I despise my biological dad, but as for my dad, yeah, I love the shit out of him.
My father is a drunken idiot who hasn't paid child support in about a year. Despite that, I don't HATE the man. I don't really love him either, but I don't hate him.
I love my daddy
My daddy can beat all your daddies
He has guns and bows
And has the hands of a gorilla that could snap someone's neck like a twig
Best daddy eber
My dad used to make disgusting farts and blame them on my Mother.
It's funny, my friend and I had a conversation recently as to which parent we liked best.
Obviously, I wanted to be impartial and say I have no favorite, but that's not the case. It was actually a really hard decision. My dad works the usual business hours (plus all the meetings and trips), so he was absent for large chunks of the day. I'd wake up for school to see him hopping out the door, and I'd only see him after school a bit before dinner.
With my mom, she was always there. If I needed to go to the doctor, go get a haircut, want to buy a new toy or game, she was always there. From the moment I woke up to the moment I got back home, mom was always waiting. It's natural to simply like my mom more, but as I kept talking and discussing this with my friend, I kept making a realization.
My mom was always my friend. When I needed a should to cry on or vent stress, she was always there. My dad was always there for me if I needed him, but since he worked all day, it was always easier to relate to my mom. However, I was always my dad that was the "best" parent. Whenever a hard decision needed to be made or if I needed a wake-up call with something, he was the firm one. I don't mean firm as in strict, but he would never let his love for me to get in the way of making tough decisions. My mom would always go easy on us.
Perhaps it is why as a kid growing up, mom was the favorite parent. Now that I'm older though, I've come to realize that my dad was the strong one. It really hit me hard when I left for college. I had to take two flights leaving home. Coincidentally my dad was going on a business trip, and took the first flight with me. We spent some time at the airport, but my second flight left earlier than his. I had never seen my dad really cry before, but at the departure gate, my dad bawled his eyes out. It was really the first time I had seen such emotion from him. That was the moment I knew that my dad loved me more than I had ever imagined. Sure I knew he loved me, but I compared motherly love to the firmer nature of my father. It opened my eyes to how lucky I was to have a father that loved me more than anything else in the world.
That event made me bond stronger with my father than ever before. I'm more patient with his little frustrations, and try to give him more attention that I did before. Moving out has been harder on him than it has been for my mom.
I love my dad.
not really, he just tries to start arguments and is a massive hypocrite. he is probably the main reason why my sister cut most of her contact with us. he treats me like im beneath him and i have to say yes sir and no sir to him if i address him even though im 19.
I know before I ask this that it's random and stupid..but does anyones fathers here fart? My Dad farts a lot.
What the hell is wrong with you?
Do you have some sort of fetish for mom/dad farts?
Did your parents fart while feeding you as a child?
My mom farts a lot. Big, long ones, delivered unapologetically. Hasty "Excuse me", continue on with life.
I think that's one of the reasons Dad doesn't love her.
Even though he's an irresponsible dick who has done the bare minimum to raise me, yes, slightly.
My Dad passed away when I was 10 years old. I have some mixed feelings for him but I do love him I'm sure. I was told that he died of some rare kind or Meningitis or something, but I feel as though he committed Suicide and my Mum has been hiding it away from me all these years so it wouldn't hurt my feelings with him choosing to leave us, or/and make me resent her for leaving him. He was an alcoholic and his best friend had just passed away and I saw tears from his eyes for the first time because of it when I stayed over one weekend, but he told me his eyes were just watering, because he always taught me that men weren't supposed to cry.
I kind of wish I could have had him there for me all these years because I've never felt like I've had anyone to open up to and understand me and give me good advise or even have the patience to listen to me about things, but in a way I feel some bad feelings towards him because I've just recently found out that he used to hit my Mum and bad stuff like that, but I also love him because unlike anyone else I've ever had in my life, he would never do anything to harm me or my little Sister and would do his very best to always make us happy.
I've been really confused because I don't know who to think of as the enemy, my Mum or my Dad. I resent my Mum because she's been very emotionally neglectful to me, but I also have some bad feelings towards my Dad because he couldn't restrain himself from drinking for even one night when me and my Sister would come over for the Friday night and Saturday and would basically just be acting really strange and tell us strange things that can't really be considered acceptable to say to a couple of kids at about the ages of 8 and 9.
I feel resentful in ways towards the both of my parents now because of the emotional problems I have, but I guess I just have to let go, be the best, moral person I can be, and be a great parent to my children if I ever have any.
I may not get to see him much, but I do enjoy his company.
So yes
My Dad died 4 months ago. His work practically killed him.
When I saw him a loved him.
My dad is literally one of the smartest people I have ever met, if he were to be put into a position of power he would make a great change for good, he knows how a regular person thinks but can address literally any problem or argument and bring more then enough information and facts to the table.
I love my dad, me and him always have intricate conversations about any wonders of the universe. We usually talk about space because of how much of a fan he is of Star Trek the original series and the idea of commanding a ship.
[QUOTE=DentalDoctor;36954766]My dad is literally one of the smartest people I have ever met, if he were to be put into a position of power he would make a great change for good, he knows how a regular person thinks but can address literally any problem or argument and bring more then enough information and facts to the table.
I love my dad, me and him always have intricate conversations about any wonders of the universe. We usually talk about space because of how much of a fan he is of Star Trek the original series and the idea of commanding a ship.[/QUOTE]
Your Dad sounds like the exact Dad I would have loved to have had.
[QUOTE=Strikelol;36944091]This is probably the most touchiest question that can be asked to me. I love my dad to death but its hard to express and show it when all i get is a cold shoulder..[/QUOTE]
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So your relationship is like this?
He's rarely there for me and I don't see him often.
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He caught my eye when I was at the stairs to the stage for my diploma. He was tearing up, but he never said anything. He just smiled and nodded his head to me.
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Had me real, real close to watery eyes there.
What an interesting story.
One time my Dad farted and it smelled.
My dad's fucking awesome. He wears sunglasses sometimes.
Yes, very much, but he's emotionally distant from me and my brothers, kinda sucks, and he's trying to make it close, it's sad. It's kind off strange because most dads connect with their kids when they're younger, now it feels sorta awkward.
I do love him, although we stopped talking 4 years ago
Not particularly much. A lot less than most of my family members and even less than some of my best friends. More than the idiot deserves though considering how he's never actually been a father.
yeah, he's ok but he has a really bad temper
A definite yes. I love my dad for everything he has done for me. He has always supported me and my decisions despite some of the ideological and political differences we have. I have so much respect for him. He's one of the smartest men I know.
Tons a differences in politics interests etc. but we still do get along fine, and we do fun stuff alot.
I love my dad so much, he does all sorts of awesome things and is around quite a lot. Even though we could afford it, he is doing like a third of the work on our house remodel, and I help him clean up after every day. Not to mention that he's a really nice guy and (in my opinion) a kick-ass actor.
ehhh my dad's okay but he can be very immature and not understand social situations at all.
Yes. Couldn't ask for a better dad.
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