Help, my brother thinks he's a woman and has dressed like one secretly before
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[QUOTE=LordCrypto;38412320]to all the "accept him/her/it unconditionally without breaking step"
i'd like to see your sibling lie to you for months about something as big as this
sng wasn't just not saying anything
he/her/it was lying to his/her/its brother's face[/QUOTE]
So what are you saying? All the gay people who lied to their families are bad because they lie? Not everyone is accepting of LGBT rights and such
[QUOTE=AxelTheReal;38412376]That doesnt make sense. How can he he a woman if he is a guy, last I knew he had a dick so......
I don't think I'll tell other people because that seems a little cruel but I think I'm going to talk to him tonight and ask him or something. I cant just forget I saw him in a dress and these other clothes or anything[/QUOTE]
Its not that he is a woman, Its that he believes he should be a woman.
[QUOTE=creative;38412391]So what are you saying? All the gay people who lied to their families are bad because they lie? Not everyone is accepting of LGBT rights and such[/QUOTE]
okay
being gay doesn't entail posting pictures of your naked ass on a forum wearing female thigh high socks
[QUOTE=AxelTheReal;38412376]That doesnt make sense. [B]How can he he a woman if he is a guy, last I knew he had a dick so......[/B]
I don't think I'll tell other people because that seems a little cruel but I think I'm going to talk to him tonight and ask him or something. I cant just forget I saw him in a dress and these other clothes or anything[/QUOTE]
There's more to woman to than what's between their legs.
Also, ever hear of a sex change? They can turn the penis into a vagina.
Another solution is to ignore it,keep calling him a man NO MATTER WHAT.
[QUOTE=LordCrypto;38412404]okay
being gay doesn't entail posting pictures of your naked ass on a forum wearing female thigh high socks[/QUOTE]
So If you liked to post photos online naked, you HAVE tell your brother? "hey bro, just want to tell you, in my personal life I post naked photos online. This has nothing to do with you, but i just want to tell you"
[QUOTE=NeoDement;38412418]There's more to woman to than what's between their legs.
Also, ever hear of a sex change? They can turn the penis into a vagina.[/QUOTE]
into a simulated vagina
(and here goes the sex vs gender argument)
bottom line
sex is what you are at birth, cant change your biological sex
gender is what you identify as, can change, however it doesnt change your sex
[QUOTE=LordCrypto;38412433]into a simulated vagina
(and here goes the sex vs gender argument)
bottom line
sex is what you are at birth, cant change your biological sex
gender is what you identify as, can change, however it doesnt change your sex[/QUOTE]
Hey
Don't start
Refer to the first point of my post and drop it
[QUOTE=LordCrypto;38412404]okay
being gay doesn't entail posting pictures of your naked ass on a forum wearing female thigh high socks[/QUOTE]
What does posting images of herself in stockings have to do with anything?
And as always, trans thread head into drama.
[QUOTE=LordCrypto;38412433]into a simulated vagina
(and here goes the sex vs gender argument)
bottom line
sex is what you are at birth, cant change your biological sex
gender is what you identify as, can change, however it doesnt change your sex[/QUOTE]
You can't change your gender last time I checked
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[QUOTE=RobbL;38412460]You can't change your gender last time I checked[/QUOTE]
sex is biological
gender is physiosocial
[QUOTE=AxelTheReal;38412376]That doesnt make sense. How can he he a woman if he is a guy, last I knew he had a dick so......
I don't think I'll tell other people because that seems a little cruel but I think I'm going to talk to him tonight and ask him or something. I cant just forget I saw him in a dress and these other clothes or anything[/QUOTE]
She is of the male sex, but is mentally a girl. The only difference having a dick makes is how you have sex and how you piss, doesn't really have an effect on how you live, what you think, how you act and what you prefer.
Good, go do that, it's for the better for the both of you. Let her decide for herself whether or not to tell your parents about her lifestyle.
Well i can't think of a humane solution to a hormone disorder.
[QUOTE=LordCrypto;38412464]sex is biological
gender is physiosocial[/QUOTE]
Give me one example of someone who has changed their gender
[QUOTE=dgg;38412486]She is of the male sex, but is mentally a girl. The only difference having a dick makes is how you have sex and how you piss, doesn't really have an effect on how you live, what you think, how you act and what you prefer.
Good, go do that, it's for the better for the both of you. Let her decide for herself whether or not to tell your parents about her lifestyle.[/QUOTE]
what is testosterone
[QUOTE=AxelTheReal;38411650]Just recently my suspicions were confirmed, my brother thinks that he is a girl. His name on here is VIOLATION_SNG. A while ago he changed his steam name to "Cassy" and he told me it was an inside joke, but apparently that's the name he's given himself. I've only ever lurked around here and never even had an account, this is actually his account for who knows what. A few days ago I caught him looking at the one megathread for trannys but he said he was just looking around fp until recently I actually went into the thread and saw that he made it and he posts in it and has even dressed up in girls clothes before. I'm really creeped out and I think I'm either going to say something to him today or tell our parents. I always knew he was different but this has to be completely wrong.
I need advice on what to do and why he is like this because I cant believe he might actually be a tranny or something. Is something wrong with him? I figured someone might be able to explain this and tell me what to do because I don't get it and it seems almost disgusting. I don't even know where he got all those clothes or if anyone else knows or if he is going to get a sex change or anything. Its all really freaking me out so I'm calling out for anyone to help or who has an opinion.[/QUOTE]
When I first found out my brother was gay, I felt shocked and disgusted, much like you do now. It's a natural feeling for someone who isn't exposed to things like these, although at other times these feelings are the result of a closed or bigoted mind. There is nothing wrong with being gay or trans, and the fact that your brother wishes to be transgender doesn't necessarily change who he is or has always been.
I believe that, like in my own situation, that you don't hate your brother, but that you are uncomfortable with what he does. You may continue to feel uncomfortable about this for a while, but I feel that for you, that if you try, you can become accepting of what he is. I know it ain't easy, but you'll come to terms with all of this eventually. I feel the need to mention that I don't hate you or think negatively of you for what you feel.
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[QUOTE=RobbL;38412555]Give me one example of someone who has changed their gender[/QUOTE]
transgendered people??????
sex != gender
the sooner you learn that
the easier debating this becomes
[QUOTE=LordCrypto;38412320]to all the "accept him/her/it unconditionally without breaking step"
i'd like to see your sibling lie to you for months about something as big as this
sng wasn't just not saying anything
he/her/it was lying to his/her/its brother's face[/QUOTE]
Not telling someone(who you have no sexual relationships with) about something like that is completely different than lying...
I can agree with you if the original poster was actually lied at by his sibling, but how I am reading it, it was simply lack of communication. The OP has a right to be surprised, but IMO has no right to be so aggressively taken back about his sibling's choices.
Oh well, at least they'll hopefully both get closer and understand each other better.
-lol-
[QUOTE=LordCrypto;38412600]transgendered people??????
sex != gender
the sooner you learn that
the easier debating this becomes[/QUOTE]
Transgendered people change their sex to match their gender, not the other way around
[QUOTE=HarryHy;38412606]Not telling someone(who you have no sexual relationships with) about something like that is completely different than lying...
I can agree with you if the original poster was actually lied at by his sibling, but how I am reading it, it was simply lack of communication. The OP has a right to be surprised, but IMO has no right to be so aggressively taken back about his sibling's choices.
Oh well, at least they'll hopefully both get closer and understand each other better.[/QUOTE]
[quote]A while ago he changed his steam name to "Cassy" and [B]he told me it was an inside joke[/B], but apparently that's the name he's given himself. I've only ever lurked around here and never even had an account, this is actually his account for who knows what. A few days ago I caught him looking at the one megathread for trannys but [B]he said he was just looking around fp[/B] until recently...[/quote]
nah, thats blatant lying
[QUOTE=LordCrypto;38412600]transgendered people??????
sex != gender
the sooner you learn that
the easier debating this becomes[/QUOTE]
Can the mind really have a gender? What makes you a female in the mind? is it the need to become female, Or is it partaking in activities and thinking like the common women. If it is the latter wouldn't that be considered backwards, Giving people genders based on what they enjoy?
Btw, what happens when Violation finds this thread?
[QUOTE=RobbL;38412616]Transgendered people change their sex to match their gender, not the other way around[/QUOTE]
Genders can be fluid and can change.
[QUOTE=NeoDement;38412610]what is hormone replacement therapy[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=dgg;38412486]...The only difference having a dick makes is how you have sex and how you piss, doesn't really have an effect on how you live, what you think, how you act and what you prefer...[/QUOTE]
what is basic reading skills
note how i said gender is a physiosocial element
you aren't changing your sex when you chop your penis off
you are just changing how you identify with genders
one thing I'm not particularly grasping here is- if you've got the gender of a woman but the sex of a male. how do you change genders if you're already mentally a woman?
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