• Turning 21 in 2 months and I have no friends
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[QUOTE=Fosty99;23674515]Drink alone and post on Facepunch.[/QUOTE] No that's a sure combo for a ban. I can't risk it. If FP gives me full immunity on my birthday it would be neat!
Well at least now you can go out to a bar and meet people, right? [editline]05:04AM[/editline] Yo, OP, where in MI do you live exactly? I live in MI. [QUOTE=collegegrad;22789872]About 30 mins north of Detroit.[/QUOTE] I'll actually be downstate August 9th-11th, so I could actually stop by, or just drop off a present.
[QUOTE=fenwick;23699932]Well at least now you can go out to a bar and meet people, right? [editline]05:04AM[/editline] Yo, OP, where in MI do you live exactly? I live in MI. I'll actually be downstate August 9th-11th, so I could actually stop by, or just drop off a present.[/QUOTE] :neckbeard: Present?!! What will you get me?! A steam gift would be great!
I'm slightly younger than the OP but I have a similar problem. The fact is, all my pastimes are solo activities. (This isn't a masturbation joke) And I'm a cunt but I feel that's a [b]secondary[/b] issue
[QUOTE=collegegrad;23738341]steam gift would be great![/QUOTE] lol, so you want a gift that will help to further your isolation and loneliness? also, reading this thread makes me feel less shitty about myself, knowing there are other people as pathetic as myself! :haw:
I've lost track of time. When's the OP's birthday?! :ohdear:
[QUOTE=ZekeTwo;23738813](This isn't a masturbation joke)[/QUOTE] Because you're not joking.
[QUOTE=Legolas;23739144]I've lost track of time. When's the OP's birthday?! :ohdear:[/QUOTE] In like 11 days!! So far I have nothing planned with anyone.
did anyone else find it ironic that his name's collegegrad when all of his friends went to college also they went to college they didn't 'push themselves away from you'
Sometimes it's just for the best to try make decisions that makes no sense at all.
This thread makes me sad
You're 21! Man up, get out there, and meet new people.
guess I'm sorta like the op but however I have only have like 4 good friends that I actually hang about with from time to time. [editline]05:56PM[/editline] never really been a popular guy haha
The thing you need to ask yourself OP is "Do I need close friends?" I'm 19, I like socialising a bit, not like going down the pub or to clubs or any of that shit, I like talking to individuals about interesting topics. During my first year of university I didn't go out for a social gathering once, and throughout the year I realised that in fact I prefer it that way. I have quite a few friends but none of them are really close, and it doesn't really bother me. I prefer to keep to myself and if I want to meet someone I don't need to go out in the evenings to do that. So unless you [I]need[/I] people, don't feel down about not having any friends. Also remember that being part of a group can only get you so far. All of the most successful people are independant individuals.
[QUOTE=neap tide;23755713]did anyone else find it ironic that his name's collegegrad when all of his friends went to college also they went to college they didn't 'push themselves away from you'[/QUOTE] Yeah they did. I mean they're back in town every summer and during winter breaks. I call them but they never reply or blow me off Let me give you an example. My one friend had 5 concerts that he was going to, and I asked him if I could come and to buy a ticket for me when he bought his. He said "of course man". I remind him a few days earlier and of the day when he was buying them. I asked him if I should give him his money before he bought it or after, and he said after (this was the day before). I call him the day after he bought the tickets, and he doesn't pick up. Two days later, nothing. Texted him. Nothing. Then the day before the concert came and tried calling him like 4 times that day, and texted him and he never replied. The concert was 2 weeks ago and I never got to go and I haven't heard back from him. He's alive, not dead. His facebook page is updated almost daily. Shit like that is what I mean by being pushed away, where I used to be good friends with them in high school, but now they're not even qualified as friends.
My birthday is New Years Eve, everyone is damn busy and everywhere is damn expensive. I remember some of my birthdays for being really shit, having nothing to do and feeling depressed. You have my sympathy OP, I have things to do for my birthday now but I've been in your shoes before.
big boy on campus
[QUOTE=VagueWisdom;22778905]At least your birthday is on a regular day, unlike mine which is on New Years day. Almost all my friends are either busy with family stuff, or some of them are too drunk to even come over. I wished my birthday was just on a regular day. D:[/QUOTE] Travel back in time to get New Years cancelled so you can have a normal life.
Cheers to living alone, bros! alone... :smith: [editline]03:00AM[/editline] Sometimes I sit on the balcony and watch the cars drive by and wonder where they're going. Maybe to a party to have some fun... :smith: [editline]03:04AM[/editline] One time I saw someone at the store and she sorta looked like this girl I liked in highschool. I bet she's married and happy now. With lots of children :smith:
People suck :smith:
I turned 21 yesterday and I had a epic time with my friends. :smile::coffee:
Collegegrad, I'm planning on making you a cake and delivering it to you on your birthday.
I hate when friends eventually leave you.
[QUOTE=fenwick;23773336]Collegegrad, I'm planning on making you a cake and delivering it to you on your birthday.[/QUOTE] I prefer pie.
[QUOTE=collegegrad;23779792]I prefer pie.[/QUOTE] This is why you don't have friends.
[QUOTE=CaptainQuirk;23781022]This is why you don't have friends.[/QUOTE] Pie ALWAYS beats cake. Fact. Anyway, 5 days until my 21st. It came down to Facebooking "my 21st is next week, I have no plans at all.. who wants to take me out for a drink?" It has been 3 hours and no replies from any of the 250 so called friends :smith:
[QUOTE=collegegrad;23859257]Pie ALWAYS beats cake. Fact. Anyway, 5 days until my 21st. It came down to Facebooking "my 21st is next week, I have no plans at all.. who wants to take me out for a drink?" It has been 3 hours and no replies from any of the 250 so called friends :smith:[/QUOTE] This is one of the most depressing thing I've heard man :\ Rule 1 of being social: Surround yourself with [i]good[/i] friends
Well at least Facepunch is here for you :)
I even made a twitter account a few hours ago to get people on there to do something with me. Nothing still. :smith:
:smith: You are depressing me :smith:
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