So my "girlfriend"'s been arrested, and she's going to fucking jail.

[PGunnii]

[QUOTE=sonicrjk;24456590]the fact that you aren't official is the biggest red flag imo[/QUOTE]

Yeah I know. I've been meaning to sort that shit out. She's got a bit more guy drama than I had previously thought.

[editline]02:25AM[/editline]

[QUOTE=Itsjustguy;24456602]Making talk to her what was she doing on the roof with that guy ?
Don't dump her yet.Get her part of the story.[/QUOTE]

That's what I wanna do.

[sonicrjk]

[QUOTE=KingKombat;24456580]I just want answers. What the fuck was she doing on the roof exactly? I can't just jump to conclusions without actual clues, and just the basis that she was with some guy and that was it.[/QUOTE]
You are never going to know and you shouldn't worry about it.

"You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks,
even months over analyzing a situation.
Trying to put the pieces back together
justifying what could've,
should've, would've happened.
Or you can just leave the pieces on the floor
and move the fuck on."

[Mr Flexi]

[QUOTE=sloppy_joes;24456147]Long-term friendships don't make great relationships.[/QUOTE]

This.

But sucks she's going behind bars, know how long? What's the time for that sort of thing...?

[Ericsson]

You have one badass of girlfriend, dude. Meet her from time to time

[PGunnii]

[QUOTE=sonicrjk;24456618]You are never going to know and you shouldn't worry about it.

"You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, even months analyzing a situation; trying to put the pieces together, justifying what could've, should've, would've happened or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move the fuck on."[/QUOTE]

Which is why I'm just gonna give her an ultimatum.

[sonicrjk]

[QUOTE=KingKombat;24456638]Which is why I'm just gonna give her an ultimatum.[/QUOTE]
I don't think you should, but what would you say?

[SystemGS]

I would just drop it, provided she was cheating. Not worth the time or the effort if it's on her as well.

But honestly, try to talk to her (if at all possible) about the whole situation before you do anything, rational or not.

[Silly Sil]

[QUOTE=KingKombat;24456561]Sheeet sorry I just re-read your post. Look it's 2 AM here and I'm a little tired.

And yeah I'm wondering why she got arrested alongside that dick mouth she was with.[/QUOTE]
Alright.
I did some googling and this came up.
Charges for trespassing.
[quote]Up to 7 years imprisonment & fine up to greater of ($5,000 or double felon's monetary gain) plus all & any additional court costs & fees - for Class D felony.

Up to 3 months imprisonment & fine up to greater of ($500 or double any monetary gain) plus all & any court costs & fees - for Class B misdemeanor.

Laws of New York, PEN - Penal
------------------------------------
Part 3 Specific Offenses, Title I, Article 140 - BURGLARY AND RELATED OFFENSES
140.00 - Criminal trespass and burglary; definitions of terms.
140.05 - Trespass.
140.10 - Criminal trespass in the third degree. = Class B misdemeanor
140.15 - Criminal trespass in the second degree. = Class A misdemeanor
140.17 - Criminal trespass in the first degree. = Class D felony

Part 2 - SENTENCES, Title E - SENTENCES
Article 55 - (55.00 - 55.10) CLASSIFICATION AND DESIGNATION OF OFFENSES
Article 60 - (60.00 - 60.35) AUTHORIZED DISPOSITIONS OF OFFENDERS
Article 65 - (65.00 - 65.20) SENTENCES OF PROBATION, CONDITIONAL DISCHARGE AND UNCONDITIONAL DISCHARGE
Article 70 - (70.00 - 70.80) SENTENCES OF IMPRISONMENT
Article 70 - SENTENCES OF IMPRISONMENT
70.00 - Sentence of imprisonment for felony.
70.15 - Sentences of imprisonment for misdemeanors and violation.
Article 80 - (80.00 - 80.15) FINES
Article 80 - FINES
80.00 - Fine for felony.
80.05 - Fines for misdemeanors and violation.
Article 85 - (85.00 - 85.15) SENTENCE OF INTERMITTENT IMPRISONMENT[/quote]Well...

[PGunnii]

[QUOTE=sonicrjk;24456649]I don't think you should, but what would you say?[/QUOTE]

Pretty much either cut the shit we're doing now, become an actual couple, or we stay just friends. Personally I wouldn't find being just friends that bad, what with the shit she's doing now.

That's if she isn't actually "cheating" on me. Then I'm just fucking dumping her.

[sonicrjk]

[QUOTE=KingKombat;24456708]Pretty much either cut the shit we're doing now, become an actual couple, or we stay just friends. Personally I wouldn't find being just friends that bad, what with the shit she's doing now.

That's if she isn't actually "cheating" on me. Then I'm just fucking dumping her.[/QUOTE]
I think it's kinda sad that you can't see what's going on.

[UnarmedSniper]

Go to "Fucking Jail" with her and get fucking.

[PGunnii]

[QUOTE=Silly Sil;24456706]Alright.
I did some googling and this came up.
Charges for trespassing.
Well...[/QUOTE]

Right now, she's a dumb cunt to me, so whatever.

And she was gonna start college in September :fuckyou:

[hakusaro]

If you truly feel for her, and you can, bail her out of jail.

[PGunnii]

[QUOTE=sonicrjk;24456724]I think it's kinda sad that you can't see what's going on.[/QUOTE]

Look right now I can't just fucking go ahead and assume she was doing what I'm suspecting what she was doing, pretty much because I'm wrong more than half the time.

[sonicrjk]

[QUOTE=KingKombat;24456755]Look right now I can't just fucking go ahead and assume she was doing what I'm suspecting what she was doing, pretty much because I'm wrong more than half the time.[/QUOTE]
Man up.
She is already causing drama that you don't need.
But if you really think that a 3 week relationship is worth it, go ahead.

[PGunnii]

[QUOTE=sonicrjk;24456770]Man up.
She is already causing drama that you don't need.
But if you really think that a 3 week relationship is worth it, go ahead.[/QUOTE]

You're right. Still, if I don't try I'll always want to know what might've been if I did.

I'm not exactly the guy who gets women easily, though you're right maybe with this it's not worth it.

[Ghostz]

[QUOTE=KingKombat;24456801]You're right. Still, if I don't try I'll always want to know what might've been if I did.

I'm not exactly the guy who gets women easily, though you're right maybe with this it's not worth it.[/QUOTE]

Not worth it, drop her now and fast. I am not someone who gets women easy either, but i wa patient and found a girl who's worth more then anything to me, it's been two years and our relationship has gotten stronger since. A girl like this will only do you harm OP.

[Treelor]

Got yer back. boomie263.

Steam message me. I'm like Dr. Phil.

[sonicrjk]

[QUOTE=KingKombat;24456801]You're right. Still, if I don't try I'll always want to know what might've been if I did.[/QUOTE]
What you need to try is getting someone better.

Don't tell her anything [B]at all[/B].
Just ignore her from this point on, she doesn't go to your school, she most likely doesn't know where you live, just ignore her number, remove & block her from facebook or wherever you have her added.

You are going to get an urge to reply if she contacts you, but you will just fall back into this pathetic puppy dog stage, you're done with that now.

[PGunnii]

:sigh: I don't know. Before this I really did like her. As much as I think she's a dumb cunt who can't control herself, some little part of my brain still likes her. I'm just going to wait and sort things out. I think things would be much better that way.

[DSG]

she's going to get STDs at a fucking jail

[sonicrjk]

[QUOTE=KingKombat;24456917]:sigh: I don't know. Before this I really did like her. As much as I think she's a dumb cunt who can't control herself, some little part of my brain still likes her. I'm just going to wait and sort things out. I think things would be much better that way.[/QUOTE]
By sort things out, do you mean talk and sort them or just do nothing and let them sort themselves out?

[editline]12:48AM[/editline]

[QUOTE=DSG;24456930]she's going to get STDs at a fucking jail[/QUOTE]
STI is the more correct term.

[PGunnii]

[QUOTE=sonicrjk;24456933]By sort things out, do you mean talk and sort them or just do nothing and let them sort themselves out?

[editline]12:48AM[/editline]

STI is the more correct term.[/QUOTE]

Sort things out as in, talk to her and just see what she was doing last night. I'm not the brightest bulb but it's very easy to tell when someone's lying.

[sonicrjk]

[QUOTE=KingKombat;24456977]Sort things out as in, talk to her and just see what she was doing last night. I'm not the brightest bulb but it's very easy to tell when someone's lying.[/QUOTE]
Did you read anything I just said?

[PGunnii]

[QUOTE=sonicrjk;24457000]Did you read anything I just said?[/QUOTE]

I'd say yeah but I'm pretty sure I missed something, I'm kinda tired and it's 3 AM here.

[sonicrjk]

[QUOTE=KingKombat;24457019]I'd say yeah but I'm pretty sure I missed something, I'm kinda tired and it's 3 AM here.[/QUOTE]
Read [url]http://www.facepunch.com/showpost.php?p=24456890&postcount=109[/url]
I'm not going to post again because you aren't taking this seriously.

[monkey11]

That's pretty bad. I know this sounds like a complicated relationship but it really sounds like you were being taken advantage of the entire way. Dates and flirting are one thing, but aknowlegment is another. I think "unofficial relationships" are BS and is just asking to get hurt.

And I know that people are giving you a hard time for being 15 and new to dating, but really that doesnt mean a whole lot. Ive known people who lived happily with someone from a very young age. Dont let that mess with you.

As for what to do with her, you should for sure hear her out, but I think pretty much no matter what she says, you probably have to end it. Like I said, sounds like your being taken advantage of, and you should probably move on, take a break, then get into something solid.

Hope that helps. I'm very tired so sorry if something doesn't make sense lol.

[PGunnii]

[QUOTE=monkey11;24457113]That's pretty bad. I know this sounds like a complicated relationship but it really sounds like you were being taken advantage of the entire way. Dates and flirting are one thing, but aknowlegment is another. I think "unofficial relationships" are BS and is just asking to get hurt.

And I know that people are giving you a hard time for being 15 and new to dating, but really that doesnt mean a whole lot. Ive known people who lived happily with someone from a very young age. Dont let that mess with you.

As for what to do with her, you should for sure hear her out, but I think pretty much no matter what she says, you probably have to end it. Like I said, sounds like your being taken advantage of, and you should probably move on, take a break, then get into something solid.

Hope that helps. I'm very tired so sorry if something doesn't make sense lol.[/QUOTE]

Thanks, that actually did make sense. I kinda knew our relationship wouldn't go too well if it stayed the way it had. Maybe if I had been more assertive I wouldn't be as pissed as I am.

And that's what I'll probably do (hearing her out and whatnot).

[monkey11]

[QUOTE=KingKombat;24457203]Thanks, that actually did make sense. I kinda knew our relationship wouldn't go too well if it stayed the way it had. Maybe if I had been more assertive I wouldn't be as pissed as I am.

And that's what I'll probably do (hearing her out and whatnot).[/QUOTE]
That's good, and even though you said you don't get women easy, you can do better, and get into a better, lasting relationship.

[Hendo]

break her out