• Enough With This Antibullying Bullshit
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[QUOTE=McCarthy;29854829]People get bullied because they put THEMSELVES into those situations. Bullies bully people because they think they're cool/abusive parents IMO.[/QUOTE] I never put myself in those situations. I got acne and was bullied for it. How was that my fault? And not your average acne, it was so bad I had to go on Accutane for six months. It still hadn't gone away after that, and it actually just went back to how bad it was before Accutane. So I fail to see how that was my fault.
No i didn't mean it that way, i meant specific altercation to altercation basis, for example someone said something about your horrible acne walk away or fight them. I didn't mean it was the victims fault.
[QUOTE=McCarthy;29855540]No i didn't mean it that way, i meant specific altercation to altercation basis, for example someone said something about your horrible acne walk away or fight them. I didn't mean it was the victims fault.[/QUOTE] Explain what I'm not getting here. You said I (for example) put myself in that situation. I don't understand how I did that.
[QUOTE=McCarthy;29855540]No i didn't mean it that way, i meant specific altercation to altercation basis, for example someone said something about your horrible acne walk away or fight them. I didn't mean it was the victims fault.[/QUOTE] the only person with the problem is the bully
wow wrong thread
Don't kids these days watch Max Keeble's Big Move? That's how you deal with bullies.
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guns solve all your problems.
[QUOTE=GrabbinPills;29856804]guns solve all your problems.[/QUOTE] [img]http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/9/9e/Dale_KOTH.jpg[/img] [b]Gun don't kill people, the government does.[/b]
[QUOTE=The Spie;29858151][img_thumb]http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/9/9e/Dale_KOTH.jpg[/img_thumb] [b]Gun don't kill people, the government does.[/b][/QUOTE] Actually the bullet does
Sure, when kids call each other names, they just need to man up. In a lot of cases though this name calling escalates in to physical bullying. The problem is that a lot of people who can do something about it i.e. teachers don't recognise that, don't believe the child who is being bullied, and believe that you need to "defend yourself", but in the real world it's the scrawny kids being bullied by the big kids, and the scrawny kids can't fight back. When they snap they just get laughed at and beaten more. edit: also, "just ignore it", has not and will not ever work. it's quite difficult to ignore a punch to the face.
I don't see the point in bullying. I've been bullied and I've bullied before. Cyber bullying isn't something I care about, as I don't see how people get affected by it so badly. But with physical bullying and name calling it's a bit different. I've never been able to handle it properly. Every time someone has called me a name, or just started calling me out, I either completely ignore it, or I go straight to other end of the scale and start swearing and throwing fists. I don't see how that's supposed to be beneficial to me. If I hit them it might stop them, but it'll get me into trouble. If I do nothing/walk away then they'll just carry on and if I try and do anything else it just escalates. I'd much rather use a gun than have to suffer constant bullying. I got bullied in my last few years of school, but the bullying stopped when someone else had reported the same person for bullying other people and he ended up stopping bullying me too. I don't get bullied any more cause I go to college now. [editline]16th May 2011[/editline] Physical bullying is fun though. Haven't been in a fight since primary school, but back then it was okay to tackle someone. Funny thing was, I was bullied for being fat, but I was pretty much the strongest kid in my class, so I stopped that pretty effectively.
I have been bullied my entire life, but I have never fought back physically. I used to yell at people sometimes, but never a punch was thrown. Looking back I'm so happy I never went as far to react. I finally turned around when I was about 13, and I was able to take the bullying as a sign that I was doing something wrong. I self criticised and changed, and my bullying was reduced dramatically. I have great self esteem and humility, and I'm stronger for it. I look at other guys at my school and think that they are screwed because they don't know how to deal with criticism. [b]I am glad that I was bullied.[/b] There I said it, and you need to believe my sincerity.
[QUOTE=The Salmon;29861054] I was about 13, and I was able to take the bullying as a sign that I was doing something wrong. I self criticised and changed, and my bullying was reduced dramatically.[/QUOTE] i.e. cutting self in basement
[QUOTE=Egg_Toaster;29858948]Actually the bullet does[/QUOTE] Actualy the force exerted by the bullet when it transfers energy into your body does, that combined with the force breaking skin and causing extended interior damage and therefore bleeding, hence we must now conclude that the bleeding is actually what kills you. As for bullies? Yeah I've been bullied, you know what I did? What I love, ROTC. You know what that did? Made me stronger, put me in a group, made a ass load of friends who got my back. And you know what that did? If it didn't stop any "bullies" (which it stopped nearly 99% of them) , A fist to the face sure did.
I've been bullied a lot here's my 2 cents,IGNORE ,seriously it's as easy as that,at least for verbal abuse anyways.If your really not tying to fight and others start physically bully ,locate the position of your schools camera and let them bully.Then tell yo' mom and dad and lawsuit their asses XD
[QUOTE=bleachpedro3;29876471]I've been bullied a lot here's my 2 cents,IGNORE ,seriously it's as easy as that,at least for verbal abuse anyways.If your really not tying to fight and others start physically bully ,locate the position of your schools camera and let them bully.Then tell yo' mom and dad and lawsuit their asses XD[/QUOTE] Good job you just bumped a flamefest of a thread with a useless post that repeated what has already been said many times. Please, read the thread before you post.
I've always been smart enough and quick-witted enough to defend myself. I'm pretty good friends with a few of my former bullies. I'm still a terrible student, but most of my teachers seem to like me well enough. One of my favorite moments from school is when one of the higher classmen decided to pick on me, I was doing my best to be chill because it wasn't anything bad. My favorite teacher decided to jump in with "Act your age, not your IQ". It was badass because his voice is so deep.
[QUOTE=bleachpedro3;29876471]I've been bullied a lot here's my 2 cents,IGNORE ,seriously it's as easy as that,at least for verbal abuse anyways.If your really not tying to fight and others start physically bully ,locate the position of your schools camera and let them bully.Then tell yo' mom and dad and lawsuit their asses XD[/QUOTE] yeah n maybe u shudd call da police!1!!! lawl JK the polic are fukign stupid i got rested for dirnking AND SHOT SOME gyy!1!!!!! ps if u want 2 plae blapck ops my gemaer tag is xXxXxXx1337*({|\)9$36EXTREEMKILLAR1274*$V *& &%&$($&XxXxXx
[QUOTE=Egg_Toaster;29858948]Actually the bullet does[/QUOTE] No, death does.
Never really been physically bullied, but in terms of name calling and the sorts, I used to just ignore it or react passively. I've become a bit more aggressive and started firing some insults back. That honestly shuts them right up :v:
I agree with OP I used to be bullied, and in the end, I actually have become quite the person I've wanted to be, and am much more popular than I was, and still can be nice to people without conforming to traditional methods (bullying others myself). Simple name-calling and mental trolling can be dealt with and you eventually overcome that You must learn to realize that the bullies themselves are just dumb fucks, and as I've moved up the ladder I've noticed that most of the cooler and popular people I know think bullies are faggots However, if bullying does get out of hand (like physical contact (not all physical contact if the one being bullied can kick ass please do so that would be funny to watch as shown in [url=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=isfn4OxCPQs]this[/url]) or threats, etc or worse), then I think something should be done about it. In any case though, the person needs to realize that its not them, but the asshole messing with them, and you'll be just fine. Just try your best to deal with it and stay strong
[QUOTE=Arachnidus;29357403]Going on the offensive? Holy shit OP, have you ever had to deal with a bullying situation? An actual one. One with a bunch of asswipes who won't let up, who don't take an insult and merely turn it on you, who keep going even after you go to the extent of telling someone in authority? Going on the offensive isn't fucking doable when they're 6 inches taller than you and have significantly more muscle mass.[/QUOTE] thats when you shoot up the place
ITT people here don't know what bullying causes.
There's this one kid that literally does need to be bullied/fucked with a little, maybe it'd stop him from being a bitch. Swear to god, I've jokingly called him gay and made him cry more times than I can count, his brother has told him jokingly that he hates him and he cries, he's a fucking pussy. It actually makes me angry that he's such a cry baby, but at the same time it's funny.
[QUOTE=Tetracycline;29878194]There's this one kid that literally does need to be bullied/fucked with a little, maybe it'd stop him from being a bitch. Swear to god, I've jokingly called him gay and made him cry more times than I can count, his brother has told him jokingly that he hates him and he cries, he's a fucking pussy. It actually makes me angry that he's such a cry baby, but at the same time it's funny.[/QUOTE] What are you like 13?
[QUOTE=The Salmon;29861054]I have been bullied my entire life, but I have never fought back physically. I used to yell at people sometimes, but never a punch was thrown. Looking back I'm so happy I never went as far to react. I finally turned around when I was about 13, and I was able to take the bullying as a sign that I was doing something wrong. I self criticised and changed, and my bullying was reduced dramatically. I have great self esteem and humility, and I'm stronger for it. I look at other guys at my school and think that they are screwed because they don't know how to deal with criticism. [b]I am glad that I was bullied.[/b] There I said it, and you need to believe my sincerity.[/QUOTE] So rather then stand up for your self, you changed yourself in order to please the douche-bags making fun of you? Damn you sure are a smart strong willed person./sarcasm
People should just be nice.
I blame the parents If they are always smothering their kids, saying how 'special' and 'perfect' they are, when they do get called a douche its going to be a massive shock to the system
i love you op i really do best point someone has made in awhile
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