I live 40 minutes outside of Detroit (in Plymouth) and I would totally go get drunk with you if I wern't only 17.
[QUOTE=SystemSodomy;23507592]Since most of us aren't in Michigan and can't come to your party though we want to, you should give us a birthday list of the things you want and we'll see what we can do.
Or at least, I will. The 21st is a very special time and since I'm in Washington I'm afraid I can't help you party hardy. I'd totally be your designated driver.[/QUOTE]
:3:
I would but then I'd feel like I'm using you guys. I'm going to build a PC very soon and gifting me any part of it would be cool. But that's not a demand or anything.
[QUOTE=collegegrad;22778820]So I live in the US, and turning 21 is a big deal, since we can finally drink.
It's not that I don't have friends, because I do, but they're all non-close friends.
I used to have close friends back in high school, but they all went away for college, and they're now living at least 2 hrs away, if not out of state. They really pushed themselves away from me, especially since they all have girlfriends right now.
I have some work friends, but they're all 28-34 in age.
I would ask my work friends to go out with me on my birthday and take me to a bar or whatever, but it would seem like such a loser thing. Like, I'm 21, and I have no friends that would take care of me on my birthday. They have asked me when my birthday was, and if my friends were ready to take me out, just as a casual conversation, and I guess I lied, or maybe I had high hopes for these so-called friends before I attempted to ask them.
I have some friends that live nearby, but they are going away for 2 weeks out of the country, that make my birthday right in the middle of this vacation. My one other friend, is actually moving to a whole other state for school next week, so he's out of the question.
I tried calling my friends that live an hour away by their university, to see if they wanted to do anything. They wouldn't pick up their phones. I left them messages, but they haven't called back or anything in a week. I texted them 2 days ago, and nothing. I Facebooked them before that, and nothing so far. I just feel very unwanted.
I have one younger brother, and no other siblings. So I can't really do anything with family. Besides, my brother and my dad both hate me. They have hated me for the past 3 years just because we can't get along together. But that's a whole other story that I do not wish to get into right now.
Right now, I'm working in a chemistry lab over the summer, doing research. The only other option that I have are going out with a few foreign students from China that I can't communicate with at all, where "Engrish" level is further ahead from where they're at with the language.
Besides all of those people, there may be some people I would ask and expect them to go out with me, but they're all 19 or 20 years old.
I was thinking about just getting my family together, but my mom works 2 jobs, and her schedule is set, so I can't really even have dinner or lunch with her on my birthday. I began talking about my brother and dad earlier, but they don't speak to me, and I have tried with them, but they're just the type of people that I can't get along with and can't make them get along with me, and I have made my peace with that.
Has anyone been in this sort of a situation? What do I do?
Right now, I'm just going to lie to whomever asks me at work for what I have done on my birthday and just make up some lies and say that some friends took me out and I was shit-faced, got laid, etc.
It's still 2 months from now, but usually people plan this shit months ahead.[/QUOTE]
Gratz. Buy/make every type of drink there is. Martini, Scotch, Beer, Tequila, every major kind. See how you like them. Whichever one you like best, drink a shitload of it and tell us if you're a mean drunk, sad drunk, stupid drunk, or quadriplegic drunk (Can't stand up). In fact, record it so we can see how drunk you get. Drunk people act fucking crazy, and its fun to watch.
Also, about your family and friends situation, I have three words: SUCKS. FOR. YOU.
Edit: Another three words: LIFES. A. BITCH.
At least now you can go to the bar and get some friends.
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I live in Michigan.
[QUOTE=fenwick;23508333]At least now you can go to the bar and get some friends.
[editline]03:35AM[/editline]
I live in Michigan.[/QUOTE]
I think like 60% of this thread people live in Michigan.
Maybe there's not much going on here in MI that people turn to Facepunch lol.
WTF
When a facepuncher has a birthday or grows a melon, everybody is all friendly...
But when it comes to peoples ideas, fuck you need your own bunker.
maybe your ideas are terrible
I got TF2, i can play with you if your still doing that
Maybe your friends didn't anwser because they're planning your birthday party :woop:
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Oh wow..The thread is 4 weeks old already :sigh:
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[QUOTE=lolnubs;23508899]WTF
When a facepuncher has a birthday or grows a melon, everybody is all friendly...
But when it comes to peoples ideas, fuck you need your own bunker.[/QUOTE]
Kinda funny isn't it?
I hope you have/had a good birthday anyway.
ONline party :D
[QUOTE=MasterZior V.2;23514443]ONline party :D[/QUOTE]
I'm going to make some invitations!!!!!!
Someone should set up a TF2 birthday server, just for you.
I would join.
[QUOTE=collegegrad;23517520]I'm going to make some invitations!!!!!![/QUOTE]
I'd love to join, even though you don't know me
[QUOTE=collegegrad;23517520]I'm going to make some invitations!!!!!![/QUOTE]
yaya, am i invited?
[QUOTE=MasterZior V.2;23518159]yaya, am i invited?[/QUOTE]
YEAH!!!
I'm bad at making invitations actually. Can someone make them using photoshop or something for me?
Ha I'm turning 19 and will be able to drink. CANADA REPREZENT!
[QUOTE=collegegrad;23518183]YEAH!!!
I'm bad at making invitations actually. Can someone make them using photoshop or something for me?[/QUOTE]
Pm me the invite.... Dont wanna Put out my Steam name on fp ´[sp]acually i dont know how to link it XD[/sp]
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[QUOTE=Blarg190;23518214]Ha I'm turning 19 and will be able to drink. CANADA REPREZENT![/QUOTE]
Its 18 in sweden :smug:
I remember someone mentioning a rent-a-friend site...
I hope you have a nice birthday. :) If anything, you know that most of the people in this thread alone wish you a good time.
You should be one of those people that works so much they don't even notice that it's their birthday then when someone does notice its your birthday be like "Oh it is?" like play it off cool.
Hopefully it will be a hot chick that sees your manly ways of forgetting your birthday and offer to have sex with you.
Damn... You are the same age as my brother but the different is that he have friends. I feel sad about your situation collegegrad. Happy birthday in advance dude.
Where i live, you're considered an adult at 18 years old.
I really hate that.
wowo if you are 20 and like that dont expect to ge someone in life
._. Go to a bar and meet some friends on your birthday.
Happy birthday in advance bro. :]
It's really not a big deal.
[QUOTE=Ordinorino;23519559]wowo if you are 20 and like that dont expect to ge someone in life[/QUOTE]
Thanks for the support man. Really looking forward to the rest of my life now.
Smoke weed, that's way better then drinking!
And happy Birthday.
[QUOTE=Niko Bellic;23534228]Smoke weed, that's way better then drinking!
And happy Birthday.[/QUOTE]
Nah.. I tried it a while ago, and I figured it wasn't for me.
Wish you lived in the UK, i'd come.
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