call up some friends, ask if they wanna go down the park and play football. it'll be fun, you'll get some exercise and with the world cup going on more people will probably be keen to play.
i'll bet you've given your friends the impression that you're introverted so they don't bother inviting you to things. the only way to fix this is to prove you're outgoing by always being the one who calls everyone up to organise things
[QUOTE=lettuce_head;22808764]"so... I'll talk to you on steam and stuff I guess" [/QUOTE]
You know people who you consider the "cool" crowd who go out having parties all the time... [I]and[/I] use Steam? Haha wow I'm like one of maybe seven people in my whole year group of 200 who even know what Steam is.
I know exactly how you feel. I used to have these epiphanies from time to time when I suddenly realised that my life had no worth or meaning. I used to try really hard to be 'cool' and shit, it was sad really.
But now I realise that you really don't need to be cool. I mean, I play World of Warcraft, watch anime and a load of other stuff which you don't even want to know about. But I've also found a decent group of friends who live nearby with whom I play tennis/badminton/football in the park.
I don't know how though. It seems godsent. They all live so close to me and they're all decent people and decent friends. Probably won't happen to you I don't think. So just try and get closer to some people who you think you'd get on with in your class. You don't have to have an army of followers or anything, just 2 or 3 good friends is much better.
You can still do all your gaming and stuff, you'll just do it more socially and do other social activities (not necessarily going to parties/doing weed).
Good luck man.
go to the fucking gym you fucks
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[QUOTE=j-richardson;22855617]go to the fucking gym you fucks[/QUOTE]
He said he lacks a social life, not muscles.
I know guys who go to the gym but no one likes them. What's the point in that?
To be fair though I know a few people who are only friends with each other because they talk about how much they can bench and what supplements they take etc etc.
I used to be like that. Lucky for me I have a mate who's a party goer so I just went to some with him and made some contacts.
Now I go to house parties and shit fairly often.
Just got invited to a cute girl's birthday party on monday. Suck it bitches.
[QUOTE=Sethorion;22855803]Now I go to house parties and shit fairly often.[/QUOTE]
Your bowel movements are none of our concern.
shy is not our shy!
[QUOTE=lettuce_head;22855915]Just got invited to a cute girl's birthday party on monday. Suck it bitches.[/QUOTE]
The fact that you are even on here bragging about the fact you got invited to a party only justifies my belief that you have absolutely no chance with said girl anyway.
You know what doesn't help? Having friends that are the exact same as you. Just playing on games all day.
Ah, well, at least I'm going paintballing on Saturday. Break from the norm.
Get a job. No joke man. All of my friends' statuses are about work. I also snagged a job and most of the guys there are pretty cool. A lot of friends can be made at the work place. Of course the money is always nice too.
I have another tip for you: If someone hugs you at school (especially girls), hug them back.
[QUOTE=ChestyMcGee;22856123]The fact that you are even on here bragging about the fact you got invited to a party only justifies my belief that you have absolutely no chance with said girl anyway.[/QUOTE]
umm... okay? sorry, no need to be so defensive, she's got a long time boyfriend anyway. calm down.
[QUOTE=Omolong;22856460]I have another tip for you: If someone hugs you at school (especially girls), hug them back.[/QUOTE]
if they have big tits then even better
just don't get a boner then hug them too hard
[QUOTE=demisemiquaver;22857195]if they have big tits then even better
just don't get a boner then hug them too hard[/QUOTE]
That was my problem :smug:
I stopped giving a fuck
It's sad
I feel saddened at how many people rated agree on OP. :saddowns:
remember all you lonely facepunchers; only YOU can change your life. so shut down your pc, get out of that computer chair and get out there
[QUOTE=Arachnidus;22854818]This is exactly how I fucking feel, and it doesn't help that all my friends have abandoned me.[/QUOTE]
Maybe it's because you never try to engage them so they just decided to stop dragging your ass around.
[QUOTE=hl2poo;22808128]Holy fucking shit OP that's exactly how I feel this summer. I read my facebook and all my friends are hanging out at the beach together having fun while I'm just sitting here on the computer surfing the internet and playing Arma II. It feels horrible.[/QUOTE]
The problem for me is lack of money stops me from having a proper social life. When I get invited out it's going parties, places I have to spend etc. I find i'm always rejected of a job which annoys me, still hoping for some luck there but I also get cautious of how I spend money, I can't splash it.
[QUOTE=Mr. Agree;22857488]The problem for me is lack of money stops me from having a proper social life. When I get invited out it's going parties, places I have to spend etc. I find i'm always rejected of a job which annoys me, still hoping for some luck there but I also get cautious of how I spend money, I can't splash it.[/QUOTE]
Excuses.
I don't get the comments about long hair. I have long hair, I love myself, everyone loves me, and my confidence and self-esteem is through the roof. I have a good social life and I get out when I want to. Most of the time I like to just stay at home and play guitar, but when I feel like jamming with other people, all I have to do is make a call.
Everyone likes my hair. You all hang out with a bunch of hair haters.
I used to be like this, but I started going places. For me, it was the local skatepark and I started to learn how to rollerblade. It's nice because there is always a wide range of people there, and usually it's regulars so you build up a relationship eventually. It's also inside the main park of our City, so when some people from school saw me they invited me over for a portable barbeque party in the middle of the playing fields!
Basically, try a sport, or if you have friends on MSN ask what they're doing, and if they don't mind you tagging along! Even ask people round to your house, FIFA/Madden, UFC and COD are good games to play with people.
Just gotta be bold and do it.
I'm 15 and I have no idea on how to make any friends. The only friends I've got are just the same as me, sitting their asses on the computer all day and night. I'm familiar with everyone in school and everyone is probably familiar with me but I'm not really friends with anyone so I can't really start hanging out with someone cause I'd probably be really creepy to them.
[QUOTE=BagMinge101;22857525]Excuses.[/QUOTE]
Haha, believe me I could have one if I wanted but the world isn't free is it? I do hang out with mates but is boring if there is nothing to do but I do go out playing football with them (soccer to you americans) every week so it's something and is free.
Yeah, life fucking sucks and its not going to get any better unless you cure a disease or invent something useful, were all alone in this world because you are your only real friend, so get used to bullshit, forever.
Life
Fucking
Sucks.
I have friends. I communicate with them via the internet - daily.
You should too. The internet makes wonders.
Hell, I made a friend across the damn globe. We speak daily through Steam, Facebook and XBL.
organise to do something cool with your mates such as paintballing or doing something abit more Grrrrrr, like going to the gym or on a bike ride somewhere, get out and go for a run on the beach or something... getting out is the best thing to do :D
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