[QUOTE=Kopimi;32855241]I don't quite understand why people enforce this rule despite constantly making the claim that women and men are absolute equals
I mean I still stand behind the idea that you shouldn't hit a woman (Unless she's assaulting you, which seems to happen a lot because of this rule), but it seems funny to see people talk about women being equal to men and then saying you can't hit them
Just to clarify: I think men and women are equals, I just was raised with the value that you shouldn't hit a woman so I don't :v:[/QUOTE]
the issue is that most men who abuse women hit them over things they would never hit a man for, because they're afraid of getting the shit kicked out of them. If a woman came at me with a broken bottle, or broke into my house with a crowbar, fair enough I'll take her on, but most dudes just hit a woman because she doesn't make his dinner the way he likes it or some shit.
[QUOTE=strayebyrd;32858975]the issue is that most men who abuse women hit them over things they would never hit a man for, because they're afraid of getting the shit kicked out of them. If a woman came at me with a broken bottle, or broke into my house with a crowbar, fair enough I'll take her on, but most dudes just hit a woman because she doesn't make his dinner the way he likes it or some shit.[/QUOTE]
This. Most wife beaters do it because they are trying to prove they are a man, because they are so insecure and know they would never stand a chance in a fair fight
Did I read OP right?
So dude got angry because he didn't pick up his dirty clothes, because he didn't have a job for some time, and because he was on the computer too much.
Then you smashed her phone?
Bitch if I were your woman I'd walk straight out.
[QUOTE=Nathax;32854168][B]Disclaimer:[/B] I don't advocate seriously beating women unless they really deserve it.
To start off I'll give you a little backstory that prompted me to seriously ask myself this question, and maybe ask some facepunch people as well. About 3 years ago (recently turned 22) I got married to a black woman. It was pretty good and I was really into it at the time and it went well. Some might have a problem with people getting married this young but young love eh? anyway I don't regret it. Of course with being married comes the trials and tribulations of managing a woman and this can really knock a guy about. I'm sure some of you understand what I'm talking about. So it's been about 2.5 years at this point and she's riding my ass every day about how I sit on the computer too much and still haven't gotten a job, and it's wearing me thin. The first few years were great but it eventually ended up with me doing everything "wrong" while it was actually her that was just being annoying as hell. I know, I know, it's a woman thing and they're always like this, but sometimes it just gets to be too much. So one day she comes home, slams the front door (big mistake already, I had a headache), and starts bitching me out for not picking up my dirty clothes and cleaning the dishes. As you'd expect we got into a massive yelling match, going from room to room with all the expletives you could imagine (at this point I'm surprised the cops didn't get called) and I tell her that I'm sick of her getting up in my business when she has no right to. Eventually I let up and started to pick up some of my clothes and then she said something along the lines of "damn straight" and I snapped. An open palm across the face and she shut up quick smart. I have to admit I felt pretty powerful at that moment, like a man should I guess? Something about alpha males. But anyway it felt good and I walked out (didn't pick up the clothes. couldn'nt be fucked) and went back and browsed the web for a little while. Didn't hear much noise upstairs for a while and all seemed to be well, then she came down stairs and asked me what I wanted for dinner. Things seemed to have sorted themselves out, so I ended up being pretty glad I'd had the courage to stand up for myself.
I can remember some situations, mainly the relatively unimportant stuff like two months down the track she comes home with a new phone. Now I want to go on record, I'm not the kind of guy who cares what phone people have, but me and her had come to an agreement that she would get a matching iPhone after I bought my iPhone 4 last year. I guess I just like things to be neat and tidy, and I didn't want the both of us to look like we couldn't even agree on a phone together. I started yelling and grabbed it off her and smashed it on the floor and told her to either go and get an iPhone 4 or I'd drive her there and get one for her, or go without a phone. She ran off crying like a little girl and said something about me being a bastard but I paid no mind to it. Again, nothing seemed to come of it and things seemed to straighten up once again so maybe there really was something to asserting my dominance. There were a few more incidents, most I can't recall the specifics, over the next few months leading up to now. Most of the time she gets the point though.
Now that you've heard that story, what's your opinion on this? I like to think I approached this in an adult manner and didn't go too far (broken bones and stuff like that are unacceptable in my opinion) and I got pretty good results from it. I know there'll be some of you who don't agree with it, so let me know if there's anything I could have handled better. Are there even any better techniques for keeping a wild woman under control? Not some sort of weird slave thing but just so she doesn't give you a heap of shit for not getting a job or whatever the flavour of the day is. I guess a lot of married guys such as myself go through this and I'm wondering how they managed to last 10+ or even 20+ years. Even after 3 I'm at the end of my rope and I'm in need of advice. Are all black women like this? Is this a black person thing? (Not racist) I've just never really had any black friends.
I've heard this only became a taboo thing in the last few years after those women's rights cults started gaining some ground. Frankly I feel like they've given women an inflated ego and now they think they're better than me and other guys. If I recall men were the ones building society while women ate berries. Sorry if that sounds sexist. I don't want to come off as bias or one of those wife beaters but I thought this would be a good place to share some thoughts and talk about it with some other like minded guys.
Felt good to get some of this off my chest. Women, I guess.[/QUOTE]
I really, REALLY want to take a baseball bat to your face, just saying.
"Waa waa we have different phones so I'm going to SMASH yours up, it was the mature thing to do right guys?"
put dat bitch in her place
thug lyfe fuck bitches get iphones all day damn str8
The adult way to handle that situation would be to talk things over. You acted like a spoiled brat instead.
You already talk about women like they are less, you say it's ok to hurt them (and apprently exclusively them) as long as it gets your retarted opinion set and makes her shut up. You complain about her complaining about you not getting a job? Well that's what she should do, I wouldn't say she'd have to nag about even a computer addiction, but being unemployed is her business indeed.
People like you make me sick. "Yo bros, I don't support the hard stuff, but telling mah bitch how things run straight in my manly man hole is totally fine, right?"
i don't even think it's illegal as long as you don't leave a mark - whats the big deal? pussy liberals
[QUOTE=DrgnRebrn;32859612]i don't even think it's illegal as long as you don't leave a mark - whats the big deal? pussy liberals[/QUOTE]
So hitting women because you feel like it and you wont leave a mark is right in your opinion?
Seriously what the hell?
[QUOTE=aapio;32859648]So hitting women because you feel like it and you wont leave a mark is right in your opinion?
Seriously what the hell?[/QUOTE]
she wasn't hit if there is no mark
if you beat your wife in the kitchen and no mark is left did it happen?
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I was expecting something kinky if I'm honest.
Maybe you should get off your ass and actually cooperate instead of acting like a child.
[QUOTE=CrispexOps;32854227]There is [B]no excuse to ever hit a woman[/B], unless she's sexually into it of course.
OP, some day I'm going to see you on the news. Your wife will have shot you over the abuse.[/QUOTE]
Um, what?
8/10 not subtle enough but you still managed to fool almost everyone anyway due to your choice of topic. Good job OP
Keeping a wild woman under control!? All thats wrong is that you're a lazy unemployed asshole.
Lol dominance? Hitting a girl doesn't mean that you're dominate, just means that's the only way you can get attention from people.
Also 22, married, no job, and getting bitched at by your wife for being on the computer too much and not finding a job?
She had every single right to bitch out at you. Seeing as you are the man you should be out getting a job and supporting each other. Like what the hell? And you like to be neat and tidy? My friend, if you did like to be neat and tidy, you would've washed the dishes and picked up your dirty clothes.
Maybe you should learn to respect women, get a job, and get off the road of being a basement dweller, cause at this rate, you're going back to your moms basement (again).
OP is sexism personified.
[QUOTE=JohnnyMo1;32860154]OP is sexism personified.[/QUOTE]OP is a troll.
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