but it always ends the same way and anyone with any common sense can figure it out for themself that there are things you should care about and things you should not, it doesn't need to be discussed twenty times per thread
Wait, so how many fucks am I supposed to give?
[I]π.[/I]
GF - Something needs to change in our relationship
Me - What's the problem?
GF - I don't know something needs to change.
FML WOMEN.
you need to start satisfying her needs, clearly
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;33203642]you need to start satisfying her needs, clearly[/QUOTE]
we love, we make love.
What then.
spend all your hard earned money on her.
seriously empty your bank account for her, in fact you should even get a refund on your purchase of skyrim give her that £40 as well.
Maybe it's your political views :eng101:
If she's after my money I would tell her to fuck off.
[QUOTE=Godline;33203805]spend all your hard earned money on her.
seriously empty your bank account for her, in fact you should even get a refund on your purchase of skyrim give her that £40 as well.[/QUOTE]
still shitposting, fyi
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;33205996]still shitposting, fyi[/QUOTE]
Sex, Girlfriends and Shit.......
I didnt think it was a shit post I didnt put a space between my exclamation mark.
The guy got the point dont bend over backwards for her. He doesnt want to be turned into some, ill please you for the relationship bullshit. cool though cheers for keeping tabs on my post quality !
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;33205996]still shitposting, fyi[/QUOTE]
Even I could tell it was sarcasm. A shit post would be something like
"You're a dumb bitch. It's clearly you she wants changed! She wants a new boyfriend. Now go dump her and buy Skyrim!"
obviously, but 90% of godline's posts in these threads have been sarcastic/give no real input. after getting banned, he should try giving real advice for a while before trying comedy again
my girlfriend is not pregnant. :D
*relief*
I'm worried about my girl, she seems to have been really down over the past couple of days and she was really upset last night because people can't make it to her party at the weekend. I go to see her tomorrow, but I'm still a bit worried about her.
Found the best way to cheer up the gf is to try and find something that is only meaningful coming from you and going to her. For example, with my ex, we had this joke about cheesecakes and fast-food, so one when she was feeling down I cooked dinner, and made burgers with cheesecake for dessert.
Obviously if there's something bothering her, and that thing isn't fixed, it won't suddenly make everything better, but I find girls often don't need things fixed but just to know that you're looking out for them and want to be there to listen.
A "girl" friend of mine said this line:
"You are a very nice and funny guy. If I was single now, you would be my candidate :)"
At first I thought that she's just saying I'm nice and I can easily get a woman. But I'm have some weird feeling that she's into me. We do chat a lot and she tells me her secrets, in other word she trusts me.
So I'm kinda confused here. What do you think?
If she tells you her secrets you have probably been friendzoned. Sorry man.
[QUOTE=Doozle;33213643]I'm worried about my girl, she seems to have been really down over the past couple of days and she was really upset last night because people can't make it to her party at the weekend. I go to see her tomorrow, but I'm still a bit worried about her.[/QUOTE]
I hate it when I'm unable to be there for mine and she is obviously upset.
I mentioned a while ago, don't think anyone would remember, but she had come off the pill, and a couple of days ago was her first (belated) period since. She seemed ok in the morning, but by 10am she was complaining of severe pain, and I suggested she go home. She wouldn't have any of it, but did go to the office to get painkillers (she only got them after breaking down in tears to the receptionist). But at 12 her texts start to get weird and she complains that she is really light headed. I was pretty worried now, told her to eat and drink and stay sitting down... then she stops replying. Texts back 30 minutes later, turn out she'd passed out in the middle of the canteen, and was out cold for 15 minutes. Sounded like her friends sorted her out, got her to the medical room, but when she called me later she said how scared she was and how scared she is it'll happen again.
Saw her yesterday, day after all this happened and she was better, still not great, and I did my best to comfort her... As I said she is scared what will happen next time, but absolutely hated the pill. I said to her it might get better over time, but really I don't know shit about this. Suppose this has turned into asking for advice....
So does anyone else have experience in this kind of thing, and know what happens/ is the best course of action?
[QUOTE=Mort and Charon;33221366]I hate it when I'm unable to be there for mine and she is obviously upset.
I mentioned a while ago, don't think anyone would remember, but she had come off the pill, and a couple of days ago was her first (belated) period since. She seemed ok in the morning, but by 10am she was complaining of severe pain, and I suggested she go home. She wouldn't have any of it, but did go to the office to get painkillers (she only got them after breaking down in tears to the receptionist). But at 12 her texts start to get weird and she complains that she is really light headed. I was pretty worried now, told her to eat and drink and stay sitting down... then she stops replying. Texts back 30 minutes later, turn out she'd passed out in the middle of the canteen, and was out cold for 15 minutes. Sounded like her friends sorted her out, got her to the medical room, but when she called me later she said how scared she was and how scared she is it'll happen again.
Saw her yesterday, day after all this happened and she was better, still not great, and I did my best to comfort her... As I said she is scared what will happen next time, but absolutely hated the pill. I said to her it might get better over time, but really I don't know shit about this. Suppose this has turned into asking for advice....
So does anyone else have experience in this kind of thing, and know what happens/ is the best course of action?[/QUOTE]
Coming of the pill changes your entire body so it's pretty normal to happen, especially the major cramping.
So it should get better then....
That sounds scary. But she'll probably feel better after a few days.
I phoned her earlier today and she was pretty sad, I then phoned her after work an hour and a half ago and we chatted about the weekend and she seemed to cheer up a bit. And then afterwards she text me to tell me to bring my dressing gown tomorrow, so we can have dressing gown time.
[editline]11th November 2011[/editline]
thinking about it she did say that she'd been off the pill for a couple of weeks and started taking it again so that may be why she's been up and down
[editline]11th November 2011[/editline]
I'm all packed to go now, just gonna have a shower and hit the hay. can't wait :3
One of my ex's got majorly fucked up by the pill too. Hit bipolar/cyclothymic swings when on it, normal when off.
[QUOTE=Doozle;33223621]That sounds scary. But she'll probably feel better after a few days.
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yeah she is feeling better now, still not in a great mood, but not feeling so ill. And It's more the fact she is scared it'll happen again next month.....
Will see her for a little bit today when we are at this event at a nearby football stadium, and we will be travelling back on the train together so should be able to give her a bit of a cuddle to cheer her up.
[QUOTE=Mort and Charon;33228658]yeah she is feeling better now, still not in a great mood, but not feeling so ill. And It's more the fact she is scared it'll happen again next month.....
Will see her for a little bit today when we are at this event at a nearby football stadium, and we will be travelling back on the train together so should be able to give her a bit of a cuddle to cheer her up.[/QUOTE]
Weird. When I came off the pill I didn't have anything like that.
no more vurgin
I am an absolute dumbass.
[QUOTE=orcywoo6;33193101]Long story short a girl I'm interested in likes to play with my mind...
Basically I met this girl, she admits she likes me and stuff and always tells me I'm lovely and things like that. I like her too and we are steadily progressing our relationship.
This makes me very happy but there are times where she suddenly either answers everything on the phone with a mere "mhm" or when texting or IM'ing she'll all of a sudden start being less talkative and almost seeming upset another example is when she told me that I don't need to hide anything sexual so to speak and she goes and says "well, maybe I'll do something interesting for you soon ;)" so the next night she starts being all winky and shit and so I play along and all of a sudden I'm a perv and she starts shouting. Only to contact me again 5 minutes later laughing and apologising saying I'm lovely really and that she was messing with me.
Theres other things that I forgot but its annoying and upsetting because I have been messed around many a times in the past and was starting to think I have finally met someone worthwhile, but I don't know.
She did mention something about mood swings before, but holy shit I don't know what to make of half this shit.[/QUOTE]
Just to update, I basically told her to fuck off yesterday. A slight annoyance had grown to resentment of her and it is better if I save myself from the anger. (I'm sure I have slight temper issues).
In the end she seemed ridiculously fussy and high maintenance. When I was looking back after talking to her and questioning if I was good enough, something definitely wasn't right.
Very happy. :smile:
[QUOTE=iggy650;33263219]BTW if she says I hate you then looks away, it's the opposite, no?[/QUOTE]
That depends. Are you in elementary school?
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