm dreading it because it puts me in such a bad mood, I worry I'm going to do something really stupid[/QUOTE] Sounds like a really bad way of handling a long distance relationship. Not to sound harsh or anything, but get over it and learn to be happy when she's not around. My boyfriend lives 8 km away and goes to school 3 km away and we haven't even seen each other in the last couple of days - nobody should have such a bad reaction to being away from somebody. Sounds really unhealthy.
[QUOTE=Hana-San;32991161]My boyfriend's snoring right next to me. How am I to sleep?! But I've been with him for a year today. And it feels weird.[/QUOTE] Snuggle up to him, wrap around and then roll him so he's facing down. Should reduce snoring.
I gave my girlfriend my spare bankcard which had £50 on it and gave her £60 cash as an "emergency fund" incase she needed food or a taxi anywhere. Today she went shopping, managed to lock my card and spend all of the money I gave her then asked for more. How do I teach her the value of [b]my[/b] money. I am actually thoroughly disappointed.
She's a gold digger brah. Drop her like a hot potatoe.
Would never ever let my boyfriend spend my money like that. Not to say I wouldn't give him things - but money? No fucking way. I'd lend him money for sure. And £110? Ugh, that's a lot of money. I hope you stinky rich and your girlfriend has nothing, because that's the only way I'd ever give my boyfriend that much.
[QUOTE=SaWAH;32991734]Would never ever let my boyfriend spend my money like that. Not to say I wouldn't give him things - but money? No fucking way. I'd lend him money for sure. And £110? Ugh, that's a lot of money. I hope you stinky rich and your girlfriend has nothing, because that's the only way I'd ever give my boyfriend that much.[/QUOTE] I have a job, work hard for my money but she does nothing. I only gave her money so she could see me... That worked out so well! /sarcasm
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;32991511]I gave my girlfriend my spare bankcard which had £50 on it and gave her £60 cash as an "emergency fund" incase she needed food or a taxi anywhere. Today she went shopping, managed to lock my card and spend all of the money I gave her then asked for more. How do I teach her the value of [b]my[/b] money. I am actually thoroughly disappointed.[/QUOTE] Wow, you've certainly got a keeper. How long has she been dating you for?
[QUOTE=Evilan;32993205]Wow, you've certainly got a keeper. How long has she been dating you for?[/QUOTE] 15 weeks today. :v:
We're a perfect match :3
That sound's like infatuation/honeymoon period to me. It might be hard mate, but I'd dump her. Or possibly just stop spending so much on her. It's not worth it, most of us have been there and it's not a good place to be. Spend your money on something you need/really want like an update for your PC, some weights or a new bike.
we really don't know nearly enough to make the assessment that he should dump her
[QUOTE=Ruski v2.0;32995237]That sound's like infatuation/honeymoon period to me. It might be hard mate, but I'd dump her. Or possibly just stop spending so much on her. It's not worth it, most of us have been there and it's not a good place to be. Spend your money on something you need/really want like an update for your PC, some weights or a new bike.[/QUOTE] All he's told us is that the girl wastefully spent over $100 and they've been together for 15 weeks. We don't know most of the details to start saying "Dumb her gold digging ass."
[QUOTE=Evilan;32996672]All he's told us is that the girl wastefully spent over $100 and they've been together for 15 weeks. We don't know most of the details to start saying "Dumb her gold digging ass."[/QUOTE] But blowing £110 of emergency money is a serious issue. I think he has mentioned some problems with her before, if I remember correctly.
It's not a "dump her immediately" issue, it's a "exercise communication and see if you can get it worked out first" issue.
Sorry if I'm interrupting something but I'm nervous as fuck because I've seen a girlfriend from my school in a webcam sex video at a porn site. Should I speak with her?
A girlfriend? Yours, or someone else's? And it is almost guaranteed (like 99% chance) that it isn't her, so talking to her would make everyone think you were a freak for watching that and then asking a girl if it was her. Lol. Which would be hilarious. But not for you.
You should definitely, definitely ask her. It will totally embarrass her in front of all of her friends and then everyone will think you're awesome!
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;32995412]we really don't know nearly enough to make the assessment that he should dump her[/QUOTE] a few months ago joshdasmif was almost universally hated by people in this thread thats something we know
I was just saying [b]I[/b] would dump her. Another suggestion I provided was not to spend so much upon her. We evidently need more information, I am just calling it as I see it. As why would he give her the money in the first place? Isn't emergency money usually a parents domain? How old are they? More information is indeed needed.
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