• How my best friend actually got raped and wasn't just saying it for attention
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I say you should tell the police, and let her stay with you for a while till the police take care of it. If they find out that she alerted the police they'll look for her, and most likely kill her. So, it'd be best if she stayed with you, so you can protect her and hopefully they don't know where to find you.
[QUOTE=WillerinV1.02;30119075]Yeah. You've all made me realize that any blocks in my path mean nothing. First thing in the morning Im marching down to the station directly and telling them. Or calling them. whichever works.[/QUOTE] That's the best thing to do. My friend has been raped before. Several times I guess. But she took it a lot differently to how Becca did. My good friend became a prostitute and "having fun" with a [b]LOT[/b] of guys who all take advantage of her. She was a really sweet girl. She used to play the guitar and sing at lunch time with us. Now I hardly see her. But she's been on suicide watch and on several types of anti-depressants. Now she's trying to manage without any drugs. :smith:
rape him back harder
[QUOTE=WillerinV1.02;30119075]Yeah. You've all made me realize that any blocks in my path mean nothing. First thing in the morning Im marching down to the station directly and telling them. Or calling them. whichever works.[/QUOTE] You god damn well better or someone WILL do it for you.
[QUOTE=FlapadarV2;30118064]Call the police. [editline]29th May 2011[/editline] (Don't make a thread about it; just call the damn police. There's checks they can do on girls vaginas that is good enough proof of rape.)[/QUOTE] Yes, but this test only works if the penetration is recent. And proof that he and his friends did it would be non-existent if they wore a condom.
I think calling the police yourself is the way to go, just because you think something might happen doesn't mean you should report it. What if it gets worse, she gets pregnant or even murdered? Then you would be a dick because you didn't try to put things right while you could.
Rape the rapist.
[QUOTE=Samuka97;30119528]I think calling the police yourself is the way to go, just because you think something might happen doesn't mean you should report it. What if it gets worse, she gets pregnant or even murdered? Then you would be a dick because you didn't try to put things right while you could.[/QUOTE] Agreed. You don't want to look back on this moment and regret doing anything to help this girl. Also this thread made me feel depressed :(
You should give this Aiden guy a piece of your mind. If you can, OP.
Tell the POLICE her parents won't care if they are even a LITTLE sane. She didn't go and jump on this guys cock she got RAPED.
Yeah at this point you really have to get the authorities involved. Tell the police and they will sort things out to the best of their abilities.
[QUOTE=WillerinV1.02;30119075]Yeah. You've all made me realize that any blocks in my path mean nothing. First thing in the morning Im marching down to the station directly and telling them. Or calling them. whichever works.[/QUOTE] That's a big step in the right direction. You got my respect, OP. It's one thing to write from your computer what's right and wrong, but if you're actually in such a twisted situation it's often incredibly hard to make such a decision, even if you know exactly it is the right one. Hopefully things will go up from now on. Best wishes from me to you two. You can do it.
You are a fool, if you are that afraid of the police/parents/using logic (rebel etc.) then you need to settle the score and take the matter into your own hands. You need to act before she ends up dead.
[QUOTE=Stick it in her pooper;30120086]You are a fool, if you are that afraid of the police/parents/using logic (rebel etc.) then you need to settle the score and take the matter into your own hands. You need to act before she ends up dead.[/QUOTE] Name does not fit.
Girlfriend gets raped multiple times, Make a thread about it and don't call the police. Best course of action.
Are you sure your not a closet homosexual? This kid Aiden is apparently raping your (for all intents and purposes your best friend who you have romantic interest for since you've gone out with her before) girlfriend and you're not gonna call the cops? Grow a pair. I understand that telling the cops could get her in trouble, but shes being gang raped what sounds like every WEEK. It's kind of sickening the fact that you haven't called the cops.
Dear god. Fuck, get her a therepist.
[QUOTE=Wheaties;30119204]I say you should tell the police, and let her stay with you for a while till the police take care of it. If they find out that she alerted the police they'll look for her, and most likely kill her. So, it'd be best if she stayed with you, so you can protect her and hopefully they don't know where to find you.[/QUOTE] They don't exactly go to suspects and go "hey so and so said you raped them, did you? What no, ok then you're free" Don't go the police, if the girl wants to then go with her. If she wants you to report it because she doesn't feel brave enough then yeah do it yourself but ONLY AFTER ASKING HER. Else the lack of evidence will come back to haunt her, either people will think she lied or some sort of violence from the attackers. That said I doubt they will do anything after they've been accused, if they did it'd be blatently obvious it was them and then they'd be facing assault or murder charges.
Get the police. If they don't do anything about it, take it into your own hands and be violent about it. Being the next Gandhi only makes it worse.
[QUOTE=Keeshond v2;30119294]rape him back harder[/QUOTE] Best suggestion ever. [editline]30th May 2011[/editline] But seriously call the police.
[QUOTE=WillerinV1.02;30118679]The thing is, I'm quite disorientated after experiencing this, I feel I'd make a shoddy decision. I have to deal being her main support, and thats fine, but I also gotta deal with the gut-wrenching feeling of knowing something so disguisting has happened to her. Telling the cops is what I ultimatly want to do, but the idea of getting me, my family, her, her family and these kids I've never met all invovled because of me kind of scares me.[/QUOTE] Are you fucking joking or do you suffer from a really severe case of brain damage? Stop being stupid and call the fucking cops, don't let these idiots walk free.
[QUOTE=WillerinV1.02;30117920]This story is pretty depressing for me to tell, but I thought it'd be best to share it with someone, and facepunch is the best release. A year or so ago, I went out with this girl. Adruptly, she broke up with me and stopped talking to me. Her name was Becca. This was a bit of a bummer but I got over it. Fast forward to a few months back, and she opens up a chat on facebook. we start talking and she reveals that her true motive was to explain to me why she broke up with me. So I listened. She gave me a bare basic story of what happened. She got raped, apartenly, while we were going out and couldn't 'cope with it'. Her being 14 at the time, I didnt believe it, I thought it was just an act for attention and I simply dismissed it, I said some stock "Thats horrible" and such, but still didn't believe her. She made up some bullshit sounding excuses for why she didnt tell anyone, notify the police or such, and she kept saying she couldnt tell me who the guy was. So of course, I thought she was making up TOTAL bullshit, maybe to cover up for how heartless she was, and the conversation ended. we no longer spoke. Numerous drama llamas in school ended up resulting in our two friend groups hating eachother, and as a result, even though we didn't speak to eachother, was that we hated eachother too. Then, a few months later she suddenly says she wants to become friends again. I accept, and we hit it off hugely. We start talking about all the old times and we share alot, she matured greatly and it was all good and well. We became incredibly close, pretty much as close as two people can be before going into a relationship. After a few months I begun to fancy her, and just as I was persuing that, I remembered how she told me about the 'rape'. I questioned her about it one night, asking if it actually happened. She got defensive, and then told me much more. She told me how around the time I asked her out, she was being asked out by another guy. When she said yes to me, he got jealous, and raped her. Apartenly she chose not to tell anyone because she was afraid of her parents finding out her "innocence was lost". I still didn't believe her. She went on to tell me how as time went on, she neglected to tell people and he repeated it. He would beat her and cut her in areas that would be covered by clothing normally, and asked his friends to help keep her quiet. In the end I found out that his friends also got invovled. This was when she finally told me the infamous man behind it all. His name was Aiden. This is where the story got a bit complicated for me, as I had never heard of a guy named Aiden. Apartenly Aiden knew all about me, though, and got insanely jealous. After raping her, Aiden would explain to her that "I would just want to do the same thing", causing her to break up with me. This whole thing seemed TOO surreal though. I still refused to believe it, althought I didnt tell her that. One day when we were hanging out, she pulled me aside to show me something. Massive scars, bruises all across her stomach, back, chest, ext ext. Its then I realised she wasn't bullshitting. I decided to get serious about it, I felt like an ass ignoring it before, always telling myself "That stuff doesn't happen [I]here,[/I] and most certainly not to people like [I]her[/I]", but it had. I sat down and told her, we NEEDED to get help. Apartenly, she did before. She contacted a youth centre, who denied her help because of lack of proof. This led Aiden to get angry, and she suffered the consquences. So now, she's completely terrified to tell anyone, incase her parents find out, incase Aidens friends find out and track her down, ext ext. Since then we've contuined to talk. Since we've been talking I've learnt about some of the stuff they do. Five of them will find her, not sure how, but they find her and force her to get into a car with them. They drive her out to no where...and just do it. Since she's told me this I've advised her on how to avoid them and it hasn't happened for awhile, but I dont know what to do. I'm looking at a 15 year old girl, that has been gangraped. Multiple times, for a year now. The result of the trauma has ended up with her not eating, not sleeping and not socialising properly. She'lll never have a proper teenage relationship because of this, never truly have fun without thinking back to those events. and the worst part is, even if she told someone, no one will believe her. It took me months to finally accept that what she was telling me was real and that she wasn't doing it to get sympathy off me. I don't know what to do. Currently, this is my best friend who's living through a life of hell, barely avoiding a full on rape each day and she actually feels like she CAN'T tell anyone without it ending badly for her. I've explained multiple solutions that don't even involve her parents or anyone else finding out about it, but she won't do it in fear of it happening again. Discuss.[/QUOTE] Stay with her... she needs you.
You could think of ways to get some proof of said rape, recorded talks of him saying that or stuff like that would be great.
[QUOTE=Chernobyl426;30120281]Get the police. If they don't do anything about it, take it into your own hands and be violent about it. Being the next Gandhi only makes it worse.[/QUOTE] For once, I agree with the violent way out. Even if you manage to keep her safe, he will keep his massive-douchebaggery. It's not enough to hit him to keep her safe. You have to make him so fucking terrified tha twe will never do it again. A necessary evil for the greater good. Of course, if you can get his ass in jail, you should. Rehabilitation beats supression by far.
What ethnicity is the rapist?
[QUOTE=Contag;30120602]What ethnicity is the rapist?[/QUOTE] Why does it FUCKING matter
Is the girl a virgin? Does she wear revealing clothing? Is she involved with any 'bad crowds', or do anything illegal? Has she ever harmed herself? Has she ever seen a psychologist for any reason?
[QUOTE=Ryukrawr?;30120396]Stay with her... she needs you.[/QUOTE] Judging by the way he's been treating the situation as if it's a joke, I'd say she really doesn't need him. She needs a competent person, or at least someone who [i]really[/i] cares about her, like say... her PARENTS or the POLICE.
[QUOTE=Ladowerf;30120189][b]Are you sure your not a closet homosexual?[/b] This kid Aiden is apparently raping your (for all intents and purposes your best friend who you have romantic interest for since you've gone out with her before) girlfriend and you're not gonna call the cops? Grow a pair. I understand that telling the cops could get her in trouble, but shes being gang raped what sounds like every WEEK. It's kind of sickening the fact that you haven't called the cops.[/QUOTE] fuck you, what does being a pussy have to do with being gay
[QUOTE=Ladowerf;30120613]Why does it FUCKING matter[/QUOTE] Because of the 145,000 Australian women sexually assaulted every year, only 1,500 people are convicted. If the rapist is non-white and the girl is white, there is a much greater chance of securing a conviction. It's fucking bullshit, and needs to be fixed, but that's how it is the moment.
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