• The story of how I lost my virginity at 13, and got my girlfriend pregnant at 14.
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[QUOTE=metallics;30109742]Shit, twice? In one day? You sure know how to party hard. Heh[/QUOTE] No. I got extremely lucky. And I'm a massive loser now.
[QUOTE=Wheeze201;30109866]No. I got extremely lucky. And I'm a massive loser now.[/QUOTE] Since you obviously don't get it, he's making fun of you because you think twice a day is a lot.
[QUOTE=mobrockers2;30110618]Since you obviously don't get it, he's making fun of you because you think twice a day is a lot.[/QUOTE] compared to you it is
[QUOTE=NeuFeX;30110672]compared to you it is[/QUOTE] Am I the one making fun of him by saying that? No. So shut up and go back to your gloryhole.
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[QUOTE=mobrockers2;30110704]Am I the one making fun of him by saying that? No. So shut up and go back to your gloryhole.[/QUOTE] that's beside the point
Wow. You've got some big-ass balls posting this.
I don't think I have ever read anything like this on Facepunch.
[QUOTE=Ghost656;30061462]And you were smoking drugs and you still are? You aren't very bright OP.[/QUOTE] :fuckoff: seriously man you are terribly ignorant.
[QUOTE=Mister Sandman;30011441]keep in mind though that all of this happened because OP was stupid and decided not to use condoms or even try to educate himself on sex at all.[/QUOTE] To all the people saying that he should have used a condom, they're not 100% effective. Not even close. Most studies estimate that they're about 95% - 98% effective - which, really, given how much people have sex, is not even that high. Most people engaging in heterosexual penetrative sex who don't want to get pregnant should be using at least two forms of contraception. However, I'm in agreement with those who think the OP should have used some form of contraceptives. But I also don't think 14 year olds should be engaging in penetrative sex, because this shit does happen. I understand that abstinence only sex education is not terribly effective, and that 14 year olds often do have sex. OP, I'm not going to echo others and say that you had no responsibility by virtue of your age. Despite lack of sex education, you clearly did know a little about contraception (RE: your references to using condoms, use of internet, and so on), but you chose to engage in unprotected sex because it felt 'good'. Honestly, I don't know what you were expecting to happen. I do think that your education system and parents failed you, but you also failed yourself. Having said that, I respect you for your decision to stand by your girlfriend, and post this. Hopefully others will learn from your mistakes.
Bumping nervously due to request. Also, please remember that I'm 20 years old now.
Cypher, me and you should have a chat at some point, if you're willing. I've dealt with a similar kind of shit (four pregnancies between two girls, two each, three abortions and one miscarriage) it's been five weeks since the most recent one. There's a long story to all of it. You seem so chill in DD and now I'm like "damn you're chill even though you've had this life". i'm a comedian and i had no idea
[QUOTE=Cypher_09;36625021]Bumping nervously due to request. Also, please remember that I'm 20 years old now.[/QUOTE] I wish you the happiest life and that the joys you may have missed during your very hard time will come. I regret I never read this when it was posted.
I'm so sorry for you OP, I lost my virginity at 13 also and had a similar pregnancy scare, thankfully it was nothing. [i]no-one[/i] should have had to experience that. ever. how is your relationship with her now? Edit: I'd love to speak to you at some point about all this, if that's okay with you man.
[QUOTE=Cypher_09;36625021]Bumping nervously due to request. Also, please remember that I'm 20 years old now.[/QUOTE] I remember reading this when it was first posted. Has she gotten any better emotionally, and has anything changed between you too? I understand if you don't want to answer but I'm curious.
I once thought I got a girl pregnant (turned out she was wrong about it). Shit really sucks, and I can definitely sympathise with OP about feeling like your life is over.
Realistically, if that happened to me I probably would of been relieved about the miscarriage. Can you imagine looking after a child when you STILL ARE ONE? I can only imagine how fucking horrifying something like that would be to go through, seriously enforces the "Don't be a dickhead, use a condom" saying :I Like I understand all the sympathy going on and how birth control can fail sometimes but seriously not using it at all? By the time I was 8 or 9 I knew that was important just from TV shows and such.
[QUOTE=Cypher_09;29929686]I thought. "I'm going to take responsibility for my actions". [/QUOTE] Your a real man. I fuckin mean that, you don't know how many little shits would've just bailed.
thanks for reminding me to use birth control :3
I'm definitely glad you bumped this, OP. It was a great read. I'm sorry for yours and you ex's loss, but I'm glad that everything worked out for the both of you and you were both able to move on. Best of luck.
So, OP, how are things now? Are you proud that you lost your virginity at 13 years old, or that you had a lot of intercourse by then? I'm not intending to bash you or anything, it's not supposed to sound like it!
She was 15/16 and didn't know penis + vagina = baby? Really?
[QUOTE=Disotrtion;36637403]Your a real man. I fuckin mean that, you don't know how many little shits would've just bailed.[/QUOTE] I can only imagine how horrifying it could be, as a female I can imagine I probably would of run in circles crying having a mental breaking screaming to myself in my head "Jesus get it out" And if I was that age and a guy my first thought would probably be "holy hell, run"
Thanks for the replies and support everyone, I'm gonna try and reply to everything I can think of now. [editline]8th July 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Kamaitachi;36629714]I'm so sorry for you OP, I lost my virginity at 13 also and had a similar pregnancy scare, thankfully it was nothing. [i]no-one[/i] should have had to experience that. ever. how is your relationship with her now? Edit: I'd love to speak to you at some point about all this, if that's okay with you man.[/QUOTE] You can speak to me about it on steam anytime you like. Unfortunately we no longer speak to each other, a shame really, but as we both grew out of our teenage years we became completely different people with different morals/opinions/tastes, we'll still always have a mutual bond that we're both very much aware of -but we let each other get on with our lives now. [editline]8th July 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=SilentOpp;36629773]I remember reading this when it was first posted. Has she gotten any better emotionally, and has anything changed between you too? I understand if you don't want to answer but I'm curious.[/QUOTE] I think emotionally she can handle things better, but she still tends to be pretty self-destructive when she is depressed (which she can be sometimes prone to, even now). Still, she has a child now though (She's 21/22 years old) and loves her too much to put herself at risk any risk. She's a great mother. [editline]8th July 2012[/editline] [QUOTE='Rain [Amber];36633616']Realistically, if that happened to me I probably would of been relieved about the miscarriage. Can you imagine looking after a child when you STILL ARE ONE? I can only imagine how fucking horrifying something like that would be to go through, seriously enforces the "Don't be a dickhead, use a condom" saying :I Like I understand all the sympathy going on and how birth control can fail sometimes but seriously not using it at all? By the time I was 8 or 9 I knew that was important just from TV shows and such.[/QUOTE] It was terrifying, all the moreso given that my school teachers all had to be notified, and I was the subject to the most awful gossip you could think of, even after the miscarriage in which I still received more ridicule than praise for being brave. "oy didn't you have a kid and it died?" [editline]8th July 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=proch;36638729]So, OP, how are things now? Are you proud that you lost your virginity at 13 years old, or that you had a lot of intercourse by then? I'm not intending to bash you or anything, it's not supposed to sound like it![/QUOTE] I'm embarrassed to admit to people that I lost my virginity at little over 13 years old, but only because I feel awkward reminding myself of the predicament me and my ex got ourselves into. I miss the heaps of sex, of course. [editline]8th July 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=No_Excuses;36638933]She was 15/16 and didn't know penis + vagina = baby? Really?[/QUOTE] [B]We[/B] were totally aware, just disastrously naive and stupid.
I couldn't imagine what I would do in a situation like that. You're really brave.
if that would've happened to me, it would have mentally tore me apart.
use condoms
[QUOTE=Megadick;36682221]use condoms[/QUOTE] Appropriate username.
You had some real problems. Reading stories like these make me feel bad sometimes for stressing over completely stupid and unnecessary shit. I myself probably would've done the same as you, and I'm glad you didn't force her to get a miscarriage as your parents suggested or an abortion. You were only a couple of years younger than I currently am when all of this was going on and I for sure wouldn't have been able to deal with it at that age, and I sure as fuck still couldn't now and maybe not even when I'm a legal adult at 18. Disotrtion's right, you [I]are[/I] a real man.
Thank you everyone for your really kind replies. My parent's didn't just suggest that I force her to get an abortion, they tried every possible way to force and intimidate me to force her to get an abortion.
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