• Guys I need some serious advice.
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[QUOTE=40kplayer;19269408]PROTIP: you are not involved, you have a chance of working on an agreement with the dad. You are not to blame for anything, so use this oppurtunity to tell her father that he could instead pull a Gran Torino; he makes the kid he worker for a while, doing chores for him and such, while he can ground his daughter al he wants, just not move her.[/QUOTE] And then he gets to know the boyfriend and kind of befriends him. Then goes and sacrifices himself to protect the boy from a gang of Asians. Then in his will he'll unground the girlfriend
[QUOTE=BackflipHatchetAttack;19267038]If you guys were in my position[/QUOTE] Yeah what's that over the desk?
[QUOTE=LifeIsGood;19267019]What a horrible father, if I caught one of my kids fucking, i'd be like, Nice! (If I ever have kids :3:)[/QUOTE] Please don't have kids.
They should have been more careful. If they want to have sex at 14, then it's their decision - they can make their own mistakes. They just should have made it certain that they couldn't get caught. :colbert:
Just wait for her to make contact with you again. It's not like her Aunt's house exists in a different universe where the internet doesn't exist.
Creepers o.0
[QUOTE=DrVivi;19267053]Can't the father be normal and just "ground" her. I mean for real this seems a little excessive. unless he wasn't using a CONDOM![/QUOTE] if they are 14 they shouldnt be doing that in the first place. i mean what, most kids hit puberty at 12-13. that is extreemly young to be doing that. i could see 17 or 18 but not that young. honestly its a good thing, its the law and common sense in good parental views. no matter how much of a turn on this is to you horny bastards, go fap to some good porn and come back and read it again without your dick thinking for you. [sp] I would know, i just came buckets and now im thinking straight[/sp]
[QUOTE=Mr_Sun;19387385]if they are 14 they shouldnt be doing that in the first place.[/QUOTE] 14 isn't too young if they are actually in love. And if they use protection.
[QUOTE=|FlapJack|;19387434]14 isn't too young if they are actually in love. And if they use protection.[/QUOTE] do you actually think 14 year olds know true love when they see it? well nobody does so fuck it life happens. people get fucked *literally* just laugh at the retards when she gets pregnant before Prom wait 14, she's probably still in Middle school
I'd have done the same thing in the father's place. As everyone said before, 14 is just too young. The "love" they probably feel is basically the increased hormone levels, it can't be real love. I'll be a damn strict father about these issues, I wouldn't want my children getting in trouble because of stuff like this. Edit: To OP: You can't really do much. Make sure to keep talking to both of your friends though.
Go rescue her, and then reunite her with her boyfriend. You will be a hero.
[QUOTE=Apt 2B;19387767]Go rescue her, and then reunite her with her boyfriend. You will be a hero.[/QUOTE] then she'll want to fuck the OP INSTEAD. then they will get married. she'll be on his computer one day and see he posted this (somehow) and then make you her fuck buddy for giving him the idea. you sneaky bastard.
I bet your best friend's father is like, "Go on son! GO ON!"
[QUOTE=Mr_Sun;19387598]do you actually think 14 year olds know true love when they see it? well nobody does so fuck it life happens. people get fucked *literally* just laugh at the retards when she gets pregnant before Prom wait 14, she's probably still in Middle school[/QUOTE] You're jealous because you didn't get laid at 14.
[QUOTE=Altefnegy;19387715]I'd have done the same thing in the father's place. As everyone said before, 14 is just too young. The "love" they probably feel is basically the increased hormone levels, it can't be real love. I'll be a damn strict father about these issues, I wouldn't want my children getting in trouble because of stuff like this. Edit: To OP: You can't really do much. Make sure to keep talking to both of your friends though.[/QUOTE] exactly. [sp]can i fuck you? [/sp] you'll be strict but later in life you're kids will thank you for when they finally have sex if they get married or find a real boyfriend/girlfriend [sp] it means more when you wait to do it [/sp]
I like the name backflip hatchet attack
[QUOTE=john_frohman;19387876]You're jealous because you didn't get laid at 14.[/QUOTE] and you did?
[QUOTE=Mr_Sun;19387598]do you actually think 14 year olds know true love when they see it? [/QUOTE] Depends how quickly they mature. I know loads of 14 year olds who have full relationships, and it's definately love.
[QUOTE=|FlapJack|;19387990]Depends how quickly they mature. I know loads of 14 year olds who have full relationships, and it's defiantly love.[/QUOTE] yes it's DEFIANTLY love it DEFIES things don't fuck with defiant love man it will DEFY you
[QUOTE=|FlapJack|;19387990]Depends how quickly they mature. I know loads of 14 year olds who have full relationships, and it's definately love.[/QUOTE] you [u]know[/u] them? im starting to think you are either 14 -15 or below
nothing you can do about it, not until yo ucan talk to her again.
Well if you're over 18 (which I guess you're not) then you should have no problem. But if you're under 18 then I guess you just have to live with it.
[QUOTE=Mr_Sun;19388582]you [u]know[/u] them? im starting to think you are either 14 -15 or below[/QUOTE] I'm 16, but I live in such a small town, most people know... well... everyone. From your grammar, I'd take a guess at 11. Maybe 12.
[QUOTE=|FlapJack|;19388764]I'm 16, but I live in such a small town, most people know... well... everyone. From your grammar, I'd take a guess at 11. Maybe 12.[/QUOTE] hmmm thats exactly what i would say when i was 13. id use an alias as 16 and then start auto correcting all my werds in myy poost so it seems im oleder than i reely am
There's nothing wrong if a person of the age of 14 have consensual sex with someone of a very similar age of whom they "love" with protection. Love as in, think they love at least. This means they at least care very much about each other and the girl isn't just being a whore. People have said this is "wrong" but for what reason? (Don't say "because it's against the law".) Imagine you're 14 and you're in "love" with a girl of the same age who you know loves you back. What's stopping you? (Besides the law)
[QUOTE=SGorilla;19389078]There's nothing wrong if a person of the age of 14 have consensual sex with someone of a very similar age of whom they "love" with protection. Love as in, think they love at least. This means they at least care very much about each other and the girl isn't just being a whore. People have said this is "wrong" but for what reason? (Don't say "because it's against the law".) Imagine you're 14 and you're in "love" with a girl of the same age who you know loves you back. What's stopping you? (Besides the law)[/QUOTE] nothing is stopping you but common sense that generations of adults have taught kids. my main argument is really: why start that early and being worried about STDs and Babies, what I always feared were those two things so I wouldnt do it. do you think a 14 year old's brain is that much developed to make life long decisions? and STDs are gonna stick with you for the rest of your life. a baby, not as much but depends on what goes on if said 14 year old were to get a girl pregnant. Fun Fact of the day: a Human Brain isnt fully developed till their mid 20s ^that kinda makes sense because you dont hear of 25 year olds getting a girl pregnant by accident as much as a Teenager but maybe thats because they are actual [u]Adults[/u] who can make [u]Adult [/u]decisions. Fun Fact of the day #2: You arent legally an adult in the UK until you are 16/18 (i think) in the united states its 18 It is an Adult decision 14 =/= adult age [sp] except maybe in Russia [/sp]
[QUOTE=Mr_Sun;19389378] my main argument is really: why start that early and being worried about STDs and Babies, what I always feared were those two things so I wouldnt do it. do you think a 14 year old's brain is that much developed to make life long decisions? and STDs are gonna stick with you for the rest of your life. a baby, not as much but depends on what goes on if said 14 year old were to get a girl pregnant. [/QUOTE] Your main argument is invalid if they do as I originally posted. Plus, you were 15 in November (And probably still are 15). You're hardly an age old sex "guru". [quote]^that kinda makes sense because you dont hear of 25 year olds getting a girl pregnant by accident as much as a Teenager but maybe thats because they are actual Adults who can make Adult decisions.[/quote] Rated tool because you obviously don't realise that you only hear of teenage pregnancies because it is out of the norm. If less people aged 25 and above had children, very few of us would be here.
If you're both virgins and you use condoms you don't have to worry about STDs and babies. It's a personal decision and I'm not saying 14 year olds should have sex, just there's nothing wrong if they do under these circumstances. The notion of adult decisions is a bit silly too, until you're an adult you can't make informed decisions? If someone's stupid enough to not take precautions it's likely won't when they're 18 as-well.
[QUOTE=BackflipHatchetAttack;19267010]No... [b]Edit:[/b] To be completely honest, I'm 14. I still need help with this.[/QUOTE] Wow, it seems like kids are becoming little whores now-a-days.
Also Mr_Sun your arguments sound like some of the crap they tell you in school presentations from some stuck up pricks. "Don't put your dongle in her togle; that's scary ADULT stuff, GIVE HER A SIDE HUG!"
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