• I'm turning more and more antisocial.
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by manning up
[QUOTE=Pretiacruento;20904860][img]http://www.facepunch.com/image.php?u=201273&dateline=1263412933[/img] and [img]http://www.facepunch.com/image.php?u=243914&dateline=1263390708[/img] ... would you guys please stop trolling around? Thanks in advance. Thanks, bro :) I didn't know there were so many [B]socipaths [/B]like me on FP! Maybe we should start our own subforum or something... Back on topic... I wish I could telecommute everyday, that way I wouldn't have to take a bus to work... or I wish I could have my own personal gym, so that I wouldn't have to share the gym equipment with anybody.[/QUOTE] you really should start looking up words before using them anyway, i kinda agree with op but i wish i could be more outgoing/get a gf. it's not like i blow people off to stay home, i just dont get invited out, doesn't bother me much though, i think.
I used to be really anti social. Luckily I slowly got over it and started to make friends. Now I'm in more trouble than ever. But atleast I'm happier. :buddy:
[QUOTE=Kybalt;20905337]you really should start looking up words before using them anyway, i kinda agree with op but i wish i could be more outgoing/get a gf. it's not like i blow people off to stay home, i just dont get invited out, doesn't bother me much though, i think.[/QUOTE] Oops, a little typo :v:
nothing wrong with anti social well if people dont have many intrests that you have then just dont talk to them but there is nothing wrong with living a little either. and people get depressed for no reason so you'll get over it but dont try to take meds mmkay.....oh and dont go crazy :smug:
* Disregard for the feelings of others <-- Yes * Impulsive and irresponsible decision-making <-- Yes * Lack of remorse for harm done to others <-- Yes (lack of remorse) * Lying, stealing, other criminal behaviors <-- No * Disregard for the safety of self and others <-- Yes Wow I never felt like I am this way but I guess I am. This may also be because I feel the world isn't real and that it will all end soon enough, but I may as well try. I ahve friends but I can be a huge asshole. Also love is all I have left to hope for.
I don't get it why do you hate people.
You pretty much stated all your problems, so why not fix them? • If you have a high standard of friendship, then lower your standards? Be more accepting? • Don't stereotype and assume you won't have fun, because then you won't • Join your girlfriend next time shes out having fun instead of sitting at the pub • Ask you friends for advice?
[QUOTE=Pretiacruento;20890140]I hear ya, man. It's like, everything and anything people do, pisses me off, no matter what... "I am tired of Earth. These people. [B]I am tired of being caught in the tangle of their lives.[/B]" Dr. Manhattan dixit. I can TOTALLY relate to that. Don't you just HATE listening to people whining and whining about how shitty their lives are?[/QUOTE] You know the irony? You won't stop whining about how you fucking hate other people and how they whine and cry even though you're doing the same thing and made a thread about it god damn and how they annoy you so much jesus christ. :smug: Seriously, people aren't that bad, maybe you just have an inflated ego and a horrible overly critical personality.
Why do people keep incorrectly using the word antisocial? That would be to randomly insult people or to start fights and other activities that would impede other's social activities, what the OP describes is [B]asocial[/B], which is to simply not be social, not actively be the opposite.
This thread is depressing on so many levels for so many reasons.
The thing is, it doesn't seem you are willing to go out of your comfort zone. If you were to do this, you'd be more apt to do things with other people. I was somewhat like this several years ago, but finally I just decided to TRY. Sure, it feels awkward or irritating, but the more you do it, the more you like it. Well, at least in my case.
What the above poster said, also remember that no one cares if you make an ass of yourself.
[url]http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schizoid_personality_disorder[/url]
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[QUOTE=abigserve;20912507]What the above poster said, also remember that no one cares if you make an ass of yourself.[/QUOTE] This is so true. If you hang around mates, everything is always easier and more tempting.
Holy shit, OP, you just described my life. Except I don't have a girlfriend. :saddowns:
You're pretty unthankful, compared to most people here, you have a good life.
Boohoo, atleast you have a gf.
[QUOTE=heavy artillery;20912561]Ukrainian or Russian?[/QUOTE] Ukrainian. I know russian, but I can't read what he said.
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I feel you OP. I've gotten like this as I've gotten older. It's not even that I try to, it just happened.
[QUOTE=CorpseRida;20915387]I feel you OP. I've gotten like this as I've gotten older. It's not even that I try to, it just happened.[/QUOTE] You nailed it! It just happened and grew bigger as I kept getting older. [QUOTE=doommarine23;20911295]You know the irony? You won't stop whining about how you fucking hate other people and how they whine and cry even though you're doing the same thing and made a thread about it god damn and how they annoy you so much jesus christ. :smug: Seriously, people aren't that bad, maybe you just have an inflated ego and a horrible [b][u]overly critical personality.[/u][/b][/QUOTE] There's no irony; I'm very, very bottled up when it comes to these things, and this is the first time I've posted a thread about it. And yes, I have a very critical personality, that is turning even more bitter. [QUOTE=E104 Epsilon;20911146]You pretty much stated all your problems, so why not fix them? &#8226; If you have a high standard of friendship, then lower your standards? Be more accepting? &#8226; Don't stereotype and assume you won't have fun, because then you won't &#8226; Join your girlfriend next time shes out having fun instead of sitting at the pub &#8226; Ask you friends for advice?[/QUOTE] 1) No way. For some reason (sheer stupidity, most probably) People all around me seem to be too fucking retarded, clumsy, RUDE ([b]I HATE THIS[/b]), shallow, self-centered, and a long-ass etcetera... I don't like that kind of people, mainly because I'm nothing like that. I already tried to make friends with any random guy/girl I ran into but we always end up parting ways. And because I find people rude most of the time, now I'm starting to stop being nice to people and I'm turning into a huge asshole (unless somebody earns my respect). 2) Well I don't drink, smoke or do drugs, and that's pretty much what everyone else do for fun these days (they loooove getting shitfaced down here, it's a national pastime)... I can't see what's so funny about that. Something that fills me with disgust is a woman completely shitfaced, barfing all over her clothes and stuff... I can't stand that. That's why my gf -who drinks and smokes-, drinks and smokes moderately... she knows I hate drunk women. 3) She likes to dance, and she dances pretty well... and I hate dancing, it feels so stupid :/ 4) They all say "Dude you desperately need to start drinking, you can't act like a grumpy old man!!" Most people I know laugh about things I'll [u]never[/u] understand, for instance... how am I supposed to have fun with them if I can't even understand their retarded jokes? [QUOTE=Hoboharry;20914271]You're pretty unthankful, compared to most people here, you have a good life.[/QUOTE] How am I unthankful? I like the life I have so far; I live in an apartment with my gf, I have a pretty decent job, we both have the ability to do whatever the fuck we want, when we want it... I'm free of any kind of parental or relative dependencies... It's been around 3-4 years since I started this "adult life" and I'm liking it so far. I don't really have anybody to thank for, except myself because I've got where I am because of ME. [QUOTE=NINTENDUDECT;20912236]The thing is, it doesn't seem you are willing to go out of your comfort zone. If you were to do this, you'd be more apt to do things with other people. I was somewhat like this several years ago, but finally I just decided to TRY. Sure, it feels awkward or irritating, but the more you do it, the more you like it. Well, at least in my case.[/QUOTE] I'm glad that worked for ya =) I actually kinda tried that, but it feel so ridiculous... it's like I'm trying to act as somebody I'm not. :/ Which tells me something about me; I'd be a terrible actor :v:
You're saying that your life is becoming horror incarnate in some situations when really, it's not. This is what pisses me off, people can't stand to care about nothing but their own asses when people are starving and dying worldwide, get your shit straight dude.
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[QUOTE=Hoboharry;20916236]You're saying that your life is becoming horror incarnate in some situations when really, it's not. This is what pisses me off, people can't stand to care about nothing but their own asses when people are starving and dying worldwide, get your shit straight dude.[/QUOTE] You sir, have given a very special meaning to my words... have I ever said I believe my life is becoming horror incarnate? :P If I were some bitchass Emo kid who'd whine because mommy and daddy didn't buy me an Xbox 360 on my b-day, I'd say my life just plain sucks and I'd hate everyone, for the fuck of it... my life isn't so bad, actually... It's just that I'd rather choose not to get along with people as much as I should.
Then don't get along with them, problem solved. You act like this is just plain horrid though. Once again, just stick with the people you like and you won't have to be unhappy. I'm sorry if i might be seeing this differently than from your perspective but meh :saddowns:
You might want to try and go up and dance with your girlfriend, who knows it may boost your confidence.
[QUOTE=Tymoschuk;20919291]You might want to try and go up and dance with your girlfriend, who knows it may boost your confidence.[/QUOTE] I know me, and I'd only dance if I could remove temporarily many of my inhibitions... a good way to do that is by drinking, which will never happen :/
Most of my friends do lots of different shit then me but I'm still good friends with them. Just because someone doesn't do EXACTLY what YOU want doesn't mean you shouldn't like them. Just talk to people and try to get to like them. Brighten up a bit man.
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