The story of how I lost my virginity at 13, and got my girlfriend pregnant at 14.
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That was truly emotional.
[QUOTE=Zeke129;29930798]Well that takes it a bit too far but a pregnancy at 14 poses huge risks to both the fetus and the mother so it really isn't advisable. Glad she didn't suffer any complications herself, OP. Good read.
Although, why did they allow you to bury the fetus in a lake, I'm pretty sure that's like a biohazard or something[/QUOTE]
She was 16
I'm sorry but you were very stupid for having unprotected sex, especially at that young age without any sex ed.
You should've got your girlfriend on sixteen and pregnant. That would've been a good season finale.
Fuck, that was depressing.
Atleast your girlfriend could get pregnant. Mine is completely infertile and i'm thinking i am too :smith:
To be honest OP it sounds like a severe failure on your parents part.
Damn man. Sorry to hear that, you sound like a damn good person, your dedication to the child was very mature of you. I'm glad you can still be friends with her.
That must have been a pretty fucked up time..
[QUOTE=carcarcargo;29931116]She was 16[/QUOTE]
oops completely misinterpreted
[QUOTE=MrParalegal;29931141]I'm sorry but you were very stupid for having unprotected sex, especially at that young age without any sex ed.[/QUOTE]
This is what actually bothers me, I already knew almost everything sex ed was gonna cover when I was 7, six years early. I always thought sex ed was more of a novelty, people [i]seriously[/i] don't know?
So the moral of the story is that only white people can fuck up their lives early and still be successful?
This would make a good movie actually.
Some kids have sex, get pregnant and in the end she has a miscarriage.
[QUOTE=Zezibesh;29930267]at least you're not a virgin, that's more than most of us can claim
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Also that aside interesting story and it was a nice read, it just feels weird seeing people react that way as the people [i]I[/i] know would be completely different.[/QUOTE]
At least he's not a virgin?
Really, dude?
I mean, his story's pretty sad, and no offense to you cypher, but I'd rather be a virgin at 16 like I am now than have to deal with all that shit. He still managed to get through school, I bet 90% of the people here would've just broken apart and fucked their lives up completely.
[QUOTE=MightyMax;29931195]Atleast your girlfriend could get pregnant. Mine is completely infertile and i'm thinking i am too :smith:[/QUOTE]
Yeah, my dad is infertile too, I know what you mean.
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oh shit I gotta talk with my mom brb
But the important thing is, did you get smart at 15?
Wow, I don't think I'd have ever gotten over getting a girl pregnant at that age forever.
You are a brave dude for staying with her all the way OP.
Wow, I've gotta say OP, that's really impressive of you. I've had my own fair share of horror stories in the years since I lost my virginity(strangely enough, same time as you did) but what you just said there was by far one of the most heart touching reads I've had on FP and reminded me a lot of my own past. I'm truly glad to see you've made it through all that and I'm sorry you have to read so many shit posts to what's ultimately a very painful story, you don't deserve that.
Either way, I hope you are really okay someday, I know this kind of thing never leaves you, it can't really, but you seem to be doing a damn good job getting past it.
[del]well fuck my problems look like fuck all now
thanks op
In all seriousness, that's a pretty amazing (not meant in the most positive way of the word, under circumstances) life you've already been through. Respect and good luck to you sir. I manly tear'd up.
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[b]Edit[/b]: Actually, don't read this reply. I really can't put into words what I want to convey here. Respect.
The fact that you helped her through all of it was amazing. You're a good man.
[QUOTE=Zezibesh;29931301]This is what actually bothers me, I already knew almost everything sex ed was gonna cover when I was 7, six years early. I always thought sex ed was more of a novelty, people [i]seriously[/i] don't know?[/QUOTE]
In most places, sex ed is hard for parents to talk to their kids about, so it falls upon the schools(frankly, your parents should man up and talk to you about this stuff) and the schools do what they can, but I don't think they can really do enough. A lot of kids aren't going to listen, a lot aren't going to care, the ones that do and will care probably already knew most of that shit anyways. I find it sad sex is so hard for the western world to breach. It's just sex after all.
[QUOTE=Grotsky;29929857]Why is it that in all these sad threads where the OP spills his heart out, the first ten replies are almost always crap?[/QUOTE]
It makes for funny, then serious discussion.
This type of shit is prevalent in bitches. They like to have babies with the smartest guy they can find at the time, so they can steal their genes.
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Im probably going to get banned for this but its worth it :fsmug:
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[QUOTE=HumanAbyss;29931667]In most places, sex ed is hard for parents to talk to their kids about, so it falls upon the schools(frankly, your parents should man up and talk to you about this stuff) and the schools do what they can, but I don't think they can really do enough. A lot of kids aren't going to listen, a lot aren't going to care, the ones that do and will care probably already knew most of that shit anyways. I find it sad sex is so hard for the western world to breach. It's just sex after all.[/QUOTE]
Well, in my german schools people were super itnerested as soon as the teacher said sex. Not that anybody didn't know.
Also, it got repeated every 2 years, so it gets annoying when you're in 10th grade and the teacher knows too that he's got nothing to tell people, but I haven't met anyone who wasn't sex ed'ed after like 6th grade.
You still handled it like a man, even though you were a teeny tiny kid.
+respect.
[QUOTE=Numidium;29931770]Well, in my german schools people were super itnerested as soon as the teacher said sex. Not that anybody didn't know.
Also, it got repeated every 2 years, so it gets annoying when you're in 10th grade and the teacher knows too that he's got nothing to tell people, but I haven't met anyone who wasn't sex ed'ed after like 6th grade.[/QUOTE]
Well, that's europe, we're not so awesome here in north america yet.
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Almost brought a tear to my eye. Horrible that you had to go through this all. Glad you shared this with us
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