I only just realised my childhood girlfriend was molested and I could have stopped it
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Couldn't you use those phone number search services?
[QUOTE=Xion12;28314277]I'm sincerely sorry. I usually don't feel bad for people online but this has truly made me sad. I feel for you and I want you to know that many people here agree that it's not your fault. You were just a child, you didn't even know what was happening until now. If you ever see Sophie again tell her you are sorry for not understanding.
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And tell her we acknowledge her existence and we know her pain is real.[/QUOTE]
I don't really think it's a good idea to make her think about it again.
Just out of curiosity, is her name really Sophie or is it just something you make up so you give her real name away?
Not trying to be rude or anything but what you wrote seems really personal.
You should find her and if you can't find her find her dad, and through him you can hopefully find her.
But it could also be that she have cut him off for life.
Anyway, best of luck to you OP :love:
What were there names OP
full names please
also what state were / are you in?
also any other thing that could be used to search e.x hair color eyes - and things like scars on faces? moles?
[QUOTE=ineedateam1;28319687]What were there names OP
full names please
also what state were / are you in?
also any other thing that could be used to search e.x hair color eyes - and things like scars on faces? moles?[/QUOTE]
Wow
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You're a creeper.
I'm sorry for you, I always had a friend in middle school and also way before that, found out she was raped and murdered about a while ago, pretty tough to deal with after feeling bad about not having any contact with her anymore.
I'd hug you. That's messed up dude, but its not your fault. You didn't knew at the time. You were too young to understand things like that.
You should try really hard to find her dude. Hell, how about if anyone here with that kind of skill helped out?
was her dad named Uncle Pete
Wasn't there some website that found out a LOT of info about a person if they're in the US just by putting in an Email address or name?
She came to your window and said her father was doing the deed, right? If so, massive trust, suggest finding.
If you're in the US, that site, which I forgot the name of, should work, if not, damnit.
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[QUOTE=EcksDee;28320124]Wasn't there some website that found out a LOT of info about a person if they're in the US just by putting in an Email address or name?
She came to your window and said her father was doing the deed, right? If so, massive trust, suggest finding.
If you're in the US, that site, which I forgot the name of, should work, if not, damnit.[/QUOTE]
[url]www.spokeo.com[/url]
[QUOTE=FuhFuhFresh;28311322]Sophie was being molested by her Dad for a long period of time, and when she went to my window, she was trying to explain this to me. She didn't have enough time before tony knocked on the door looking for her. If I had told my parents that I had seen her just a moment ago, they would have easily found her in the backyard. Instead, it ended up with Tony finding Sophie and threatening Physical violence on her if she should ever mention it again. This went on for 4 years until somebody found out, Tony went to Jail and Sophie moved far, far away to where I would lose all contact with her.[/QUOTE]
This paragraph ruined a great OP
It's okay bro, the same thing happened to me. I could have stopped those kids from being raped.
But I kept the door locked :smug:
I'm sorry but did you happen to go to Sunningdale French immersion school?
You were way too young to understand so you couldn't have stopped it.
Funny story
Even if this story isn't true, it's depressing to me.
Hide ya kids hide ya wife
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I'm sorry that happened. You most likely couldn't do much about it. You were very young and very underdeveloped. Who you were as a kid is not who you are now, so there is no reason why you should feel regret for an inability to act.
[QUOTE=dass;28320493][url]www.spokeo.com[/url][/QUOTE]
:q:
just kidding
That's really horrible. You don't have any contact with her now? You really aught to show some kind of help if you can, but I don't know how possible that is. You're really courageous for sharing though, OP. As others have said, you were a child, and you couldn't possibly have known what was up at that age, so I doubt you'd have been able to do much anyhow.
Holy shit, this is insane. You cant beat yourself over this, it wasnt your fault...
That sounds like Forrest Gump.
I hope she got a loving family worth her in the end.
Kind of reminded me of that part in the Butterfly effect :(
You couldn't have known and I'm sure now she must be with decent people. Don't blame your self you were a child.
Don't blame yourself, you were too young to realize what was going on. The world is a small place, you will see her again.
who cares idiot go post your life stories elsewhere
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just kidding i love you
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not really though
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okay yes really
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not really
Maybe we can help you try to find her. News articles, names, anything. I'd love to try to find her for you.
wow dude, that really sucks. i cant imagine something like that happening to a girl for 4 years,
but really, dont pressure yourself about it, you really wouldnt have known, i know i wouldnt.
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