The story of how I lost my virginity at 13, and got my girlfriend pregnant at 14.
477 replies, posted
Moral of story: Fap
[QUOTE=Gaza Pen Pal;29929926]your 17 year old friend had his own house that his father gave him?
fake[/QUOTE]
I doubt it. Some rich people in my town have about four houses on their property, and they let their older son live in one of them. Their grandparents live in another one of the four houses. Besides, OP said his friend was allowed to live in it temporarily, he never said he gave it to him, as if he keeps it as long as he wants.
Post reaction of your daughter/son after she/he finds out you smoke drugs.
But anyway, if you weren't sure about it don't do it. Or try to think about it.
How am I dumb?
i know this sounds horrible but you're lucky she had a misscarriage because as horrible as getting your gf pregnant at that age is, being a teenage parent is even harder.
You're a moron for having sex without a condom, I know you were young and stuff but please. Yes it is horrible and you went through some tough shit, but you don't deserve sympathy for something which could've been ultimately avoided.
I can't believe you never even considered abortion.
[QUOTE=icemaz;29932043]You're a moron for having sex without a condom, I know you were young and stuff but please. Yes it is horrible and you went through some tough shit, but you don't deserve sympathy for something which could've been ultimately avoided.[/QUOTE]
Actually yes he does. No one taught him sex ed. Not his fault. Blame it on parents or school.
This is the second reason I think thirteen-year-olds shouldn't have 'serious' relationships. You end up doing something silly and everyone is sad and you'll just break up anyway. Nobody's happy in the end in the worst case.
(The first reason? I'm goddamn jealous of those thirteen-year-olds :v:)
[editline]19th May 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=johan_sm;29932108]Actually yes he does. No one taught him sex ed. Not his fault. Blame it on parents or school.[/QUOTE]
I'd expect any 14-year-old to know this shit, especially if they're on the Internet.
:sympathy:
Have a hug, OP.
I would have had a major panic attack if I were in your position. Your bravery and strength is admirable.
[QUOTE=johan_sm;29932108]Actually yes he does. No one taught him sex ed. Not his fault. Blame it on parents or school.[/QUOTE]
Every 11 year old in the UK knows how to use a Condom, you are specifically told p.much everything about sex at Year 6 (age 10-11). This is compulsary of every school in the UK.
Was a nice read, bit confusing at times though ( in my opinion ). Kind of weird that all of that shit wouldn't happened if you wouldve just used a condom.
[QUOTE=icemaz;29932043]You're a moron for having sex without a condom,[/QUOTE]
feels good man
[QUOTE=THEMikeDurham;29932296]feels good man[/QUOTE]
10 Minutes of pleasure (15 seconds for Fpers) or a life long burden from a young age HM
I've been through a similiar situation at 14 aswell, not as heartbreaking but difficult nonetheless.
:h: for you
[QUOTE=icemaz;29932341]10 Minutes of pleasure (15 seconds for Fpers) or a life long burden from a young age HM[/QUOTE]
Why would you react all serious to a guy responding "feels good man".
Seriously, what. Don't be so aggressive. People often know what's good for them but choose to ignore it 'cause safe stuff isn't fun.
(I only do that with C pointers, though.)
Wow, quite a moving post. I'm shocked that this would have happened to you... never would have guessed.
[QUOTE=icemaz;29932341]10 Minutes of pleasure (15 seconds for Fpers) or a life long burden from a young age HM[/QUOTE]
i'm sorry that you can only last for 10 minutes
[QUOTE=esalaka;29932375]Why would you react all serious to a guy responding "feels good man".
Seriously, what. Don't be so aggressive. People often know what's good for them but choose to ignore it 'cause safe stuff isn't fun.
(I only do that with C pointers, though.)[/QUOTE]
I'm being aggressive because this is one of the highest levels of stupidity. Seriously, why would you almost throw your life away for this kind of thing.
[QUOTE=icemaz;29932043]You're a moron for having sex without a condom, I know you were young and stuff but please. Yes it is horrible and you went through some tough shit, but you don't deserve sympathy for something which could've been ultimately avoided.[/QUOTE]
Cypher and his girlfriend both made a mistake at a young age and yes it could have been avoided, but come the fuck on, to say he doesn't deserve sympathy is repulsive, his child died and you say that he and his girlfriend deserve no sympathy? No respect.
Also Cypher, you're the man for being there for her through everything, that is very commendable and noble of you.
WOW, your the luckiest unlucky person in the world
Although it's sad that the child died, it must've been like the weight of the world was lifted off your shoulders. Your's and your ex's lifes were saved by the death of that foetus
Wrong button.
[QUOTE=BANNED USER;29932705]Cypher and his girlfriend both made a mistake at a young age and yes it could have been avoided, but come the fuck on, to say he doesn't deserve sympathy is repulsive, his child died and you say that he and his girlfriend deserve no sympathy? No respect.
Also Cypher, you're the man for being there for her through everything, that is very commendable and noble of you.[/QUOTE]
I don't think he does deserve sympathy I never mentioned the girlfriend. Miscarriages are much harder for the girl than the guy and in the end it'll have a much longer term effect on her (Known from personal experience (not me)). He was commendable as you say for sticking around and stuff but what else is he going to do, every teenage pregnancy in the UK has them being generally supportive, it's not like you can run away or anything even if you wanted to. He made a mistake yes, and such a stupid one doesn't deserve [I]my [/I]sympathy you can all be as sympathetic as you want. I respect the parents for being so understanding of the situation (in the end) as well, I know someone who hasn't spoken to their parents after getting their girlfriend pregnant.
I'm sorry for your loss.
Was a very interesting story to read. I think I would've not had the balls to handle that at your age.
Oh wow fuck that was shitty luck, Hope retelling this doesn't cause any bad memories, That shit is sad
In the UK, you can get free contraception, advice and abortion and you don't even have to tell your parents.
[QUOTE=leontodd;29933013]In the UK, you can get free contraception, advice and abortion and you don't even have to tell your parents.[/QUOTE]What the hell?
cool i did the same, it's shit isn't it.
[QUOTE=TehWhale;29933042]What the hell?[/QUOTE]
It's because the teenagers are going to have sex anyway. They might as well do everything to help make it safe. It's a logical thought.
Cypher, bro. That's a lot to go through. I can't imagine everything you must have felt. If you need anything, ever, just PM me.
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