• What Are You Thinking? v. The Many Adventures of Napman and Outfan
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[QUOTE=Pigbear;49504377]also i'm shy as fuck[/QUOTE] Hey, no rush, you've got plenty of time to overcome that and talk to a girl Or seclude yourself from the world and avoid other humans as much as possible
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Now I feel stupid for remembering that I can sketch thumbnails in MS Paint before working on the real deal. :vs:
[QUOTE=Pigbear;49504396]i've known her since i was 12[/QUOTE] Then ask her. If she says no, then it was never going to happen. Chances are she'll still be your friend.
i disagree, most girlfriends/boyfriends i have were just meeting someone and asking them out, none of them i knew too well. i just walked up and started a conversation with people, and if i hit it off, i just ask them if they wanna go out on a date i cant make friends though thats too hard (disagree with zombies post on last page w,e thread too fast)
Making friends is easier than forming an intimate relationship with someone.
[QUOTE=Zombie_2371;49504404]Then ask her. If she says no, then it was never going to happen. Chances are she'll still be your friend.[/QUOTE] its not that easy for me i've thought about it and been second away from saying it but then i got anxiety and couldn't do it
[QUOTE=KillRay;49504406]i disagree, most girlfriends/boyfriends i have were just meeting someone and asking them out, none of them i knew too well. i just walked up and started a conversation with people, and if i hit it off, i just ask them if they wanna go out on a date i cant make friends though thats too hard[/QUOTE] Theres also that too, if you're able to judge a person in a conversation that quickly and if you're able to put yourself out there that much.
[QUOTE=gaminji;49504395]That's exactly what I love. I don't know why, it just feels like I've actually done something. I like being actually physically tired. that's just a fear that you have to overcome. anyone can do it. I got over my shyness by becoming the clown and the person who makes everyone laugh at his own expense.[/QUOTE] Well then you can tell me if it's normal that it has that sharp pain? I get it doing nothing else but core stuff, pretty much only situps/crunches
There was this really good friend if mine who was charming and I really liked her, but one day I found out that a friend if mine also liked her, then another friend, and then another friend, and then another At the end I realized that almost all the dudes in our class liked her so I thought it was quite scary We as still really good friends now, it's been like six years, but I don't have any thoughts of being more than her friend though
[QUOTE=gaminji;49504411]Making friends is easier than forming an intimate relationship with someone.[/QUOTE] i just mean that ive had an easier time having the confidence to do that than making friends in general its like "hey wanna go on a date sometime" has worked but idk what you say to make friends :vs:
[QUOTE=Pigbear;49504413]its not that easy for me i've thought about it and been second away from saying it but then i got anxiety and couldn't do it[/QUOTE] Ive been where you are now. I know, its so scary and its like your standing at the edge of a cliff and you only want to shrink back to the ground for safety. I used to have anxiety. I feel for you. Give me a minute to think of how I overcame that fear.
[QUOTE=Ehmmett;49504423][url]http://www.twitch.tv/ehmmett[/url] callin all final fantasy 7 nerds help me through this game[/QUOTE] can't help you i'm going to bed rip, though i may be able to pop in for a few minutes
[QUOTE=Nookyava;49504418]Well then you can tell me if it's normal that it has that sharp pain? I get it doing nothing else but core stuff, pretty much only situps/crunches[/QUOTE] I don't get sharp pains when I do core stuff, but anything cardio makes me feel like I'm being shivved. [QUOTE=KillRay;49504420]i just mean that ive had an easier time having the confidence to do that than making friends in general its like "hey wanna go on a date sometime" has worked but idk what you say to make friends :vs:[/QUOTE] make them laugh [editline]a[/editline] in my experience, nothing makes friends faster than laughter
being the butt of 99.9% of jokes really helps!
[QUOTE=gaminji;49504428] make them laugh [editline]a[/editline] in my experience, nothing makes friends faster than laughter[/QUOTE] i feel like im good once a conversation gets going, and yeah humor and all that just bad at starting conversations with people ya know
[QUOTE=Ehmmett;49504423][url]http://www.twitch.tv/ehmmett[/url] callin all[B] final fantasy 7[/B] nerds help me through this game[/QUOTE] :excited::excited::excited::excited::excited:
[QUOTE=PILLS HERE!;49504433]being the butt of 99.9% of jokes really helps![/QUOTE] Been there too. Its a bad place.
[QUOTE=gaminji;49504428]I don't get sharp pains when I do core stuff, but anything cardio makes me feel like I'm being shivved. make them laugh [editline]a[/editline] in my experience, nothing makes friends faster than laughter[/QUOTE] Cardio makes my breathing sharp and hurts my lungs if I don't take deep paced breaths, but I can at least control that. It's really weird, it's so weird though, that's why I hate doing core stuff. I need to stop being lazy though.
[QUOTE=KillRay;49504435]i feel like im good once a conversation gets going, and yeah humor and all that just bad at starting conversations with people ya know[/QUOTE] always start small talk. then just literally bring up anything. if they want to talk to you then they will, if not they'll quite obviously disengage.
[QUOTE=gaminji;49504378]if you were gay that'd be okay i mean, cause hey i'd like you aaaanyway[/QUOTE] [IMG]http://i.imgur.com/FfC1VQz.png[/IMG]
[QUOTE=gaminji;49504441]always start small talk. then just literally bring up anything. if they want to talk to you then they will, if not they'll quite obviously disengage.[/QUOTE] I made most of my good friends at college with one simple question. "Hey, do you like space?" I have the loving nickname of spaceguy now.
[QUOTE=MoopsiePook;49504448][IMG]http://i.imgur.com/FfC1VQz.png[/IMG][/QUOTE] disgust is one way that people demonstrate denial :cat:
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you cant jedi mind trick me into confessing im gay!!
[QUOTE=gaminji;49504451]disgust is one way that people demonstrate denial :cat:[/QUOTE] That sentence confuzzled me
wait hold on a sec
[QUOTE=MoopsiePook;49504455]you cant jedi mind trick me into confessing im gay!![/QUOTE] Endless R A I N B O W S
these arent the doirds ur looking 4
Now how do you approach someone you've never talked to before. Keep in mind this person never talks to anyone except people she already knows
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