The story of how I lost my virginity at 13, and got my girlfriend pregnant at 14.
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Yeah, seriously good story OP.
[QUOTE=Mister Sandman;30012090]An ordeal which a fourteen year old who has no source of income nor maturity should go through. I've seen what happens when teenagers try to raise a kid. They suck as parents. Plus it's not like he even had a choice. So no, he still doesn't have my respect, because he's still a gigantic dumbass.[/QUOTE]
Fine, you've said what you've had to say. No need to keep repeating what other people have said/.
I can never take these kind of stories actually seriously because the first 5 posts are snipes.
You handled it great. Most people at 14 probably would not.
I know that feel, bro. I've went through something similar. Actually, reading your story brought up some memories..
Anyway, it was a great read.
"...and some say Facepunch's heart grew three sizes that day."
[QUOTE=Cypher_09;29930010]The only other option was to either kill myself or force her to have an abortion. Trying to force her to have an abortion wouldn't have worked at all, it would have just made things 10x worse for me. That's the decision I had to make.[/QUOTE]
IMO... Should'a had her get an abortion, [b] BUT HEAR ME OUT. [/b] Trust me, it is crushing, I know, but having the baby ended in that manner is much, much less painful than having a miscarriage. You can't unsee that kind of shit.
That said, sorry.
[QUOTE=J$ Psychotic;30030532]IMO... Should'a her get an abortion, [b] BUT HEAR ME OUT. [/b] Trust me, it is crushing, I know, but having the baby ended in that manner is much, much less painful than having a miscarriage. You can't unsee that kind of shit.
That said, sorry.[/QUOTE]
Having an abortion would have been the best thing. Even if she wanted to keep it. You could have waited until you [b]were[/b] ready, and not have been through such a terrible experience for her and you. She may not ever want to have kids again after this. She may fear having a miscarriage every time. It would have been for the best.
OP tell me that she went to the doctors after the miscarriage. Please. And that you thought about the plastic container disintegrating after time and weathering in the lake.
Can't you get into shit for not reporting a miscarriage? You may want to be careful.
Sounds like one bad mistake after another. Having sex when your immature, not using conception, not getting an abortation. Not to mention that your parents don't deserve to raise a child. What shitty ass parents.
[QUOTE=newbz;30039058] abortation.[/QUOTE]
:bang:
[QUOTE=Hana-San][QUOTE=newbz] abortation [/QUOTE] :bang: [/QUOTE]
Headbang at this? I'd be headbanging (at the OP) for this:
[QUOTE=Hana-San;30034775]OP tell me that she went to the doctors after the miscarriage. Please. [b]And that you thought about the plastic container disintegrating after time and weathering in the lake.[/b][/QUOTE]
:bang::bang:
[QUOTE=J$ Psychotic;30040553]Headbang at this? I'd be headbanging (at the OP) for this:
:bang::bang:[/QUOTE]
Did I type something wrong?
It's your fault. ALWAYS use a condom.
[QUOTE=LieutenantLeo;30044892]It's your fault. ALWAYS use a condom.[/QUOTE]
He didn't know at the time. No one educated him.
[editline]25th May 2011[/editline]
Anyway, for my post itself.
OP, you got fucking [b]balls.[/b]
Seriously. Most people would escape that situation in general. But you were fucking 14.
And you stood there. Even though almost everyone seemed to be putting you down for it, you still stood your ground and stood with her. Even when the miscarriage happened, you didn't crack. Some people would go insane and lose it. You even helped your girlfriend through.
I respect you. You're a great person.
[QUOTE=LegndNikko;30045225]He didn't know at the time. No one educated him.
[editline]25th May 2011[/editline]
Anyway, for my post itself.
OP, you got fucking [b]balls.[/b]
Seriously. Most people would escape that situation in general. But you were fucking 14.
And you stood there. Even though almost everyone seemed to be putting you down for it, you still stood your ground and stood with her. Even when the miscarriage happened, you didn't crack. Some people would go insane and lose it. You even helped your girlfriend through.
I respect you. You're a great person.[/QUOTE]
Thanks a lot mate, it's posts like these that make me feel a whole lot better about the ordeal. :keke:
While it is a good story the OP seriously fucked up. I know a lot of people on here think in weird ways and think that there is nothing wrong with having sex at this age, but that is a seriously dumb way to think. You shouldn't be having sex 5 times a fucking week with your girlfriend, when you don't even understand the risks, and when you can hardly understand or fully grasp what TRUE love is.
On another note however, I am sorry to hear about all the troubles you are having, and certainly wish you the best, but at the same time I hope you learned not to be such a fool. It is truly upsetting that someone your age has had to go through something like this. At such a young age you certainly are in no position to be having sex.
Good luck though, whatever the outcome.
That's incredible, I'm amazed at how well you handled the situation. If it had happened to me, I'd have suspected something very sinister surrounding the miscarriage, given the situation... just seems like far too much of a coincidence.
[QUOTE=mogul20478;30046098]when you can hardly understand or fully grasp what TRUE love is. [/QUOTE]
The fuck has that got to do with sex
And you were smoking drugs and you still are?
You aren't very bright OP.
Reading the whole thing, I can't shake the fact that you're a freakin idiot no matter what you did after the pregnancy. Durrr, hurrr, lets not use a condom, it'll feel better. I don't care how much sex ed you had, you should've been ready for a kid if you did that. I wish you had that kid, both for the sake of saving a life and ruining yours.
[QUOTE=Ghost656;30061462]And you were smoking drugs and you still are?
You aren't very bright OP.[/QUOTE]
Smoking [B]DRUGS[/B] :supaburn:
You're very uninformed for a Dutchie, also where did you read that I were smoking at that time? No.
You're parents sound like dicks. Firstly because they never educated you, Secondly because they flipped so much. Whats done is done, no point making it worse.
Why do kids these days know shit about sex?
I mean, in England and America and a lot more countries, you have all those teenage parents?
There are kids there that believe you wont get pregnant if you have sex while standing (facepalm)
In the end its al about parenting; I had ''the talk'' when i was around my 12/13 or something.
Just a short version so to say, and when I was around 14/15 the more serious version.
But sorry for what you had to go trough.
No parent should bury his own child
What's the necessity of the OP showing that image?
what does a booby feel like
That's intense, bruh.
[editline]28th May 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=power-mad;30061782]Reading the whole thing, I can't shake the fact that you're a freakin idiot no matter what you did after the pregnancy. Durrr, hurrr, lets not use a condom, it'll feel better. I don't care how much sex ed you had, you should've been ready for a kid if you did that. I wish you had that kid, both for the sake of saving a life and ruining yours.[/QUOTE] I hope you die. Not because I don't like you. But because I disrespect you because you are a sorry excuse for a human being.
You're probably an asshole in real life too. Some day something like this is going to happen to you, and nobody will give a fuck.
Kid One: "Yo you know [Name]? He got in a car wreck and is in a coma. | Kid Two: "And? Fuck him that guy's a vagina wipe."
[QUOTE=Darkcube;30088802]Why do kids these days know shit about sex?
I mean, in England and America and a lot more countries, you have all those teenage parents?
There are kids there that believe you wont get pregnant if you have sex while standing (facepalm)
In the end its al about parenting; I had ''the talk'' when i was around my 12/13 or something.
Just a short version so to say, and when I was around 14/15 the more serious version.
But sorry for what you had to go trough.
No parent should bury his own child[/QUOTE]
Kids these days?
This happened years ago dude
I've only read the first paragraph because I really don't want to cry at 9:41AM. There's nobody really to blame except maybe the girlfriend for suggesting to take the condom off, unless she didn't know what a condom actually did or lack of sexual education.
Anyway, OP, good on you. I would've ran off as soon as the words "I'm pregnant" entered my ears and ignored her. You handled the situation really well and even the aftermath.
Fuck. I was in a similar situation with my ex for 9 or 10 months or so. We fucked CONSTANTLY. Like sometimes we actually had sex 2 times in 1 day. I was 14 at the time.
Anyways. Thank god she didn't get pregnant.
I'm 17 now btw.
[QUOTE=Wheeze201;30109048]Fuck. I was in a similar situation with my ex for 9 or 10 months or so. We fucked CONSTANTLY. Like sometimes we actually had sex 2 times in 1 day. I was 14 at the time.
Anyways. Thank god she didn't get pregnant.
I'm 17 now btw.[/QUOTE]
Shit, twice? In one day?
You sure know how to party hard.
Heh
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