How my best friend actually got raped and wasn't just saying it for attention
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Wait, how come you don't know this guy, and what was her prior connection with them?
I may have glossed over that in the OP, rate me bad reading if so (:ironicat:)
Go Rambo on Aiden. It's the only way...
That's terrible. I can't imagine how your friend coped after gang-rape.
[QUOTE=Gaza Pen Pal;30281890]"All sex, even consensual sex between a married couple, is an act of violence perpetrated against a woman." Catherine MacKinnon[/QUOTE]
Oh no! if me and my gay lover have sex, a woman is paying for it somewhere! i feel awful!
[QUOTE=hypno-toad;30311909]Wait, how come you don't know this guy, and what was her prior connection with them?
I may have glossed over that in the OP, rate me bad reading if so (:ironicat:)[/QUOTE]
I just never met him before, but him and her were good friends prior to the first incident.
OP, let me tell you a little story of mine, it might not be on the same subject, but in a way it does apply.
About a year ago, my fiancee cheated on me, it was hard, and many FPers know this story. Well, it happened on my b-day, she cheated on me that day. Now, I was really hurt, and to make a long story short, I got into cocaine. Now I had cleaned up after awhile, and thought I was moving on.
My fiancee(ex at the time) called me up, and asked how I was. Well, I was okay until she told me she was gonna do acid. I know I had no room to judge her, which I didn't, but I couldn't sit by and do nothing. It took some convincing from a buddy of mine, who is a ex-hardcore druggy. He told me I need to step in and stop her, because acid is really bad, especially for someone as little as her.
So I made up a fake email, got a hold of her brother's email, and emailed him. The reason I did that, was because I know he cared, and wouldn't be stunned as her parents. He stepped in and she got help.
She found out I told her brother, because i'm the only one who stepped in and she knew I would be the only person. She was mad at me for awhile, but later thanked me for helping her.Now grant you that wasn't the end, not by far.
We started talking again, and she asked me one night "Is it okay if I tell you I love you?" now my heart was still a little sore from everything, so I replied "I don't care" and she asked if I would say it back.
I told her I would see if I felt that way first. Because honestly my love had faded for her, the fire I had? It had died from the hurt. Heading home one day, my phone started ringing, she was calling me, so I answered. She was balling, telling me how her life was ruined.
10 mins after getting her to tell me what had happened, I had found out she got caught with liquor in her bookbag at school. She had been going to school drunk all the time, and it finally caught up to her.
Well now she has been sober for 5-6 months now, and hasn't been to a party since. I asked her if she ever wants to go back to that lifestyle and she says no. She enjoys the peace and calmness, and loves being with me.
I recently proposed to her, and plan on getting married after I go to bootcamp. So what i'm saying is don't just sit there, do something, or you might regret it. Even if she hates you, eventually she will see what you did was right. Don't stop doing this until this creep is behind bars along with his six friends. Don't let death threats scare you. A coward is born everyday, a hero is something hard to be made.
Keep up the work.
(Oh and a side note, my fiancee has gotten alot healthier, she isn't as flat as a board, and actually has nice boobs now, fun to cuddle my head into)
[QUOTE=Daddy-of-war;30315587]OP, let me tell you a little story of mine, it might not be on the same subject, but in a way it does apply.
About a year ago, my fiancee cheated on me, it was hard, and many FPers know this story. Well, it happened on my b-day, she cheated on me that day. Now, I was really hurt, and to make a long story short, I got into cocaine. Now I had cleaned up after awhile, and thought I was moving on.
My fiancee(ex at the time) called me up, and asked how I was. Well, I was okay until she told me she was gonna do acid. I know I had no room to judge her, which I didn't, but I couldn't sit by and do nothing. It took some convincing from a buddy of mine, who is a ex-hardcore druggy. He told me I need to step in and stop her, because acid is really bad, especially for someone as little as her.
So I made up a fake email, got a hold of her brother's email, and emailed him. The reason I did that, was because I know he cared, and wouldn't be stunned as her parents. He stepped in and she got help.
She found out I told her brother, because i'm the only one who stepped in and she knew I would be the only person. She was mad at me for awhile, but later thanked me for helping her.Now grant you that wasn't the end, not by far.
We started talking again, and she asked me one night "Is it okay if I tell you I love you?" now my heart was still a little sore from everything, so I replied "I don't care" and she asked if I would say it back.
I told her I would see if I felt that way first. Because honestly my love had faded for her, the fire I had? It had died from the hurt. Heading home one day, my phone started ringing, she was calling me, so I answered. She was balling, telling me how her life was ruined.
10 mins after getting her to tell me what had happened, I had found out she got caught with liquor in her bookbag at school. She had been going to school drunk all the time, and it finally caught up to her.
Well now she has been sober for 5-6 months now, and hasn't been to a party since. I asked her if she ever wants to go back to that lifestyle and she says no. She enjoys the peace and calmness, and loves being with me.
I recently proposed to her, and plan on getting married after I go to bootcamp. So what i'm saying is don't just sit there, do something, or you might regret it. Even if she hates you, eventually she will see what you did was right. Don't stop doing this until this creep is behind bars along with his six friends. Don't let death threats scare you. A coward is born everyday, a hero is something hard to be made.
Keep up the work.
(Oh and a side note, my fiancee has gotten alot healthier, she isn't as flat as a board, and actually has nice boobs now, fun to cuddle my head into)[/QUOTE]
Thanks- That definitely helps alot. :unsmith:
What was her response to you telling the coppers?
[QUOTE=Psychokitten;30320739]What was her response to you telling the coppers?[/QUOTE]
It was confusing. She hasn't spoken to me about it since I first told her, she just got really silent and asked why I 'betray her trust'. Apartenly she's not coping real well with this thing becoming a more daily part of her life.
Things may suck now, but since you've taken action, it will all work better in the long run.
[QUOTE=WillerinV1.02;30325013]It was confusing. She hasn't spoken to me about it since I first told her, she just got really silent and asked why I 'betray her trust'. Apartenly she's not coping real well with this thing becoming a more daily part of her life.[/QUOTE]
Remember, doing the right thing sometimes means doing something that people don't want you to do. Being liked comes 2nd to doing good.
Kinda like a (insert comic book hero here) no one likes him(her) because he(she) does things the civilians want the cops to handle, but he(she) does good anyways, because he(she) knows, them liking him(her) isn't what's important, it is what's right to do that is important.
[QUOTE=WillerinV1.02;30325013]It was confusing. She hasn't spoken to me about it since I first told her, she just got really silent and asked why I 'betray her trust'. Apartenly she's not coping real well with this thing becoming a more daily part of her life.[/QUOTE]
She'll come around, don't worry.
Unless Aiden and Co. murder her... :ohdear:
[QUOTE=Daddy-of-war;30331470]Remember, doing the right thing sometimes means doing something that people don't want you to do. Being liked comes 2nd to doing good.
Kinda like a (insert comic book hero here) no one likes him(her) because he(she) does things the civilians want the cops to handle, but he(she) does good anyways, because he(she) knows, them liking him(her) isn't what's important, it is what's right to do that is important.[/QUOTE]
That's right OP. You are the hero Gotham deserves.
[QUOTE=TH89;30336265]That's right OP. You are the hero Gotham deserves.[/QUOTE]
[img]http://img11.imageshack.us/img11/4779/3edc30e.jpg[/img]
[QUOTE=TH89;30336265]That's right OP. You are the hero Gotham deserves.[/QUOTE]
That's precisely what I fucking thought.
[QUOTE=WillerinV1.02;30325013]It was confusing. She hasn't spoken to me about it since I first told her, she just got really silent and asked why I 'betray her trust'. Apartenly she's not coping real well with this thing becoming a more daily part of her life.[/QUOTE]
She'll thank you later.
you've done the right thing man don't regret it. She'll realise hw much you helped late.r
[QUOTE=Jimbojib;30117966]I think this is a good lesson for people who go around thinking 'That will never happen to me'[/QUOTE]
I'm a guy and therefor am 99% less likely to be raped, the only intances it could occur would be if some group of women decided to fuck me randomly or if some gay fuck got turned on by some fat ass gamer.
Only read the OP; but tell the police and/or her parents immediately.
Anything less than this is irresponsible of you.
One of Aidens friends confronted me today as I was walking home.
[img]http://i.imgur.com/DDRFS.jpg[/img]
Yeah ow.
[QUOTE=WillerinV1.02;30348723]One of Aidens friends confronted me today as I was walking home.
[img]http://i.imgur.com/DDRFS.jpg[/img]
Yeah ow.[/QUOTE]
Is he better or worse off?
[QUOTE=Chamango;30348975]Is he better or worse off?[/QUOTE]
Well I have another ones name down, so in the end its a benefit for me.
[QUOTE=WillerinV1.02;30348992]Well I have another ones name down, so in the end its a benefit for me.[/QUOTE]
Seems like he got defeated.
[QUOTE=WillerinV1.02;30348723]One of Aidens friends confronted me today as I was walking home.
[img]http://i.imgur.com/DDRFS.jpg[/img]
Yeah ow.[/QUOTE]
I was assaulted
Better tell Facepunch instead of phoning the police
Wow, they should all get put away. Defending your friend is one thing, but defending a rapist? That makes you just as bad as him
it's these things that make me cringe inside, thinking about how it must feel to live a life like that. I'm lucky none of that's ever happened to me (although I'm a boy, I could still get raped). I feel so bad for people like that. :(
sad sad world.
[QUOTE=WillerinV1.02;30348723]One of Aidens friends confronted me today as I was walking home.
[img]http://i.imgur.com/DDRFS.jpg[/img]
Yeah ow.[/QUOTE]
holy fuck
opera is a terrible web browser stop using it
[QUOTE=Gaza Pen Pal;30352309]holy fuck
opera is a terrible web browser stop using it[/QUOTE]
:colbert:
why you not have 000 on speed dial, also?
[editline]10th June 2011[/editline]
and a d-cell maglight (lol stralya laws)
Dude, I hope you called the Coppers before posting that. Those psychos need to be locked up.
Use that as evidence. If they can't put them away for rape, assault could be a possibility, but won't be as good I think. Also did you punch the creeps teeth back into his throat?
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