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Maybe they, you know? Have other redeeming qualities?[/QUOTE]
because I totally want to be aroudn someone who's life revolves around drinking until they puke and other trivial bullshit I don't care about and maybe possibly some gay sport like volleyball or basketball.
They already don't ike him from when he was a blue posting in ITN
So are we doing Tinychat tonight?
He should post in the RC a little bit.
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We should do tinychat, i'll have all of my gear on.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;30683342]because I totally want to be aroudn someone who's life revolves around drinking until they puke and other trivial bullshit I don't care about and maybe possibly some gay sport like volleyball or basketball.[/QUOTE]
It's part of that teenage experience. I've gotten buzzed or drunk once or twice, and even then, all I did was play Halo.
I'm up for a tinychat
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;30683342]because I totally want to be aroudn someone who's life revolves around drinking until they puke and other trivial bullshit I don't care about and maybe possibly some gay sport like volleyball or basketball.[/QUOTE]
Because either they love the exact same bands as you, or they're preppy party-hard emptyheaded idiots. No possible middle ground whatsoever, and you would know because you (don't) get to know them before passing judgment. Makes perfect sense.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;30683280]Well there's no point in bitching and moaning about it for the next two months because I'm done school for the summer and I'm probably not going to leave the house except to go to work.[/QUOTE]
The lack of any point to your bitching hasn't stopped you before.
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bam and I'm done
Taepodong, at this rate you might as well be resigned to the fact that you're never going to get a girlfriend. You seem incredibly hard to please and never compromise. If you're not going to compromise now, your chances at a relationship are nil.
Relax a little, and realize that you shouldn't judge a book by its cover. Just because every other person you met seems to fit the "pretentious preppy teen" stereotype doesn't mean everyone will.
You'd think if they wanted to get to know me they would make the effort. But they don't so I don't think they want anything to do with me. So fuck them.
So, your mindset is pretty much, you're going to wait until somebody likes you, and they're going to make the first move, etc..
No. Girls don't make the first move. Guys do, don't sit back and keep pussyfooting over stupid shit like music from keeping you from going out with a girl.
I'm also extremely hesitant to trust the ones who do seem to want to talk to me because one girl actually did IRL troll me and I got pretty fucked up from that.
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[QUOTE=deathmog;30685591]So, your mindset is pretty much, you're going to wait until somebody likes you, and they're going to make the first move, etc..
No. Girls don't make the first move. Guys do, don't sit back and keep pussyfooting over stupid shit like music from keeping you from going out with a girl.[/QUOTE]
Expected gender roles. I fucking despise that shit.
Well obviously they're not going to make the first move, they haven't already from what you say, what i'm trying to say is that your standards are a bit high and that you need to lower them and actually try to make an attempt to talk to a girl.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;30685538]You'd think if they wanted to get to know me they would make the effort. But they don't so I don't think they want anything to do with me. So fuck them.[/QUOTE]
You're doing it wrong. Girls generally don't like introverted guys. How in the hell is a girl supposed to find out if you're suitable if you don't open up to them?
Chances are, they're not as bad as you think personality wise.
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Automerge breakage
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Spacedooky put it better than I did.
lol why are you guys even trying anymore?
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;30685609]I'm also extremely hesitant to trust the ones who do seem to want to talk to me because one girl actually did IRL troll me and I got pretty fucked up from that.
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Expected gender roles. I fucking despise that shit.[/QUOTE]
Well, you're not doing much in the way of helping yourself there, buddy. If nobody's willing to talk to you, take the initiative. It's really not that difficult to talk to a girl, just introduce yourself and make small talk
Who knows, maybe she likes everything you do, she just doesn't outwardly show it???
[QUOTE=spacedooky;30685701]Well, you're not doing much in the way of helping yourself there, buddy. If nobody's willing to talk to you, take the initiative. It's really not that difficult to talk to a girl, just introduce yourself and make small talk
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I'm shit at making small talk and I'm always afraid of coming across as creepy because of that.
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Also people who like death metal and black metal don't tend to hide it.
Reading all this "i want a girl" shit keeps making me think of that Cake Song:
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u7aDstrDMf0[/media]
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;30685538]You'd think if they wanted to get to know me they would make the effort. But they don't so I don't think they want anything to do with me. So fuck them.[/QUOTE]
And yet you make absolutely no effort to get to know them, but somehow it's their fault? Guess what, in the real world decent women don't just come up to you and drape themselves on your lap.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;30685609]I'm also extremely hesitant to trust the ones who do seem to want to talk to me because one girl actually did IRL troll me and I got pretty fucked up from that.[/QUOTE]
So because one girl gave you some shit, you're just going to flat out reject all the ones that do try to talk to you?
Do you even realize how dumb this sounds? 'If they won't talk to me, fuck them, if they do talk to me, they must be joking so fuck them'.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;30685728]I'm shit at making small talk and I'm always afraid of coming across as creepy because of that.[/QUOTE]
That's because you have no social skills, a direct consequence of going out of your way to not talk to girls. Cause and effect.
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So because one girl gave you some shit, you're just going to flat out reject all the ones that do try to talk to you?
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It would help if the few who did try to talk to me weren't the kind of girls that could just as easily get any hockey douchebag who would be less embarrassing to be seen with instead of a random nerd like me.
and then this topic was never brought up ever again in this thread
and everyone was happy
i barely even read it, i'm going to listen to more cake now.
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Fuck it. I give up.
Too stubborn to take any of our advice.
Shut up tae and stay with your hands.
[QUOTE=mysteryman;30686023]i barely even read it, i'm going to listen to more cake now.[/QUOTE]
Woo, Cake.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;30685974]It would help if the few who did try to talk to me weren't the kind of girls that could just as easily get any hockey douchebag who would be less embarrassing to be seen with instead of a random nerd like me.[/QUOTE]
Did you even consider the possibility that they were interested in someone more intelligent than and different from your typical 'hockey douchebag'?
Ok, just for you guys, the next time a girl tries to talk to me I'll give her a chance. Unless she's an ugly landwhale, even I'm allowed to have those standards.
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