• Enough With This Antibullying Bullshit
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[QUOTE=Kai-ryuu;29356619]Please Do Not Encourage Bullying! My Son Timothy Has Been Bullied His Entire Life Simply Because He Is Different From The Rest Of The Boys. He Doesn't Like To Talk A lot And Sits Alone In His Corner Playing With Lego's But He Is A Very Normal Boy Who Loves Playing Soccer, Video Games, And Most Importantly Jesus :-) God Bless! Christina, ~CHRISTIAN WARRIOR~[/QUOTE] I bet its this Jesus guy who keeps bullying him!
[QUOTE=breakyourfac;29356547]you need bullying.[/QUOTE] this bothered me the most out of your entire post, next to this [QUOTE=breakyourfac;29356547]incoming boxes from friendless nerds.[/QUOTE] what the fuck is wrong with you?
[QUOTE=Chibitty;29362242]You only become bullied if you are weak and [I]allow[/I] yourself to.[/QUOTE] Excuse me? In my case I was reaching out to the kid because he looked lonely. I asked if he wanted to play. So does wanting to help mean give reason to beat me up for race? If so I should damn well start being a selfish prick. It'd be a hell of a lot easier.
[QUOTE=SCopE5000;29363733]I got bullied cause I talked about nothing but games and I was pretty anti social, just sitting inside playing games all day.[/QUOTE] Have you finished school? In my state, across the 4 highschools I have contacts/friends in, the cool kids spend all lunch talking about cod/How many women they are banging at once in the next 24 hours and spend their weekends playing cod.
I don't care enough to read past the first page, but here's my two cents: Bullying would be a lot less of a problem in schools if adults weren't so fucking retarded. For example, when I was in second grade, a fifth grader picked on all the younger kids on the bus, even physically assaulting us and stealing our belongings. I told the same teacher what he did to us every day, and every day she said "No, he's a nice boy. He wouldn't do anything like that." None of the other teachers or counselors even gave half a shit. My mom had to come to school with me and threaten him to get him to stop, and in the end, he still picked on everyone but me.
[QUOTE=Artyom;29363846]this bothered me the most out of your entire post, next to this what the fuck is wrong with you?[/QUOTE] Apparently he has some delusion that he's popular and tough and anyone who dares to disagree with his opinion is a loser.
[QUOTE=Uberman77883;29361413]Hahahahaha, no. Most bullies grow up to be those rich douchebags who drive convertibles, have spikey hair and wear polos with the collar popped. [/QUOTE] I think it also depends on the social class of the bully. You've got the spoiled assholes who get everything handed to them who bully just because they think their better than you. Their bullying is justified as "just a phase". Then you have the poorer kids who bully as a way to vent their frustrations with their situations and they're judged as monsters. The rich kids pass through the phase because they aren't punished. They then continue on to be bullies in the workplace and whatnot. Poorer kids get told off and grow resentful of those who have judged them so they don't have as good social mobility.
[QUOTE=mokkan;29363885]Have you finished school? In my state, across the 4 highschools I have contacts/friends in, the cool kids spend all lunch talking about cod/How many women they are banging at once in the next 24 hours and spend their weekends playing cod.[/QUOTE] 6 years ago no one at high school played games.
[QUOTE=breakyourfac;29356547]incoming boxes from friendless nerds.[/QUOTE] I love the intelligent rebuttal op is posting. Also you dont need friends when you have clever bot.
[QUOTE=SCopE5000;29363971]6 years ago no one at high school played games.[/QUOTE] Maybe in 6 years the cool douchebags will play something over than cod
[QUOTE=imasillypiggy;29364074]Also you dont need friends when you have clever bot.[/QUOTE] yes you do
[QUOTE=mokkan;29364103]Maybe in 6 years the cool douchebags will play something over than cod[/QUOTE] Dude why don't you leave the 'cool douchebags' alone and mind your own business, cause they sure as hell don't care about you.
[QUOTE=SCopE5000;29364155]Dude why don't you leave the 'cool douchebags' alone and mind your own business, cause they sure as hell don't care about you.[/QUOTE] Yes they do. If you don't have the latest cod it's their mission to shove their kd down your throat and convince you to buy it It's quite funny actually.
I see nothing wrong with standing up against bullying. Probably because I know someone who attempted suicide because of it back in high school. Yeah, kids will always pick on each other, but I don't consider teasing as "bullying". When I think bullying, I think constantly tormenting a kid because they're different in one way or another to the point where they're sick of it and feel the need to do something about it. So yeah, I see nothing wrong with taking a stand against kids bullying others. Teaching them to accept differences in society seems to make more sense to me than just pushing the issue aside because they're "just kids". We should be teaching them something different, not just accepting the fact that they'll always be that way.
[QUOTE=Pascall;29364231]I see nothing wrong with standing up against bullying. Probably because I know someone who attempted suicide because of it back in high school. Yeah, kids will always pick on each other, but I don't consider teasing as "bullying". When I think bullying, I think constantly tormenting a kid because they're different in one way or another to the point where they're sick of it and feel the need to do something about it. So yeah, I see nothing wrong with taking a stand against kids bullying others. Teaching them to accept differences in society seems to make more sense to me than just pushing the issue aside because they're "just kids". We should be teaching them something different, not just accepting the fact that they'll always be that way.[/QUOTE] I have never understood the "They are just kids" agument because letting bullies get awy with it causes damage to their victims mental health, and in some cases puts them in a position where the only option they can see is suicide
[QUOTE=mokkan;29364218]Yes they do. If you don't have the latest cod it's their mission to shove their kd down your throat and convince you to buy it It's quite funny actually.[/QUOTE] They don't care what you think of them and that's why they don't get bullied. If you didn't care what they thought of you, you wouldn't call them douchebags, you wouldn't react, and you probably wouldn't get bullied.
[QUOTE=Pascall;29364231]I see nothing wrong with standing up against bullying. Probably because I know someone who attempted suicide because of it back in high school. Yeah, kids will always pick on each other, but I don't consider teasing as "bullying". When I think bullying, I think constantly tormenting a kid because they're different in one way or another to the point where they're sick of it and feel the need to do something about it. So yeah, I see nothing wrong with taking a stand against kids bullying others. Teaching them to accept differences in society seems to make more sense to me than just pushing the issue aside because they're "just kids". We should be teaching them something different, not just accepting the fact that they'll always be that way.[/QUOTE] That's more or less my view. Teasing is a part of life. I tease my friends all the time. Teasing women is flirtatious and usually works wonders. Being an asshole is different. It's not playful, it's destructive, and that's when I think we should draw the line. Leading kids to suicide via bullying is WAY to far. I also agree about teaching them differences in society. Bullying will always be a part of life, what I've learned from my own experiences with bullying is that you just gotta pick yourself back up, accept that the bullies are morons, and move on with your life knowing you're not scum like they are. I had to learn this myself, though. I wasn't taught this in school.
Standing up for yourself is an important part of life, thats what OP is trying to say, he isn't encouraging bullying.
[QUOTE=SCopE5000;29364315]They don't care what you think of them and that's why they don't get bullied. If you didn't care what they thought of you, you wouldn't call them douchebags, you wouldn't react, and you probably wouldn't get bullied.[/QUOTE] I don't get bullied. Doesn't change the fact I think they are a bunch of douchebags. I think you may have misunderstood from before when that other guy wanted to bash his tormentors. I haven't been bullied for years
I just hate how people think that they can completely eliminate bullying altogether. As long as there is life on planet Earth, there will forever be bullying. No matter how hard you try to stop it. That, and why the fuck are people so weak nowadays? I really think kids need to start learning at an early age to not give a single flying [b]fuck[/b] about what other people think of them.
[QUOTE=lukepker;29364417]Standing up for yourself is an important part of life, thats what OP is trying to say, he isn't encouraging bullying.[/QUOTE] It is. But that doesn't mean that we have to allow bullying because it'll "make you a better person". It does, in the end, if you're strong enough for it. But hundreds of kids AREN'T strong enough.
[QUOTE=lukepker;29364417]Standing up for yourself is an important part of life, thats what OP is trying to say, he isn't encouraging bullying.[/QUOTE] Yes and he's also saying that if you are incapable of standing up for yourself that you should just deal with it, which is a disgusting viewpoint.
[QUOTE=breakyourfac;29356547] incoming boxes from friendless nerds.[/QUOTE] Argument disregarded.
[QUOTE=V3nom;29364485]I just hate how people think that they can completely eliminate bullying altogether. As long as there is life on planet Earth, there will forever be bullying. No matter how hard you try to stop it. That, and why the fuck are people so weak nowadays? I really think kids need to start learning at an early age to not give a single flying [b]fuck[/b] about what other people think of them.[/QUOTE] What about when it gets physical? 1 kid can't stand up against a group, especially when they are trying to make him mad.
I don't think bullying should go to the extent it does, to the extent where kids kill themselves. However I think my life and world views would be vastly different if I hadn't been bullied, and for that experience I am thankful, because I wouldn't trade my current persona for anything.
[QUOTE=Wirexia;29356571]Not everyone can or will fight back.[/QUOTE] Natural Selection.
[QUOTE=SCopE5000;29364589]I don't think bullying should go to the extent it does, to the extent where kids kill themselves. However I think my life and world views would be vastly different if I hadn't been bullied, and for that experience I am thankful, because I wouldn't trade my current persona for anything.[/QUOTE] You are one of the lucky ones then. It's not made public but a lot of kids are left with PTS after the bullying stops
[QUOTE=ping158158;29364638]Natural Selection.[/QUOTE] This isn't the fucking stone age, natural selection has no place in society.
[QUOTE=ping158158;29364638]Natural Selection.[/QUOTE] [b]Message for you:[/b] [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GtxVlg__5O8[/media] [b]Very good anti bullying speech:[/b] [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EeMYdgIm4KM[/media]
[QUOTE=ping158158;29364638]Natural Selection.[/QUOTE] 2011.
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