I got back from a 7-week long camp as staff a few days ago, and it was heartbreaking to say goodbye to so many of my friends who I might not ever see again. Many of them became like family to me, living together and working together. The past 7 weeks has been the best and also the most difficult of my life. I'm going to miss so many of them so much. I never wanted to say goodbye... I still want to be there, with all of them.
[QUOTE=TonyP;37315876]Have you tried a chloroform soaked rag and potato sack yet[/QUOTE]
"me and my girlfriend broke up [B]TODAY[/B] after [B]9 MONTHS[/B]"
Not cool, not funny.
[QUOTE=Morris Vander;37316797]"me and my girlfriend broke up [B]TODAY[/B] after [B]9 MONTHS[/B]"
Not cool, not funny.[/QUOTE]
But why did she break up with you?
I remember realising when one particular ex-girlfriend of mine wasn't the girl that I had loved. About 8 months in to the relationship she began to throw things at me and throw hard punches at me whenever she was frustrated. She picked arguments at any possible point and used to go for days deliberately rejecting me and her friends came to me asking what happened. I told them that I didn't know. It all culminated about four months later with me walking in on her sucking my friend's dick (I wasn't friends with him before then funnily enough) and he walked out as I nodded to him because I could tell by his surprise that she hadn't told him about me. I frowned at her and asked what the fuck she was doing and she replied "whatever I want" and to sum it up, she went batshit insane and threw her chair at me which I managed to move out of the way of, but I tripped over and hit the wall which really fucking hurt my head, and I saw her stand over me with a lampshade as if she was going to hit me, and I just stared at her. She put it down and turned around, so I belted it to the door, where I first talked to my friend and me and him talked about what a bitch she was for it. That was the last time I ever saw her before she moved to Southampton, and it killed me to think that she had turned from a sweet, loveable girl to this insane, angry, abusive bitch.
[QUOTE=geogzm;37316939]I remember realising when one particular ex-girlfriend of mine wasn't the girl that I had loved. About 8 months in to the relationship she began to throw things at me and throw hard punches at me whenever she was frustrated. She picked arguments at any possible point and used to go for days deliberately rejecting me and her friends came to me asking what happened. I told them that I didn't know. It all culminated about four months later with me walking in on her sucking my friend's dick (I wasn't friends with him before then funnily enough) and he walked out as I nodded to him because I could tell by his surprise that she hadn't told him about me. I frowned at her and asked what the fuck she was doing and she replied "whatever I want" and to sum it up, she went batshit insane and threw her chair at me which I managed to move out of the way of, but I tripped over and hit the wall which really fucking hurt my head, and I saw her stand over me with a lampshade as if she was going to hit me, and I just stared at her. She put it down and turned around, so I belted it to the door, where I first talked to my friend and me and him talked about what a bitch she was for it. That was the last time I ever saw her before she moved to Southampton, and it killed me to think that she had turned from a sweet, loveable girl to this insane, angry, abusive bitch.[/QUOTE]
A true bitch if I ever heard of one.
This thread has me in tears.
[QUOTE=Kidd;37317042]A true bitch if I ever heard of one.[/QUOTE]
Yeah. Later on I found out she was responsible for a traumatic event involving me and a girlfriend I had before her, back when she hated me before I was with her. I don't know how blind I was to get stuck with her for a year.
It was the last day of middle school. As we transitioned to high school, I went to one school, and all my friends went to another because of where I lived. It would be my last day of school with any of them, but most of all the last day with my best friend, a girl I had known since 3rd grade and had a crush on all throughout middle school. I had hesitated to tell her for years, and now it was the last day I had the chance.
Finally it came down to the last minute. I had struggled to tell her all day, and started feeling sick with pure stress and worry. The bell rang, and as everyone shuffled out of class for the last time, I walked up to her, took a deep breath, and said:
"I just wanted to say that... I liked you."
She gives a nervous "yeah..."
I finished: "and I thought you should know."
I gave her one last hug and walked out. As soon as I left the classroom I started uncontrollably sobbing.
I cried all the way home.
I wish I could give you guys a big hug
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This seems fitting for a lot of your stories.
[QUOTE=Morris Vander;37316797]"me and my girlfriend broke up [B]TODAY[/B] after [B]9 MONTHS[/B]"
Not cool, not funny.[/QUOTE]
Oops, I read it as
[quote]"me and my girlfriend broke up. After 9 months I've tried everything, but she won't take me back. I've never been this destroyed on the inside before. :'("[/quote]
Sorry you two broke up :(
when my mom left yesterday and i forgot to say i wanted tacos for dinner but when she came home we ate pizza instead
back some years ago in a final day travel with my schoolmates, there was this girl i really liked, we holded hands and everything but never said a word about she being my girlfriend, so i was kind of decided to ask her to be it that day.
She gave me signals and everything, pretty noticiable, but i was pretty insecure so everytime i tried to i keeped pushing myself back from doing it.
So, the day was over and i didnt do shit, everyone was happily saying goodbye to eachother and it was my turn to say goodbye to her. She was quiet and somehow knew i wasnt gonna ask for it. She looked at the ground with sadness and i kissed her cheek. Didnt say a thing, neither of both.
We had to give a ride to some other chick that wanted to talk all the way and her mother, and i wanted to fucking cry but i just couldnt do it with so many people at my car. Obviously nobody knew what was happening with me so they keep laughing and talking all the way back to our houses, that made me feel like shit, even harder than before.
Shed a tear and swallowed all the pain, one way or another i knew that i would never be able to ask a girl out, and i havent.
[QUOTE=Anglor;37318288]when my mom left yesterday and i forgot to say i wanted tacos for dinner but when she came home we ate pizza instead[/QUOTE]
That bitch....
My now ex-girlfriend leaving far away for college, and I'm starting to realize I may never see her again even though I still love her. Oh well.
[QUOTE=imptastick;37304166]Around 4-5 years, I found her new Facebook account awhile ago but no activity sense may (the only activity at all) maybe one day she will get back on it should tell me when she accepts my friend request. I dont live in that town anymore, so even if she stuck around chances are I will not run into her IRL.
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I remember she would call and ask if I wanted to hang out, see a movie, go to the mall, etc. with a bunch of friends, then after my parents dropped me off say they all canceled so it was just us. I talked to my friends and they knew nothing about it. I knew she just wanted to spend more time with me, but that was okay because I loved spending time with her.[/QUOTE]
Once I saw a classmate I used to really like begging for money on the beach. I just looked at her and she looked at me and I just kept walking. Felt sad afterwords because I know it could of easily been me in her place.
My grandfather fell ill of parkinsons a few years ago, and it landed him in the hospital with reduced function. He couldn't really speak full sentences, just single words. When I visited him, I will never forget what he said. He said two words. "Kill me". It was awful. We moved him into a hospice where he died in peace a week later.
It hasn't happened yet but, in a little over a week I'm going to college and I'm going to have to say goodbye to the one girl who has ever truly made me happy.
Here's the kicker: she's dating my ex best friend, and their relationship is going great with no signs of stopping. They're perfect for each other.
I just wanted a chance, man.
[QUOTE=ShadowSocks8;37321161]It hasn't happened yet but, in a little over a week I'm going to college and I'm going to have to say goodbye to the one girl who has ever truly made me happy.
Here's the kicker: she's dating my ex best friend, and their relationship is going great with no signs of stopping. They're perfect for each other.
I just wanted a chance, man.[/QUOTE]
Some reason I thought this was going to end in a joke of being about your mom.
[QUOTE=Kidd;37321181]Some reason I thought this was going to end in a joke of being about your mom.[/QUOTE]
Wow, it does look like that, doesn't it?
I think my freezer is a good place for you. *ziip*
Probably my grandmother after she had a stroke, and we knew she wasn't going to make it. We went to the hospital to meet with the family to see her one last time. We were only allowed in 2 at a time, and when it came my turn, I refused. I caught a glimpse of her on the way to the waiting room, and she looked terrible and decided I didn't want to see her like that. I still regret it, knowing the last time I had ever even spoken to her was a year before. I had one last chance to say goodbye, and I didn't take it.
[QUOTE=Kidd;37316899]But why did she break up with you?[/QUOTE]
It's a long story, but the basics is she wants to try and "find her self again", however one of my friends talked to her and she felt there were too many restrictions, when the only restrictions I really had were don't be unfaithful and don't sit in other boy's laps. :(
My grandma on her death bed is the only goodbye I've had to make in my life.
Years of repeated chemo therapy, asthma and congestive heart failure finally wore her down over the course of about 1 1/2 years and ended her life.
She lived into her late 60s.
I called her the bionic woman because she still went strong for the longest time on three hip replacements, both knees replaced, 2 mastectomys, and God knows what else.
She was really strict with me, and I used to hate it. Only when she was dying did I realize she only did it because she loved me.
God, thinking back to it I feel like an asshole all over again...
She gave me love and all I ever gave back was shit.
When I ate the last Bakeable Pretzel in my freezer.
The final session of Cowboy Bebop.
The song gave it more meaning.
kinda stupid but a lot of goodbyes in anime upset me, the ending of tonagura where [sp]Yuuji has to leave for new york, and kazuki just can't admit her fealings[/sp]
When my puppy was taken to another family, it was for the best.
also when my granddad passed away, we float a lantern into the sky for him on his birthday every year.
My saddest goodbye was with my girlfriend of a year and a half, and for the last 6 months of her life she had been going through emotional issues, from some still unknown source.
so, she called me one day at about 3AM. she was crying, and said she was sorry, and said goodbye.
then, i heard her rack the slide, and she shot herself.
since then, i have been prescribed heavy anti-depressants and therapy for the state of depression i fell into after this. she was perfect, and i loved her. and my last goodbyes were me listening to her death and running 2 miles to her house to find her dad crying over her body, as paramedics popped the cart into the back of the ambulance, and drove away without sirens or lights.
My girlfriend of 5 months (would've been 6 this Friday) had recently broke up with me on Monday. It was such a shocker because I didn't see it coming. We had a great weekend together and we were happy and everything. She had kept telling me, "I love you and I think I want to marry you." and I guess at this point, its just a whole lot of bullshit. I had dealt with her anger and negativity the first 3 months of the relationship because I cared a lot about her, but when I start being negative in any possible way, she feels she can drop me and move on. I've done so much for her. I paid for dates, took her all the way out to the mountains, spent almost every waking second with her. I feel her dad, who doesn't like me because I don't have a job, had a lot of influence on her. Just weeks ago she was telling me he was an asshole and all this and then she turns around and says "He's just trying to help." and started to defend him. Now he's threatening to call the police on me because I keep texting her trying to fight for her back, but none of it works and it only "hurts her" she says. She always told me "I never want to be like my dad." but sadly, she's exactly like him now. 5 months wasted... But, I guess its time to pack my shit and start moving on 'cause that ship has sailed out quick.
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