• Im scared of my girlfriend smoking weed
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[QUOTE=Ninja Gnome;44421086]i've never heard of a school putting kids on drug tests except maybe for athletics but even then[/QUOTE] Well our countries are on oppossite sides of the world
[QUOTE=Rolond Returns;44433302]agreed, when i'm high i literally seize up when trying to speak to the opposite sex or the same, depending on how gay i'm feeling[/QUOTE] I'm glad I don't have that issue, I smoke almost exclusively around girls
I just feel comfortable talking to anyone no matter what substance im on
I felt the same way bro, except my ex was smoking meth LMAO. She might seem different when she's high, but remember shes the same person just really tired and hungry haha. I understand the gut feeling, it feels terrible. The only reason my ex became my ex was because she was addicted and didn't want to change. That almost definitely won't happen with weed, so this time don't trust your gut. [editline]2nd April 2014[/editline] [QUOTE=Rolond Returns;44433302]agreed, when i'm high i literally seize up when trying to speak to the opposite sex or the same, depending on how gay i'm feeling[/QUOTE] Weed makes me feel gay(er)
People don't start overusing weed overnight, but I'd keep watch of it, as I know people that have been doing it everyday for years and got too carried awat. The Offspring made a few songs about it [video=youtube;ak8sOWiRO3Y]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ak8sOWiRO3Y[/video] and Mota [url]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s_CCGXJ1LPs[/url] Trying it at school sounds like a terrible idea, especially for a first time when tolerance and paranoia induced in completely unknown. Plus all the risks associated with doing it in school. Weed wouldn't make her kiss some guy or anything, doesn't fuck with your mind in the same way that alcohol does. Also, I wouldn't try that young, I'm glad I didn't start until 17 as the mind should have time to develop.
[QUOTE=RazorsharpLT;44431851]Umm, you can't get addicted to weed. Period.[/QUOTE] it's not physically addictive but its definitely mentally addictive just like everything else
yea and try tell someone who has smoked almost every day for 10+ years that there are no side effects to stopping.
[QUOTE=RazorsharpLT;44431851]Umm, you can't get addicted to weed. Period. If she's so depressed that she gets addicted to weed, then she's most likely to get addicted to ANY substance at this point (heck, even alcohol and cigarettes are more addictive than weed)[/QUOTE] If you use pretty much any drug to pick you up when your feeling shit then it can be [B]very[/B] psychologically addictive. I had this problem about a year after I started but then I managed to moderate myself.
[QUOTE=WutangBeez;44438228]yea and try tell someone who has smoked almost every day for 10+ years that there are no side effects to stopping.[/QUOTE] I'll agree with this, but even then it's nothing compared to say 10 years of stim or opiate abuse, It's like one shitty day and then, so long as you eat well your first day, you should be back to functioning standards bby day 2.
[QUOTE=LieutenantLeo;44417122]Yeah she just says she wont do it now, but i dont want to stop her if she really wants to[/QUOTE] Good because no matter what she wants, she'll most likely do it anyway, even if it's behind your back. There's no use in trying to tell her not to. If you can't trust her not to fuck other guys if she gets high then that's completely her being an untrustworthy waste of your time, it has nothing to do with weed
[QUOTE=zach1193;44439596]I'll agree with this, but even then it's nothing compared to say 10 years of stim or opiate abuse, It's like one shitty day and then, so long as you eat well your first day, you should be back to functioning standards bby day 2.[/QUOTE] Yea no my dad stopped smoking weed after that long of smoking weed and he had bad effects for more than a month afterwards
[QUOTE=WutangBeez;44440143]Yea no my dad stopped smoking weed after that long of smoking weed and he had bad effects for more than a month afterwards[/QUOTE] Really? Hmmm well I mean everyone's different, but I guess 10 years is different than 3 years too, I just didn't think it'd make that much a difference. "The more you know"
[QUOTE=Kylel999;44439957]her being an untrustworthy waste of your time, it has nothing to do with weed[/QUOTE] a little harsh don't you think i'd rather not blame his girlfriend for being "untrustworthy" OR the op for committing to a relationship but not wanting to trust his gf simply because i don't know the situation. thing is op, you probably SHOULD trust her with it, it really isn't a big deal (though yeah it's probably better if she doesn't do it at school)
[QUOTE=WutangBeez;44440143]Yea no my dad stopped smoking weed after that long of smoking weed and he had bad effects for more than a month afterwards[/QUOTE] i think it actually takes 3 months before all the thc is out of your system
I smoked nightly for about 4 years, but had to stop buying it when I left my job. I didn't have any issues or side effects from not having anything to smoke. Only that I went back to my old habits of rarely eating, and I can't stop my insomnia from kicking my ass.
I remember every time when I smoked mary j with my ex to get some sky high booty but she just ate like a pig and fell asleep every time
If she smokes and leaves you it's because you were a lame boyfriend all along.
[QUOTE=Lebowski;44463607]If she smokes and leaves you it's because you were a lame boyfriend all along.[/QUOTE] Or that she was a lame girlfriend.
weed is best of all other things
I hope this thread isn't too dead already. I've had extremely similar experiences and concerns. It's happened with two girls for me. The first one: She expressed no prior interest to smoke weed to me, I just met her up once and she had smoked with some guy and spent the night hugging/sitting with me and shaking (she enjoyed it, it was just her first time). Little did she know, that same night I learned my dad had been arrested before and had issues with drug abuse. I was extremely unhappy with that but I got over it eventually, but I always worried that she'd do something dumb when I wasn't there and she never told me when she'd go to smoke. Mind you, at the time I was against marijuana. We ended up breaking up because she advanced to wanting to do cocaine (which she did do after we broke up, 9 months btw). Because of her I eventually got interested and did my research, tried it, and now I am pro-marijuana and think it's a wonderful thing if used properly. The second girl (my most recent girlfriend). She told me she was interested but I asked that she wait until I buy it myself because I didn't like the idea of her smoking the for the first time with this random guy I barley knew. She waited awhile, then when I got it she said she didn't want to and within the next few days she smoked with some guy I didn't know at all, they drove around and shit, went to the mall, and she fell all over the place at the mall because she was "tripping", just that kind of dumb shit. The problem I had was that she never told me she was going to, and just went out and smoked with some random guy. Like that REALLY upset me even though I smoke myself (not a lot, just everyone and awhile). She did it again afterward, again, without telling me shit. After both of those, I experienced pretty crazy anxiety and just straight up worry about her saftey and loyalty that made me really uncomfortable because she never told me shit till afterward. We, again, broke up, but for other reasons. It's extremely reasonable to feel anxious and worry about it, and I def. would express your worry in an honest and calm manner because I know exactly what you're talking about..hopefully she'll understand.
Just drink moonshine and stay away from the weed needles! She's gonna get reefer madness! Really though, as another guy said in this thread, you should try it with her. But wait untill you are an adult with anything habitlike. It can severely impede your development if you smoke it as a kid.
[QUOTE=MrBunneh;44417252]fuck that, when I used to smoke at school I didn't enjoy it because I was much to paranoid thinking about if people knew I was high or could smell the pot x_x[/QUOTE] I smoked every day before school my senior year and every fourth hour because I had that blocked out for co-op after I went home to take my daily in between school shit. the only thing I don't like about being high at school is when one of the classes end and there's the giant rush in the hallways for the five minutes in between before the next class it's like people overload [editline]wat[/editline] every girl I know that has taken up the weeds has turned into those ones that go onto twitter or instgrums and takes picture of their huf socks or these nasty ass shirts that are like weed leaves for the entire shirt pattern don't let your girlfriend turn into a generic whitegirl that smokes weed every once in great while so she can brag about it on twitter and don't let her turn into a cannabis whore because with every hit there is a 4% chance that she will develop an uncontrollable lust for the nearest black male
Last night I smoked with my soon to be girlfriend, what happened? We got super stoned, cuddled, and watched American Dad all night, weed doesn't make a girl just want to fuck anything with a dick. sounds like somebody needs to chill the fuck out.
Be careful about letting your girlfriend smoke weed [img]http://31.media.tumblr.com/6cee92120a16e6550c68bcce8240c209/tumblr_n3qpa9MRSJ1rohmo5o1_500.jpg[/img]
[QUOTE=Amic;44420740]Being at age of 14 smoking weed isn't the best idea. Maybe trying it, just because you want to experience things, then yes. But a habit? Hell no.[/QUOTE] i wish i never did smoke at 14. here i am 2 years later still smoking weed. i definitely dont smoke a lot but i just smoked for 2 years. but i want to smoke
[QUOTE=Mr_lye;44497374]Last night I smoked with my soon to be girlfriend, what happened? We got super stoned, cuddled, and watched American Dad all night, weed doesn't make a girl just want to fuck anything with a dick. sounds like somebody needs to chill the fuck out.[/QUOTE] you could have done all those things after some threesome with maryjane and your girl
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I thought people only went through "xd weed stoner" phases in high school because kiddys wanted to be cool
I think op needs to lighten up, ya you had a bad experience but thats no reason to keep anyone else from it. It's just pot it's not a big deal.
First time I smoked pot was in 7th grade, I was like 12. I'm fine :v: It's really not a big deal, like everyone has said, I doubt she'll become some crazed stoner chick.
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