I tried it very briefly after realizing it was mostly for one night stand kind of activity, that and most of the people who actually went out of the way to contact me were bots.
Personally, i'd go to a bar for social interaction. Granted, I had like one good hookup and a really disappointing one, but 99.9% of the time, i haven't been able to arrange a meetup.
450 Swipes not a single fucking match?!?! I right swiped everyone the hole week even the really ugly girls im mean like Jabba the hut ugly and not a single match.
I mean even if im ugly someone should have swiped me by accident by now?!?!
Tinder is really not working for me i guess...
[QUOTE=Totenkreuz;49999307]What kinda cheesy lines have you used?[/QUOTE]
That's a secret. :cool:
[QUOTE=Totenkreuz;49999307]What kinda cheesy lines have you used?[/QUOTE]
Do you believe in love at first sight, or do I need to keep walking? :smug:
[QUOTE=SulliG99;50025819]450 Swipes not a single fucking match?!?! I right swiped everyone the hole week even the really ugly girls im mean like Jabba the hut ugly and not a single match.
I mean even if im ugly someone should have swiped me by accident by now?!?!
Tinder is really not working for me i guess...[/QUOTE]
whats your bio
what are your pictures of
[QUOTE=TheBloodyNine;50026600]whats your bio
what are your pictures of[/QUOTE]
My bio says where i work and my Hobbys which are gaming, designing, Basketball
My Picture is me smilling right into it. i will post it later.
Its weird to have not a single match in tinder my friend has like 8-10 matches per day and he is not average looking by any means,
maybe i got flagged as bot or something on tinder is that possible?
[QUOTE=SulliG99;50033743]My bio says where i work and my Hobbys which are gaming, designing, Basketball
My Picture is me smilling right into it. i will post it later.
Its weird to have not a single match in tinder my friend has like 8-10 matches per day and he is not average looking by any means,
maybe i got flagged as bot or something on tinder is that possible?[/QUOTE]
Get rid of mentioning gaming as a hobby. Don't advertise that shit, lol. Try to have a sense of humour in your bio, too. Also with your bio, write something that will make people [i]want[/i] to message you. Eg a friend has on his bio that he'll write a rap song for any topic someone mentions to him and he actually does a damn good job at it. And surprise surprise, it's worked for him.
Because shit man I'm no model myself but I've had success with Tinder, despite on my bio I invite people to ask about my dad jokes haha.
As a 28 year old, a lot of people use it for dating, not just hooking up
[QUOTE=SulliG99;50033743]My bio says where i work and my Hobbys which are gaming, designing, Basketball
My Picture is me smilling right into it. i will post it later.
Its weird to have not a single match in tinder my friend has like 8-10 matches per day and he is not average looking by any means,
maybe i got flagged as bot or something on tinder is that possible?[/QUOTE]
Best tinder advice I've gotten comes from r/tinder so check there if you want some advice and some laughs.
Rule #1 there is: Be attractive and rule #2 is don't be unattractive.
This doesn't mean you gotta be hot as shit and stuff like that. It means showing potential matches that you're a fun outgoing guy, even if you're not!
Make sure you use a good picture that shows your face as your main picture, try to find some pictures of you doing your hobbies, and try to find some pictures with your friends. If you have a picture with a cute animal then add that shit as well, girls really like that
Try to put something clever in your bio, that way, if any future matches don't have opening material, you always do. Mine says 'If we match I might buy you pizza' and everytime I can't find a good opening I just say 'Is this a match because of my incredible handsome looks or because of the pizza?'
60% of the time it works 100%
That's some of the best advice I can give you, hope this helps man!
[QUOTE=sb27;50033834]Get rid of mentioning gaming as a hobby. Don't advertise that shit, lol. Try to have a sense of humour in your bio, too. Also with your bio, write something that will make people [i]want[/i] to message you. Eg a friend has on his bio that he'll write a rap song for any topic someone mentions to him and he actually does a damn good job at it. And surprise surprise, it's worked for him.
Because shit man I'm no model myself but I've had success with Tinder, despite on my bio I invite people to ask about my dad jokes haha.[/QUOTE]
Yeah but where is the point if of getting rid of my hobbies if im maybe looking for a girl which has the same interesses as i have.
There's nothing wrong with having gaming as a hobby on your Tinder profile. As long as your conversations with girls aren't an attempt at judging what kind of games they enjoy like a lot of guys tend to do, thinking they're clever and witty and just end up sounding like assholes.
[QUOTE=SulliG99;50033963]Yeah but where is the point if of getting rid of my hobbies if im maybe looking for a girl which has the same interesses as i have.[/QUOTE]
There's nothing inherently wrong with gaming. My bio says "if you're gonna crack a Ron Weasley joke, make it original." Because I'm ginger (or people say I look like one). It's a nerdy reference, but I put it in as a conversation starter and to show I have a sense of humor. Just try not to overthink it.
[QUOTE=Pascall;50034024]There's nothing wrong with having gaming as a hobby on your Tinder profile. As long as your conversations with girls aren't an attempt at judging what kind of games they enjoy like a lot of guys tend to do, thinking they're clever and witty and just end up sounding like assholes.[/QUOTE]
exactly the point is i dont got a single match yet using it since 1 month and i did set the range on 80Km.
Could just be your pictures. Things that get my attention are pictures of guys with dogs, outside, or out doing something fun.
Things that steer me away are pictures of guys in their bathrooms, rooms with headphones on, or in a place with shit lighting. Essentially, just don't take any pictures in your house lol.
Or if all your bio says is "gaming, basketball, etc." then that's kind of boring.
Having something funny on there is always good.
In internet is best not flirt...
[QUOTE=sb27;50033834]Get rid of mentioning gaming as a hobby. Don't advertise that shit, lol. Try to have a sense of humour in your bio, too. Also with your bio, write something that will make people [i]want[/i] to message you. Eg a friend has on his bio that he'll write a rap song for any topic someone mentions to him and he actually does a damn good job at it. And surprise surprise, it's worked for him.
Because shit man I'm no model myself but I've had success with Tinder, despite on my bio I invite people to ask about my dad jokes haha.[/QUOTE]
I just mentioned my tortoises and girls ate that up (when I was using tinder) and always wanted to see them. That gets the conversation going and even though they could just look up some tortoises it shows that they're actually interested in me.
[QUOTE=SulliG99;50033743]My bio says where i work and my Hobbys which are gaming, designing, Basketball
My Picture is me smilling right into it. i will post it later.
Its weird to have not a single match in tinder my friend has like 8-10 matches per day and he is not average looking by any means,
maybe i got flagged as bot or something on tinder is that possible?[/QUOTE]
on your bio, have a conversation starter (I have a funny story about boot camp and busses, so I have "ask me about the time I had to count busses")
have funny shit, preferably on top and on the bottom, to start and end on a good note. girls want a guy they laugh to. on top, I have "If I were to rearrange the alphabet, I'd put U and I together. And I'd put Z at the front because I'm tired of being at the back of every God damned line." (last name starts with Z) and then at the bottom, I put "No threesomes, if I wanted to disappoint two people I'd have dinner with my parents."
In the middle I put my interests. It's less things I do every day for fun and more like interesting interesting stuff I do. I also shove a joke one or two in there to keep the funny vibe up. If you get a girl to laugh on your bio it's half the battle.
Have a good picture of you on top, a good picture of you doing something interesting, and a picture with friends so she knows you're not some weird loner. I have a picture of me shooting in boot camp, a selfie, and a group shot with buddies.
Being attractive helps but I'm hardly a stunner and I get a decent number of matches without mass-swiping. I'm fully confident it's all in the bio and shit.
[editline]30th March 2016[/editline]
also a pic with you with your pet can be a home run
I have heard of some working out - though it does surprise me. Personally, I cannot find love in someone unless I have had in-person interaction with them and gotten to know them better before hand. I see Tinder as being one of those sites that are used MAINLY, and I repeat, mainly, for a) one night stands, b) catfishing and c) just for the lols... I personally do not think it's good, however it does work for some people so I do not judge.
[QUOTE=GisG56;50035901]I have heard of some working out - though it does surprise me. Personally, I cannot find love in someone unless I have had in-person interaction with them and gotten to know them better before hand. I see Tinder as being one of those sites that are used MAINLY, and I repeat, mainly, for a) one night stands, b) catfishing and c) just for the lols... I personally do not think it's good, however it does work for some people so I do not judge.[/QUOTE]
well the goal is to meet them and then get to know them then
[QUOTE=Totenkreuz;49962529]My matches never respond.
Maybe I need better pics.[/QUOTE]
sums up my experience with it
get really good pictures, and you'll fuck your brains out
[QUOTE=TheBloodyNine;50036324]well the goal is to meet them and then get to know them then[/QUOTE]
I understand that. I guess I said that in a not so clear manner. I just personally am not fond of using online dating sites basically.
Tinder good if you are a hunk
[QUOTE=Rocâ„¢;50036343]sums up my experience with it
get really good pictures, and you'll fuck your brains out[/QUOTE]
I'm using my current FB picture. I guess I need some professional shit, that was taken with my phone.
I suffer from the fact that on the rare instance that I do go out and do shit my friends and I don't feel the need to take a picture of everything we are doing, so I've got no material to post as pictures.
Met my girlfriend through Tinder. Been living together for the past two years now and all is well. Now we just make fake accounts to fuck with thirsty guys late at night.
"what are u doin tonight?"
"I am playing Monopoly with my pastor."
I don't get a whole lot of matches.
[t]http://i.imgur.com/QYCZEaS.jpg[/t]
I don't know why.
[QUOTE=Anderan;50037919]I suffer from the fact that on the rare instance that I do go out and do shit my friends and I don't feel the need to take a picture of everything we are doing, so I've got no material to post as pictures.[/QUOTE]
I have this problem too.
I visited Sweden and Estonia because of work-stuff and the only picture is a fucking close-up of a hot-air balloon at Tallinns port. And it's all shaken up because I took it quickly while powerwalking to my ship. :v:
I also eat at fancy restaurants in fancy outfit from time to time, but there are approximately 0 pictures of those occasions. I find it rude to even have my cellphone visibly on me, so it sits in my jacket in silent-mode the whole time.
It's just not a habit of mine to take pictures. I can relish the memories without shaken-up group pictures and 38 pictures of me doing a peace sign or something while shoving a hot dog down my throat or doing other mundane things.
All I have is like 3 garbage selfies I took because "Oh shit I need pics of me!" but even that somehow works.
My face looks like a teen
How would I tinder
[QUOTE=hakimhakim;50041065]My face looks like a teen
How would I tinder[/QUOTE]
[url=http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Tinder-for-a-Fire]Here[/url] is a good tutorial.
You just post good pictures that you didn't take of yourself, that's what worked best for me. Don't have any dead animals in your pictures and have something interesting to talk about in your bio like "I like movies and dogs" ect. Have something that you both can bond over.
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