• Why do you think you are single?
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[QUOTE=Beastly_Boy;16729840]God Damn[/QUOTE] Yeah, it's sad :frown:
[QUOTE=Dark-Energy;16730761]Yeah, it's sad :frown:[/QUOTE] Fix it. Trust me, you can.
I'm not social.
I don't know any girls I could feasibly ask out right now and would probably pussy out if I did.
[QUOTE=Beastly_Boy;16730766]Fix it. Trust me, you can.[/QUOTE] But how?
[QUOTE=Dark-Energy;16730817]But how?[/QUOTE] Alright, well I'm definitely no expert but here's my take: -Acne: sounds like you have that under control, but I use the following because I sometimes get it on my face. I like to use Neutrogena cleansing pads (The ones that smell nice are a bit less effective, but my case isn't as bad as most. Get the ones in the tub with the shiny purple label, they are about $7 but last about 2 months). I also recommend something like a facial cleanser and moisturizer in order to keep up with your skin, not too dry, not too oily and keeps your pores open. -Teeth: get some white strips that you can put on for about 30 minutes each day. They have 14 day kits. They really worked for me, about one month of these and normal teeth brushing should do it. Get a new toothbrush, it doesn't have to be fancy, but I like the ones with rubber bristles on the sides to scrub the actual tooth more when brushing. Also make sure you get whitening toothpaste, every little bit helps. Brush the back of your tongue too (in case you don't), you may choke some, but it's good for your teeth and breath. -Smell / Appearance: find a haircut that is right for you, I personally keep my hair shorter, because it doesn't look that great long. I use a small amount of product to keep it up in the front a bit too. Also, maybe start getting some clothes from stores out of your normal shopping ring. I like to get shit from Spencer's, Aeropostale, Bealls (a local store), Quiksilver and other places. Although I still will go in AE sometimes and find something I really like. Get some nice fitting polos, some beige or madras shorts or something. That always looks nice. As far as fragrance goes (if you need to know) get something nice like Armani Mania or Armani Attitude for men, Davidoff Cool Water is nice too. Whatever floats your boat really. -Overall: It sounds like you have a lot of potential and you're just a bit self conscious. Don't be, I find myself trying to get out of fun things all the time, because I don't like how I look. I have a sort of muffin top (not too bad) and like 2 - 3 stretchmarks on my side. Nobody cares if you're off having fun being yourself man. Trust me, it took me forever to realize that. If you really want to clear things up, the best advice I can offer is to drink a lot more water as opposed to soda. Even if you drink both, the water will balance out your body for one, and help clear up the teeth color, breath, acne (A LOT) if you drink enough a day. Plus it's good for you. Hope this helps at least a little. Sorry, it can cost a bit of money. Under $200 though depending on what all you want / need. [editline]02:23AM[/editline] Also, to be honest, just talk about anything with girls. Try to find a topic they will talk about (pretty much anything besides politics, usually those won't go far very well unless you agree with eachtoher). The main thing is to just not lie about yourself or things you've done. Talk about TV, Music, Life, anything man. Get a social networking page on facebook or something if you don't already. Start adding people you know, it's crazy how many people will send requests or you will find that want you to be their friend. Start idle talking and then if they talk back with interest, you have yourself something to set your goals for.
ok, thanks for the advice man. I appreciate it. But holy shit, I didn't expect that much of a post though heh lol
[QUOTE=lord_trid;16707811]Because I post on facepunch. And because all the guys who act like dicks get all the girls :mad:[/QUOTE] Not because they are dicks, it's because they are confident. It's how they hold themselves, how they present themselves. Confidence is more attractive to a chick than just about anything else. Look, to all of you that are all like "I can't get a chick cuz im fat and/or ugly", you need to love yourself long before anyone else will. A HUGE turn-off for a chick is he who feels bad about himself, who sulks and holds his head down and is not in touch with himself. Love who you are, what you do, and what you like and be fucking proud of all of the above. I don't mean be all conceded and too focused on yourself, but having confidence in yourself. Women see this and know that the guy is a protector/provider type, which is a deep-seeded view of the father figure. Yes, sure, it's a rather Freudian view on the matter but it never fails. Women like father figures. It's creepy if you think about it, but women find comfort in a man who can protect and provide as a father figure can. If you aren't proud to be you, and don't love yourself and all of your flaws, you are far from ready to have a relationship. Give me boxes, clocks, red X's, whatever. Now, step outside of your frail comfort zone and go ask that chick out. If you never take a risk, you will never experience the reward.
Reason I'm single is because I don't like the be the one that everyone goes "OH MY GOD, HE'S GOING OUT WITH HER. EWWW". That's why i aim really high.
Confidence issues, generally an uninteresting guy.
[QUOTE=bobste;16729803]go up to a girl and ask her out godDAMN[/QUOTE] Shut the fuck up, spammer.
[QUOTE=soupman345-2;16734380]Shut the fuck up, spammer.[/QUOTE] how rude what have i ever done to you
Shy and not good looking at all =)
I'm single because I shut people out with my deeply rooted sense of unworthiness. Same reason I have very few friends of any gender.
[QUOTE=tarkio;16740167]I'm single because I shut people out with my deeply rooted sense of unworthiness. Same reason I have very few friends of any gender.[/QUOTE] confidENSe
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I'm Asexuall.
[QUOTE=bobste;16740149]how rude what have i ever done to you[/QUOTE] Spammed me.
[QUOTE=soupman345-2;16741159]Spammed me.[/QUOTE] lets go
Because i will never be good enough. I'll always just be an, "option".
[QUOTE=Hizzle;16742227]Because i will never be good enough. I'll always just be an, "option".[/QUOTE] with that attitude you wont grow a pair emo boy
[QUOTE=bobste;16742246]with that attitude you wont grow a pair emo boy[/QUOTE] Haha, you obviously do not know me. B'rate. I'm not sure whether that was supposed to offend me or not. But lovely.
IM NOT LOL [img_thumb]peisn[/img_thumb]
your avatar expresses deep emotion w/ that man sleeping in a black and white enviorment but then it is bordered by a blue and green border you read mjbs hip thread didnt you [editline]06:31PM[/editline] UM FUCK YOU KASPER I WAS TLAKING TO THE OTHER GUY s
[QUOTE=bobste;16742441]your avatar expresses deep emotion w/ that man sleeping in a black and white enviorment but then it is bordered by a blue and green border you read mjbs hip thread didnt you [editline]06:31PM[/editline] UM FUCK YOU KASPER I WAS TLAKING TO THE OTHER GUY s[/QUOTE] I honestly have no idea what you are talking about.
[QUOTE=Hizzle;16742464]I honestly have no idea what you are talking about.[/QUOTE] denial
[QUOTE=bobste;16742441]your avatar expresses deep emotion w/ that man sleeping in a black and white enviorment but then it is bordered by a blue and green border you read mjbs hip thread didnt you [editline]06:31PM[/editline] UM FUCK YOU KASPER I WAS TLAKING TO THE OTHER GUY s[/QUOTE] The green and blue border is the MSN photo thing.
I don't know, I'm really withdrawn. I'm confident in myself, I think I have a great personality and great a great future lined up. I just can't get the courage to make a move, though.
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