• Sex, Girlfriends and Shit II
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[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;32997667]A girlfriend? Yours, or someone else's? And it is almost guaranteed (like 99% chance) that it isn't her, so talking to her would make everyone think you were a freak for watching that and then asking a girl if it was her. Lol. Which would be hilarious. But not for you.[/QUOTE] No, she's just a friend but it's definitely her (there's her boyfriend too.) Of course I wouldn't talk to her in a public place, but what would you do, if you just saw that and would see her everyday?
Talk to her and explain why spending EMERGENCY money is not a good idea. It's that simple. [editline]27th October 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=JackDestiny;32998898]No, she's just a friend but it's definitely her (there's her boyfriend too.) Of course I wouldn't talk to her in a public place, but what would you do, if you just saw that and would see her everyday?[/QUOTE] Then I suggest that you should warn them. If you run into that, there is a chance that so will others. They should be more careful, and if possible, get the video off the site.
I would never bring that up. Any way you try to do it, you're going to be looked at the wrong way for it.
no he could bring it up casually to her like "yeah i was just jerking my dick to some fucking hot porn and then you suddenly came up in a video, wtf is up with that?" And then she will know and she will beg for your help.
on second thought that is a better way to handle this situation
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;33000889]on second thought that is a better way to handle this situation[/QUOTE] As weird as it seems, it is. Last thing you need is her other friends and family finding out about the video.
the point is that porn makes up like the vast fucking majority of the internet, so the odds of her friends or family going to the same site and coming across the same amateur webcam video and recognizing her is pretty stupidly slim
I've decided that I'm not talking with her about that video. Thank you for your help, maybe it's better to stay mum.
it's also probably not her honestly what are the chances?
Being really Sexually Frustrated On both ends leads to super kinky awesome sex.!
[QUOTE=pyschomc;33019302]Being really Sexually Frustrated On both ends leads to super kinky awesome sex.![/QUOTE] Or a complete breakdown.
[QUOTE=pyschomc;33019302]Being really Sexually Frustrated On both ends leads to super kinky awesome sex.![/QUOTE] When I don't see my girl for a week or so and we have sex, it's amazing.
Felt this would be a good place to ask, hopefully someone will know. How common are sexually deviant women? Now that might sound like a very open question but while I won't specify what I'm looking for, it is a [I]fairly[/I] obscure paraphilia. I'm just curious because of course it's a rather taboo subject and therefore not something brought up frequently or easily. Perhaps someone here would know?
Men and Women are pretty much the same when it comes to uh... kinkiness. It's just that women usually tend to not talk about this subject as openly as men.
[QUOTE=JgcxCub;33022979]Felt this would be a good place to ask, hopefully someone will know. How common are sexually deviant women? Now that might sound like a very open question but while I won't specify what I'm looking for, it is a [I]fairly[/I] obscure paraphilia. I'm just curious because of course it's a rather taboo subject and therefore not something brought up frequently or easily. Perhaps someone here would know?[/QUOTE] Craigslist
I decided to look through craigslist for the first time the other day (out of curiosity, honest). I never realised the amount of trannies there are looking for some loving
[QUOTE=E1025;33029281]I decided to look through craigslist for the first time the other day (out of curiosity, honest). I never realised the amount of trannies there are looking for some loving[/QUOTE] And XXXL women.
Man.. Girls With Glasses are kinky as fuck. They sure are secretly dirty inside yet look so innocent on the outside.
[img]http://gallery.tc.dk/d/4193-3/20020811_P8110084_girl_with_glasses.jpg[/img] mmmm... i know what you mean
[QUOTE=Inufin;31108204]K, then I will type about my girlfriend. I had a girlfriend for two years, the last year was fun having sex daily and now that she broke up with me like a month ago I haven't cared about sex. It's not like I feel that I need to have sex like I thought before being with her. Sex is a great fun way to show your feelings for someone~[/QUOTE] You understand it the way everyone should, and thats why rape is such a bad thing.
[QUOTE=Batman21;33033738]You understand it the way everyone should, and thats why rape is such a bad thing.[/QUOTE] That's a dumb comparison to draw. Sex is fun in its own right. Intimate/emotional sex can be better, but there's no reason not to have disconnected sex, it's completely incomparable to rape.
[QUOTE=Batman21;33033738]and thats why rape is such a bad thing.[/QUOTE] what the fuck?
So this is my latest story: I've been best friends with this girl for six years now, and although through that time I was dating other girls I always got kind of a crush for her. Yet I was used to ignore those feeling because she had her affairs two through those years. We were really close friends, you see. Whenever she had a heartbreak she would come to me and we would go have fun some place until she could be able to talk about her problems and could forget about them. We were always there for each other and our friendship felt very warm. Every time we used to see each other I remember that when she arrived I couldn't stop smiling to her and her to me, it was like this bond and this feeling of being so happy to see her that I couldn't control, so I was unable to stop smiling the first minutes I was with her. I found that cute since no other girl ever had that effect on me. And not to brag about anything, I had my share of relationships, so I really know when my heart is talking to me rather than my sexual urges. So, 3 years from now, she starded dating this guy, I never liked him much because she was usually insensitive to her, she deserved much better, the guy was a slob, never spent quality time with her and made things like making her watch him play videogames all afternoons. The thing is, she really loved him and I respected it. Whenever she talked to me about his behaviour I always avoided talking badly about the guy. I got to date 2 girls through those 3 years and those relationships were a disaster for me, so It helped me getting even closer to this girl (And whenever I unburdened my relationship problems with her, she used to be all "forget about that bitch!". She was always furious about my ex'es :v:). about some months ago, she started having real problems with his boyfriend. The guy simply took her for granted, he didn't care for her, and started to go out with other girls so he disappeared for 2 weeks without saying one word to her. Yet I was there once more for her, we became closer and closer, and slowly I was starting to have feelings I never had before, but I was never able to explore them with her because his boyfriend came back from the shadows again to spoil the fun, and needy as she is, she went running to him regardless of what he did. Fair enough for me, I didn't mind that, regardless of her choice, I was there as a friend to help her. Two weeks later she phones me crying, and guess what, the guy was able to spoil things again, cause basically he spent time with her as a boyfriend and then, just like that he was like "It was good and all but I don't know if I like other girl better. I'm gonna find out" and took off. By this time you can imagine how she felt, right? She suffered a lot. I remember her calling me at 3 am crying and not being able to sleep. Because she loved this guy and he was turning that love into her obsession. I remember speaking to her mother once and listening to her telling me "She really have to spend some time away from all this, specially to get that guy out of her head". So I did this. Every time I arranged something with my friends I started inviting her to come along. I actually introduced her to most of my friends and that made her very happy since she needed to meet new people, and actually all my friends loved her company and received her very well. Next thing we knew we were doing lots of things together, everybody would look at us and think we were dating (we weren't). Until someday we noticed we were developing feelings for eachother, it was beautiful but I was divided: In one hand I wanted to tell her right away how I felt about her fearing that the guy would come back again with his charming talk and that "I'm all changed person now" aura. Yet on the other hand I felt I needed to take it easy with her because she just got out of a 3 year relationship and she would probably not be ready for a new one yet. Then one day we were talking and I asked her if she ever saw me as more than a friend to which she replied "yes". And the conversation quite ended there cause her mom started calling her home and we both had to go. This made me crazy about her. I couldn't wait any longer and I was really sure I loved this girl. I didn't want to lose her so I fought for her. I organized a night out with my friends and her. We had barbecue at my place and then went to the beach at night till morning. And there was where it all started between me and her. We distanced ourselves a little from the group and started watching the stars and then I kissed her. I actually did after all this years. It felt right. I felt like I wanted to stay with her forever, I was really in love. And I was surprised by that because In all my relationships that I had, I was never able to cope with the seriousness of commitment. It was scary for me. Meeting someone's parents made me run to the hills. The whole idea of commitment made me run like hell... except from her. We started dating, and we had a commitment already. things were perfect. I was sensible to her so I agreed to take the relationship step by step not to rush things for her. We were together for a month. She gave me hope in the relationship, she wanted to go far with me. until one day we started having some stupid arguments. She started arguing with me because of things she would usually suffer from her ex, like lack of attention. This made me think if she was ready for this relationship, yet I (foolishly) didn't back out. She wanted me to change for some reason, until we had this discussion about me not replying to her text messages because I was having dinner. Stupid, isn't it? Well, suddenly she stopped talking to me for a week and one day she told me to meet her near her place. She broke up with me that day. She was cold, heartless and threw me every cliché in the book of breakups. She said she didn't believe I loved her. Accused me of not being ready for a relationship and refused to believe me. I was ready, trust me! Then she contradicted herself by saying she was not ready for a relationship. Said I only chose her because I had nobody else. I started to become sad and she was all like "you have no reason to be like that! You said you would support me! You liar!". Then she started to act like I was the devil for being disappointed about all that. I turned around and asked silently: He started talking to you again didn't he? She looked away from my eyes and said: yes.. "but I wanted to breakup long before" That was bullshit. We both knew it. My friends whom she would talked to confirmed me this. I was so saddened by her attitude that I turned around to avoid crying, I was disappointed that after so much effort and time trying to forget about the guy she fell to temptation again and chose the easy path. She then said the worst thing: "If you want to go away just go, just dont turn my back on me cause I'm not running after you!". I looked at her in the eyes, she looked away embarrassed and then I just took off. We never spoke to each other again since then. It's been a month by now. She texted me a couple of weeks later saying ", I'm sorry" and since I didn't reply she then changed her atitude to "you're a liar, you said you would be there for me!" and then "I'm so stupid for loving this guy...". I'm tired of text messages and I have nothing against her breaking up with me. The problem is of how she did it. I can't be her friend right now just to sit by and have front row seats to watch her go back to him and crash and burn again. I just can't. It hurts me and it hurts me to think she did this to me. She didn't say a word to me since then. It's been a month. I just know they are working on getting back together. I don't know what to do, or if really doing something helps. I guess I just have to wait and see. I mean, we were close friends once and there is nothing I can say or do now. Sorry if there are any grammar errors. I just wrote this in a hurry.
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;33047433]long post[/QUOTE] Girls with emotional baggage. It always turns out that way, don't take it badly. The last girl I had a relationship takes her work very seriously. By chance we were going to the same university. After her first week of work, she's stressed to hell. I'm not; we break up. Basically, a girl with emotional baggage (whether it be an ex, an obsession or otherwise problem) will likely cause relationships to end. Don't take it personally. But you're right for not maintaining contact after the breakup.
[QUOTE=SaWAH;32991250]My boyfriend and I have been together for two years in a month and a couple of days - sort of odd to think I was 19 when we met. [editline]27th October 2011[/editline] lives 8km away? hohboy you'd l[I]ove[/I] america Sounds like a really bad way of handling a long distance relationship. Not to sound harsh or anything, but get over it and learn to be happy when she's not around. My boyfriend lives 8 km away and goes to school 3 km away and we haven't even seen each other in the last couple of days - nobody should have such a bad reaction to being away from somebody. Sounds really unhealthy.[/QUOTE]
Quite odd, I'm missing my ex months and months after her and I broke up. This hasn't happened breaking up. Does this happen to other people?
[QUOTE=Man Without Hat;33047563]Girls with emotional baggage. It always turns out that way, don't take it badly. The last girl I had a relationship takes her work very seriously. By chance we were going to the same university. After her first week of work, she's stressed to hell. I'm not; we break up. Basically, a girl with emotional baggage (whether it be an ex, an obsession or otherwise problem) will likely cause relationships to end. Don't take it personally. But you're right for not maintaining contact after the breakup.[/QUOTE] My thoughts exactly. I'm just a little mad about her attitude and lack of sincerity but that's ok. She hadn't had the time to recover yet.
[QUOTE=Pepin;33050351]Quite odd, I'm missing my ex months and months after her and I broke up. This hasn't happened breaking up. Does this happen to other people?[/QUOTE] Perfectly normal. Easiest thing to do is find another girl. Pondering over your ex is normally only trouble.
[QUOTE=Oicani Gonzales;33057986]Well, shit. My current gf has quite some emotional baggage (some fucked up shit happened to her when she was a kid, she was having relationships with girls only for quite some time before we started going out...) and that post made me feel pretty sad, because it makes sense :( [editline]31st October 2011[/editline] and its being so good i wouldnt want it to end any time soon[/QUOTE] I lasted a year with a girl with some pretty fucked up shit. If she's coping with it, then your relationship will be fine. It's when it starts affecting them that it falls apart.
True.
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