• Have a freaking backbone!
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i got "friends" who act all cool and talk to me till some other guys who don't like me come and then everybody ignores me except for girls and i have no idea what's going on
[QUOTE=Tetracycline;24742677]God you're such a fucking idiot, you're just mad because no one likes you at school, is that it? Is that why you "lost faith in humanity" and why you would choose a dog over a human?[/QUOTE] Yes,and do you know how to get truly popular?Sacrifice your integrity and do not what you wish and need to do,but what people demand of you and more! [editline]11:59PM[/editline] I am about to PM you the link to Blogpunch,after confirming you are worthy,as you appear to need it.
Freshman year is so hard [editline]12:05AM[/editline] [QUOTE=Shenanigansen.;24747405][img]http://imgur.com/YqyzG.png[/img][/QUOTE] dick sucking inc
BEEEEEEP,you're unworthy. Keep bloggin'
One of the worst things, is when you are the strong one. And your "Friends" even your "Lovers" just latch on for support, because you're strong. It's not fair. It really isn't.
You are such a freshman.
[QUOTE=BlueChihuahua;24746869]I'm mildly autistic with hints of OCD, & from elementary to high-school I was viciously bullied without a single true friend. At this point in my life, I've lost all hope in the human race. I honestly do choose dogs over humans. Go ahead & bash me, I don't care anymore. Be happy your bullying's happening just now & that you have friends besides you at all.[/QUOTE] I feel really bad for you.But just try to be happy,you sound really depressed. I understand though,it must be really hard not having a single friend in school. [editline]09:26PM[/editline] [QUOTE=slamex;24753232]I grew out of that stage, lucky I had friends who kept with me through secondary school. Trust me, it gets better with time. But like the old saying goes "Keep your friends closer, and your enemies closer"[/QUOTE] That old saying makes absolutely no sense,why would I want to keep my enemies closer than my friends? [editline]09:30PM[/editline] [QUOTE=Nifae;24742478]Favoritism exists in all schools nowadays, the richer/more popular will have more friends. However, people like you, (not saying you're not wealthy or anything), normally have more integrity and compassion than the fools who flail their wealth around to get vain friends who only like him/her for his/her money and such. You'll have plenty of friends later on![/QUOTE] Thanks,gives me hope!
[QUOTE=alex1996arm;24742431] because its kinda hard [b]to fight a bully[/b] [/QUOTE] [QUOTE=DeanWinchester;24752479]She? A bully? You're being bullied by a girl what :psyduck:[/QUOTE] Its hard to fight a girl what :psyboom:
[QUOTE=amazer97;24746946]I have the best three friends in the world. They are a grade above me, we hang out all the time after school, we all walk home the same way, and once, when I was being bullied and punched around by 6 guys after school, they came there and fought the bullies off and helped me get home. They would never betray me, and I feel good to know that their are people in the world that are of this kind of quality.[/QUOTE] Inpiring story man,makes me feel good.:)
Now that I no longer interact with other people, my mood has significantly improved actually. It helps that adults are worlds more mature than teenagers & children. Maybe one day I'll open up again, but bullying damaged my soul & I just can't trust anyone. In general, middle- & high-school are a bitch to get through. Even the popular kids seem unhappy. I blame hormones & the need to 'fit in.'
[QUOTE=Shenanigansen.;24747082][IMG]http://imgur.com/0MCTH.png[/IMG][/QUOTE] i missed you so much
[QUOTE=peepin;24767574]Its hard to fight a girl what :psyboom:[/QUOTE] Not physically.
[QUOTE=sam6420;24767657]Hey that's me! Hi alex![/QUOTE] Hi sam,thank you for being a good friend. I know you know who im talking about.
[QUOTE=alex1996arm;24767624]Not physically.[/QUOTE] Alex (woot my rl name) 1996arm, don't think I am flaming you or something like that. I'm just confused as to why are you being bullied by a girl? (screw the friends problem this is more important) What did you do to get her to bully you? (school just started)
[QUOTE=peepin;24767686]Alex (woot my rl name) 1996arm, don't think I am flaming you or something like that. I'm just confused as to why are you being bullied by a girl? (screw the friends problem this is more important) What did you do to get her to bully you? (school just started)[/QUOTE] well, its been on and off since sixth grade,when I moved to a school that she has been since kindergarden and I didn't know anybody. I think she pissed me off and I told her to fuck off.
[QUOTE=sam6420;24767707]The chick who bullies him practically has a penis. It's creppy.[/QUOTE] Whats even more creepy is that you know this.. :psyduck:
[QUOTE=sam6420;24767770]Dated her for 3 days. :3 Shh, it's not important. Broke up with her, it's all that matters.[/QUOTE] you made me shudder.
[QUOTE=alex1996arm;24767624]Not physically.[/QUOTE] Yes physically. Girls cheat like hell when fighting. Page king, eh? I guess I'll put more detail into it. You see, a guy only fights dirty when he's in deep shit or is an asshole. Girls break out the dirt before the fight even begins. A girl wouldn't hesitate to pull your hair or use a locker lock as a weapon, and it is rather hard to get someone to help you when a girl is fighting you (if you're innocent).
Really man, they aren't your friend if they will ditch you like that. I would rather spend time looking for good friends then not spending any time and get a shitty friend.
[QUOTE=Nifae;24742478]Favoritism exists in all schools nowadays, the richer/more popular will have more friends. However, people like you, (not saying you're not wealthy or anything), normally have more integrity and compassion than the fools who flail their wealth around to get vain friends who only like him/her for his/her money and such. You'll have plenty of friends later on![/QUOTE] This. I've been through something like you've been through, OP, but my time was very temporary and mostly my own fault for not standing up for myself. It seems like there is very little you can do here, though, except wait for a while. Being a good person is tough, but remember that it doesn't mean being a pushover, and that you [I]can[/I] retaliate if you have the opportunity. Also talk to your friends about it.
[QUOTE=eatdembeanz;24767890]Yes physically. Girls cheat like hell when fighting. Page king, eh? I guess I'll put more detail into it. You see, a guy only fights dirty when he's in deep shit or is an asshole. Girls break out the dirt before the fight even begins. A girl wouldn't hesitate to pull your hair or use a locker lock as a weapon, and it is rather hard to get someone to help you when a girl is fighting you (if you're innocent).[/QUOTE] Will keep that in mind,thanks.
I've got like, 10 people who are split down the middle and hate each other who I like. Gets real fuckin' hard to balance it. Also my best friend stopped talking to me because he had no backbone and his girlfriend told him to because I wouldn't let her borrow a marijuana pipe. I've got shit friends but I live in a shit place, so why should I be surprised?
[QUOTE=Lebowski;24768100]I've got like, 10 people who are split down the middle and hate each other who I like. Gets real fuckin' hard to balance it. Also my best friend stopped talking to me because he had no backbone and his girlfriend told him to because I wouldn't let her borrow a marijuana pipe. I've got shit friends but I live in a shit place, so why should I be surprised?[/QUOTE] wow a marijuana pipe costs you a friendship, just goes to show how damn petty some people are. feel for you man:smith: [editline]10:17PM[/editline] [QUOTE=BlueChihuahua;24767609]Now that I no longer interact with other people, my mood has significantly improved actually. It helps that adults are worlds more mature than teenagers & children. Maybe one day I'll open up again, but bullying damaged my soul & I just can't trust anyone. In general, middle- & high-school are a bitch to get through. Even the popular kids seem unhappy. I blame hormones & the need to 'fit in.'[/QUOTE] if you were still in highschool,i'd be your friend
[QUOTE=alex1996arm;24768213]wow a marijuana pipe costs you a friendship, just goes to show how damn petty some people are. feel for you man:smith: [/QUOTE] He and I are "friends" again and we talk, but I'm never going to consider him close again. After that, I kinda came to the realization that I gotta really know a person better and I have to be more outgoing if I want more friends. Killed a friendship, but I got back tenfold since I started being more outgoing.
[QUOTE=Lebowski;24768350]He and I are "friends" again and we talk, but I'm never going to consider him close again. After that, I kinda came to the realization that I gotta really know a person better and I have to be more outgoing if I want more friends. Killed a friendship, but I got back tenfold since I started being more outgoing.[/QUOTE] I really wonder if there is a way to know if you have a close friendship,before they betray you.
[QUOTE=alex1996arm;24768213] if you were still in highschool,i'd be your friend[/QUOTE] Awww, thank you.
This thread makes me appreciate I have extremely loyal friends, even after we fist fight with each other. We are a group of five (it was at once 3, then it became 4,5, 6 , and now it's five again) and we usually manage to help each other in situations. Man, I remember this one time me, 3 of my boys, and my other boy who wanted revenge on a sort of acquaintance of one of us. Well, 3 of us were originally from the same town, which sometimes required fighting to prove disputes, and the other two moved. The other two guys were from those really white towns with all those skater kids and wannabees (yet they were nothing like that). Anyway, one of the guys who used to live in my town moved into one of those extremely white towns, but he never changed. And he sort of made friends (in the lowest way you can acknowledge someone as a friend) with some pussy ass bitch who stuck his ass in the nose of one of our boys at a water park. Being passively vindictive, my friend waited years to get revenge. Years later, we ended up in a situation where we were all together in that town with that kid. So my friend stops him while the kid tries to skate by and and punches him right in the cheekbone. Then the kids flops over to one of those yellow poles in parking lots and my boy busts him the chest again. It was incredibly funny, and our band of five stuck close, because we were behind a Wallgreens (skater kids in that town tend to hang out back there for some reason, and there were around 20-30 of them armed with skateboards, although I doubt most would use them) and a group of 30 has an obvious advantage over one with 5. Even though this kid wasn't liked very well in that area, the opposing group saw fit to try to pressure the "outsiders", outsiders being us. We didn't really have the option to fight at this point, only to move back from the alleyway towards the parking lot, which would give us a better chance. As we got closer to the front, we decided that the one who punched the kid and another one of us would go inside the Wallgreens, while the rest stayed outside to nonchalantly prevent anyone from that group from coming in. What we didn't realize is that the same kid pussied out and called the cops instead of coming after us. They were escorted out by the staff of the store, and both groups and the cops met out front. The cop went to talk to the friend who punched the kid, with the friend who lived in the town's older brother. Anyway, the cop does his regular angry rant while the two groups are stuck next to each other. I couldn't help smirking at the situation because I couldn't believe it would end like this. So I'm against a pillar, just waiting, and the kid who got punched comes up to me. Now just to stop for a second, I feel a description of his current state was necessary. He had a bruised cheek, his face was that of a someone who was crying (including some tear stains and a very red, strained face). I instantly felt like laughing because of the weird ass face he was giving me, but I realized that I should hold it in, because his ape of a dad was close enough to see my face. So the kid says to me in some begging voice, "Why did he do it?! What did I ever do to him?" I stand up, look him square in the face and say "Apparently, you had it coming." He cries out "How?!" "He said you put your ass in his face." He stiffens his posture and says "I don't remember anything like that." Both of us just idly chat about this for a few moments until my boy comes back and told to leave the premises with us. We essentially walk away scot-free and head back to one of our houses to chill. Man those were good times. Really makes me appreciate who I can trust. Holy shit, that's a big wall of text.
Next time someone pisses you off, go up to them, grab them by the stomach, flip them over hitting their head on the ground. If they get back up, poke them with your index and middle fingers as hard as you can between their armpit and nipple area. Then punch them in the face. Repeat as many times as needed, and be fast before they fight back. Or if you want to kill them, a poke is needed right above the collar bone and beneath the Adam's Apple.
Shenanigansen isn't even interesting :smug:
Deal with it, that is life people are unpredictable and for the most part don't care if you are their friend, if it benefits them they will do it.
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