My problem with my gender; aka how I hate being a guy
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[QUOTE=mugofdoom;23942087]You can't just say "Oh hey I'm female, look at me I'm in a dress and I act like I'm on my period once a month to sound credible" and magically it's true, the world doesn't work by wishful thinking. You can trick people into thinking you're female by changing your appearance, but in the end all that is is a carefully constructed lie and can create a whole array of dilemmas for the person and any potential partners. It's not really becoming a different gender, it's just tricking others into believing you are what you aren't, and I fail to see how in this case simply believing it makes it true while in other cases it doesn't. I liken it to believing the guy on the street corner ringing the bell really is Santa Clause if he sounds convincing enough, and while this may not be the best analogy, it's more or less exactly what's going on in a sex change or when someone cross dresses.
And while I feel for the op, there's nothing we can really do for him but give him the attention that he apparently so desperately craves. Op, if you know what's best for you you'll go see a therapist. There's no other option that will help you more than to go see a qualified, professional therapist. Facepunch will not offer moral support, we're just a bunch of teenagers online with varying political and moral views and that's not what you want when your faced with something like this. You'll only cause more problems.
But in any case, I wish you the best of luck in your future.[/QUOTE]
You're incredibly ignorant.
Why is he? I actually agree with that post. Sex change or not, he will still be a guy. You may feel like a woman but you're not.
[QUOTE=Supersheepie;23949083]Why is he? I actually agree with that post. Sex change or not, he will still be a guy. You may feel like a woman but you're not.[/QUOTE]
Looks may cause ignorance, and ignorance is bliss.
Agreed with OP.
Am I now gay?
[QUOTE=HatredViral;23949167]Agreed with OP.
Am I now gay?[/QUOTE]
you're a kid craving for attention in an already awful thread
To OP; To me it sounds like you're a gay man but don't want to believe it and shove it off as "i am a girl".
[QUOTE=Elexar;23949266]you're a kid craving for attention in an already awful thread
To OP; To me it sounds like you're a gay man but don't want to believe it and shove it off as "i am a girl".[/QUOTE]
I am a 19 year old teenager from the United Kingdom of Great Britian.
I suggest you get the fuck out unless you know what you are talking about.
[QUOTE=HatredViral;23949499]I am a 19 year old teenager from the United Kingdom of Great Britian.
I suggest you get the fuck out unless you know what you are talking about.[/QUOTE]
Oh I'm sorry did i step on your bald sack
[QUOTE=Supersheepie;23949083]Why is he? I actually agree with that post. Sex change or not, he will still be a guy. You may feel like a woman but you're not.[/QUOTE]
I agree too. It's not a bad thing, and I'm not arguing against transgendered people but that part is the truth.
Stop trying to be what you are not, it will only make you feel worse and makes you a wreck.
Start living your life or you will miss out on everything.
[QUOTE=Klownox;23949000]You're incredibly ignorant.[/QUOTE]
Explain.
I'm not necessarily saying no one should ever get sex changes because of my views on them, it just kind of annoys me how people think redirecting urine flow, opening up a fake vaginal canal, getting breast implants and dressing differently can truly make them female as much as me dressing up as Superman makes me as such (yes terrible analogy I know, just imagine I have some mental disorder where I wish I was Superman to the point of suicide). I'd like to know how I'm wrong, but right now it just seems to me like some kind of odd double standard we have because we're too caught in trying not to hurt anyone's feelings in the same way we try not to tell children there is no Santa Clause.
[QUOTE=mugofdoom;23951221]Explain.
I'm not necessarily saying no one should ever get sex changes because of my views on them, it just kind of annoys me how people think redirecting urine flow, opening up a fake vaginal canal, getting breast implants and dressing differently can truly make them female as much as me dressing up as Superman makes me as such (yes terrible analogy I know,[B] just imagine I have some mental disorder where I wish I was Superman to the point of suicide[/B]). I'd like to know how I'm wrong, but right now it just seems to me like some kind of odd double standard we have because we're too caught in trying not to hurt anyone's feelings in the same way we try not to tell children there is no Santa Clause.[/QUOTE]
there are people who considered suicide because they wanted to be na'vi from avatar.
[QUOTE=BmB;23943457]Just like being gay being transsexual is a physiological oddity. What you don't understand or don't want to understand is physical "sex" can differ from mental "gender".[/QUOTE]
Yes, but there are many different definitions and forms of the word "gender", what society sees as your gender, what you see as your gender and your actual sex all play a role in it. All I'm saying is it's rather odd that we, as in society, are expected to think a transsexual is indeed a "she" if "she" is born a "he" and "he" plays the role well enough.
Anyway I'm probably going off on a tangent here, feel free to ignore me. Peace.
[QUOTE=Freekill;23943626]Welcome to the asian club.
PS: Which camera is that again?[/QUOTE]
The one I used in the picture was a Canon EOS 550D
I'm sorry, but isn't this what all gay guys feel like at some point?
[QUOTE=Apclear;23952100]I'm sorry, but isn't this what all gay guys feel like at some point?[/QUOTE]
I don't think all gays want to be women
[QUOTE=Apclear;23952100]I'm sorry, but isn't this what all gay guys feel like at some point?[/QUOTE]
Uhh no, this is something else entirely.
OP, you should wait until your maybe 20-25 to start thinking about a sex change OP.
Though I feel for ya, I have a bit of gender confusion myself.(Understatement)
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And to further creep out the people in here, I am currently dressed right now.
[QUOTE=Kyle902;23954500]OP, you should wait until your maybe 20-25 to start thinking about a sex change OP.
Though I feel for ya, I have a bit of gender confusion myself.(Understatement)
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And to further creep out the people in here, I am currently dressed right now.[/QUOTE]
You're wearing [U][B]clothes?[/B][/U]
What the op should would probably become a cross dresser.
[QUOTE=Scoooby;23888019]Wow, you guys are dicks. So much homophobia, and why did mods stop banning for homophobia?
Also OP, don't commit suicide, do whatever makes you happy. Be like D2K and dress feminine, whatever makes you comfortable in your skin.[/QUOTE]
this.
[QUOTE=Kyle902;23954659]Girls clothes.[/QUOTE]
My world has been flipped turned upside down.
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[QUOTE=B1N4RY!;23954689]Pics[/QUOTE]
No camera nearby.
Damn. Also you totally stole my name bro, give it back.
[QUOTE=Azalar;23887780]If I could be a girl for five minutes I would clone my female self, then have sex with it after the five minutes were up and I became a male again.[/QUOTE]
You sicko, go fuck yourself.
I'm not even gonna rate you heart. If being a certain gender makes you suicidal you need help NOW. There is something WRONG WITH YOU. Might sound mean, but please get some help. If you are that depressed over something so basic as gender, you are either really stupid or have a mental disorder. My gay friend who I sent this link to called you a moron.
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[QUOTE=Galago;23955266]You sicko, go fuck yourself.[/QUOTE]
You seem like a cool guy to hang around with.
[QUOTE=Viephemeral;23955391]I'm not even gonna rate you heart. If being a certain gender makes you suicidal you need help NOW. There is something WRONG WITH YOU. Might sound mean, but please get some help. If you are that depressed over something so basic as gender, you are either really stupid or have a mental disorder. My gay friend who I sent this link to called you a moron.
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Oh yes because gay people definitely know how trans gender people feel. :downs:
[QUOTE=Viephemeral;23955391]I'm not even gonna rate you heart. If being a certain gender makes you suicidal you need help NOW. There is something WRONG WITH YOU. Might sound mean, but please get some help. If you are that depressed over something so basic as gender, you are either really stupid or have a mental disorder. My gay friend who I sent this link to called you a moron.
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You seem like a cool guy to hang around with.[/QUOTE]
In all fairness, being gay and having gender identity disorder are two [U]completely[/U] different things.
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