My problem with my gender; aka how I hate being a guy
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[QUOTE=pie_is_good;23895939]I have a feeling that this thread really didn't help the OP out too much.[/QUOTE]
1/4 of Facepunch supported him. 1/4 told him he was an idiot. 1/4 told him being female was shit (:colbert:) and the rest rated optimistic.
Facepunch isn't really ever a good place to get help for anything other than masturbation habits.
[QUOTE=pie_is_good;23895939]I have a feeling that this thread really didn't help the OP out too much.[/QUOTE]
Avatar fits, but I agree, Facepunch isn't really the right place for this sort of thing.
Meh, the way OP puts it, he'd rather be a girl or dead. Be happy your alive, life, it's worth living. Why do so many people live? Sure, there is more downs than up a shit sandwich, also, consider your self lucky, you could be in a poor country with no water to drink, every day there is suffering. They have nothing to look forward in life, nothing, you do. Don't waste that for those who are desperate. Also, don't commit suicide because life hasn't been the way you want it, you'd not just kill yourself, but harm your family beyond repair. Selfish as fuck.
[QUOTE=Completely.Anon;23887714]I'll start by saying that I've made a new account to post this, using a fake email address and a proxy. [/QUOTE]
Don't you automatically get banned if you use a proxy to access Facepunch?
I suspect there are many other people in a similar position to you, why not search online for something like a forum or community that bases itself on this?
I knew FP was a bit odd, one way or another, we all orginally came here for Gmod but I didn't know the amount of weird motherfuckers here. Am I the only one here who has friends, isn't crossdressing, contemplating suicide or wanting to be a girl?
OP is bengley.
[QUOTE=Jasun;23897343]OP is bengley.[/QUOTE]
No he isn't.
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i wish i was azusa i want to be a girl then life will be perfect because girls in anime are just perfect renditions of the lifestyle i want to live
i can see it happening[/QUOTE]
I swear to god I knew a girl that looked somewhat similar to Azusa a few years back.
Must be the twintails
[QUOTE=B1N4RY!;23897375]No he isn't.
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OP is B1N4RY.
[QUOTE=cheesedelux;23897399]OP is B1N4RY.[/QUOTE]
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No really,
[QUOTE=B1N4RY!;23889581]He isn't. I know who the real OP is; He messaged me on MSN regarding on his thoughts.
I'm not going to tell anyone who it is, as I am a strong supporter of individual privacy and internet anonymity.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=collegegrad;23887944]Whenever I watch a lesbo porn I wish that I was a girl just so I could be a lesbian.[/QUOTE]
Chandler: "I wish I was a lesbian..."
[img]http://images2.fanpop.com/images/photos/2900000/Chandler-Bing-chandler-bing-2906114-464-352.jpg[/img]
Chandler: "omg did I say that outloud?!"
I'm the same, actually. Except I'm not attracted to guys or anything v:v:v.
But yeah, fuck that sex change bollocks. The only way it can turn out even half good is if you start the process before puberty, otherwise you just end up some gross abomintion (I watched a documentary on Channel 4 about it.)
[url]http://www.channel4.com/programmes/bodyshock/episode-guide/series-18/episode-1[/url]
Check that out if you're in the UK, it's pretty interesting.
[QUOTE=Dashiel;23897551]I'm the same, actually. Except I'm not attracted to guys or anything v:v:v.
But yeah, fuck that sex change bollocks. The only way it can turn out even half good is if you start the process before puberty, otherwise you just end up some gross abomintion (I watched a documentary on Channel 4 about it.)
[url]http://www.channel4.com/programmes/bodyshock/episode-guide/series-18/episode-1[/url]
Check that out if you're in the UK, it's pretty interesting.[/QUOTE]
surprisingly i'm not attracted to guys either, i prefer other transgirls, like [url=http://forums.d2k5.com/index.php?action=media;sa=media;in=499;preview]her[/url] (my gf)
and yeah pretty much anyone who i've heard who has had their dick cut off when transgendered has regret it, it's not worth it for some messed up looking vagina, that's why i'm keeping mine
Everyone's got troubles at some point in their lives. We all wish we could be something we're not, and whilst some things are [I]relatively[/I] easy to achieve, like becoming a writer or whatnot, some things are beyond even the most advanced extents of our current technology, like your desire to be a girl...
It's such a curse to have been born in such an age, since things are pretty advanced, but not advanced to the extent that all technology is indistinguishable from magic. Not to mention there's still so much short-sightedness in the world, so many people brought up on fear and hatred, tragically infected with a disdain for the unfamiliar by their relatives and peers, a far cry from a potential future where people have little fear of those not of their own kin, creed, class, or even kind.
But other than that, you gotta find the things that you really enjoy, and work towards finding a liking towards the things you don't enjoy as much. Try to find your true place in the universe, before a different place, a wrong place, finds you instead, and places you within it. Once you're in the wrong place, it's hard to get out, and it's even harder to want to get out, since it means leaving the cozy albiet unorthodox position you're in, and going back to square one, where you're just a lump of clay waiting to be shaped. Don't wait until you're on the midpoint of the journey of life, lest you find yourself in a dark forest, where the true path was lost... It's even harder at that point.
[QUOTE=Azalar;23887780]If I could be a girl for five minutes I would clone my female self, then have sex with it after the five minutes were up and I became a male again.[/QUOTE]
I would spend the time basking in the bliss of driving!
"WHAT ARE ALL THESE SWITCHES AND KNOBS!? Where is my phone!? I must call my girlfriends, while texting cuties, and drive 10 miles an hour under the speed limit, with my hazards on, cutting off people at every chance i get!"
To the OP:
Talk to a counselor.
They are probably better suited to handling identity crisis issues like yours.
I don't know that Facepunch is the place to come with "I think i want to be a girl" thoughts.
This place is just a bit "insensitive".
Everyone has thoughts of being a girl and what it would be like i sure know i have but theres always a sex change....
do not get a sexchange becous in 70% of all cases this will make you look weird. i say this to protect you.
if you feel suicidal then you must think about all the good times in life and what makes you happy.
for some reason guys make them selfs feel worse than they should be. this happens if your not the "alfa male". you feel like this because you are not in the populair group or you just feel insecure about how other people think about you.
this happens with girls to.
buy a wig
and shave otherwise it looks weird
[QUOTE=Completely.Anon;23887714]I'll start by saying that I've made a new account to post this, using a fake email address and a proxy.
I am a well-known member here but I wish to remain completely anonymous.
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Garry?
This thread is pretty much turning into an investigation to figure out who OP is.
He could be you, he could be me, he could even be-!
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OP has my support.
[QUOTE=Completely.Anon;23887714] I hate using my dick it feels wrong (lol).
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That blows.
[QUOTE=Completely.Anon;23887714]full body transplant should be possible by 2020[/QUOTE]
That's the spirit! :science:
full body transplant
what the hell
You'll get over it in a couple years
[QUOTE=Mister Sandman;23894581]Oh Noe
Oh Noe
I has dick
Get over it, it's just a god damn vagina, some tits, and less periods (none, in fact). Take your dick in your hand, jerk off, and realize how much being a male rocks.[/QUOTE]
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Don't commit suicide :(
Well I'd say you should wait it out for a few months, maybe a year, and try and get some help or something but then if you still feel like shit, kill yourself. I'm not being mean or harsh here or anything, you've just got to think of it practically.
I assume, for a lot of you, the point of life is to enjoy and have fun, but if your life is on an eternal -1 on the scale from -1 to +1, then there really isn't any point.
I'd also like to take this moment to tell you that you should meet Jesus. He'll be able to help you.
Nooo Dubeard, don't do it!
See a Doctor/Psychologist.
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