Do as I said, man. Don't let her frustrate you anymore. Go see her, tell her you need to talk and tell her.
"I can't keep doing this anymore you have to decide" and walk away. If she likes you, she'll come to you. Otherwise forget about her. She's not being right with you. That's one thing I personally hate about some girls and that's a tactic that works for me.
That's the only way you'll get control over the situation instead of "raining in a wet floor".
She says those things to keep you interested, to keep you exactly where she wants you. And clearly, it's working.
You may find [url=http://www.facepunch.com/threads/1133771?p=32918380&viewfull=1#post32918380]this post[/url] useful.
[editline]7th December 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;33604363]"I can't keep doing this anymore you have to decide" and walk away. If she likes you, she'll come to you.[/QUOTE]
Holy fuck let's not make it any [I]more[/I] like a cheesy sitcom.
[QUOTE=PrusseluskenV2;33604437]why would you interrupt yourself in a [U]text message[/U]?[/QUOTE]
It's just how I text :s I do it all the time. I even write uhh's in mid sentence.
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;33604363]Do as I said, man. Don't let her frustrate you anymore. Go see her, tell her you need to talk and tell her.
"I can't keep doing this anymore you have to decide" and walk away. If she likes you, she'll come to you. Otherwise forget about her. She's not being right with you. That's one thing I personally hate about some girls and that's a tactic that works for me.
That's the only way you'll get control over the situation instead of "raining in a wet floor".[/QUOTE]
How would cracking the 'friends with benefits' line go? There's another story behind this story (LOL SITCOM) but she's told me she likes hooking up, and has been mostly with jerks, she has then told me she wants to meet up and hook up with a nice guy.
No, just fucking STOP. She is tooling you and you're following her around like a lost puppy.
Move on, there are many, [I]much[/I] more respectable women out there.
[QUOTE=Wablur;33604542]
How would cracking the 'friends with benefits' line go? There's another story behind this story (LOL SITCOM) but she's told me she likes hooking up, and has been mostly with jerks, she has then told me she wants to meet up and hook up with a nice guy.[/QUOTE]
Don't do that shit; it's easily the worst thing to do. What you should do is sit down and objectively think what you like about her. What are her good points? and then, flip that question around and think about everything she does that annoys you. If you can do that, and still want to be around her, then you're on your own. More likely, you'll do what I did, and stop caring.
Well, I've had a good chat to her today, we're just staying at close friends & nothing more, and I'm kinda happy with that, like I don't want to lose her since we do have a lot in common. She's told me why she has been acting weird lately, and I kinda understand now. But yeah, everything is all good now.
Sigh, girlfriends. The worst and best pit I've ever jumped into.
My girlfriend sent me a card and some sweets from the German christmas market near her.
She sprayed the card with her perfume. I can't wait to see her :3
Will see gf for first time in almost two weeks Friday, get the house to ourselves and everything... but bam, it's that unlucky time of the month for her so we can't do shit :(
Blowjob?
Nah, one it doesn't seem fair when it's one sided like that, and two, she's been having problems with her period since she came off the pill, so will most likely feel drained and definitely not in the mood. Last month she fainted...
[QUOTE=Mort and Charon;33613798]Nah, one it doesn't seem fair when it's one sided like that, and two, she's been having problems with her period since she came off the pill, so will most likely feel drained and definitely not in the mood. Last month she fainted...[/QUOTE]
Go get your red wing or clown face badge. Perfect opportunity to do so.
we've all done it
I really wish it would become february already so my boyfriend and I can move in together. Should only be about 3 months now! I'm sick of saving up money for a new place, because I have absolutely no money I can use on things for myself lately because I need to save up as much as possible.
[QUOTE=Evilan;33614502]Go get your red wing or clown face badge. Perfect opportunity to do so.[/QUOTE]
Let me say again, she has [i] really[/i] bad pains, she fainted last month because of it, and felt ill after for two days. And she really isn't putting it on. She had the pill prescribed by a doctor for her for these problems, it's just recently she's decided to see if she can come off it since she hates how unnatural it feels. It would be really inappropriate to "get my red wings"
[QUOTE=Mort and Charon;33617272]Let me say again, she has [i] really[/i] bad pains, she fainted last month because of it, and felt ill after for two days. And she really isn't putting it on. She had the pill prescribed by a doctor for her for these problems, it's just recently she's decided to see if she can come off it since she hates how unnatural it feels. It would be really inappropriate to "get my red wings"[/QUOTE]
Don't knock it until you've asked her. If she is somehow offended by it, then back down and play it off as a joke.
It's almost like you don't want the taste of quarters in your mouth...
a friend told a girl i like her, now she knows, what i do,
fuck
[QUOTE=Oicani Gonzales;33619854]nothing
just be yourself
if she asks if its true just say yeah[/QUOTE]
its sorta weird to just be like "yeah" and then act like nothings different
you should either make a move, or don't make a move.
you cant just take the middle ground and do nothing while saying that you do like her, thats sorta pathetic
got my girlfriend a Kindle for christmas, she got me Starcraft 2 for my birthday and she is constantly going to the book store so I decided to bring it to her. The only problem is I wont be there for Christmas. I go to Basic Military Training on tuesday and ill be gone for 5 months. I hope she will still be there for me when I get back. We have been together a little over 2 years now.
she's one of the few people who still frequent book stores
and you got her a kindle
youre a terrible person
[QUOTE=Wux;33619669]a friend told a girl i like her, now she knows, what i do,
fuck[/QUOTE]
How about you don't act like this is a bad thing because it really isn't. I wish my friends would tell girls I liked them in high school... I might have had more dates that way.
[editline]7th December 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=Waffle99;33621544]got my girlfriend a Kindle for christmas, she got me Starcraft 2 for my birthday and she is constantly going to the book store so I decided to bring it to her. The only problem is I wont be there for Christmas. I go to Basic Military Training on tuesday and ill be gone for 5 months. I hope she will still be there for me when I get back. We have been together a little over 2 years now.[/QUOTE]
Bro you messed up... the Nook is so much better than any Kindle.
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;33621566]she's one of the few people who still frequent book stores
and you got her a kindle
youre a terrible person[/QUOTE]
It's a nice thought but i agree. We need to preserve the people who still go to these stores, not get them to buy books from one large corporation instead.
[QUOTE=Evilan;33622245]How about you don't act like this is a bad thing because it really isn't. I wish my friends would tell girls I liked them in high school... I might have had more dates that way.
[editline]7th December 2011[/editline]
Bro you messed up... the Nook is so much better than any Kindle.[/QUOTE]
She gets headaches from bright LCD Screens so I got her the Kindle with E-Ink which I didnt see on any of the nook tablets.
[QUOTE=Mort and Charon;33613288]Will see gf for first time in almost two weeks Friday, get the house to ourselves and everything... but bam, it's that unlucky time of the month for her so we can't do shit :([/QUOTE]
My girl is on that right now, sucks cause she hurts for like a week and then some. Though I can't say its unlucky for her its unlucky for [B]me[/B].
[QUOTE=Kymandu;33627483]My girl is on that right now, sucks cause she hurts for like a week and then some. Though I can't say its unlucky for her its unlucky for [B]me[/B].[/QUOTE]
That's kind of an idiot thing to say.. you saying that because she takes it out on people around her or because you don't get your sex? if that's the case, I think you're pretty selfish to care more about your pleasure than her being in pain.
It really hits her bad.. It came early to day, she said it tricked her or something, she woke up to a bed covered in blood, and she's been really shitty all day. She will be better tomorrow hopefully, but still definitely not up for anything. I think it calls for a evening snuggled up with a couple of films.
Not what I was trying to convey, by no means is my primary focus the pleasure but I only see her once a week or so, so when she is pain I never get to comfort her or anything so it really does suck.
My boyfriend and I just do blowjob week when I have my shit. Works for the both of us, seeing as I don't want sex, but I do like pleasuring him. So it's a win/win. Though sex is preferred, just not for those 4 days each month.
Turns out i'm bad at sex, so its no longer a priority for me =(
Edit: Virgins rate me dumb.
[QUOTE=Kymandu;33627763]Not what I was trying to convey, by no means is my primary focus the pleasure but I only see her once a week or so, so when she is pain I never get to comfort her or anything so it really does suck.[/QUOTE]
Yeah, in pretty much the same situation... As I said I won't have seen her for almost 2 weeks by tomorrow, it sucks when she's texting or calling me and she's saying how she feels so shit and is in pain and I can't do anything.
And tomorrow night is one of the rare occasions that we actually get the house to ourselves for a couple of hours, and its unfortunate that her period has happened when it has...
So while we see each other once a week/ week and a half, its only every 3/4 weeks we get anytime in the bedroom. When I go to hers I barely get chance to kiss her, since her mum is quite old fashioned (and quite a hypocrite too), and her room is out of bounds to me. I swear she tells her 14 yr old brother to keep an eye on us too.. it's pathetic...
She can't stay at mine because of her mum either, even though my parents would be in, and her mum used to stop over at her dads all the time at our age.
I know I can't do anything really, and its her house her rules etc.. but its really quite annoying that my girlfriend is 17 in 2 months, yet we are being treated as children by her mother. Not saying we are adults and shit, but I really mean treated like children. Thankfully my parents are keen to get to know her parents, and they're meeting up for a drink.. should help the whole staying at mine situation a bit.
[editline]8th December 2011[/editline]
Now her mum wants to pick her up at 8 fucking 30 tomorrow, on a bloody Friday.... when her dad will be driving past mine at around half 10 anyway!
[QUOTE=Wux;33619669]a friend told a girl i like her, now she knows, what i do,
fuck[/QUOTE]
Put it in her butt.
Bitches love that.
[editline]8th December 2011[/editline]
Anyways, getting my girlfriend a Sapphire/diamond/Sterling Silver tennis bracelet for Christmas.
I keep telling her to give me money to spend on my car but she thinks I'm joking. Women...
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