How my best friend actually got raped and wasn't just saying it for attention
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[QUOTE=WillerinV1.02;30118437]I'm not exactly sure. I'm not familiar with the legal system, but I feel that if I tell the police, she will get hurt in some way or another.[/QUOTE]
She's getting hurt right now. If you want to be sure, contact a lawyer. You are bound to have someone in your family that is a lawyer, or knows someone that can help you with your theoretical questions.
So you don't actually know what is going to happen and the uncertainty makes you fear doing something.
the thread title along with a few of the posts make it sound like some of you guys take the view that rape accusations are primarily for attention
[QUOTE=Uber|nooB;30118473]the thread title along with a few of the posts make it sound like some of you guys take the view that rape accusations are primarily for attention[/QUOTE]
I'm not sure how it is in other parts of the world, but over here teenage girls claiming they've been raped to get sympathy is increasingly common.
[QUOTE=Baconator 7;30118427]If you live somewhere near Port Reading, NJ, we can go kill those guys[/QUOTE]
if you actually checked the flag under his post you'd see he lives on the other side of the world, mister internet tough guy.
OP, calling the police will be difficult in the short term but the long term benefits will outweigh them. You and your girlfriend need to be brave right now. The scars should be proof enough to get him arrested at least.
I suggest telling your own parents first. Discuss the situation with them.
[QUOTE=Uber|nooB;30118473]the thread title along with a few of the posts make it sound like some of you guys take the view that rape accusations are primarily for attention[/QUOTE]
That's what tv makes us believe.
[QUOTE=Uber|nooB;30118473]the thread title along with a few of the posts make it sound like some of you guys take the view that rape accusations are primarily for attention[/QUOTE]
Rape is a difficult subject. You can prove they had sex of course, but beyond that it becomes murky:
"We met at a bar, chatted for a bit, went to her house, then we had sex."
"We met at a bar, chatted for a bit, went to my house, then he raped me."
How is any sane judicial system supposed to divine what happened from that? This is where the belief comes from.
It's probably time to go to the police, the youth centre won't do anything "without proof" and won't attempt to get it either.
This guy needs to be put away, or this girl is going to carry this with her for the rest of her life
[QUOTE=pogothemunty;30118598]It's probably time to go to the police, the youth centre won't do anything "without proof" and won't attempt to get it either.
This guy needs to be put away, or this girl is going to carry this with her for the rest of her life[/QUOTE]
The thing is, I'm quite disorientated after experiencing this, I feel I'd make a shoddy decision. I have to deal being her main support, and thats fine, but I also gotta deal with the gut-wrenching feeling of knowing something so disguisting has happened to her. Telling the cops is what I ultimatly want to do, but the idea of getting me, my family, her, her family and these kids I've never met all invovled because of me kind of scares me.
what the fuck man just call the police.
[QUOTE=WillerinV1.02;30118679]The thing is, I'm quite disorientated after experiencing this, I feel I'd make a shoddy decision. I have to deal being her main support, and thats fine, but I also gotta deal with the gut-wrenching feeling of knowing something so disguisting has happened to her. Telling the cops is what I ultimatly want to do, but the idea of getting me, my family, her, her family and these kids I've never met all invovled because of me kind of scares me.[/QUOTE]
Do you want facepunch to call the police? Someone here will do it for you.
Maybe she was scared that something would have happened to her?
(if she told someone)
[QUOTE=mobrockers2;30118731]Do you want facepunch to call the police? Someone here will do it for you.[/QUOTE]
Nah, when the time comes I'll man up and do it myself.
[QUOTE=WillerinV1.02;30118782]Nah, when the time comes I'll man up and do it myself.[/QUOTE]
No you won't, the time is now and you havn't called yet. Stop pretending you're a big enough man to handle this and let some facepuncher in NZ call.
[QUOTE=WillerinV1.02;30118679]The thing is, I'm quite disorientated after experiencing this, I feel I'd make a shoddy decision. I have to deal being her main support, and thats fine, but I also gotta deal with the gut-wrenching feeling of knowing something so disguisting has happened to her. Telling the cops is what I ultimatly want to do, but the idea of getting me, my family, her, her family and these kids I've never met all invovled because of me kind of scares me.[/QUOTE]
Oh i see. You're just a complete idiot. People like you are the reason so many criminals get away with rape.
Men don't hesitate, they act. quit being such a coward.
[QUOTE=WillerinV1.02;30118782]Nah, when the time comes I'll man up and do it myself.[/QUOTE]
Do it now.
Just call/go to the police and get the bastards arrested. It's bad enough that its been happening multiple times throughout the year, and there's the threat of it happening again unless one of you acts.
[QUOTE=gamefreek76;30118831]Oh i see. You're just a complete idiot. People like you are the reason so many criminals get away with rape.
Men don't hesitate, they act. quit being such a coward.[/QUOTE]
Cheers.
Murder Aiden and stick a poison dart frog in his bum so it looks like he committed suicide via play toy
[QUOTE=TurbisV2;30118022]If I got raped I wouldn't tell anyone either :([/QUOTE]
Good :q:
[QUOTE=Quark:;30118883]Murder Aiden and stick a poison dart frog in his bum so it looks like he committed suicide via play toy[/QUOTE]
This seems very plausable.
If this is in anyway true, no one is taking this anywhere near serious enough.
[QUOTE=Gas_Snake101;30118953]If this is in anyway true, no one is taking this anywhere near serious enough.[/QUOTE]
I agree, OP needs to stop dicking around and do something about this. If not him, someone else needs to.
.
1) Kill Aiden
2) Plant body to frame friends
3) Call police reporting dead body
4) ???
5) Profit!
Yeah. You've all made me realize that any blocks in my path mean nothing. First thing in the morning Im marching down to the station directly and telling them. Or calling them. whichever works.
[QUOTE=WillerinV1.02;30119075]Yeah. You've all made me realize that any blocks in my path mean nothing. First thing in the morning Im marching down to the station directly and telling them. Or calling them. whichever works.[/QUOTE]
Good.
[QUOTE=FlapadarV2;30118064]Call the police.
[editline]29th May 2011[/editline]
(Don't make a thread about it; just call the damn police. There's checks they can do on girls vaginas that is good enough proof of rape.)[/QUOTE]
Can they check men's vaginas too?
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