How my best friend actually got raped and wasn't just saying it for attention
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Bro you live in NZ, where you at?
I'll back you up
Read OP, Thought "What a dumbass girl"
And now I proceed with my life.
Police.
Call them.
[QUOTE=Cruma;30128942]I really don't get how you can for one year, getting gang-banged, and not try to get help. I mean I know you said she's scared, etc, but seriously?[/QUOTE]
Trauma changes your thought process permanently.
[QUOTE=GreenDolphin;30128444]Are you that stupid? The OP should have gone to the police [b]the second[/b] he said he was going to go first thing in the morning. All he is doing right now is just painfully delaying this process while the possibility of his girlfriend getting raped, and possibly killed, happens again.[/QUOTE]
No evidence = no conviction. All you have is the painful process of explaining your situation multiple times THEN having no one believe you.
Normally i dislike the police. however is some situations like this...
THATS WHAT THERE THERE FOR YOU STUPID FUCKING CUNT (no pun intended)
go tell them. period. (for fuck sake i'm full of bad un-intended puns)
[QUOTE=JeffAndersen;30132141]No evidence = no conviction. All you have is the painful process of explaining your situation multiple times THEN having no one believe you.[/QUOTE]
Your idea of evidence in your previous post is for her to get raped again.
The idea is to get the police to interrogate them hoping one of the six will confess.
Well honestly, it sounds like you should tell her parents. She would probably hate you, but at this point does it even matter?
They would probably call the police if you told them, just saiyan.
[QUOTE=Lazor;30124109]are you actually going to provide a citation for this[/QUOTE]
How the fuck are you going to get a citation for something like that. Stop fucking posting that everytime someone has an opinion you don't agree with (Not you specifically, but fuck me this is happening far too often on FP). Not everything needs a citation.
Speaking from my own personal experience, during my school years I knew several girls who I would bet money lied about being raped, two of them were friends of mine.
One of them lied when her father found out she was having sex, and the poor bastard who fucked her ended up in a shitload of trouble until she finally admitted she was fucking lying.
My other friend (I use the term friend loosely in this case, I refuse to speak to her these days) did it because she cheated on her boyfriend and when he found it, it was oh so much easier to make up a sob story of how he raped her than actually admit she fucked up.
This isn't to take away from the opposite end of the spectrum, which is the fact that there are a lot of unreported rape cases. However, just as an aside, my mother works as a youth psychologist, and she's the one who originally explained to me that there is a growing trend for young teenage girls to cry wolf about rape in order to avoid stigma or get out of trouble, especially if they are raised in a family that doesn't put emphasis on personal responsibility for their daughters.
Common sense prevails in my mind, the thing with teenage boys is they are usually heartsore for the girls they like and are willing to believe the shit they make up without question. Obviously this is not the case in the OP's situation, a girl who is acting strange for over a year, has social problems and is routinely coming up in bruises and broken flesh, is a far cry from the girl who bawls her eyes out for a week and then goes back to being normal the next week.
Kill him.
[QUOTE=JaegerMonster;30132953]How the fuck are you going to get a citation for something like that. Stop fucking posting that everytime someone has an opinion you don't agree with. Not everything needs a citation.
Speaking from my own personal experience, during my school years I knew several girls who I would bet money lied about being raped, two of them were friends of mine.
One of them lied when her father found out she was having sex, and the poor bastard who fucked her ended up in a shitload of trouble until she finally admitted she was fucking lying.
My other friend (I use the term friend loosely in this case, I refuse to speak to her these days) did it because she cheated on her boyfriend and when he found it, it was oh so much easier to make up a sob story of how he raped her than actually admit she fucked up.
This isn't to take away from the opposite end of the spectrum, which is the fact that there are a lot of unreported rape cases. However, just as an aside, my mother works as a youth psychologist, and she's the one who originally explained to me that there is a growing trend for young teenage girls to cry wolf about rape in order to avoid stigma or get out of trouble, especially if they are raised in a family that doesn't put emphasis on personal responsibility for their daughters.
Common sense prevails in my mind, the thing with teenage boys is they are usually heartsore for the girls they like and are willing to believe the shit they make up without question. Obviously this is not the case in the OP's situation, a girl who is acting strange for over a year, has social problems and is routinely coming up in bruises and broken flesh, is a far cry from the girl who bawls her eyes out for a week and then goes back to being normal the next week.[/QUOTE]
Well I guess two personal experiences disproves the numerous studies which say that false reporting of rape is rare.
[QUOTE=JaegerMonster;30132953]Obviously this is not the case in the OP's situation, a girl who is acting strange for over a year, has social problems and is routinely coming up in bruises and broken flesh, is a far cry from the girl who bawls her eyes out for a week and then goes back to being normal the next week.[/QUOTE]
There are plenty of women who have been raped who act like that. You have no idea what they're going through mentally, and just because a woman doesn't behave in a way that you deem appropriate after rape does not mean that it hasn't happened, and they aren't traumatized by it.
That's terrible. I know it's a terrible experience for the victim, but when a close friend of yours tells you something like that, you have no idea how to react or what to say.
It must of been frightening for you to hear that.
Call the fucking police. She will hate you now, but sooner or later they will kill her.
[QUOTE=SnakeHead;30129265]For some reason it pisses me off to no end when rape victims refuse to get help.[/QUOTE]
Perhaps you should feel sympathy for them instead of getting angry.
I'm not going to attack you further because I'm assuming this was just a poor word choice
[editline]30th May 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=JaegerMonster;30132953]
Speaking from my own personal experience[/QUOTE]
Rest of the post is a useless pile of rubbish
Do you know how many electrons you pointlessly moved around to make this shit
Apologize to them now
Move to Canadia.
[QUOTE=PelPix123;30133549]That's not the best way to put it. Rape isn't dominated by any real factors. It's 100% (bad) luck of the draw.[/QUOTE]
What do you mean by this?
[QUOTE=ProxyWorm;30133585]Move to Canadia.[/QUOTE]
Higher rate of rape here than in the US (.8% in Canada, .4% in US)
Could be that Americans are less likely to report it as well so take the stat with a grain of salt
If women just stopped dressing so slutty then men wouldn't be forced to rape them.
[QUOTE=Gaza Pen Pal;30133607]If women just stopped dressing so slutty then men wouldn't be forced to rape them.[/QUOTE]
One time I was walking down the street, I tripped, and BAM I was raping someone purely by accident
[QUOTE=Gaza Pen Pal;30133607]If women just stopped dressing so slutty then men wouldn't be forced to rape them.[/QUOTE]
Holy shit, are you for real?
[QUOTE=Gaza Pen Pal;30133176]Well I guess two personal experiences disproves the numerous studies which say that false reporting of rape is rare.[/QUOTE]
I never disputed that reported rape being false is rare.
In both of those cases neither went to the police for the exact reason they knew their story was full of shit.
Read my post again, I'm talking in the context of girls claiming to be raped in their immediate social circle. Not girls who actually have the conviction to report their rapes.
[QUOTE=devotchkade;30133639]Holy shit, are you for real?[/QUOTE]
You should probably go check out his other posts in this thread.
[editline]30th May 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=JaegerMonster;30133650]
Read my post again, I'm talking in the context of girls claiming to be raped in their immediate social circle. Not girls who actually have the conviction to report their rapes.[/QUOTE]
Oh okay so it's completely irrelevant to the discussion then.
[QUOTE=Zeke129;30133652]You should probably go check out his other posts in this thread.
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I read some, but even his other victim-blaming posts weren't nearly as blatant or sexist as that one.
did she drop any good lo
fuck wrong thread
Call the police, the scars and her testimony are evidence. The best thing you can do is get the police involved. Trying to deal with it yourself can only get you or her hurt.
[QUOTE=devotchkade;30133680]I read some, but even his other victim-blaming posts weren't nearly as blatant or sexist as that one.[/QUOTE]
That was the first victim blaming post I made, unless you count the ones were I explained why rape victims aren't always willing to report their rape.
Don't let him walk free. Do the right thing.
[QUOTE=Gaza Pen Pal;30133707]That was the first victim blaming post I made, unless you count the ones were I explained why rape victims aren't always willing to report their rape.[/QUOTE]
Oh, shit, you were being sarcastic. Sorry. I'm ridiculously sick, and I misread your posts. My bad.
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