[QUOTE=Shotacon;36645389]Why don't most of you want kids?
Kids own.[/QUOTE]
giving birth sounds like it will REALLY hurt
and i'm afraid of pain :c
[QUOTE=Shotacon;36645389]Why don't most of you want kids?
Kids own.[/QUOTE]
Hopefully a not-so-relevant username?
Morning gays.
Managed to get to sleep rather quickly - still not all that great, but I have seen the comments, so I'll try. Got a meeting with a counselor today anyway, so might discuss it with her. It's just difficult when you're in such a hetrosexual-dominated area, having no confidence to meet others, or having that independence as a 'vulnerable' individual. (We'll say parents don't like me travelling alone).
Hope all is well.
[i]Edit: I'll be in the Steam Chat until I need to leave - would be nice to talk to someone, but don't feel you have to.[/i]
Kids are annoying but you guys gotta understand the ethic towards them will change when you're older, it's still 15 odd years before you're going to have one so ofcourse you're not going to want one
i sleep now bye
[QUOTE=TehWhale;36639046]everyone says this
at least jacksonville has a night life, unlike here
at 9pm everything shuts the fuck down, EVERYTHING[/QUOTE]
Ha! 9pm is late. Here the sidewalks are rolled up no later than 8pm. There's... one club, one bar that I can think of in the city. I guess the mall is here, but the movie theater is in the next town over (which is literally across the freeway). There's almost literally nothing to do here, and San Fran is at least an hour away.
10pm = Everything shuts where I live.
There is a 24/7 garage but that is a verrryy long walk
Around 12 am-1 am- Shit shuts down here
[QUOTE=Shotacon;36645389]Why don't most of you want kids?
Kids own.[/QUOTE]
I don't really care much for kids either way (though since my mom works at an elementary school, I do experience the bad side of children a lot)
The problem is that, since I'm gay and have a boyfriend, there's no real way for us to have a child, and actually birthing/raising a child is the one of the biggest parts of being a parent, which we won't experience.
I mean, sure, there's adoption, but that takes out the entire point, because its someone else's child, not yours, it just has your name. Also, I'd make a fucking terrible parent, and most of the time to be a parent, you have to be a hypocrite 'do as I say not as I do' which isn't really fun for me. There's just a lot of things.
[QUOTE=Naught;36648011]I don't really care much for kids either way (though since my mom works at an elementary school, I do experience the bad side of children a lot)
The problem is that, since I'm gay and have a boyfriend, there's no real way for us to have a child, and actually birthing/raising a child is the one of the biggest parts of being a parent, which we won't experience.
I mean, sure, there's adoption, but that takes out the entire point, because its someone else's child, not yours, it just has your name. Also, I'd make a fucking terrible parent, and most of the time to be a parent, you have to be a hypocrite 'do as I say not as I do' which isn't really fun for me. There's just a lot of things.[/QUOTE]
There is the option of having a surrogate mother, if you don't want to adopt.
Not too keen on kids personally, I don't have a particularly good attention span or patience. I can barely manage the dog. If I did eventually decide that I want to have a family, I think I would adopt, I'd like to think that it's not just DNA that can create a family.
[QUOTE=Naught;36648011]I don't really care much for kids either way (though since my mom works at an elementary school, I do experience the bad side of children a lot)
The problem is that, since I'm gay and have a boyfriend, there's no real way for us to have a child, and actually birthing/raising a child is the one of the biggest parts of being a parent, which we won't experience.
I mean, sure, there's adoption, but that takes out the entire point, because its someone else's child, not yours, it just has your name. Also, I'd make a fucking terrible parent, and most of the time to be a parent, you have to be a hypocrite 'do as I say not as I do' which isn't really fun for me. There's just a lot of things.[/QUOTE]
Surrogate mother?
[QUOTE=MasterFen007;36648169]Surrogate mother?[/QUOTE]
Say in my case, I moved away from home at 16 and lived with my sister for a year, she acted as my surrogate mother.
I got accepted into the Met Film School in London! I'm so excited!!!!
[QUOTE=redback3;36648282]Say in my case, I moved away from home at 16 and lived with my sister for a year, she acted as my surrogate mother.
I got accepted into the Met Film School in London! I'm so excited!!!![/QUOTE]
I thought a surrogate mother was a woman who agrees to have another couple's/person's child.
Also congratulation.
[QUOTE=redback3;36648282]Say in my case, I moved away from home at 16 and lived with my sister for a year, she acted as my surrogate mother.
I got accepted into the Met Film School in London! I'm so excited!!!![/QUOTE]
That's awesome news! I should be getting my exam results soon which will decide if I get into college for my film course or not
Confident I'm gonna though c:
Ive decided to do media and film in college :3
Good luck to you guys ~
One piece of advice I will give to everyone doing film:
NETWORK!!!! I made that mistake in college where I wasn't that sociable and I came out with DMM (ABB), I would've got a fuckton higher if I applied myself with others and did become more sociable.
Film / Media is 90% who you know, so always rub shoulders with people and talk with others and you will make it big, and of course, if you are passionate about your film making: you will do well.
Sometimes sleep apparently reduces your troubles. Feeling alot better, but still...
Will be in the Steam Chat at the time of this posting, although would be welcomed if anyone could redirect me to this 'Skype' group that keeps getting mentioned by some of you ~gays~.
[QUOTE=Alex Rider;36649099]Sometimes sleep apparently reduces your troubles. Feeling alot better, but still...
Will be in the Steam Chat at the time of this posting, although would be welcomed if anyone could redirect me to this 'Skype' group that keeps getting mentioned by some of you ~gays~.[/QUOTE]
Skype name? ~
[QUOTE=Livewire2440;36649358]Skype name? ~[/QUOTE]
I shall PM it to you now. :)
why do so many london-goers appear to wear supreme outfitting so much
it's so trashy looking :x
Bandwagon/OF fandom lol
I kind of hate Supreme, well not really I mean it doesn't at all look bad but it's extortionate and you're paying literally double or more of the price just for a label a lot of the time. I mean they're good quality clothes but there's so many other clothes lines that are cheaper and just as good quality. They're just taking liberties on being able to charge so much because Tyler The Creator reps them all the time and people love him lmao.
Going away for two weeks gays, cya also my computer just overheated on me and won't turn back on, really need a new one.
Good evening gays. How are you?
I'm hungry, and I don't have anything to eat.
Just saw my trampolining coach on the BBC news running the Olympic Torch. At least it's a good bit of news with all things considered at the moment. Didn't help seeing the person I love on there though, painful memories! :v:
[url=http://www.london2012.com/torch-relay/torchbearers/torchbearers=patricia-sharpe-1102/]Link[/url]
She deserves it.
Thread sure is slow today.
[QUOTE=DatWut?;36651203]Good evening gays. How are you?
I'm hungry, and I don't have anything to eat.[/QUOTE]
I'm amazing right now, I got a 5 on my AP test.
All them smug assholes in my class are bragging about 3s and 4s on FB, and they all called me a "dumb" and "lazy" Mexican (Apparently that's the only South American country they know?) throughout the year! Looks like the upper hand is on the other foot now, bitches!
Sorry for bragging, but I worked like an animal to get a good grade on that.
[QUOTE=Chaplin;36652225]I'm amazing right now, I got a 5 on my AP test.
All them smug assholes in my class are bragging about 3s and 4s on FB, and they all called me a "dumb" and "lazy" Mexican (Apparently that's the only South American country they know?) throughout the year! Looks like the upper hand is on the other foot now, bitches!
Sorry for bragging, but I worked like an animal to get a good grade on that.[/QUOTE]
Blah, when the hell are we supposed to get those scores? I guess they come in the mail? Why can't they just post them online like the SAT scores?
[QUOTE=Chaplin;36652225]I'm amazing right now, I got a 5 on my AP test.
All them smug assholes in my class are bragging about 3s and 4s on FB, and they all called me a "dumb" and "lazy" Mexican (Apparently that's the only South American country they know?) throughout the year! Looks like the upper hand is on the other foot now, bitches!
Sorry for bragging, but I worked like an animal to get a good grade on that.[/QUOTE]
In germany a 5 is a bad grade.
I have 3 of them.
Next year I might be on college but I just can't decide what I'm going to study there. I thought about Architecture but I'm not sure.
[QUOTE=postmanX3;36652340]Blah, when the hell are we supposed to get those scores? I guess they come in the mail? Why can't they just post them online like the SAT scores?[/QUOTE]
I just got mine on the mail.
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