• Enough With This Antibullying Bullshit
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[QUOTE=Android phone;29386471][b]I hope you can understand I'm a little quick to disbelieve 10 people almost killed a person for literally no reason[/b] and I really hope you understand I do not condone anything remotely close to that[/QUOTE] You'd be surprised.
[QUOTE=Android phone;29386352]Second one, and you're really SOL if you aren't physically capable of beating them head-on, but you can still surprise them or even just bluff I've been in track since seventh grade, back in Poland, it built me up and before we left I faced my bullies, gave every one of the fuckers a black eye or a missing tooth and now apparently they've all stopped[/QUOTE] No 2 cases are the same, stop claiming that beating them up is the only way. Something you should know is since I left this school, they made one kid get so depressed he offed himself, and they have turned another girl into a nervous wreck who can't talk to anyone but her immediate family members without shitting herself from the terror. I guess I should be grateful I'm not like that.
[QUOTE=Android phone;29386471]I hope you can understand I'm a little quick to disbelieve 10 people almost killed a person for literally no reason and I really hope you understand I do not condone anything remotely close to that [editline]23rd April 2011[/editline] fucking hell, I'm not saying it again name calling and a little pushing should be the limit, anything worse should be stopped immediately[/QUOTE] Entirely depends on the extent of the name calling, if it's just one kid then sure, how about an entire schools worth of kids?
The only dickish bullies are people who bully someone for something unchangable, like race or Muscular Dystrophy (a kid in my school has it and everyone loves him). Anybody else is prompting the abused to get his shit in gear, whether it's about weight (NOT excess weight from a glandular problem), B.O., or pimples. Those are all fixable problems, and if the kid getting bullied doesn't want to fix them, he can live with a life of torment. His choice.
[QUOTE=J$ Psychotic;29386547]The only dickish bullies are people who bully someone for something unchangable, like race or Muscular Dystrophy. Anybody else is prompting the abused to get his shit in gear, whether it's about weight (NOT excess weight from a glandular problem), B.O., or pimples. Those are all fixable problems, and if the kid getting bullied doesn't want to fix them, he can live with a life of torment. His choice.[/QUOTE] How the hell are spots fixable?
[QUOTE=carcarcargo;29386570]How the hell are spots fixable?[/QUOTE] Wash yer damn face. (Assming "spots" means "pimples")
[QUOTE=Android phone;29386471]I hope you can understand I'm a little quick to disbelieve 10 people almost killed a person for literally no reason and I really hope you understand I do not condone anything remotely close to that [editline]23rd April 2011[/editline] fucking hell, I'm not saying it again name calling and a little pushing should be the limit, anything worse should be stopped immediately[/QUOTE] I don't understand it either and I'm over trying too because it makes me feel bad. They didn't beat me until I nearly died, they beat me until I was out cold. Kinda like a knockdown in boxing, but they kept going until I was too sore to move. They never went so far as to brake one of my bones or put me into hospital
[QUOTE=J$ Psychotic;29386578]Wash yer damn face. (Assming "spots" means "pimples")[/QUOTE] But that stuff happens bellow your face, how the hell does dirt have anything to do with it.
[QUOTE=Android phone;29385993]Fathers are manlier than mothers nine times out of ten chances are your dad will tell you "man the fuck up" more often than your mom[/QUOTE] Yeah and nine times out of ten man the fuck up doesn't work
[QUOTE=carcarcargo;29386592]But that stuff happens bellow your face, how the hell does dirt have anything to do with it.[/QUOTE] Sweat has to do with it. Clogged pores? Wash it off with hot water. Opens pores, fixes your acne, you aren't hated any more. How the hell do you think you get acne on your face.
[QUOTE=J$ Psychotic;29386578]Wash yer damn face. (Assming "spots" means "pimples")[/QUOTE] You do realize there are skin conditions that cause you to have acne regardless of how much you wash?
[QUOTE=J$ Psychotic;29386611]Sweat has to do with it. Clogged pores? Wash it off with hot water. Opens pores, fixes your acne, you aren't hated any more. How the hell do you think you get acne on your face.[/QUOTE] I'm pretty sure acne is caused by hormone imbalance
but then people cry "you shouldn't have to change your self image to stop bullying" either you continue getting bullied (maybe leading to thoughts about murder) or you (temporarily) change your behavior, which is worse?
[QUOTE=carcarcargo;29386632]I'm pretty sure acne is caused by hormone imbalance[/QUOTE] This too. [editline]23rd April 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=Android phone;29386643]but then people cry "you shouldn't have to change your self image to stop bullying"[/QUOTE] Uh, you shouldn't. Bullying on that sort of level should not be tolerated.
[QUOTE=mikfoz;29386458]Bullying is done by cowardly twats with no other way to boost themselves up the pecking order and stay far enough up the food chain to not be bullied themselves other than to get their kicks by making someone else feel bad. [/QUOTE] This might be true on some occasions, but I'm willing to bet it isn't for most. People bully because they're assholes. I was a bully when I was a small child (elementary school). I wasn't insecure, I wasn't afraid of anyone else, none of those things people tend to slap on as reasons bullies do what they do. I did it because I was an asshole. It was fun to mess with other people, and that's about it. Not trying to justify it, what bullies do is wrong and I realized how much it sucks balls when it happened to me in middle school, but don't be so quick to attempt to psychoanalyze bullies. More times than not, it's just a case of them being a general asshole.
[QUOTE=carcarcargo;29386632]I'm pretty sure acne is caused by hormone imbalance[/QUOTE] Probably sometimes, but for the majority (=98%) of teens, it's probably caused by sweat. Not many kids have hormone imbalances. And if you do have it, tell your abusers that. They might back off, and if they don't, they are dicks and don't have too many friends, so you can laugh.
if you're bullied over wearing a v-neck shirt and you want the bullying to stop but don't want to confront the bully or tell someone (or neither of those work) either you have to take the bullying for wearing v-necks or you can stop wearing v-necks what's the problem with this? seriously, I don't get it
[QUOTE=Android phone;29386643]but then people cry "you shouldn't have to change your self image to stop bullying" either you continue getting bullied (maybe leading to thoughts about murder) or you (temporarily) change your behavior, which is worse?[/QUOTE] You shouldn't have to do either, the school should properly punish the little fucks instead. Warnings don't constitute proper punishment either.
[QUOTE=mokkan;29386681]You shouldn't have to do either, the school should properly punish the little fucks instead. Warnings don't constitute proper punishment either.[/QUOTE] But if it's something like B.O. or pimples, shouldn't you change your image? That would be beneficial for all parties involved.
I can understand physical violence messing with someone but if something as simple as words gets through to you, you need to grow some thicker skin. Seriously.
[QUOTE=J$ Psychotic;29386678]Probably sometimes, but for the majority (=98%) of teens, it's probably caused by sweat. Not many kids have hormone imbalances. And if you do have it, tell your abusers that. They might back off, and if they don't, they are dicks and don't have too many friends, so you can laugh.[/QUOTE] My face is immaculate so I don't personally have any problems, however to assume that everyone who has acne simply because they're unclean is down right uneducated and untrue.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29386675]This might be true on some occasions, but I'm willing to bet it isn't for most. People bully because they're assholes. I was a bully when I was a small child (elementary school). I wasn't insecure, I wasn't afraid of anyone else, none of those things people tend to slap on as reasons bullies do what they do. I did it because I was an asshole. It was fun to mess with other people, and that's about it. Not trying to justify it, what bullies do is wrong and I realized how much it sucks balls when it happened to me in middle school, but don't be so quick to attempt to psychoanalyze bullies. More times than not, it's just a case of them being a general asshole.[/QUOTE] I like how you softened the story. In the last bullying thread this guy said he went out after people with the sole intention of making them cry, and loved the fact he had that power. The same guy trying to tell me he knows that I was already fucked up like hitler before the bullying.
[QUOTE=J$ Psychotic;29386701]But if it's something like B.O. or pimples, shouldn't you change your image? That would be beneficial for all parties involved.[/QUOTE] Apart from spraying ones self to death with deodorant, what can a person actually do about it?
[QUOTE=carcarcargo;29386741][b]My face is immaculate[/b] so I don't personally have any problems, however to assume that everyone who has acne simply because they're unclean is down right uneducated and untrue.[/QUOTE] You wouldn't know.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29386724]I can understand physical violence messing with someone but if something as simple as words gets through to you, you need to grow some thicker skin. Seriously.[/QUOTE] How about many words from many people.
[QUOTE=carcarcargo;29386769]Apart from spraying ones self to death with deodorant, what can a person actually do about it?[/QUOTE] 1) Spray with deoderant 2) Showers There you go.
[QUOTE=J$ Psychotic;29386779]You wouldn't know.[/QUOTE] Mirrors and the fact that my face is rather smooth.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29386724]I can understand physical violence messing with someone but if something as simple as words gets through to you, you need to grow some thicker skin. Seriously.[/QUOTE] Ok. Let me berate you verbally 5 out of 7 days a week for up to 8 hours in the early part of your life when you are impressionable and extremely vulnerable
[QUOTE=J$ Psychotic;29386678]Probably sometimes, but for the majority (=98%) of teens, it's probably caused by sweat. Not many kids have hormone imbalances. And if you do have it, tell your abusers that. They might back off, and if they don't, they are dicks and don't have too many friends, so you can laugh.[/QUOTE] Source for this 98%?
[QUOTE=carcarcargo;29386788]Mirrors and the fact that my face is rather smooth.[/QUOTE] No, you said your face is immaculate, that you don't have any grime or sweat on it. So you wouldn't know what it does to your face. [editline]23rd April 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=Megafanx13;29386805]Source for this 98%?[/QUOTE] Source: Directly from my ass. [editline]23rd April 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=mokkan;29386797]Ok. Let me berate you verbally 5 out of 7 days a week for up to 8 hours in the early part of your life when you are impressionable and extremely vulnerable[/QUOTE] Okie Dokie
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