What turns you on the most V.2 Gurant Approved [NSFW]
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or then you lose your wife to the guy who just fucked her :v:
[QUOTE=nnanna;43400725]or then you lose your wife to the guy who just fucked her :v:[/QUOTE]
If you have a relationship deep enough to trust eachother with cuckoldism/NTR, you trust one another and love one another deep enough that sex is not even a factor of it at all.
I think that's a lot of people's disgust with cuckolding/NTR, is that they think that once their girlfriend sees another guy's dick, or feels it, or whatever, that they'll never be able to love you again, and that they'll leave you, or think less of you. Honestly, if your relationship is so crap that your girl would leave you because a guy fucked better, then you have a pretty shit marriage/relationship. It's the same people who worry that the girls they date may have had bigger guys in their past relationships I think. The people who worry about that are the one's that lack confidence or self esteem; if I tell my girl about NTR, it's because I'm at a point in the relationship where I know we mean a lot to eachother and I feel confident in my own masculinity that she won't leave me for a stranger because of how he performs. (which may even be worse, but she pretends that he's better)
As well, sex is about compatibility and emotion, so in NTR/cuckolding, there is no romance between the new guy and your girlfriend; you roleplay a situation to be romantic, (ie, coming home to see your wife with her secret boyfriend (some random guy and it was all set up beforehand)) or you just do the whole "wow he's a black guy with such a big dick."
Really, I think the people who can be comfortable with NTR and do it successfully (unless you simply aren't into it) are the one's who have strongest relationships truth be told. A lot of people just get too jealous, but when you can differentiate sex and love, I think that's when you can have a much stronger relationship. That's been my experience with it and my NTR thing at least.
anything could happen after that though
[QUOTE=Loriborn;43400710]I know that feeling.
As someone who has been cheated on, it's an awful thing, and that sinking, guilty, angry, depressed feeling that churns in the stomach is something I totally understand.
In real cuckolding/NTR though, the guy is always in full control of the situation; the whole ordeal is meant to be for the enjoyment of the "victim," not necessarily the girl. Once the guy feels like the girl is doing it for her, and not him, or actually cheating, it changes to that same miserable feeling, and it's not NTR or cuckolding anymore, but actual cheating. In most cases, the guy wants the girl to feign the preference of the new guy over him, ("wow he's so much bigger than you!") when in reality, it's figured beforehand that the entire thing is roleplay, and that both parties love and care about eachother deeply. Whether or not the girl actually enjoys it or not, and whether that brings satisfaction to the guy is different from person to person; some want their girl to cum, others prefer they fake it.
It's that feeling of not having to compete; of not having the stress and worry of being the alpha male. You get to watch your girl get pleased and you don't have to do a thing about it. Of course it's all fake, and afterwards you know you can make her happy without any other guy, after all, she did it for you, not for her. The whole thing is about humiliation, sometimes bisexuality plays a role, but after, you realize that you are good enough, and that it was all fake, and that she loves and cares about you enough to satisfy that fetish, and that's also a great feeling.
That's my justification for it at least, though there's a lot of details I missed.[/QUOTE]
And yet, because we are humans and not telepaths, there is no way to accurately discern the feelings of the other person. You can't tell if the victim is doing it for themselves or for their lover.
I just don't see how even roleplaying that is acceptable. You're the one that's supposed to be in control, how is that feeling not lost when someone else is having sex with your lover?
If you want to watch her get pleased then do it yourself. Why would you even be in a relationship if you're going to take a half-assed position when it comes to the physical side of it.
[QUOTE=nnanna;43400773]anything could happen after that though[/QUOTE]
again, it's about trust and love and compatibility
if you dont trust your girlfriend, you are a shit couple/boyfriend
if your girlfriend leaves you over something as trivial as just dick, you are a shit couple/boyfriend
its no different than a threesome
Would you leave your girlfriend over some random bimbo you asked to join in a FFM threesome? No, because you know it's just sex. The situation is no different.
Guys just aren't accustomed to actually trusting that their girlfriend/wife loves them or can differentiate sex and love the same way we think we can. (some can, some cant)
[QUOTE=Loriborn;43400753]If you have a relationship deep enough to trust eachother with cuckoldism/NTR, you trust one another and love one another deep enough that sex is not even a factor of it at all.
I think that's a lot of people's disgust with cuckolding/NTR, is that they think that once their girlfriend sees another guy's dick, or feels it, or whatever, that they'll never be able to love you again, and that they'll leave you, or think less of you. Honestly, if your relationship is so crap that your girl would leave you because a guy fucked better, then you have a pretty shit marriage/relationship. It's the same people who worry that the girls they date may have had bigger guys in their past relationships I think. The people who worry about that are the one's that lack confidence or self esteem; if I tell my girl about NTR, it's because I'm at a point in the relationship where I know we mean a lot to eachother and I feel confident in my own masculinity that she won't leave me for a stranger because of how he performs. (which may even be worse, but she pretends that he's better)
As well, sex is about compatibility and emotion, so in NTR/cuckolding, there is no romance between the new guy and your girlfriend; you roleplay a situation to be romantic, (ie, coming home to see your wife with her secret boyfriend (some random guy and it was all set up beforehand)) or you just do the whole "wow he's a black guy with such a big dick."
Really, I think the people who can be comfortable with NTR and do it successfully (unless you simply aren't into it) are the one's who have strongest relationships truth be told. A lot of people just get too jealous, but when you can differentiate sex and love, I think that's when you can have a much stronger relationship. That's been my experience with it and my NTR thing at least.[/QUOTE]
It's nothing to do with the quality of fucking, really.
I don't know if it's because I'm possessive or if I care too much about this "sanctity of marriage/relationship" thing. I just think that sex is a way to express the deepness of a relationship. Leaving aside one night stands and fuckbuddies in this case.
[QUOTE=nnanna;43400725]or then you lose your wife to the guy who just fucked her :v:[/QUOTE]
That'd only happen if;
1. Your girlfriend/fiance/wife is a piece of shit
2. you yourself are a piece of shit
And if you're dating someone who only loves you for your dick then that's just sad as hell.
[QUOTE=Loriborn;43400787]its no different than a threesome
Would you leave your girlfriend over some random bimbo you asked to join in a FFM threesome? No, because you know it's just sex. The situation is no different.
Guys just aren't accustomed to actually trusting that their girlfriend/wife loves them or can differentiate sex and love the same way we think we can. (some can, some cant)[/QUOTE]
I wouldn't even have a threesome lol
I mean yeah if I don't know either of them then w/e sure it's just sex but as soon as there's some emotion or feeling involved then I think the members in that relationship should devote themselves only to eachother.
[QUOTE=EcksDee;43400774]And yet, because we are humans and not telepaths, there is no way to accurately discern the feelings of the other person. You can't tell if the victim is doing it for themselves or for their lover.
I just don't see how even roleplaying that is acceptable. You're the one that's supposed to be in control, how is that feeling not lost when someone else is having sex with your lover?
If you want to watch her get pleased then do it yourself. Why would you even be in a relationship if you're going to take a half-assed position when it comes to the physical side of it.[/QUOTE]
It's about trust. Like I said. You know inside your wife/girlfriend is only doing it because you asked. Hell, usually you have to beg them to go through with it. It's the same as a threesome, or any sort of more-than-one-person sex. You know they love you for more than just sex, and even then, who even says they are enjoying sex with the other person?
There is a lot more to sex than dicks, and usually, the girlfriend/wife is still kissing you, holding your hand, or whatever. You also have to understand it isn't an "every time we have sex we invite a stranger thing." It's a special little event.
Are you saying all forms of threesomes are horrible terrible things? Is your girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband a loser for allowing you to have another girl in the bedroom?
oh wait you are; okay, mark that, see my other points
[editline]3rd January 2014[/editline]
[QUOTE=EcksDee;43400794]It's nothing to do with the quality of fucking, really.
I don't know if it's because I'm possessive or if I care too much about this "sanctity of marriage/relationship" thing. I just think that sex is a way to express the deepness of a relationship. Leaving aside one night stands and fuckbuddies in this case.[/QUOTE]
How can you claim fuckbuddies and one night stands are okay, but a loving couple fulfilling one's desires trustfully is not?
You don't seem to be very trusting of women in relationships, or of people in general. If you're in a good relationship, you know it, and if you know it, you trust them not to leave you. And they won't leave you, and if they do, you were a shit boyfriend and they don't actually love you.
[editline]3rd January 2014[/editline]
If you're claiming she'd leave you over sex with a stranger, or think less of you, why wouldn't she just cheat on you to begin with? If she thought you weren't good enough, she'd leave you regardless of whether you allowed her to be with another guy or not.
[QUOTE=sirdownloadsalot;43400799]That'd only happen if;
1. Your girlfriend/fiance/wife is a piece of shit
2. you yourself are a piece of shit
And if you're dating someone who only loves you for your dick then that's just sad as hell.[/QUOTE]
you are oversimplifying the situation
i lost my gf to a friend and all three of us were just as shocked about it at that point but it just happened. its not like anyone was trying to be evil just for the sake of it and all of us trusted each other. i mean we can laugh about it now but it wasn't fun back then
also i never said anything about dick so in my case it wasn't sex what was the reason why the relationship ended either way she still told me multiple times afterwards how much better i am and we just laughed at it
Yeah, trust issues right here, I'm the first to admit that.
This is just one of those things I can't budge on for some reason. I can claim that fuckbuddies and ONS are okay. How can you claim that a couple, hopefully in love and trusting of each other can let another person into the bedroom?
Even if I trusted her not to leave me I still wouldn't ever willingly let another guy do her. Ever. The thought is just so abhorrent to me.
[QUOTE=EcksDee;43400803]as soon as there's some emotion or feeling involved then I think the members in that relationship should devote themselves only to eachother.[/QUOTE]
partaking in the ntr is the woman's way of showing devotion to the guy who asked her to do it
you have to understand, the man wants the woman to do it, she doesnt necessarily do it for her own enjoyment, that is just a bonus
the devotion is still to one another; you're just using a large man-sized dildo along with it
this relationship conversation really turns me on ;)
have some birds
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And yet the "man-sized dildo" is still a completely sentient human.
That's exactly what I mean though, why would the man want the woman to do it. It's great that you trust each other but why does demonstrating that trust require letting her be fucked by another?
[QUOTE=EcksDee;43400842]Even if I trusted her not to leave me I still wouldn't ever willingly let another guy do her. Ever. The thought is just so abhorrent to me.[/QUOTE]
I get it, and not everyone can be into it. It's a social thing. Trust, manly territorialism, sloppy seconds, and yeah, there is some institutionalized sexism in it too.
I don't claim ntr is for everyone, but I do think it takes a special kind of closeness for people to be able to enjoy it and have a healthy relationship; if you manage that, you really are the strongest couple you can be imo. Same thing applies to bdsm couples.
[editline]3rd January 2014[/editline]
[QUOTE=EcksDee;43400861]And yet the "man-sized dildo" is still a completely sentient human.
That's exactly what I mean though, why would the man want the woman to do it. It's great that you trust each other but why does demonstrating that trust require letting her be fucked by another?[/QUOTE]
It doesn't require it. The actual fetish is an uncontrollable desire the same way any fetish is, the acting on it, and the ability to act on it and keep a stable relationship, just displays that trust, and allows the parties to feel comfortable and close enough to be able to engage in such an act and still love eachother, and only eachother.
I'll be into it whether she does it or not, but because I am, I would feel infinitely more satisfied as a person if she engaged in it and I was able to satisfy that need whilst maintaining a healthy relationship, and it just works sometimes.
[editline]3rd January 2014[/editline]
justifying my sexual quirks with lengthy conversations turns me on
Would you two start a mass debate thread, please?
Come on, this doesn't need to become a debate/bitchfit about what you do or don't like. Link the weird stuff like vore, guro, that weird ass living sex-toy stuff and the weird ass living food stuff, its seriously fucking creepy.
Anyway, everything in this except top left panel for me
[T]http://i.imgur.com/utvZAxD.jpg[/T]
[QUOTE=tufguy;43401448]Come on, this doesn't need to become a debate/bitchfit about what you do or don't like. Link the weird stuff like vore, guro, that weird ass living sex-toy stuff and the weird ass living food stuff, its seriously fucking creepy.[/QUOTE]
So... tag like every single image in the thread then??
'Weird' being different to each person, who are you to decide what should be tagged as 'weird'?
[QUOTE=tufguy;43401448]Come on, this doesn't need to become a debate/bitchfit about what you do or don't like. Link the weird stuff like vore, guro, that weird ass living sex-toy stuff and the weird ass living food stuff, its seriously fucking creepy.
Anyway, everything in this except top left panel for me
[T]http://i.imgur.com/utvZAxD.jpg[/T][/QUOTE]
Please link that pic. It's atrocious and weird as fuck. Thanks.
Guys you cant ask for people to link their bloody porn and then post dragons fucking.
Either all images are tagged or no images are tagged, as fucked up as some of the shit is, it's opinion and the point of the thread is for opinions, you cant go asking people to tag stuff you may not like and not tag your own stuff.
[QUOTE=Tomo Takino;43401560]So... tag like every single image in the thread then??
'Weird' being different to each person, who are you to decide what should be tagged as 'weird'?[/QUOTE]
If you get turned on by mutilated people you're weird. Sorry to break it to you. Weird is defined from the norm, and the norm is not to get turned on by people with their organs hanging out. So yeah, it's fucking weird.
I'm not that bothered by it (not like I go here to enjoy the beautiful pics after all), but just fucking link it, it's clearly stirring up shit in the thread.
[QUOTE=GoDong-DK;43401593]If you get turned on by mutilated people you're weird. Sorry to break it to you. Weird is defined from the norm, and the norm is not to get turned on by people with their organs hanging out. So yeah, it's fucking weird. [/QUOTE]
That's retarded, I happen to find dragons fucking weird but I don't ask everyone linking it to tag it.
Because it would make me a hypocritical idiot to say "Hey tag the stuff I find weird, but here have a big picture of MY fetish untagged lol."
guro is still gore and [U]img tagging[/U] shit still counts as shock images. I'd have given just a warning had they not continued to post things just to piss people off
also if you dinks have to post a wall of images either tag them or tag one and link the rest. The thread was about one image, not dumping your entire collection every other post
[img]https://24.media.tumblr.com/bf285440c269fa9e0026eaf0c71f2732/tumblr_mx083pvJ9g1rn65wxo3_400.gif[/img]
IMO if a pic involves inducing pain to others (rape, guro, some vore) it should be linked
Too much arguing, not enough porn.
[QUOTE=soccerskyman;43401816]Too much arguing, not enough porn.[/QUOTE]No, keep arguing.
It really turns me on.
[QUOTE=Tomo Takino;43401612]That's retarded, I happen to find dragons fucking weird but I don't ask everyone linking it to tag it.
Because it would make me a hypocritical idiot to say "Hey tag the stuff I find weird, but here have a big picture of MY fetish untagged lol."[/QUOTE]
Please do read the examples I posted, which are defined as weird by basically anyone else besides the [U]very[/U] select few they actually appeal to.
[QUOTE=Aw3s0m3n3ss;43400339]No you won't
[IMG]http://i.imgur.com/LYtV5q8.jpg[/IMG][/QUOTE]
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