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I've had a lot of success pursuing but I just dont feel like putting forth effort especially at this point with how nasty the long term results can be
I have multiple accents, and I have no idea why. I normally just sound like your usual American from the northwest, but whenever I get angry, I end up sound like a weird conglomeration of an Irishman, a German, and a southerner all at once.
Seriously, the fuck.
[QUOTE=Nautsabes;51915598]if youre too nervous to get numbers/social media you are definitely not ready for a relationship[/QUOTE]
I don't think so. When I go to a store I've been taught you don't ask someone for those sorts of things cause where are they to go if they don't feel comfortable? They're stuck in that situation until you leave.
In these stores these are the only interactions I get, is my point. So I get nervous since I definitely don't want to put them on the spot.
[QUOTE=Nautsabes;51915610]so go elsewhere other than a store[/QUOTE]
Where? Not a lot goes on in my town. When growing up I at least had small things I could go to which I met multiple people, but now it feels like nothing exists for that.
I don't know if i have an accent or not
[QUOTE=VenomousBeetle;51915614][media]http://vocaroo.com/i/s1HiQi26l1Fy[/media]
I'm sorry nook[/QUOTE]
Oh lord did I hear that correctly?
[QUOTE=Nookyava;51915619]Oh lord did I hear that correctly?[/QUOTE]
[img]http://i.imgur.com/PZ7TmCd.png[/img]
[QUOTE=VenomousBeetle;51915641][img]http://i.imgur.com/PZ7TmCd.png[/img][/QUOTE]
O shit I diiiiiiiiiiid.
Saaame.
found some audio from a skype call while I was playing Crusader Kings 2
[media]http://vocaroo.com/i/s1M9qBQgNhrR[/media]
behold my barely aussie accent
beautiful mang
I only sound australian when I'm pissed of or drunk that about it tbh
Boi he thicc :dogwow:
I wanna respond to your vocaroo so badly, but I CAN'T CAUSE I'M AT WOORK EUUUUGH
[QUOTE=Nookyava;51915594]Honestly it's hard to find and meet people in my situation it feels like. I go to online school, I work third shift weekends, and I don't really go out. If I do, I engage with people, but am too nervous to get numbers/social media (also cause I'm never sure if I'm reading people right).
I'm ready for a relationship, but hell I don't think one's comin this way for awhile.[/QUOTE]
There are other reasons for getting someone's number or social media besides relationships. You know that, right?
[QUOTE=elevate;51915706]There are other reasons for getting someone's number or social media besides relationships. You know that, right?[/QUOTE]
Not sure what you're implying by this. I do know this, and have understood it for awhile now. My main issue is more or less meeting these people that I can befriend, and thus possibly have a relationship with.
Again, people may not want you to put them on a spot where they can't get away, aka behind a register, or at work - regardless of your reasoning.
Honestly I wish I could attempt to make more friends in College but at most all I do when it comes to chatting is chat with a girl who I sit next to for a minute or so :pudge:
cant sleep in pain
[QUOTE=Nookyava;51915721]Not sure what you're implying by this. I do know this, and have understood it for awhile now. My main issue is more or less meeting these people that I can befriend, and thus possibly have a relationship with.
Again, people may not want you to put them on a spot where they can't get away, aka behind a register, or at work - regardless of your reasoning.[/QUOTE]
You are absolutely right that you shouldn't ask out women at their job.
However, what I'm saying is that if you're asking for someone's number, you shouldn't assume they think you're a creep who's just looking to fuck or date.
You can keep in contact with somebody through text and social media and see where things go from there.
Also, try online dating. The odds are against you since it's a woman's game, but it's hardly impossible for a man to find someone there either. It just takes more time and effort is all.
[QUOTE=elevate;51915729]You are absolutely right that you shouldn't ask out women at their job.
However, what I'm saying is that if you're asking for someone's number, you shouldn't assume they think you're a creep who's just looking to fuck or date.
You can keep in contact with somebody through text and social media and see where things go from there.
Also, try online dating. The odds are against you since it's a woman's game, but it's hardly impossible for a man to find someone there either. It just takes more time and effort is all.[/QUOTE]
It definitely feels like in today's time any attention is seen as "they're into me", but that's just based on my previous experience. Besides, that's the first thing that comes to my mind, unless given another reason for it.
Online dating I've tried OkCupid, but I'm not so sure how well it's actually working. Found a lot of inactive accounts/people who ignore.
tbh OkCupid even as a "dating app" is much better for hook ups than actually finding people for proper relationships in my experience, the whole engineering of the profiles and stuff stilts it all and you just end up having a few bonezone sessions and then either she ghosts you or you realise you're not getting what you actually want so you leave
this is my experience tho
[editline]5th March 2017[/editline]
but I mean my current gf ran a aesthetic tumblr I followed and when she converted it more to a day to day regular one she messaged me on there after following me back when I was posting some sad shit... week later she popped up in my Instagram DM's we had a few conversations and a month or two later we ended up being a thing
so I've learned not to focus on finding love, just find people to interact with and eventually you'll interact with someone on your wavelength
[QUOTE=ThatCrazyGmanV2;51915758]tbh OkCupid even as a "dating app" is much better for hook ups than actually finding people for proper relationships in my experience, the whole engineering of the profiles and stuff stilts it all and you just end up having a few bonezone sessions and then either she ghosts you or you realise you're not getting what you actually want so you leave
this is my experience tho[/QUOTE]
Funnily enough, sites like OkCupid and POF taught me that I didn't really care about dating after all.
The experience was invaluable though.
[QUOTE=ThatCrazyGmanV2;51915758]so I've learned not to focus on finding love, just find people to interact with and eventually you'll interact with someone on your wavelength[/QUOTE]
This.
I'm having trouble trying to finish my revision even though I need to add one more sentence and that's it :scream:. Anyways I'll finish it tomorrow. I need my sleep. Goodnight.
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