Closest thing to "love" that I've felt is when I decided that I should be more than friends with this girl, and ended up getting off with her at a party.
But she still didn't feel the same way.
I'm over it now though.
[QUOTE=lolerot95;40607162]This is gonna sound really fucking douchey but, well... yeah... A friend of mine sendt me some nudes of this girl who was one year older than us and went to our school. I thought she looked hot and felt bad for her that these photos were on the internett.
I never really noticed her before this and she started catching me looking at her too. She added me on facebook and we started talking. And BAM! 2 months later were a couple. And a bonus, she was hella good in bed too.
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WTF![/QUOTE]
i hope you deleted those nudes
because y'know, you got the real thing
I'm not gonna say how i did it because i don't know and now i realized that she is nothing more than a big lying attention whore.
[QUOTE=Jocke;40556481]What's this thing people call love[/QUOTE]
My love, do not hurt me, do not hurt me, anymore.
Closest I got was back in 2010. Around christmas my sister was really close friends to this girl. She came to our house most of the time and while I was making goofy counter strike maps in source hammer or playing something else she always came to my room asking me what I was doing and how some games works. Me being nice explained. I found it weird that she was asking me but nontheless I was being a gentleman.
I am really good with massages. Because I played football and had a lot of injuries back in the day I picked up a lot when it comes to massaging. Every saturday I am playing poker with a friend and a close uncle. Everytime that girl was around she asked me when I was taking a break if I could massage her. Even in this scenario I was like "Okay" and just did my part. Without showing some interest. Since I am really shy when it comes to girls I become even more shy when friends/family are around.
So back to christmas 2010. My sister got invited to her house and asked me too. We fondue'd that afternoon watching MTV. My sister eventually sneaked out leaving us two behind. While asking me some quick personal questions and me bravily answering them in a normal fashion while again showing no interest. Yes, i'm really good atbeing dull too.
Quickly forward to april 2011. My sister and her closest friend got in a "mix of words." Resulting in them not speaking with each other till october 2012. I have not seen that girl in ages.
And one night my sister told the whole story that that girl liked me but I didn't show any interest at all.
Telling me if it wasn't obvious enough. And till today I regret any missed oppertunity. Seriously I fucked up big-time. :(
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For the doubters out there. If you really like someone at the moment go for it!
[b]inb4 cheesy line:[/b] Don't make the same mistakes I did. If you miss out your oppertunity it could hunt you for the rest of your life.
Because my mistakes are almost becoming a obsession, and believe me that's the last thing you want.
Well, I got that off my chest..
We first met when we were twelve. We dated from age 13 to 15, broke up, and then got back together a year and five months ago at age twenty.
[QUOTE=Steffmeister;40611296]
For the doubters out there. If you really like someone at the moment go for it!
[b]inb4 cheesy line:[/b] Don't make the same mistakes I did. If you miss out your oppertunity it could hunt you for the rest of your life.
Because my mistakes are almost becoming a obsession, and believe me that's the last thing you want.
Well, I got that off my chest..[/QUOTE]
I had the same thing happened to me but I didn't like that girl in that way.
I don't really believe in romantic love, but if I like someone for a long time then I do grow to love them.
but tbh after a gram of meph or a bottle of sambucca and I'll love anyone.
Saying that I am currently a little infatuated with this girl I met on the internet, we talk all day every day, and she lives near. We're going to a gig together soon but I'm not sure if it'll lead anywhere.
nope
[QUOTE=NoDachi;40612028]I don't really believe in romantic love, but if I like someone for a long time then I do grow to love them.
but tbh after a gram of meph or a bottle of sambucca and I'll love anyone.
Saying that I am currently a little infatuated with this girl I met on the internet, we talk all day every day, and she lives near. We're going to a gig together soon but I'm not sure if it'll lead anywhere.[/QUOTE]
that depressed me a little
She was a really ecstatic, energetic girl. I had just met her and had only known her for a few days at the time and she was already jumping to hug me in the hallway. I took the hint and it quickly escalated from that to kissing each other on the neck and making out. We got very close over the course of a few months and I asked her out to prom. It was there that she looked me in the eyes and told me she loved me, and where I told her I loved her back. It was such a heartwarming feeling for me.
And then her fucking dad went and got a job in a different country, and she moved away, and we kissed goodbye for the last time. I haven't been with anyone since.
My friend and I were going to watch some new movie, Unstoppable. He was going to invite his friend, this asian girl I had never met before, but I thought she was cute so for some reason I sent her a message over facebook the night before saying, "You better show up or I'll kick your dog." That day I fell deeply, madly in love with her and there was no turning back. We started seeing each other, awkwardly, and it was terrible, but I couldn't resist. We were eventually ending each others sentences, I had never felt something so powerful before, I had never thought such a feeling could happen, and young and foolish as was, and I still am, I thought maybe there was more out there if this seemed so easy and natural, so I left her in search of bigger, better things. Met another girl, had a thing for a while, saw a few other girls, realized that nothing really compared to what I had with the first. So here I am, three years after meeting her, and I'm trying my hardest to win her back. She was hilarious, and beautiful, she used to post her for a bit, and a gif of her doing some hand movement gets posted occasionally apparently, and its all just subtle reminders that I had something worth more than all the diamonds in the world and I pissed it away for nothing.
[QUOTE=Kirbyfactor;40569339]I'm not sure if I should post it here, but a lady I know talked about her daughter and thought we'd fit together, I looked her up on facebook and it was love on first sight for me.
Unforunatly she doesn't know I exist.[/QUOTE]
quick update, I may become her dancepartner, should be fun.
Long story:
I used to be a cadet and there was this girl who was also a cadet at another unit. She was the type that didn't really want or try to be super popular but everyone wanted to be friends with her so basically getting to know her was a challenge. About a year after first meeting her we ended up on a leadership course or something together and managed to hit off as great friends. The problem was though I had actually intended to ask her out but I pussied out and we ended up as friends instead
From there she literally became the greatest friend I ever had. I was probably one of maybe 3 or 4 people she actually saw as friends as she was a very secretive person and had massive trust issues, I never managed to find out why but I think it had something to do with her dad who I only met once and was an asshole.
Even though we lived miles from each other we would meet up 2 or 3 times a week. Eventually I manned up and asked her out. I dunno what happened but I think she thought it was a passing thing, that I'd be over in a month or two and said she didn't want to risk our friendship etc.
Now, as she had said no, nothing happened. As we were cadets, and relatively high ranking cadets so we both had lots of subordinates and lots of people we interacted with and knew, literally everyone I met seemed to be thinking we were dating. I literally had a little new cadet who was 13 or something ask me if we were dating. Our friendship was pretty much dating but not dating. Basically everything we did in public made us look like we were dating but we never actually did anything. (This is beginning to look like rambling but I don't have a better way to explain it).
So over this time she didn't date anyone or ever say she was interested in someone. She was 18 and never done anything with anyone, who went it came to dating was completely shy and, for lack of a better word, frigid (she hated anyone describing her like that but it was true).
Fast forward maybe a year later and I decided to ask her out again. This time I admitted I'd been liking her a lot more than a friend for a rather long time, it wasn't a passing thing, etc. So she agreed to a date. It went great, and we continued like this for two month or so. We also decided to keep it a secret as being cadets, if it was known we were dating we would end up being placed as far away as possible from eachother on camps and such.
Eventually though I realised nothing was happening. We were still really just friends even though we were telling ourselves we were dating. So we had a talk and agreed something (I'm still not sure how it ended) and it was over, we were just friends again. The big problem though was I hadn't been exactly truthful in how much I liked her. I hadn't just "liked" her when I asked her out, I had pretty much spent the previous year desperately loving my best friends with nothing in return. Fearing that loving her without her reciprocating it would kill our friendship and doom any chance of taking it further I had kept it a secret all that time.
After it was over we would occasionally, have discussion about it and eventually she suggested that there was lots of sexual tension between us and something should be done. So went spent an week shooting ideas back and forth how to deal with it. Somehow we came to the conclusion hooking up for a night or something was a good idea to resolve it. I hindsight it was a terrible idea to even consider, it wasn't going to solve anything. It wasn't going to solve my feelings for her at all, probably making them worse, and seeing how frigid she was it would probably wreck our friendship. Eventually we decided getting drunk together and seeing what would happen was the best idea. So we got everything organised and she backed out. We spent the next few days not talking with me freaking out I had pushed her and I'd wrecked everything or something. Eventually we sorta went back to normal
A few months later and we had an argument over the whole dating thing and hookup thing. Turns out I wasn't the only one with secrets. I admitted to loving her and she pretty much admitted the whole dating thing was her trying to prove that dating was a terrible idea and that it would never work, which she had kept up for way to long. I was pretty fucking angry with her over it, as she had pretty much been leading me on just so she could prove it was a terrible idea.
I did my best to forgive her for it but I couldn't. It had pretty much destroyed any and all trust we had together. I hated myself to even trying to sate in the first place. I hated her for leading me on like that.
Over the next few months we had a few fights and got further apart and it pretty much ended with a rather dirty argument with a few nasty things said. Tried starting it up again a few months later but it lasted only a few days before degrading into pretty much the same argument that ended our friendship initially.
So, a story of me loosing the best friendship I've ever had, lots of pain, lots of trust issues, me not wanting to date anyone anymore etc.
I still hate her for all of it, and I probably still love her too. Not sure if it's just friend love or more, but I don't think I'll ever find out now.
tl;dr - Loved my best friend, try to have a relationship, she pretty much faked everything to prove me wrong, friendship destroyed.
I apologise for how messy it is, I normally write much better than this but it's not a pleasant subject
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After building up the courage to ask this one lady out, she rejected me. sadface[/QUOTE]
teehee I remember encouraging you to do it
unless it's another time, then I'm wrong
[editline]12th May 2013[/editline]
anyway I suppose I could tell my experience with this whole love thing
there was this girl at my class, didn't fancy her too much at first but we shared a common interest, that is, an utter hatred for maths. All the people who were terrible at it would sorta naturally gravitate towards the back of the classroom, so I got to know her a little better, and, unlike other people, she'd actually seem to enjoy my company, despite me being pretty unbearable at times (I make the worst jokes). She'd start walking standing really close to me out in the bus stop and stuff, and would give me this unbearable look unlike anything I've ever seen before. This was the first time I felt it, I couldn't believe it for a long time, really thought I'd be the kind of guy that just lives most of his life in solitude, and yet this person looks me in the eyes and actually smiles with just the cutest smile. Since then on I've always been trying to catch her alone, without any friends around her or me and perhaps even ask her if she's actually into me or was it just me overreacting terribly, but I never did manage to find her like that, she always seemed to have someone of our mutual friends around her and I didn't want to talk to her on skype or facebook or anything. This kind of thing went on for over a year, where both of us would be showing each other special attention, but nobody made any move, till one day I figured that I could try using FB to ask her the big questions and make the big statements, so I tossed out any rationality out the window and wrote this long ass message to her
good news was, she didn't outright reject me (said that she did like me as a person but not as much as I liked her) and the following day we managed to spend a little time together
bad news was that a few of my friends also showed up at the place and pretty much killed the mood, so we just ended up both being incredibly neutral for the rest of it, and it doesn't help that we're not classmates anymore and we really can't find the time to ever meet and do more than a warm smile and wave when we meet in a hallway, and since we're both really really shy (I'd say she's even shyer than me) the whole relationship is really stagnant atm and we both know that we're more than likely to get separated completely after a year (studies, local universities are really low grade, nobody wants to stay) so it's not worth getting invested
overall I'm happy it happened at all but depressed it's only as much as it is right now and most likely not going to get better
I actually have a question for other FP'ers.
I get these irritating questions from family members or same gendered friends. They ask me those stupid phrases like "Woah, you should get a girlfriend." or "I don't understand why you don't have a girlfriend yet." or the most common ones "when are you getting a nice girl" and "what kind of type of girl do you like?"
Me personally I find these kind of lines rude and I hear this kind of crap more than a hundred times per year.
My question to the people on this thread is. Are you getting a lot of these questions and how do you deal with them?
I wish.
prize rebel
[editline]13th May 2013[/editline]
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[QUOTE=Steffmeister;40621873]I actually have a question for other FP'ers.
I get these irritating questions from family members or same gendered friends. They ask me those stupid phrases like "Woah, you should get a girlfriend." or "I don't understand why you don't have a girlfriend yet." or the most common ones "when are you getting a nice girl" and "what kind of type of girl do you like?"
Me personally I find these kind of lines rude and I hear this kind of crap more than a hundred times per year.
My question to the people on this thread is. Are you getting a lot of these questions and how do you deal with them?[/QUOTE]
I get shit like that from my granparents, it really is fucking annoying
met a girl on the internet. currently in a relationship with said girl. she says she's in love with me but i have no idea how i feel.
Every attempt finding a girl failed hard.
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Does falling in love and getting into a relationship in an RPG game count?
[QUOTE=download;40614349]
So, a story of me [B]loosing[/B] the best friendship I've ever had, lots of pain, lots of trust issues, me not wanting to date anyone anymore etc.
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Sorry for your loose.
[editline]13th May 2013[/editline]
[QUOTE=download;40623131]I get shit like that from my granparents, it really is fucking annoying[/QUOTE]
While going for work on weekend my Mom was curious to know if I was rather going on a date.
[QUOTE=SABS001;40551176]All infatuations are based on physical attraction. People who says otherwise are a bunch of dirty fucking liars.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE]Demisexuality is the lack of sexual attraction outside of strong emotional connection. It is distinct from, but related to, asexuality, the complete lack of sexual attraction.
When describing demisexuality as an orientation to sexuals, sexuals often mistake it as an admirable choice rather than an innate orientation. Demisexuals are not choosing to abstain; they simply lack sexual attraction until a close relationship is formed.
In general, demisexuals are not sexually attracted to anyone of any gender; however, when a demisexual is emotionally connected to someone else (whether the feelings are romantic love or deep friendship), the demisexual experiences sexual attraction and desire, but only towards the specific partner or partners.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE]I actually have a question for other FP'ers.
I get these irritating questions from family members or same gendered friends. They ask me those stupid phrases like "Woah, you should get a girlfriend." or "I don't understand why you don't have a girlfriend yet." or the most common ones "when are you getting a nice girl" and "what kind of type of girl do you like?"
Me personally I find these kind of lines rude and I hear this kind of crap more than a hundred times per year.
My question to the people on this thread is. Are you getting a lot of these questions and how do you deal with them?
[/QUOTE]
I hear this often. I just tell them to stop.
[QUOTE=Steffmeister;40621873]I actually have a question for other FP'ers.
I get these irritating questions from family members or same gendered friends. They ask me those stupid phrases like "Woah, you should get a girlfriend." or "I don't understand why you don't have a girlfriend yet." or the most common ones "when are you getting a nice girl" and "what kind of type of girl do you like?"
Me personally I find these kind of lines rude and I hear this kind of crap more than a hundred times per year.
My question to the people on this thread is. Are you getting a lot of these questions and how do you deal with them?[/QUOTE]
I find questions about what happened to exes worse. Or if I'm still talking to them and why not when I say no.
Anywho, the only one I can think of that I actually loved was my last girlfriend. She was a friend of a friend and I had met her every now and then. And at a party when she got absolutely wasted she confessed she liked me and we went out.
We were together for about a year before she left me for another last summer.
I didn't.
I kissed it, And since then we have been together.. God I love my foot.
3 years ago, Girl in my year at High School who I had really liked for a while and who I sat next to in Art Class begins talking to me via MSN, I start notice she's talking to me more frequently like "wow, does she actually like me?" til the point where my heart pretty much races any time I see her sign on, we're up at like 3am webcamming each other, talking about everything.
So it goes on and on for about two weeks, til I eventually ask her if she wants to hang out, she's totally up for it and tells me I can come hang out with her and a bunch of her friends from the same year because she's camping out.
I got my shit together, at this point I was stepping out my anti-social 14 year old ways so something like this for me, was a massive event in life. I walk up to the field where I'd meet her and she takes me into this tent where there's a bunch of her friends are all sitting, we're all talking about different then I notice that under the covers where me and her were sitting, I feel her pinky ever so slightly touch my hand so I reach mines over as well, til we're holding hands under the covers, no one else can see this and we're both pretty much silent throughout the chatter from there on, I let the biggest fucking sigh of relief out. I couldn't believe it.
It's really hot, it's the beginning of summer so I decided I'd just walk home again, this is around 10pm and it's sunset. She tells me she'll walk home with me and we make it til about half way home, til I pretty much go for it and kiss her, lasts for what seemed an amazing eternity with a little bit of nose rubbing afterward. She walks back to her tent as I walk home blaring Animal Collective - Summertime Clothes in one of the happiest dazes I've ever been in, in my life.
3 years on, I'm still very much in love with this girl, she has made my life so beautiful. She's my best friend and my soulmate.
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