[QUOTE=Splurgy_A;36492165]Eh, the flamboyant supergays have usually hard a harder life because they're so much more visible. A lot of them are really good fun; most of the time it tends to come down to gay guys going "Well I'm not like a [i]gay[/i] gay, I'm just a regular person, see, straight friends?".
Put it this way, you'll generally have a much better night out with a group of flamers rather than a group of gay guys with chips on their shoulders about not appearing "too gay".[/QUOTE]
this, essentially
The issue not being "too gay", it's trying to infuriate people on purpose, for the sake of attention. I've met some flaming homos who were just fine to talk to, but then there's those rare guys who are incredibly annoying because all they do is bragging and making up stories and calling you a racist nazi homophobe if you ever ask them to quiet down a bit because you're trying to do something or to talk with someone.
They are as annoying as any other attention seeking douchebags, and what I've been saying in the first place is that my friends are just bothered by THOSE specific attention seeking douchebags, when it comes to homosexuals.
Personally I don't really care and just ignore them, just like I ignore any other attention seeking douches who like to annoy you and start being rude when you mind them.
[editline]26th June 2012[/editline]
And I emphasize this is what my friends think, not what I think. And my friends are not experts in homosexuality so their opinion may be a bit off or a bit prejudiced.
[QUOTE=Ganerumo;36492213]The issue not being "too gay", it's trying to infuriate people on purpose, for the sake of attention. I've met some flaming homos who were just fine to talk to, but then there's those rare guys who are incredibly annoying because all they do is bragging and making up stories and calling you a racist nazi homophobe if you ever ask them to quiet down a bit because you're trying to do something or to talk with someone.
They are as annoying as any other attention seeking douchebags, and what I've been saying in the first place is that my friends are just bothered by THOSE specific attention seeking douchebags, when it comes to homosexuals.
Personally I don't really care and just ignore them, just like I ignore any other attention seeking douches who like to annoy you and start being rude when you mind them.[/QUOTE]
I don't follow? You mean like they'll insult people randomly and brag a bunch? What does that have to do with being gay? If it doesn't have anything to do with being gay, why did you try and link the two?
As for getting annoyed if you tell them to quiet down, that can be annoying in general. Like if you're in a club or a bar or something you're there to have a good time, so if someone hushes you it's rude. I'm generally a pretty loud person although I can obviously be respectful, but when I'm out with my mates and we're grabbing a coffee or hanging out in a park or something and someone said "Could you please be quiet?" I'd be a bit suss of that. I mean, I've as much right to have some loud fun with my mates in a café as someone does to sit there stoicly. It really depends on the vibe of the coffee shop though. And to be fair, I've been quite quietly having a conversation about equal marriage and had an elderly couple out with their grandkid tell me to pipe down because I should be "ashamed" for "discussing that sort of thing in front of kids" (I wasn't even swearing or anything) so it's easy to think that people telling you to hush in general might have homophobic motivations [i]especially[/i] if you're a flaming superqueen.
I'm linking both because they are using being gay as their main trait, or whatever you can call that.
They are attention seeking whores who are using homosexuality to justify their attention seeking whore attitude.
[editline]26th June 2012[/editline]
And I'm not saying they are ESPECIALLY worse than others, it's just that my friends mentioned that they are okay with gays, as long as they are not like this.
So in the Gaypunch skype chat we've been planning for Gaypunch Meetup 2013, first location pick was [url=http://reservations.emeraldislerealty.com/properties/5-Star-Cottage/]this wonderful beach house thing in North Carolina[/url], where we can live out our gay lives for a week in a house together like Big Brother
[QUOTE=Ganerumo;36492293]I'm linking both because they are using being gay as their main trait, or whatever you can call that.
They are attention seeking whores who are using homosexuality to justify their attention seeking whore attitude.[/QUOTE]
See a lot of people say this about these sorts of people, but they're not defining themselves through their homosexuality. They just are that way. People who are literally one dimensional gay guys are pretty rare and it's barely ever seen in big cities; "Only Gay In The Village" syndrome means if you're in a rural area being gay is exotic and strange and so it's viable but in a big city it's nothing special.
[video=youtube;E27v-jmRmx0]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E27v-jmRmx0[/video]
Trust me, there's some people who you could easily label as behaving in this manner who just have this personality. As previously mentioned I'm not exactly a LAD but there's been plenty of times being around my gay friends where I've been the gruffest person in the room (seriously I'm like the only one sometimes who doesn't freak out at spiders).
I just find it strange that if you're not especially linking campness with attention whoring you're posting about it in the gay thread. It's like if someone went to an Afro-Carribean thread and said "You know, I hate black people who act really gangsta. I hate all people who act gangsta, I'm not especially saying black people act gangsta to define themselves, but it really annoys me when people attention whore by being gangsta. For example black people."
[QUOTE=Splurgy_A;36492365] People who are literally one dimensional gay guys are pretty rare and it's barely ever seen in big cities[/QUOTE]
Well yeah they are, and those are the kind of people my friends are just not okay with, because they are annoying. I never said I considered a lot of people like this nor that there was a lot of those around. So far I have only met one of those (plus two others who were straight down lying about their homosexuality to get around girls and later admitted they were pretty much acting gay for this, but that's another thing) and as I already mentioned I didn't really care, the other clearly homosexual people I've been around were fine.
[editline]26th June 2012[/editline]
You're kind of a bit overthinking it, I just mentioned one thing concerning my friends, that's about it.
[QUOTE=Ganerumo;36492394]Well yeah they are, and those are the kind of people my friends are just not okay with, because they are annoying. I never said I considered a lot of people like this nor that there was a lot of those around. So far I have only met one of those (plus two others who were straight down lying about their homosexuality to get around girls and later admitted they were pretty much acting gay for this, but that's another thing) and as I already mentioned I didn't really care, the other clearly homosexual people I've been around were fine.
[editline]26th June 2012[/editline]
You're kind of a bit overthinking it, I just mentioned one thing concerning my friends, that's about it.[/QUOTE]
I dunno, it's just usually people who say stuff like "I hate it when gay people make their entire personality out to be gay and attention whore" usually turn out to mean "I'm gender policing and am distrustful of camp guys" in the same way a lot of gay guys who go "I'm really straight acting and I find camp gays annoying" usually turn out to mean "I'm still dealing with the emotional fall-out of being gay and am projecting". I don't know your friends so I'm probably wrong, but that's just how these things usually turn out.
Yeah I can understand, but knowing my friends are pretty chill about everything I doubt they are the kind of people who exaggerate and have such misconceptions.
[QUOTE=roxter;36490048]Im straight, how can you NOT like boobs? Seriously.[/QUOTE]
Lmao look at this asswipe.
Well i'd love to sit and stare at a computer screen but i gotta go to bed, nite bitches. ;)
[QUOTE=Fuckitbucket;36492878]Well i'd love to sit and stare at a computer screen but i gotta go to bed, nite bitches. ;)[/QUOTE]
Meet you there
[QUOTE=roxter;36490048]Im straight, how can you NOT like boobs? Seriously.[/QUOTE]
Human 'boobs' have evolved to look like an ass, which might lead to your question. Problem is, you didn't think of this when saying that.
Ya' ignoramus.
[QUOTE=DanTehMan;36489342][media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IXyYo__iAes[/media][/QUOTE]
Tl;dr for anyone
"real men sit on dicks and im also an obnoxious retard"
[QUOTE=Splurgy_A;36492443]I dunno, it's just usually people who say stuff like "I hate it when gay people make their entire personality out to be gay and attention whore" usually turn out to mean "I'm gender policing and am distrustful of camp guys" in the same way a lot of gay guys who go "I'm really straight acting and I find camp gays annoying" usually turn out to mean "I'm still dealing with the emotional fall-out of being gay and am projecting". I don't know your friends so I'm probably wrong, but that's just how these things usually turn out.[/QUOTE]
I think campy gay guys are annoying in the sense that I just don't find it an attractive personality trait. I figure I'm gay because I like men/male, and the more fem/campy a guy is in their personality the farther they are away to what interests/attracts me personally. On that note, you could say I'm a very "straight" gay guy as well, in that most people wouldn't guess I'm gay (because I'm less attracted to really campy/fem guys and like more standard/average guys personality wise). I don't really care or follow gay culture, and I think that just goes part with the territory of being a person who doesn't like being in the spotlight and also enjoys being social with a select group of good people (versus partying it up in the city or something).
But I wouldn't say I'm totally adverse to them. I can be friends with a campy gay guy. It's just not a trait that I personally find appealing or a trait I can relate to, so I don't often seek being around people like that (other than the fact that there really aren't a lot of people like that around here anyways).
My favorite "gay guy" is someone who's not campy at all but still has obvious "softer" sides to them that they aren't afraid to embrace. I.E. loving animals/things that are adorable/etc. Or having a lil' bit of pink shine through in what they wear but not really being a dominant part of their wardrobe/personality type. Something to add contrast and "depth" to the otherwise content and non-camp male self that they are like :)
Goodnight fellow gays... Something has been eating away at me for a while now, and I don't know what. I most likely won't sleep at all tonight- just like last night- but I must at least try.
I love you all!
I just ended my first and last e-relationship. But I'm in an odd state of sadness and happiness because we both ended it on the best terms possible. We are now going to make the best of this week and then call it quits.
I feel like I'm on Earth watching the sun about to supernova.
256 new posts.
Fuck me (not literally).
Too late.
Guys I'm feeling gayer every day. What do.
[QUOTE=Joseph Smith;36489334]Ninny, stop lying. We all know you are the homosexual.[/QUOTE]
:(
[QUOTE=Stinky;36494245]Guys I'm feeling gayer every day. What do.[/QUOTE]
embrace the gay and let it explode within you with a blinding flash of light that pierces through your flesh
Told my dad.
Bible this, choices that, etc.
He still loves me though so w/e.
Coming Out Report Card:
Dad: C-
Mom: B+
Sister: A
Brother: Incomplete (he knows, he just hasn't said anything past "okay")
I'm kinda glad my dad doesn't live with us. Dads are always the most disappointed about the results.
[QUOTE=Raijin;36494440]
Brother: Incomplete (he knows, he just hasn't said anything past "okay")[/QUOTE]
My brother's known for ages, he'd always buy me girly shit (My little pony, rainbow cards for birthday etc) to mock me about my parents not knowing
[QUOTE=ForgottenKane;36492919]Human 'boobs' have evolved to look like an ass, which might lead to your question. Problem is, you didn't think of this when saying that.
Ya' ignoramus.[/QUOTE]
If I remember correctly, that's a common misconception. Human breasts have evolved that shape because we have flat faces; so if the tits were flat to then it's a lot more possible for a baby to suffocate while breast feeding. Hence the protrusion that you don't really see in other animals.
snipnvm
[QUOTE=Gar~;36494485]I'm kinda glad my dad doesn't live with us. Dads are always the most disappointed about the results.[/QUOTE]
My dad just asked if I was aware that I'd probably have a harder life.
And that's considering I'm the only boy of the family, with three sisters.
My dad seems like he'd be more accepting of me than my mom. My dad hasn't said anything supporting it but is disgusted by those against it. My mom acts with hostility at it.
[editline]26th June 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=The very best;36494545]My brother's known for ages, he'd always buy me girly shit (My little pony, rainbow cards for birthday etc) to mock me about my parents not knowing[/QUOTE]
I wish my brother bought me MLP shit.
[QUOTE=Solece;36492313]So in the Gaypunch skype chat we've been planning for Gaypunch Meetup 2013, first location pick was [url=http://reservations.emeraldislerealty.com/properties/5-Star-Cottage/]this wonderful beach house thing in North Carolina[/url], where we can live out our gay lives for a week in a house together like Big Brother[/QUOTE]
That sounds pretty friggin' sweet, what month?
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