• Sex, Girlfriends and Shit II
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[QUOTE=Evilan;33753610]Probably. I probably asked for that response. My professors talked about sexism along the lines of patriarchy within Western Culture. The dictionary definition of the word sexism is "prejudice, stereotyping or discrimination," but in countries with similar Western values to the United States it's damn near impossible to discriminate against men. You can say "all men are [insert insult here], but on the broad spectrum it doesn't affect men as a whole. No one is going to discriminate against men on the basis of that insult because of how much influence men have at the institutional and social-cultural levels. Whereas if you say "all women are [insert insult here] you are making a sexist remark since women are less privileged than men in most areas of life. You're using your patriarchal status as a platform for sexism whether you realize it or not. [url]http://nymbp.org/reference/WhitePrivilege.pdf[/url][/QUOTE] You were claiming to have an "exact definition" of sexism. It wasn't, at all. It's really easy for anyone to make acts of sexism against men; "all men are stupid" "all men just follow their dicks", really open up your facebook and look at any girl that recently broke up. These are prejudice against men, and therefore, by definition, sexist. I don't know what to do with that pdf at all, it's more about race than about sexes. Also Oxford is in England, they have pretty western values i'd say, so it stands. also: [QUOTE=Evilan;33752865]Sexism actually doesn't mean what it used to. My Ethnic Studies and Psychology of Diversity professors in college corrected me so many times when I used to say you can use sexism as a derogatory term towards men.[/quote] You might want to correct your professors or something, because it is a very derogatory term, it's to sexes what racism is to races.
Futhermore, I think we're going into a bit more detail than 'privilege 101'
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[QUOTE=Hana-San;33750230]Before everyone says it's a good thing that you dumped her etc. Just remember sometimes people need some time to themselves. Oh no, she didn't talk to you for 5 days or whatever. Get over it. And she might have been wrong with how she did things. But remember, she's a female, different to you males. She sees things differently.[/QUOTE] Sure, and because she's a female, a male (that cold ape like brute) should pull down his pants and let her buttfuck him, because he's supose to be a real gentleman! Therefore a girl, for being blessed with her gender has total green light to be a total bitch regardless of men's feelings. Makes total sense. Men do have feelings. In fact it's not that common for a girl to find a man willing to stay with a girl in a serious relationship. If that happens, that woman is very lucky, because when men really like a girl, they will do anything to stay. Of course it's easy to stereotype all men with such an unfair generalization. But if we males are all so much alike as you imply, you shouldn't have tried them all, right ?
ok so when ever i try and have sex with my girlfriend i cant fit....i have tried everything! any ideas would be greatly appreciated.
[QUOTE=Landre899;33758447]ok so when ever i try and have sex with my girlfriend i cant fit....i have tried everything! any ideas would be greatly appreciated.[/QUOTE] Maybe she has vaginismus. I'm curious about what falls under "Everything"...
[QUOTE=Landre899;33758447]ok so when ever i try and have sex with my girlfriend i cant fit....i have tried everything! any ideas would be greatly appreciated.[/QUOTE] your penis is too big other symptoms may include: penis hitting toilet bowl when sitting, breaking condoms and ill-fitting pants the only solution is to shave the flesh off your penis and whittle it down to a smaller size
[QUOTE=Landre899;33758447]ok so when ever i try and have sex with my girlfriend i cant fit....i have tried everything! any ideas would be greatly appreciated.[/QUOTE] Did you try arousing her? :v:
[QUOTE=Landre899;33758447]ok so when ever i try and have sex with my girlfriend i cant fit....i have tried everything! any ideas would be greatly appreciated.[/QUOTE] Lube and/or keep at it until it works. [editline]17th December 2011[/editline] And don't assume you're too big, she might be very very tight. Vaginas vary as much as penises.
[QUOTE=Landre899;33758447]ok so when ever i try and have sex with my girlfriend i cant fit....i have tried everything! any ideas would be greatly appreciated.[/QUOTE] Use a jackhammer.
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;33765097]Use a jackhammer.[/QUOTE] [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QUtdKm6lERQ[/media]
Spent the week with my girl. Was nice, even if she was doing her work for most of it. Sat down with her and her house mates to discuss what they're doing next year as one person is moving out and they need to sign for their landlord to know who's living there next year. Apparently I was the highest on the list which is good to know her house mates like me. Anyways I signed on the forms and hopefully I'll be living with her next year. But I've got to find a job up there, hoping I can get a transfer from my work.
That sounds really fucking boring. You should have railed the shit out of her and forced her housemates to watch [highlight](User was banned for this post ("Terrible advice" - Craptasket))[/highlight]
[QUOTE=Dynex223;33780243]That sounds really fucking boring. You should have railed the shit out of her and forced her housemates to watch[/QUOTE] wow that's a really fucked up viewpoint to hold, you're not norma- [img]http://flagdog.facepunchstudios.com/img/16x11/JP.png[/img] I take that back, from my understanding of [del]tenacle rapeland[/del] Japan, that is not that abnormal
[QUOTE=Dynex223;33780243]That sounds really fucking boring. You should have railed the shit out of her and forced her housemates to watch [highlight](User was banned for this post ("Terrible advice" - Craptasket))[/highlight][/QUOTE] If it counts for anything one of her housemates changed my girlfriend's facebook status to something about spanking after "hearing". Sound really travels in that house...
Talked with a cute asian girl with a southern accent today, she was quite nice.
I dropped off the dogfood container that we borrowed from my ex. (dog got hit by a car the day after I got dumped, we don't really need it anymore) I also dropped the business card of hers I had that she gave me when we first exchanged numbers. Then I got to drive all the way home with this incredible headache... still have it too...
[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;33792481]I dropped off the dogfood container that we borrowed from my ex. (dog got hit by a car the day after I got dumped, we don't really need it anymore)[/QUOTE] oh god :(
that's fucked If one of my pets died I'd be far too blotto to drive a car
Awkward moment yesterday when me and my girlfriend were walking her dog and her ex passes infront of us.... She kind of stopped suddenly and said."shit...", and it took me a while to work out who it was... He looked like a right nonce to be honest, walking round in minus temperatures in a T shirt but wearing a beanie (hate those bloody things), and he almost tripped over the kerb because he was too busy on his phone..
[QUOTE=Mort and Charon;33794040]Awkward moment yesterday when me and my girlfriend were walking her dog and her ex passes infront of us.... She kind of stopped suddenly and said."shit...", and it took me a while to work out who it was... He looked like a right nonce to be honest, walking round in minus temperatures in a T shirt but wearing a beanie (hate those bloody things), and he almost tripped over the kerb because he was too busy on his phone..[/QUOTE] If I saw my ex, I would stop and freeze and start shaking. He scares me.
[QUOTE=Hana-San;33794211]If I saw my ex, I would stop and freeze and start shaking. He scares me.[/QUOTE] My girlfriend said it was scary.. although at least he waved.
He wears a beanie and almost fell over? What a fucking loser.
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;33794679]He wears a beanie and almost fell over? What a fucking loser.[/QUOTE] She's always saying I'm totally different from him, and the way he looks kinda confirms that; open necked t-shirt, jeans round his arse, beanie, and gawping at his phone walking down the street. I despise that look to be honest, and am polar opposite.
I was out last night and I somehow managed to get this quite attractive 25 yr old girl's number (don't ask how, I literally can't remember, and btw i'm 18 ) Fairplay we'd both had a bit to drink, but I still really want to get back to her, but I don't know exactly what to say... I would try thinking of something myself but being hungover my mind isn't in the best state. So yeah, what do?
Call and ask if she wants to go out somewhere with you for the day?
I was only talking to her for a minute, maybe a bit longer, before she gave me her number (she had to go somewhere) so I reckon that would asking a little too much at moment. I mean I didn't even get her surname or find out where she's from haha. I'm going out again on Friday night though, so I could ask if she wants to meet up with me then sometime Although, i'm not sure if i'm even looking for a relationship... oh I don't know
So what if you're not looking for a relationship? No harm in making a new friend. It's not like you absolutely need to call her but it could be interesting if you do.
3 days ago I came to the conclusion that IUDs are probably one of the best inventions (spot the pun)
[QUOTE=Turnips5;33802240]3 days ago I [b]came[/b] to the conclusion that IUDs are probably one of the best inventions (spot the pun)[/QUOTE]
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