There's a whole bunch of stupid posters that show a group of people, but one is a whited out silhouette with the text "He isn't here anymore. Words made him disappear. Permanently." It was annoying until someone taped 'forever alone' faces on all of them
[QUOTE=Protocol7;29367893]Dealing with bullies is like dealing with women. Arrogance. Don't fuck around with them. Show them who's boss and they'll leave you alone.
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difference: bullies flock to you, women stay away from you
At first I was gonna take this thread seriously, but then:
[QUOTE=breakyourfac;29356547] moms are getting boners [/QUOTE]
I laughed.
Me, I don't give a shit what the counselors or any other fuckin' faculty say to me, I believe on one and only one philosophy in bulling: "If they fuck with me, I'll fuck with them."
Bullying is much like depression: you don't have any idea what it's like until you truly experience it for yourself. Sure, you tell yourself now that you'll always stay strong, never give in, never back down, etc. But once you actually face it yourself, you feel cripplingly alone, hated, and hurt. You feel like there is no safe place for you to go, and that you're not worth the shit in your gut. For some people, it's too much and it breaks them and they commit suicide.
So don't bash people that are suicidal until you know what it feels like. And even then, don't bash them at all; they have enough of their own problems without having to deal with your asinine opinions as well. Listen to Martin Luther King, he knows his shit: "Hate cannot drive out hate, only love can do that."
I'm sorry, but was it the fat kid or the small kid that was bullied?
Well I do guess it was the small kid but the fat kid won the fight and people are still cheering on the comments? Who was the one wich got bullied?
All those ruddy white kids. :D! xD!
Everybody is different OP, some of can fight back, some of us can't. I use to get bullied, but I ended up beating the shit out of the bully and his friends left him. The bullying stopped and he never talked to me again. I was also never bullied again. However, I've seen people bullied excessively and they couldn't fight back. For you, OP, to act as if everyone can do it is idiotic. Sure humans are capable of some crazy shit, but not everyone can and will fight back.
[QUOTE=Upgrade123;29371378]Bullying is much like depression: you don't have any idea what it's like until you truly experience it for yourself. Sure, you tell yourself now that you'll always stay strong, never give in, never back down, etc. But once you actually face it yourself, you feel cripplingly alone, hated, and hurt. You feel like there is no safe place for you to go, and that you're not worth the shit in your gut. For some people, it's too much and it breaks them and they commit suicide.
So don't bash people that are suicidal until you know what it feels like. And even then, don't bash them at all; they have enough of their own problems without having to deal with your asinine opinions as well. Listen to Martin Luther King, he knows his shit: "Hate cannot drive out hate, only love can do that."[/QUOTE]
You know the saying "You can't fight fire with fire"? That's completely false. You just need a bigger fire.
What I'm saying is, that statement is total bullshit. I understand what it means, but you need the hate to have the love to conquer the hate you're trying to get rid of.
This is exactly the message that the OP is trying to get to you guys. Trying to completely siphon bullying out of every child's life is just bad. It's like being an overprotective parent and not letting your kid do anything outside or have any form of social interaction because you're afraid of them getting sick. What you're doing makes it worse because keeping them out of all of that dirty crap is what prevents them from building up a good immune system. They could get dangerously ill later from something which would otherwise be easily cured.
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And it's not a matter of having the ability to fight back. It's a matter of coping with matters in a positive way. That's something called being optimistic.
[QUOTE=henrietta;29371327]Me, I don't give a shit what the counselors or any other fuckin' faculty say to me, I believe on one and only one philosophy in bulling: "If they fuck with me, I'll fuck with them."[/QUOTE]
And your life will be filled with friends and enemies only. No, degrees. Congrats, you have a black and white way of looking at things and are not contributing to society what so ever :3:
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[QUOTE=haloguy234;29371654]You know the saying "You can't fight fire with fire"? That's completely false. You just need a bigger fire.
What I'm saying is, that statement is total bullshit. I understand what it means, but you need the hate to have the love to conquer the hate you're trying to get rid of.
This is exactly the message that the OP is trying to get to you guys. Trying to completely siphon bullying out of every child's life is just bad. It's like being an overprotective parent and not letting your kid do anything outside or have any form of social interaction because you're afraid of them getting sick. What you're doing makes it worse because keeping them out of all of that dirty crap is what prevents them from building up a good immune system. They could get dangerously ill later from something which would otherwise be easily cured.
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And it's not a matter of having the ability to fight back. It's a matter of coping with matters in a positive way. That's something called being optimistic.[/QUOTE]
Until it gets so bad the optimistic attitude you're looking for becomes depression and then suicidal tendencies and then death.
[QUOTE=haloguy234;29371654]You know the saying "You can't fight fire with fire"? That's completely false. You just need a bigger fire.
What I'm saying is, that statement is total bullshit. I understand what it means, but you need the hate to have the love to conquer the hate you're trying to get rid of.
This is exactly the message that the OP is trying to get to you guys. Trying to completely siphon bullying out of every child's life is just bad. It's like being an overprotective parent and not letting your kid do anything outside or have any form of social interaction because you're afraid of them getting sick. What you're doing makes it worse because keeping them out of all of that dirty crap is what prevents them from building up a good immune system. They could get dangerously ill later from something which would otherwise be easily cured.
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And it's not a matter of having the ability to fight back. It's a matter of coping with matters in a positive way. That's something called being optimistic.[/QUOTE]
You love the poeple who treat you like shit and they will just keep on treating you like shit.
[QUOTE=mokkan;29371706]You love the poeple who treat you like shit and they will just keep on treating you like shit.[/QUOTE]
Its like an abused puppy going back to its evil master :smith:
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Until it gets so bad the optimistic attitude you're looking for becomes depression and then suicidal tendencies and then death.[/QUOTE]
If it comes to that then that's [I]your [/I]fault. [I]You [/I]did nothing but sit there and sulk and act all sad and mopey about what was being done to you and did absolutely fucking nothing. The bully was the catalyst, you were the one that oiled all of the gears and let things go on as they were.
[QUOTE=haloguy234;29371739]If it comes to that then that's [I]your [/I]fault. [I]You [/I]did nothing but sit there and sulk and act all sad and mopey about what was being done to you and did absolutely fucking nothing. The bully was the catalyst, you were the one that oiled all of the gears and let things go on as they were.[/QUOTE]
Uh, wow. You do know that most schools suspend you if you fight back and if you report it, even the one getting bullied is punished, right? Why do you guys never place blame on the bully, seriously?
If being bullied really bothers you, then do something about it. That doesn't mean you have to fight. Just carry a positive attitude, adopt the art of not giving a shit about what other people think or do, maybe start respecting who you are and what you're capable of?
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You want a case where the bully would be at fault? If the person he's bullying is mentally challenged and they have no grasp on what's being done to them.
[QUOTE=haloguy234;29371739]If it comes to that then that's [I]your [/I]fault. [I]You [/I]did nothing but sit there and sulk and act all sad and mopey about what was being done to you and did absolutely fucking nothing. The bully was the catalyst, you were the one that oiled all of the gears and let things go on as they were.[/QUOTE]
Have you ever been bullied or depressed? They are both things you can hardly comment on without experiencing them
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[QUOTE=haloguy234;29371758]If being bullied really bothers you, then do something about it. That doesn't mean you have to fight. Just carry a positive attitude, adopt the art of not giving a shit about what other people think or do, maybe start respecting who you are and what you're capable of?
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You want a case where the bully would be at fault? If the person he's bullying is mentally challenged and they [B]have no grasp on what's being done to them.[/B][/QUOTE]
You mean like normal everyday kids?
[QUOTE=haloguy234;29371739]If it comes to that then that's [I]your [/I]fault. [I]You [/I]did nothing but sit there and sulk and act all sad and mopey about what was being done to you and did absolutely fucking nothing. The bully was the catalyst, you were the one that oiled all of the gears and let things go on as they were.[/QUOTE]
just like a rape victim amirite, just doing noting but sulking and acting sad whats been done to him/her
bullies are usually people with a very low self-esteem idiots that picks on people to make themselves feel better, and saying this is okay will only lead to us supporting idiots to outproduce the smart ones.
wait a minute, what am i talking about, i change my mind. I totally support OP, bullying is kids being kids, and it'll teach kids to stand up for themselves, natural selection at it's best
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dat upgrade
Dumbest OP of the year all years.
[QUOTE=haloguy234;29371758]You want a case where the bully would be at fault? If the person he's bullying is mentally challenged and they have no grasp on what's being done to them.[/QUOTE]
So the bully is never at fault unless the person is mentally or physically handicapped?
fatty fatty two by four can't fit through the bathroom door
[QUOTE=Zeke129;29364989]ugh you make me sick[/QUOTE]
Damn, what an argument, I don't know what to say anymore!
OP i actually completely agree wit cho statemtnz
[QUOTE=wingless;29365801]You know what? Your views are very single sided, because of this all I can say is;
[h2]FUCK YOU[/h2]
I have been bullied my entire fucking school life, I barely have ever had friends, and now because of this I'm scared of every fucking thing about a person, I can't even talk to people I know.
Do you know what an experience it is for me just to fucking buy something? I can't even talk to the store clerk or anything.
Fuck you and you single sided views, you bastard.[/QUOTE]
These callout posts are what we need more of in threads like this.
[QUOTE=Zeke129;29372228]These callout posts are what we need more of in threads like this.[/QUOTE]
I would've gone for one, but it seemed a bit too garish.
[QUOTE=BrQ;29372192]Damn, what an argument, I don't know what to say anymore![/QUOTE]
Not saying anything at all would be the most beneficial to everyone
Seriously you said gays should just stay in the closet if they're going to complain about discrimination against them
I am just aghast that someone can say such drivel and think it's acceptable
what in god's dick is wrong with you
[QUOTE=Zeke129;29372228]These callout posts are what we need more of in threads like this.[/QUOTE]
I would call him out, but I grew an outer shell to hide my feelings away. Which start welling up when I start failing at something EVERY GOD DAMN time. Its not fun, I hate this, even talking to psychologists doesn't make me feel better. The only time I'm okay is [B]when I PUT MYSELF down[/B], do you see how twisted I've become. I don't defend myself, I just go "okay, you're right :saddowns:".
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[QUOTE=Zeke129;29372253]Not saying anything at all would be the most beneficial to everyone
Seriously you said gays should just stay in the closet if they're going to complain about discrimination against them
I am just aghast that someone can say such drivel and think it's acceptable
what in god's dick is wrong with you[/QUOTE]
Well he's stuck in god's dick, thats the first problem :v:
wow facepunch is full of angsty teenage puesdo intellectuals
[QUOTE=deadoctober;29372268]wow facepunch is full of angsty teenage puesdo intellectuals[/QUOTE]
...its always been like this man.
what are you guys blabbering about, havent you been threading the thread, it's all about natural selection or natural instinct or natural something
[img]http://26.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ljxmzxGJvQ1qagg3yo1_400.jpg[/img]
pretty sure they knew what natural selection was, and so did people who evolved then went ahead on a school rampage, they got bullied until they learned how to stand up for themselves
OP has great logic
[QUOTE=Zeke129;29372253]Not saying anything at all would be the most beneficial to everyone
Seriously you said gays should just stay in the closet if they're going to complain about discrimination against them
I am just aghast that someone can say such drivel and think it's acceptable
what in god's dick is wrong with you[/QUOTE]
Uh, if he expects to get bullied to depression over it, should he still come out?
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