No-Porn Forever - are you a bad enough dude to reboot?
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[QUOTE=Jocken300;35794145]I don't really agree with you here. To me at least the release is a lot more intense when watching porn than it would otherwise be. I also can't last for quite as long as I do when I'm not watching porn.
Also, one day into not watching porn. I don't think this will be so hard, it's only a matter of self-control.[/QUOTE]
It matters on how you take a look at it, and it must differ from person to person, so you can't expect it to be bad for someone else or not, and if you can't keep up your erection by just fapping then you already have mental ED.
Someone should really put an asterisk in the OP. Regarding build up and wet dreams...not a pretty sight.
Any other ones here that [i]never[/i] uses porn or did anything of the sort?
[QUOTE=Soret;35804794]It matters on how you take a look at it, and it must differ from person to person, so you can't expect it to be bad for someone else or not, and if you can't keep up your erection by just fapping then you already have mental ED.[/QUOTE]
I never claimed that I can't sustain an erection. I was merely responding to you saying that there's no difference between fapping to porn and not fapping to porn, saying that there was a difference, at least for me.
But it's true as you say, it depends on the person.
[QUOTE=Stonecycle;35809334]Any other ones here that [I]never[/I] uses porn or did anything of the sort?[/QUOTE]
Do you really think you find someone on fp who never watched porn?
[QUOTE=Lord_Schrotty;35811337]Do you really think you find someone on fp who never watched porn?[/QUOTE]
the REALLY young ones
Also, please remove me from the list.
I didn't fail (yet), but I no longer wish to take part in this nonsense
Pretty much I have just stopped using porn. I fap every couple days, and I see some results, feel a little better without watching it, like more pleasurable and stuff. I think it works a bit to not actually use porn, but normal fapping aint really causing too much trouble.
I'll give this a bash I think.
[editline]3rd May 2012[/editline]
Heh. "Give it a bash".
[editline]3rd May 2012[/editline]
Hang on, if I do this I'm gonna feel even shittier than usual? FUCK THAT.
I think you guys are taking that presentation on board far too much.
The subject was addiction to porn, not the ill effects of jerking off to porn every now and then.
Do you stop drinking alcohol because people who are addicted to alcohol have a fucked up pleasure center?
[QUOTE=JaegerMonster;35818125]I think you guys are taking that presentation on board far too much.
The subject was addiction to porn, not the ill effects of jerking off to porn every now and then.
Do you stop drinking alcohol because people who are addicted to alcohol have a fucked up pleasure center?[/QUOTE]
But alcohol can be healthy if you dont drink too much.
I'm done with school and all I do is sit at home, jack off and wait to go to work.
I'm disgusted with myself and really need to change.
Count me in.
I have reached my personal goal.
Put me on the fail list.
Fu*ck no.
So far 8 days with no porn, and 2 days without masturbation. Masturbation is not hard without porn. I can't fantasize about the sexy girls at my job but i sure can have ask Jill( My hand ) to give me a
nice hand job!
Also during these 8 days women seem more attractive to me, and i have started to feel more and more like a total jerk. Also my thinking is much clearer
[QUOTE=Mr. Creeper;35834549]...and i have started to feel more and more like a total jerk.[/QUOTE]
You are feeling more and more like a jerk? How is that positive?
Complete failure at 14 days no P 7 days no M, I'm going right back on though, feel like shit.
I failed this horribly but it's not like I fap 10 times a day or porn corrupting me, so maybe when I'm not 15 anymore.
I didn't watched porn for like 14 days now, fapped only 3 times. I now get random boners there and there, and sometimes even a though about women can give me boner. I think it's great :D.
i love my acnes, i cant stop fapping
Almost at week 3, some urges, still going strong though. I keep having pics pop into my head at the most inconvenient times, though.
I'm no nearly 3 weeks without porn. I think the experimet is paying off for me. I only fapped 3 times during that time too (yeah, didn't make it completly without it).
I guess you can put me on the list too, I rarely ever watch porn, so I guess I'm not considered addicted :v:
I am in but I will start tomorrow.
Lemme just say a lot of the OP is bullshit. However, out of personal experience, I do agree with what he's trying to convey here.
When I was 16, masturbation and sex was the only thing in my mind. The same was true for my friends. We joked about how hard it would be to quit masturbating. With the masochist that I am, I said I would be the guinea pig in this little sick joke, à la "40 Days and 40 Nights". I did it for a month. I was fine the first week, even felt a little more refreshed, as the OP would imply. But also, because I had more constructive things to focus my mind. I read more. I tried exercising(which helped a great deal!)Basically, my head was "out of the gutter" that was me jerking off and thinking about sex all the time. The next weeks however, felt more like dark spiral. I do admit I was more flirtatious and sociable towards women, but only because I saw them as potential sex partners. And I was also more moody and somewhat depressed.
At the end of the month, I still went on without doing it. Couple of days later, after a small encounter with the fairer sex (we only made out), I got insanely horny! I couldn't hold it in anymore and jerked off. The feeling of climax was like no other I had felt before.
I proceeded to experiment this way for the following months. I would jerk off many times, and then stop for a number of days. I would switch between my imagination and porn. I would go weeks with my imagination alone. I found out these did not make me much happier, both mentally and sexually.
Years passed, and I eventually found my sweet spot of doing it in moderation. That being said everyone is different. I jerk off as little as twice a week on average. With or without porn. Hell, I become bored and just disgusted with porn sometimes. Sometimes I'll frequent the hardcore sections, or go to the amateur videos with some romance in the mix too.
I've also watched porn and had a sexual-only relationship with a friend. Didn't make me bad in the sack. Hell if it wasn't for porn, we would not have banged as much as we did, due to my near lack of experience in bed. It has been a great sexual learning tool. Another one of my friend uses it with her boyfriend to make sex interesting and I can say they have sex more than I jerk it.
Also, the part about being desensitized to sex really rubbed me the wrong way. I mean sure porn CAN cause some sort of desensitization, doesn't mean it will affect everyone the same way. I've known club rats who screwed so many different partners almost daily who were more desensitized to sex than I ever was. These people saw prospective partners as some sort of literal prize. I can't say I've ever objectified a woman to that extent what with all my porn watching. I fear more the yuppie handing out date rape drugs or taking advantage of intoxicated women than I do a teenager watching porn at home.
Closing on this post, if you truly feel that porn is having such a negative impact on your life, then this "cleanse" may help you a little. But I doubt it seeing as our many problems are often intertwined and stem from many places.
[QUOTE=Emo Panda;35843279]Lemme just say a lot of the OP is bullshit. However, out of personal experience, I do agree with what he's trying to convey here.
When I was 16, masturbation and sex was the only thing in my mind. The same was true for my friends. We joked about how hard it would be to quit masturbating. With the masochist that I am, I said I would be the guinea pig in this little sick joke, Ã* la "40 Days and 40 Nights". I did it for a month. I was fine the first week, even felt a little more refreshed, as the OP would imply. But also, because I had more constructive things to focus my mind. I read more. I tried exercising(which helped a great deal!)Basically, my head was "out of the gutter" that was me jerking off and thinking about sex all the time. The next weeks however, felt more like dark spiral. I do admit I was more flirtatious and sociable towards women, but only because I saw them as potential sex partners. And I was also more moody and somewhat depressed.
At the end of the month, I still went on without doing it. Couple of days later, after a small encounter with the fairer sex (we only made out), I got insanely horny! I couldn't hold it in anymore and jerked off. The feeling of climax was like no other I had felt before.
I proceeded to experiment this way for the following months. I would jerk off many times, and then stop for a number of days. I would switch between my imagination and porn. I would go weeks with my imagination alone. I found out these did not make me much happier, both mentally and sexually.
Years passed, and I eventually found my sweet spot of doing it in moderation. That being said everyone is different. I jerk off as little as twice a week on average. With or without porn. Hell, I become bored and just disgusted with porn sometimes. Sometimes I'll frequent the hardcore sections, or go to the amateur videos with some romance in the mix too.
I've also watched porn and had a sexual-only relationship with a friend. Didn't make me bad in the sack. Hell if it wasn't for porn, we would not have banged as much as we did, due to my near lack of experience in bed. It has been a great sexual learning tool. Another one of my friend uses it with her boyfriend to make sex interesting and I can say they have sex more than I jerk it.
Also, the part about being desensitized to sex really rubbed me the wrong way. I mean sure porn CAN cause some sort of desensitization, doesn't mean it will affect everyone the same way. I've known club rats who screwed so many different partners almost daily who were more desensitized to sex than I ever was. These people saw prospective partners as some sort of literal prize. I can't say I've ever objectified a woman to that extent what with all my porn watching. I fear more the yuppie handing out date rape drugs or taking advantage of intoxicated women than I do a teenager watching porn at home.
Closing on this post, if you truly feel that porn is having such a negative impact on your life, then this "cleanse" may help you a little. But I doubt it seeing as our many problems are often intertwined and stem from many places.[/QUOTE]
Sans the anecdote, this is exactly why I stopped this.
I'm in!
I love watching the storylines in well-produced porn.
Brazzers never fails to make incredibly funny and satirical storylines to accompany every one of their videos and with their ridiculous budget (hundreds of millions of dollars a month) they go all out with buying props, cars, limos, sets, mansions, shops, clubs, etc to set them in.
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