• Opinions on Tinder?
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Unless you're a conventionally gorgeous human being, don't bother. People can only judge you based on your looks and a brief summary of what you're like as a person (which most people don't bother to read anyway), and the odds of actually matching with someone are slim, and the odds of someone actually talking to you after matching are even slimmer. As mentioned before, it's great for crushing your self esteem.
[QUOTE=Alsojames;50042015]Unless you're a conventionally gorgeous human being, don't bother. People can only judge you based on your looks and a brief summary of what you're like as a person (which most people don't bother to read anyway), and the odds of actually matching with someone are slim, and the odds of someone actually talking to you after matching are even slimmer. As mentioned before, it's great for crushing your self esteem.[/QUOTE] thats not true at all dude. looks arent even like, half of it. sure if youre a fat fuck and hideous then yeah you wont get many matches, in which case, lose some weight and no youre probably not that bad looking. people have shitty pictures and bios and then think tinder is only for the top 1% of the populace on attractiveness when in actuallity if you put out the effort youd probably see a lot more results.
[QUOTE=Totenkreuz;50036853]I'm using my current FB picture. I guess I need some professional shit, that was taken with my phone.[/QUOTE] I'm using outdated fb pictures AND I have very few of them aswell. I wouldn't say professional though. You usually just need an image for yourself where you "pop" out. Not too much, like a stop sign in the middle of a collision between 2 cop cars en mission, but enough to like, make a small contrast within you and acentuate your good points. At least thats what I think it should be like. My mate does something like this, although its easier to show than to explain what he did in the photos, and it really works out for him. Heck, even I gotta say, dude's got style. Note: it helps to have a good body. Not talking about Superman, but don't be all skinny and junk either. That looks bad as hell :/ [editline]31st March 2016[/editline] [QUOTE=Anderan;50037919]I suffer from the fact that on the rare instance that I do go out and do shit my friends and I don't feel the need to take a picture of everything we are doing, so I've got no material to post as pictures.[/QUOTE] Have the same problem. My friends have like 60+ pics, and I have 12 at most. I don't invest in nice clothes nor in my image enough to think "wow I'm worthy of a photo today" [editline]1st April 2016[/editline] [QUOTE=TheBloodyNine;50042898]thats not true at all dude. looks arent even like, half of it. sure if youre a fat fuck and hideous then yeah you wont get many matches, in which case, lose some weight and no youre probably not that bad looking. people have shitty pictures and bios and then think tinder is only for the top 1% of the populace on attractiveness when in actuallity if you put out the effort youd probably see a lot more results.[/QUOTE] Yes and no. When you're talking about Tinder and FB and Instagram, looks go a VERY long way. If you're talking about a more real life environment where you have a lot of contact with other people, I'd say its almost all about the personality, depending on the target demographic. Why depending on the target demographic? Because I see objectively ugly as fuck guys, some of them 100% dumb and cheaters, with extremely nice girls. You could even say they had the words to get themselves in there, but seriously? No words in the world could save some of the guys I've seen. One example, was this skinny asshole who: Cheated on his girl multiple times Bought multiple cars because let's cut to the chase: he's a huge moron with some money Quit his job because his friends were on vacation and he also wanted vacation I sincerely do not know how he even cheated on her so many times with so many girls, it makes no sense whatsoever, because he's the last guy you'd want to even touch. It all leads me to think that its about their personality, or whatever they showed them that they enjoyed.
I usually don't get many matches on Tinder because I'm the least photogenic person in the world and have no outdoor hobbies, but one day I bought the premium subscription for a month for shits and giggles, set my location to various places in the world and got varying results from no matches to shitloads. Best cities for me were Vilnius (seriously got like a hundred matched there and a lot of them were messaging me first), Belgrade, Kiev and Istanbul. Tl;dr move to eastern Europe if you want to be a Tinder god without any effort.
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