• How my best friend actually got raped and wasn't just saying it for attention
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You [B]NEED[/B] to alert the police. Just go to the police department with her and show them the bruises, do a Rape Kit, do anything. This just can't go on.
This is not something to be left untreated. Never in my life had I wished that I would hear a story of a 15 year old girl that has been abused in such a way. If I was you, I'd kill them. No, seriously, I would. When I'm mad I have a tendency to fly off the handle (only at men for some reason) and reading this I'm extremely tempted to grab my rifle and set my scope to zero out at 500 yards. Yeah I mad
[QUOTE=TheSupahero;30254263] and reading this I'm extremely tempted to grab my rifle and set my scope to zero out at 500 yards.[/QUOTE] That's where you lost me. :v:
OP, it makes me pissed off that you post this on Facepunch and then shoot down everything that we tell you to do. Seriously, go inform the police. If her parents are abusive or whatever, tell the police about that too. You're no better than anyone else if you have the facts but don't do shit about them.
[QUOTE=WillerinV1.02;30118679]The thing is, I'm quite disorientated after experiencing this, I feel I'd make a shoddy decision. I have to deal being her main support, and thats fine, but I also gotta deal with the gut-wrenching feeling of knowing something so disguisting has happened to her. Telling the cops is what I ultimatly want to do, but the idea of getting me, my family, her, her family and these kids I've never met all invovled because of me kind of scares me.[/QUOTE] I'm hearing a lot of me me me here. Remember, you aren't the one that got raped. Stop being a pussy and do the right thing for your friend. [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AAm8Th82ElE[/media] "We must all fear evil men, but there is another kind of evil which we must fear most, and that is the indifference of good men."
What the fuck No seriously What the fuck It baffles me how someone can become so jealous that they rape someone, and the person who was raped doesn't tell anyone about it. Tell the fucking police.
I think the OP is a liar. just saying. You guys buy into these stories way to easily it seems
[QUOTE=slayer20;30271454]It baffles me how someone can become so jealous that they rape someone, and the person who was raped doesn't tell anyone about it. Tell the fucking police.[/QUOTE] This is why they don't tell people: [QUOTE=ScoutKing;30271990]You guys buy into these stories way to easily it seems[/QUOTE]
I'm calling troll.
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[QUOTE=DTkach;30245920]I said they shouldn't put themselves in situations where they are more likely to AGREE TO CONSENSUAL SEX. That's not saying "Oh she dresses like a whore so she had it coming", its saying that if a person is a violent drunk, gets plastered, and punches someone in the face, they are responsible for their actions. If you get drunk and in that state have hilariously low standards that you pick up some person you just met, that's your fault. [editline]4th June 2011[/editline] You people give me a headache.[/QUOTE] I entirely agree. No one here, I assume, would argue that if you get drunk and drive, or assault someone, then the alcohol means your not responsible for your actions, yet apparently alcohol does remove responsibility for the action of giving consent. Obviously actively coercing a drunk and vulnerable women into sex is rape, but it seems like people are saying that any sex between a sober man and women under any alcoholic influence is rape, and the women holds no fault whatsoever, and I really cannot see how that works.
[QUOTE=ThisGuy0;30279428]I entirely agree. No one here, I assume, would argue that if you get drunk and drive, or assault someone, then the alcohol means your not responsible for your actions, yet apparently alcohol does remove responsibility for the action of giving consent. Obviously actively coercing a drunk and vulnerable women into sex is rape, but it seems like people are saying that any sex between a sober man and women under any alcoholic influence is rape, and the women holds no fault whatsoever, and I really cannot see how that works.[/QUOTE] "All sex, even consensual sex between a married couple, is an act of violence perpetrated against a woman." Catherine MacKinnon
[QUOTE=ThisGuy0;30279428]I entirely agree. No one here, I assume, would argue that if you get drunk and drive, or assault someone, then the alcohol means your not responsible for your actions, yet apparently alcohol does remove responsibility for the action of giving consent.[/QUOTE] Those aren't similar situations because driving drunk or assaulting someone are something you do by yourself. If a sober person [i]encouraged[/i] a drunk person to go driving or attack somebody then yes, they absolutely would bear a lot of responsibility for it.
[QUOTE=TH89;30287403]Those aren't similar situations because driving drunk or assaulting someone are something you do by yourself. If a sober person [i]encouraged[/i] a drunk person to go driving or attack somebody then yes, they absolutely would bear a lot of responsibility for it.[/QUOTE] They would, but as you say they'd bear a lot of the responsibility, not all, and surely if it were rape then by very definition it would be exclusively the responsibility of the sober party.
Why hasn't the OP come back? He's either trolling or he's a wimp.
[QUOTE=ThisGuy0;30287800]They would, but as you say they'd bear a lot of the responsibility, not all, and surely if it were rape then by very definition it would be exclusively the responsibility of the sober party.[/QUOTE] They wouldn't bear all of the responsibility because ultimately assault and drunk driving are still things a person does by themself. A sober person cannot participate in drunk driving.
Wow, if this happened to one of my friends I would take a fucking baseball bat to the kneecaps of the person who did it.
[QUOTE=Psychokitten;30287938]Why hasn't the OP come back? He's either trolling or he's a wimp.[/QUOTE] Too much time basking and laughing at the shitstorm no doubt
[QUOTE=Sirdrone536;30301186]Too much time basking and laughing at the shitstorm no doubt[/QUOTE] Ahuh. Thats exactly it. After informing the police my life has been abit of a hell- I've been very busy during my school work previously and I gotta cop alot more responibilities with this thing going on. I spend most of my time at the station when Im not at school helping them learn more about these guys and when im not there Im getting abused by alot of different people- death threats from Aidens friends and the like. I assumed this thread had died, and didn't bother to post. I can assure you guys, somethings being done and if you really want I can provide updates.
Be sure to tell the police about the death threats too. I'm pretty sure sending death threats is frowned upon by the police.
i hope you dont get raped too
[QUOTE=Gaza Pen Pal;30301800]i hope you dont get raped too[/QUOTE] I can't say I'd be pleased with that. Not at all.
I don't know about you guys but if this were me I'd beat the living shit out of those guys. (Of course, I live in the US) But seriously, go to the station and call her from there. Have a cop talk to her or show them pictures of the scars, etc. Then get a description of this guy. I'm saying that with the assumption that Aiden at least has a general idea of where she is at most times. [editline]7th June 2011[/editline] Oh I'm sorry, posted without fully reading.
If they attack you in response, OP, they are pretty much admitting guilt. That would make throwing their asses in prison much easier.
[QUOTE=DTkach;30302036]If they attack you in response, OP, they are pretty much admitting guilt. That would make throwing their asses in prison much easier.[/QUOTE] Well, its not just the certain friends that are sending me the threats- its pretty much his entire extended friendgroup, which is gonna make the following months kinda difficult.
[QUOTE=WillerinV1.02;30304673]Well, its not just the certain friends that are sending me the threats- its pretty much his entire extended friendgroup, which is gonna make the following months kinda difficult.[/QUOTE] Death threats (with proof) are often taken as gbh/attempted murder. You can get each one of them put away for up to 3 years. [editline]7th June 2011[/editline] Record one.
[QUOTE=WillerinV1.02;30304673]Well, its not just the certain friends that are sending me the threats- its pretty much his entire extended friendgroup, which is gonna make the following months kinda difficult.[/QUOTE] A group of people committing crimes and threatening violence against people Not only have they committed rape and uttered threats, but they're involved in organized criminal activity as well. (Prosecutors LOVE to go after gang activity when they're able to, you know, get the whole gang at once) They could all easily be sentenced to life.
Carry a knife. You can get one at Wal-Mart seriously get a knife I've had to carry one because of death threats before. I've had a deranged drug addict follow me home before. Luckily he wanted drugs more. [editline]7th June 2011[/editline] Or get some pepper spray or even a taster.
[QUOTE=Mr MP;30117964]That's really fucking sad. Sometimes I wish all those rapists would teleport to jail. v:v:v[/QUOTE] Now that sounds incredibly stupid.
[QUOTE=moesislack;30306182]or even a taster.[/QUOTE] you never know if they'll try to poison your food OP
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